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For most events, I'd side with your partner. This is an exception. Your late wife's family is grieving, and they should be allowed to do so in a way that is comfortable for them. Especially because t… (View Post)

Aside from the whole racist element, I find it concerning that your boyfriend knows what a huge, sensitive issue this is for you but still reacted as negatively and dismissively as he did. Yes, he ap… (View Post)

I agree that hosting and cooking for that many people in an Airbnb is not a good plan, and I think it's more than fine to explain why to FMIL. However, I wouldn't count on her just saying, "Oh, … (View Post)

He lied about voting, and given who I suspect he was voting for, he is likely lying about a lot of his values as well, which I'm betting are not in line with your own. Don't stay with someone you no … (View Post)

I wonder if the husband's sister and father know about this. You should not "let it go" that you are being accused of mistreating or even killing your husband. This requires a confrontation… (View Post)