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OP, I'm another person that would not want to (or be surprised by learning about afterwards) a fake ceremony or re-do. I think you do need to decide between having a larger wedding with friends and f… (View Post)

OP, I might suspect that some of your guests just told you it was OK because they don't want to be negative to you about your wedding. If I had to go to a dawn wedding... I would NOT be happy about i… (View Post)

OP, I called off an engagement less than 3 weeks out from the scheduled date. In Iowa, regardless of the reason why, the ring is considered a conditional gift and must be returned "in a timely m… (View Post)

Bridesmaids aren't obligated to do anything more than buy the dress (in their budget), show up sober and on time for pictures, and stand during the ceremony. Bachelorette parties, showers, and gifts … (View Post)

I'm going to suggest something that may sound harsh - try a week (or two, or three) living apart with minimal (or no) communication with your H. Stay with a friend or family member, and try to avoid … (View Post)