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Did you keep your wedding dress
WineAndLipgloss
08/12/16 2:01PM

Hi,  I'm debating donating my wedding dress after the wedding, but a small part of me worries I may regret it. What did you do after you wo… Read more

08/12/16 2:01PM
Receiving Line and Photos - or Table Visits?
CaitFins
08/8/16 12:38AM

All of our portraits will be taken directly after the ceremony. How would we manage/time the receiving line around this? My parents are not … Read more

08/8/16 12:38AM
Photographer Shotlist
GoingGoshko
08/4/16 2:44PM

Hi Ladies, Our photographer asked me to specifically list out what shots were a must, as well as others we wanted to include. Since we have… Read more

08/4/16 2:44PM
Place cards
ksulaski
08/10/16 11:51PM

Silly question here but having a discussion with FI and need opinions! We are getting married in two weeks. We are having our place cards p… Read more

08/10/16 11:51PM
Time Management for DIY
SarahTiestheKnot
08/7/16 8:47PM

Hi everyone! I'm doing a lot of DIY stuff for my wedding, one of the biggest being my veil. I am knitting my veil, which is going to be a gi… Read more

08/7/16 8:47PM
Groom's Family & the Dress
lottie64
08/8/16 6:48PM

Good morning! New to The Knot here! I just have a quick question. I went shopping this weekend for my dress (ended up finding one too!!!), … Read more

08/8/16 6:48PM

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Monday!
mrsconn23
09/26/16 1:08PM

How was the weekend? Mine was pretty good.    Friday, I had dinner with one of my BFF's.    Saturday, shopping, bikini wax (it was abo… Read more

09/26/16 1:08PM
Fall
CMGragain
09/24/16 6:15AM

Whoooooo!  The wind brought a cold front through Colorado, and tonight I had to put on the electric blanket and get out my flannels!  Brrr… Read more

09/24/16 6:15AM
No Cake for Me?
Knottie1473800542
09/21/16 10:32PM

I am having a small, private wedding with just parents and grands in attendance. FMIL is taking it super hard and acting as if I am doing th… Read more

09/21/16 10:32PM
Monday.
LizzyTish88
09/26/16 12:50PM

How was everyone's weekends? We stayed in Friday night and went to bed super early. I think we were both just so tired from our first week … Read more

09/26/16 12:50PM
Four names in the world
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:50PM

Dear Prudence, I don’t get along with my sister-in-law. She adores my brother and makes him very happy so I try to be friendly when I see… Read more

09/22/16 1:50PM
FFIL Invited More Guests to Wedding -- Help w…
MeetTheLaras
09/27/16 3:34PM

Last night we got a wedding gift delivered. When I opened it, there was a card from someone we did not invite. In fact, I'd only met this wo… Read more

09/27/16 3:34PM
This is a sticky wicket
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:51PM

Dear Prudence, Almost two months ago I got pregnant. My husband and I were absolutely thrilled to be having a baby. Shortly thereafter, I le… Read more

09/22/16 1:51PM
Bride wants every picture, guess what happens
InLoveInQueens
09/23/16 12:47PM

There is currently a post on reddit (not weddit for once, surprisingly) about a bride who had multiple signs and made multiple announcements… Read more

09/23/16 12:47PM
Folks with family in 2+ states - how did you …
ginnybinny17
09/21/16 3:19PM

Like many (most?) people, my SO and I come from two different states.  He has a huge family in New England, I have a huge family in the Mid… Read more

09/21/16 3:19PM
Overthinkers gotta overthink
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:56PM

Dear Prudence, I started seeing a man three months ago and things are going really well. On our second date, he mentioned he might have sin… Read more

09/22/16 1:56PM
Catering Rant..
MeetTheLaras
09/27/16 6:08PM

I really need to complain about my caterer. I could use a fresh perspective on if I'm being irrational, or if this really is a terrible expe… Read more

09/27/16 6:08PM
home repair update - pics
*Barbie*
09/26/16 7:43PM

I would say that we're still a week or 2 from being done, but i swung by today (working from the hotel) and they were (surprise!) putting in… Read more

09/26/16 7:43PM
"This is us"
CharmedPam
09/22/16 2:34PM

Just saw the pilot (they aired 2 eps, right) but it's being talked about a lot on facebook (the only reason why I knew it existed)....anyone… Read more

09/22/16 2:34PM
There has to be an in-between here?
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:54PM

Dear Prudence,  My boyfriend and I have dated for a year now and are now considering moving in together. He’s the sole tenant on the lea… Read more

09/22/16 1:54PM
FRIDAY!!!
mrsconn23
09/23/16 2:01PM

What's up people?!  What are you doing this weekend? For moi... Tonight:  Dinner with a friend Tomorrow: My first ever bikini wax (eee!… Read more

09/23/16 2:01PM
TUESDAY!
labro
09/27/16 1:09PM

Man, Hillary KILLED it during the second half of last night's debate. Which is arguably more important. Finish STRONG HIL! How was your M… Read more

09/27/16 1:09PM
Fri-YAY!
LizzyTish88
09/23/16 12:23PM

Happy Friday NEY!  I'm so glad this week is coming to an end. The first week back to work after vacation is THE WORST! Thankfully I got pr… Read more

09/23/16 12:23PM
Ceremony Programs, bride's parents deceased
FutureFixl
09/21/16 3:50PM

I'm having one heck of a dilemma... both my parents are deceased and my uncle is walking me down the aisle.  I'm doing a memorial table for… Read more

09/21/16 3:50PM
I'm crazy and becoming materialistic about my…
[Deleted User]
09/23/16 11:06PM

Our wedding planning started last April quite untraditionally; we always knew we'd get married so we went ring shopping together where we fo… Read more

09/23/16 11:06PM
I ain't got time to write Prudie
ShesSoCold
09/22/16 2:53PM

Am I crotchety or do you guys think it's rude to forward an email without adding a note? No "please take care of this" or even "this is for … Read more

09/22/16 2:53PM
MOH's post-wedding vent
Knottie1471015386
09/26/16 5:55PM

ok, i guess i know the relationship  is over but i would love some feedback as i can’t figure out what went wrong/did i do something? … Read more

09/26/16 5:55PM
DrillSergeantCat
09/25/16 5:42PM

Yesterday was the wedding. There were a couple of minor issues but everything turned out exactly like I wanted. I got so lost staring into m… Read more

09/25/16 5:42PM
Puppies instead of flowers
speakeasy14
09/22/16 2:25PM

Bridesmaids Hold Rescue Puppies Instead of Flowers While this is adorable, I want to know what happened to the puppies after the pictures w… Read more

09/22/16 2:25PM
Should I try to keep the peace and make up or…
SoonToBeSalamone
09/24/16 5:17PM

Hey Knot Community!  I have a bit of an issue with a guest.  My FH's best man is married and we were both in their wedding as the MOH and … Read more

09/24/16 5:17PM
God, I love not living in a neighborhood.
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:59PM

Dear Prudence, My husband I recently purchased our first house and moved in with our 1-year-old child. We love our house and the neighbors … Read more

09/22/16 1:59PM
Why is RSVPing so hard?
drglitter
09/27/16 3:41PM

You'd think, from this experience, that RSVPing is super complicated. - One RSVP received for 3 when 2 were clearly invited. 2 names writte… Read more

09/27/16 3:41PM
RSVP date
Ironring
09/27/16 5:18PM

Is it rude to contact people ON the RSVP date? I didn't have mail in responses so it's not like I need to give the mail a couple of days to … Read more

09/27/16 5:18PM
West Wing fans in Western Ohio/Eastern Michig…
charlotte989875
09/24/16 1:06AM

The West Wing cast is coming to Toledo to open Hillary's new field office.  http://www.toledoblade.com/Politics/2016/09/23/The-West-Wing-a… Read more

09/24/16 1:06AM
When you think you've seen it all...
ahoywedding
09/27/16 6:15PM

This is an old-ish article but check out the poem at the end, for people who maybe "forgot" to give a gift. Yikes! https://www.theguardian.… Read more

09/27/16 6:15PM
Is a wedding website RSVP confusing?
megtownxx
09/26/16 7:33PM

hi all, long time lurker from years and years ago, now planning a wedding for october next year! i'm making a wedding website and it comes … Read more

09/26/16 7:33PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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