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Venues without preferred catering lists
Knottie1449423031
02/1/16 6:19PM

Hello, I'm in a strange situation. I'm looking to find a venue in Chicago that does not require you to use their preferred catering list. M… Read more

02/1/16 6:19PM
MOH's 10th anniversary 2 days before my weddi…
korinda76
01/28/16 2:32PM

My best friend, who is my MOH, will be bringing her mother, husband, and three very young kids to Indiana from Utah for my wedding.  They w… Read more

01/28/16 2:32PM
Organizing day-of timing
khubbert1022
01/27/16 4:40PM

Hi everyone!  My wedding is at 2pm, and the salon where I (and some of my bridesmaids) are getting our hair/makup done asked what time we n… Read more

01/27/16 4:40PM
Adult only wedding - Groomsman refuses to att…
sjz1027
02/2/16 1:00PM

We have decided to have an adult only wedding which we communicated with most of our guests with children over a year ago - including one of… Read more

02/2/16 1:00PM
Engagement & Facebook status
TeamAwesomeJ&J
01/31/16 6:39PM

My Fi got engaged on Christmas Eve. I've told all close family and friends that I would like to be there at the wedding. We have a small bud… Read more

01/31/16 6:39PM
Did your FI see/help choose your dress?
kimmiinthemitten
01/31/16 5:24PM

It's official. I hate wedding dress shopping.  I find the whole process to be stressful and teeming with imaginary expectations.  Even las… Read more

01/31/16 5:24PM

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Last name that could be a first name vent
marriedhamstermom
02/9/16 7:25PM

So when I married my husband I decided to take his last name which could be a common female first name. Well I was pretty excited because it… Read more

02/9/16 7:25PM
Things you should not be concerned about when…
geebee908
02/10/16 2:02PM

Reading some of the threads lately has made me think about what is and isn't important in the grand scheme of things with regard to wedding … Read more

02/10/16 2:02PM
Opinions on Sandals Registry
Knottie1433791078
02/4/16 9:04PM

What are some of your experiences with Sandals honeymoon registry? Read more

02/4/16 9:04PM
MOB and MOG dresses-cross posted
Knottie1446491565
02/10/16 2:03AM

Hello all! So I've been trying to read up on how the mother of the bride dress and mother of the groom dress shopping should be handled. Le… Read more

02/10/16 2:03AM
MOB and MOG dresses-cross posted
Knottie1446491565
02/10/16 2:01AM

Hello all! So I've been trying to read up on how the mother of the bride dress and mother of the groom dress shopping should be handled. Le… Read more

02/10/16 2:01AM
No ring bearer or flower girl
Knottie1451766291
02/10/16 5:50AM

What's a good alternative to having a "here comes the bride" sign or "happily every after" sign if there's no ring bearer or flower girl? Read more

02/10/16 5:50AM
HOW MUCH for an officiant??
Windycityyarn
02/10/16 2:59PM

Just feel like ranting for a moment. A good friend of mine put my FI and I in touch with a rabbi who she raved about, and thought would be a… Read more

02/10/16 2:59PM
RSVP timeline
alissakay7
02/6/16 10:46PM

So I'm trying to get dates together when I should be ordering invites/RSVP's, sending them out and having them returned to me.  We are gett… Read more

02/6/16 10:46PM
:sneaks in, knocks over a lamp::
wifezzlla
02/10/16 2:21PM

i have been so busy, but, well, like a moth to a flame.... anyone here?? (ps - updating user name - annoying!) Read more

02/10/16 2:21PM
Invite and RSVP postage?
Knottie1430419758
02/9/16 4:56PM

So I ordered my invites from shutterfly.  The invite is in a 5x7 envelope and I plan to send the RSVP and 3x5 return envelope inside as wel… Read more

02/9/16 4:56PM
Ugh Tuesday
southernpeach89
02/9/16 1:56PM

Not feeling all the great this morning...something is up with my stomach...blah. On a positive note I'm working from home today so at least … Read more

02/9/16 1:56PM
Announcing an Unplugged Ceremony
Knottie1440365793
02/9/16 2:54PM

Hi all, My fiance and I have decided to have an unplugged ceremony because we really want people to be present during the ceremony. It'll b… Read more

02/9/16 2:54PM
Cousin jealous of my wedding?!
kayteekay85
02/7/16 4:35AM

OK, grab some popcorn and get ready for this circus. My youngest cousin (23) is a recovering drug addict who got kicked out of rehab with h… Read more

02/7/16 4:35AM
Home v. Hotel?
tigerlily6
02/9/16 11:43PM

We are getting married in the town where we live. We are already renting a house that we will be in for next year also. The reception venue … Read more

02/9/16 11:43PM
What are you streaming lately (Netflix, Amazo…
kvruns
02/8/16 3:31PM

We have Amazon Prime and Netflix and I'm looking for some new shows to watch (or old shows to rediscover). I can never find anything on Amaz… Read more

02/8/16 3:31PM
Wedding Dress Drama
Knottie1452244504
02/10/16 6:18AM

Hello, I am in a current situation that I need advice and figured I'd ask the community. My wedding's in October and I just found my dream d… Read more

02/10/16 6:18AM
Where are you cutting in YOUR budget wedding?
kayteekay85
02/8/16 2:05AM

Everyone has their priorities -- where are yours? Where are you replacing a service/product with a DIY project? Are you cutting something e… Read more

02/8/16 2:05AM
Happy Mardi Gras!!!!
NOLABridesmaid
02/9/16 2:28PM
02/9/16 2:28PM
Aisle runner outdoors?
Knottie1438029692
02/10/16 1:43AM

I'm stumped thinking about an aisle runner/decor for our outdoor ceremony. The wedding is on a hill and is often times pretty windy, so anyt… Read more

02/10/16 1:43AM
Microphones - Help! Rent, Buy, Portable?
TheRDizzle
02/3/16 6:13PM

Hi Everyone, I have a question for you Vegas brides.  I am having a reception or after party at the media suite at Mandalay Bay.  It's f… Read more

02/3/16 6:13PM
Help! Honeymoon in Hawaii!
Knottie46298648
02/10/16 5:24AM

Hi all, April brides--please help me out. We're getting married in exactly two months. We've planned our honeymoon on the Big Island in Haw… Read more

02/10/16 5:24AM
18 Gold and White Chevron Table runners for s…
Knottie9703426
02/10/16 3:40AM

This listing is for 18 Gold and White Chevron Table runners, lightly used 100% polyester but spun to look and feel like Satin, great qua… Read more

02/10/16 3:40AM
Cake after Wedding
lovemesomemonster
02/9/16 6:54PM

I'm curious to see how many of you saved your cake for your one year? I thought about it for a hot second and then realized we drove straigh… Read more

02/9/16 6:54PM
Bridesmaid Dress
Peytontheriot
02/9/16 5:35PM

I found this dress on Pinterest and fell in love. Anyone know where I can find it or something similar?  Read more

02/9/16 5:35PM
Tuesday
mrs.conn23
02/9/16 1:31PM

I slammed my foot into the recliner while working out yesterday (which I was trying to avoid).  It's bruised and it hurts to walk...I don't… Read more

02/9/16 1:31PM
Affordable and Not Cheesy DJ
Knottie1453080431
02/10/16 2:36AM

Does anyone know of a reputable and affordable DJ who isn't super cheesy? I would like to have someone in charge of the music for fear of so… Read more

02/10/16 2:36AM
Room block release dates
SailAwayFromtheSafeHarbor
02/5/16 10:54AM

The release date on the room blocks at my hotel/reception venue is 90 days before the wedding. Is that normal?  This is my first post-let … Read more

02/5/16 10:54AM
MOB and MOG dresses
Knottie1446491565
02/10/16 1:57AM

Hello all! So I've been trying to read up on how the mother of the bride dress and mother of the groom dress shopping should be handled. Le… Read more

02/10/16 1:57AM
Jasmine B2 Bridesmaid dress prices
Knottie1443721062
02/8/16 5:40PM

Hi everyone! I just made an appointment for my BM's to try on dresses and when I called I asked what their most affordable line of dresses i… Read more

02/8/16 5:40PM
Groom using late grandfather's ring
Knottie1442675699
02/9/16 8:43PM

My finace is thinking about using his late grandfather's ring. He was an incredibly important person in my fiance's life and it really is a … Read more

02/9/16 8:43PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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