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DrillSergeantCat
06/23/16 6:15PM

When should tuxedos be ordered? And should they match the BP?  Read more

06/23/16 6:15PM
Gifts For Parents
HonorBlossom
06/22/16 5:40PM

Hi, I was thinking about getting nice photo books made for my parents with pictures from their wedding and also doing the same for my futur… Read more

06/22/16 5:40PM
Have not met best man
horselover2017
06/30/16 7:23PM

I have not met my fiance's best man. I talked to him over skype. He has not officially asked him, but he knows that's who he wants.  I was … Read more

06/30/16 7:23PM
Is it necessary to list the grooms parents na…
Knottie1440106606
06/27/16 5:47PM

 I mailed wedding invitations out a few weeks ago and I found out my future mother in law is not happy with the way I did the invitations. … Read more

06/27/16 5:47PM
Catering for Cocktail Hour Etiquette
tjackson418
06/24/16 5:29PM

Hi everyone, Quick etiquette question. My fiance and I are planning a wedding for next summer. We are having a local restaurant cater the m… Read more

06/24/16 5:29PM
Last Minute Mishaps
tigerlily6
06/29/16 11:25AM

Some of you have shared a few of these before, and they're always great. FI and I had our first comical "thing gone wrong" last night around… Read more

06/29/16 11:25AM

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SIL is skipping my shower to go to a yearly b…
Knottie1431621404
07/21/16 11:03AM

Some backstory.... So I have an enormous family and decided to have a very small wedding (under 30 people invited). Because I am having a ve… Read more

07/21/16 11:03AM
Photo Scavenger Hunt Contest - Voting!
Swazzle
07/20/16 11:39AM

Time to vote for the winner! Choose the best for each category (and bonus if you feel so inclined).  Category 1: A summer hobby/activity… Read more

07/20/16 11:39AM
Wednesday
mrs.conn23
07/20/16 12:42PM

In WAHM/FWP...We have in-office training that was supposed to be last week and it was pushed back.  I crossed my fingers and hoped it wasn'… Read more

07/20/16 12:42PM
Tuesday
Swazzle
07/19/16 12:31PM

Good morning!  I had SUCH a great weekend! Friday consisted of trying to pack while still feeling pretty crappy and going to bed reasonabl… Read more

07/19/16 12:31PM
Fiance vs. Friend Issues (seriously need advi…
SilverSeaHorse
07/20/16 4:14AM

I am in serious need of help with a tough situation. Brace for a of long story... Back in December my close friend/college roommate finally… Read more

07/20/16 4:14AM
Thursday!
mrs.conn23
07/21/16 1:15PM

It's almost the end of the week!  But I work Saturday...   DH also has to work Friday night.   I do have a 3-day weekend next weekend. … Read more

07/21/16 1:15PM
Should I change my wedding date?
bohobrideCA
07/21/16 4:52PM

I was getting a quote from a florist and she described my wedding date as "Mother's Day Weekend", I'm getting married on the Saturday before… Read more

07/21/16 4:52PM
Monday
Heffalump
07/18/16 12:49PM

Good morning, WW!  How was the weekend?  What's on the agenda this week? The weekend went better than I expected, TBH.  Made it through … Read more

07/18/16 12:49PM
Monday, Monday
LizzyTish88
07/18/16 12:49PM

Good morning! I am thinking it's going to be a quiet day as many people are on vaca! Friday I went and got my pedicure and then headed home… Read more

07/18/16 12:49PM
Mind the Gap!
NBSquared2017
07/20/16 1:15AM

I have a dear friend whom I have known since junior high. I am in her wedding this coming September and today the BP received an email outli… Read more

07/20/16 1:15AM
Lamb?
TNDancer
07/20/16 3:16PM

I have a couple cook books that each have multiple lamb recipes listed as if this is normal. I don't think anyone in my entire family has ev… Read more

07/20/16 3:16PM
NWR - Advice on parenting adults
CMGragain
07/21/16 9:37PM

Many of you know that my 34 year old son is severely ADD.  He is an employed computer software engineer and owns his single family three be… Read more

07/21/16 9:37PM
work welcome breakfast
kaos16
07/18/16 3:19PM

A new boss is coming to our department, and we'd like to do a small welcome breakfast for her.  What are your go-to contributions for a par… Read more

07/18/16 3:19PM
Donut bar as dessert for reception
Knottie3116341
07/20/16 8:14PM

Looking to do a donut bar with all kinds of donuts and toppings as our dessert for our wedding in october. I don't like cake and I'm not muc… Read more

07/20/16 8:14PM
Reverse unity candle ceremony
Ironring
07/18/16 1:32AM

Has anyone ever seen this done? Did it work? Any issues? For those of you who don't know what I'm talking about, it is a unity ceremony tha… Read more

07/18/16 1:32AM
Flower girl dropping out, mom's reasoning...
chrisanna30
07/17/16 8:50PM

My sister is getting married on Saturday. I'm the "head Co-MOH", whatever that means. Both my children are supposed to be in the wedding alo… Read more

07/17/16 8:50PM
Friday Eve
Swazzle
07/21/16 11:53AM

Good morning!  YOU GUYS!!!!!! @jenna8984 is a mommy!!! She said they're both doing great and she's hoping to pop in at some point with a … Read more

07/21/16 11:53AM
Which Dress is Appropriate For a Summer Weddi…
Knottie60446931
07/18/16 10:25PM

I have 2 options: 1) Black and white pattern that hits below the knee, 2) cotton navy dress with white dots that hits above the knee, or … Read more

07/18/16 10:25PM
FRIDIZZLE
Swazzle
07/22/16 12:41PM

I am SOOOO ready for the weekend!  Last night, I got home and read my book pretty much all night except to help H make dinner (steak on th… Read more

07/22/16 12:41PM
Saying "No"
Sarabeth1031
07/20/16 2:01PM

So a lot of my friends are getting engaged or have recently been married. I've noticed that a lot of them are very quick to give in to other… Read more

07/20/16 2:01PM
Republican Convention
VarunaTT
07/18/16 7:54PM

I know that the daytime stuff is generally boring anyway, but damn...these people just look exhausted already.  The following is my interpr… Read more

07/18/16 7:54PM
Friday!!
mrs.conn23
07/22/16 12:46PM

What's up for the weekend?! Tonight: I'm going to 'Swayze Fest' on the art museum lawn.  Roadhouse and Dirty Dancing.  Woo-hoo.  I'm goi… Read more

07/22/16 12:46PM
Food while getting ready
kamisc
07/21/16 5:47PM

I am getting ready at the W downtown in NYC- but the cost for catering while we get ready is INSANE.  I was thinking of ordering from somew… Read more

07/21/16 5:47PM
So...weekly spelling tests?
mrs.conn23
07/21/16 2:21PM

Dear Prudence,  I’ve been dating a sweet, funny, caring man for a year. I think marriage is in our future. I love everything about him, e… Read more

07/21/16 2:21PM
Who to invite to rehearsal?? S.O.S
Knottie03548242
07/21/16 6:57PM

For our rehearsal dinner I am struggling with who to invite for plus ones. All of my bridesmaids have S.O's except one who has a received a … Read more

07/21/16 6:57PM
Excluded for your comfort
DrillSergeantCat
07/22/16 11:55AM

I came across this article while pretending I don't need to get up and wanted to share it with you all.  Not getting a wedding invite to a… Read more

07/22/16 11:55AM
Tuesday!
mrs.conn23
07/19/16 12:12PM

What's up?   I got irrationally irritated with DH after work yesterday and we had a little spat.  And in the spat, he said he wasn't goin… Read more

07/19/16 12:12PM
wanderlust help
*Barbie*
07/19/16 7:49PM

If you had ~2 weeks to travel anywhere with your SO, where would you go, what would you do/see, and why? Assume you don't have an unlimited… Read more

07/19/16 7:49PM
Planning my own Bachelorette Party
Knottie1444270031
07/20/16 7:59PM

Opinions please. My MOH is my sister and will not be attending my bachelorette party (she says due to time off and lack of funds, since she … Read more

07/20/16 7:59PM
Posting here instead of complaining on Facebo…
helluvajoy
07/20/16 10:00PM

Planning this wedding has really revealed my "place" in my family's priorities, and it feels pretty low. Already my brother has emailed and… Read more

07/20/16 10:00PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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