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Venues without preferred catering lists
Knottie1449423031
02/1/16 6:19PM

Hello, I'm in a strange situation. I'm looking to find a venue in Chicago that does not require you to use their preferred catering list. M… Read more

02/1/16 6:19PM
MOH's 10th anniversary 2 days before my weddi…
korinda76
01/28/16 2:32PM

My best friend, who is my MOH, will be bringing her mother, husband, and three very young kids to Indiana from Utah for my wedding.  They w… Read more

01/28/16 2:32PM
Organizing day-of timing
khubbert1022
01/27/16 4:40PM

Hi everyone!  My wedding is at 2pm, and the salon where I (and some of my bridesmaids) are getting our hair/makup done asked what time we n… Read more

01/27/16 4:40PM
Adult only wedding - Groomsman refuses to att…
sjz1027
02/2/16 1:00PM

We have decided to have an adult only wedding which we communicated with most of our guests with children over a year ago - including one of… Read more

02/2/16 1:00PM
Engagement & Facebook status
TeamAwesomeJ&J
01/31/16 6:39PM

My Fi got engaged on Christmas Eve. I've told all close family and friends that I would like to be there at the wedding. We have a small bud… Read more

01/31/16 6:39PM
Did your FI see/help choose your dress?
kimmiinthemitten
01/31/16 5:24PM

It's official. I hate wedding dress shopping.  I find the whole process to be stressful and teeming with imaginary expectations.  Even las… Read more

01/31/16 5:24PM

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Wtf Wednesday
labro
02/3/16 1:53PM

What's your wtf moment today/this week? Am I missing something? Are children prone to melting in the rain? I just want someone to tell me w… Read more

02/3/16 1:53PM
Thank you!
Knottie62857637
02/4/16 9:58PM

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02/4/16 9:58PM
95% sure this isn't really an issue but...mig…
glasgowtolondon
02/1/16 10:36PM

So we had decided not to do a first dance - I really don't want to, and FI is of the opinion that he doesn't want me to be uncomfortable so … Read more

02/1/16 10:36PM
Adult only wedding - Groomsman refuses to att…
sjz1027
02/2/16 1:00PM

We have decided to have an adult only wedding which we communicated with most of our guests with children over a year ago - including one of… Read more

02/2/16 1:00PM
Bar question
Knottie11074228
02/4/16 1:16AM

My fiance and I are both 21 years old with a baby who will be 1 at our wedding and have a fairly small budget i haven't been to many wedding… Read more

02/4/16 1:16AM
BM irritation!
Knottie1449774681
02/5/16 8:46PM

So we are having a small wedding party that includes my aunt and SM as bridesmaids. It is in May and outside so I wanted us all to be in boo… Read more

02/5/16 8:46PM
Age Gaps
tigerlily6
01/31/16 10:16PM

Wondering what opinons are about big age gaps between partners.  FI and I are only a few years apart, which isn't very uncommon. I know se… Read more

01/31/16 10:16PM
Did your FI see/help choose your dress?
kimmiinthemitten
01/31/16 5:24PM

It's official. I hate wedding dress shopping.  I find the whole process to be stressful and teeming with imaginary expectations.  Even las… Read more

01/31/16 5:24PM
labro
02/3/16 2:26PM

It's been WAY too long since we've had one of these. I'm such a PW today. Dear Parents of children who live in my school zone, There are t… Read more

02/3/16 2:26PM
Not really sure where to ask this, but...
zerostarzombie
02/4/16 8:06PM

If I'm correct in calculating it, I am due to have my period on my wedding day. Do you think it would be worth talking to a doctor about the… Read more

02/4/16 8:06PM
WFD this week?
6fsn
02/2/16 5:44PM

I'm in a rut and need inspiration. I also need to buy pork.  I got a 4 pack from Costco and they were rancid.  Read more

02/2/16 5:44PM
Wednesday
6fsn
02/3/16 12:37PM

Halfway there.  What's on for the day? I have mom ministry this am, then the kids have a program at the park, then PSR tonight.  We just… Read more

02/3/16 12:37PM
Working From Home?
charlotte989875
02/2/16 2:29PM

On the makeup thread many of you said you work from home; I have a job where I have to be in my office a few days a week, but have the optio… Read more

02/2/16 2:29PM
Caution - Do not do this!
lovemesomemonster
02/3/16 5:08PM

I worked a wedding yesterday and needed to share for everyone still planning! The ceremony was at 2pm (yeah, on a Tuesday) with family and c… Read more

02/3/16 5:08PM
Budget Food Ideas
randomslove
02/4/16 5:23PM

Okay, so I had a little bit of a wake-up call when talking to a potential wedding caterer. We have a budget of about 3700 for food, drinks, … Read more

02/4/16 5:23PM
SUPER BOWL!!!
lyndausvi
02/5/16 4:11PM

I can't wait.    At least this year I have a team to pull for.  Not that I'm a true Bronco's fan, but I will pull for the state team. Wh… Read more

02/5/16 4:11PM
Bridesmaid dropped out...8 months to go
Knottie1426871508
02/2/16 2:29AM

I have a total of 5 bridesmaids (my fiance didn't want anything bigger than that).  One of my bridesmaids/very close friend recently found … Read more

02/2/16 2:29AM
Anyone have diamond and sapphire eternity ban…
TME310
02/2/16 7:17PM

Looking to have one of these made... I have 11 - 7 point diamonds that I want to reuse. My sons' birthstones are diamond and sapphire. Ever … Read more

02/2/16 7:17PM
To escort or not?
mrs.conn23
02/4/16 3:34PM

Dear Prudence, My younger sister confided in me that she is pregnant. She wants me to take her in for an abortion, without telling our paren… Read more

02/4/16 3:34PM
Opinions on Sandals Registry
Knottie1433791078
02/4/16 9:04PM

What are some of your experiences with Sandals honeymoon registry? Read more

02/4/16 9:04PM
So frustrated.
spockforprez
02/5/16 2:05AM

Thought about sharing this in the annoyances thread but it goes a bit farther. It is very complicated so I will try to be succinct but I usu… Read more

02/5/16 2:05AM
Monday!
6fsn
02/1/16 1:34PM

How was the weekend?  Saturday I went to this whole in the wall nasty place for an oil change.  They were nice enough, but blech.  Then … Read more

02/1/16 1:34PM
Venues without preferred catering lists
Knottie1449423031
02/1/16 6:19PM

Hello, I'm in a strange situation. I'm looking to find a venue in Chicago that does not require you to use their preferred catering list. M… Read more

02/1/16 6:19PM
Help regarding children!
Sarini91
02/4/16 3:06AM

First I would like to say if this is a question that has been answered already I apologize and if it has been answered please link me to the… Read more

02/4/16 3:06AM
Am I being a brat?
dyerwise
02/3/16 2:42AM

quick back ground: I have 3 sisters. Two older sisters(A. & M.) that have the same mom and dad and we share the same Dad. One younger sister… Read more

02/3/16 2:42AM
AW: Vermont Trip
speakeasy14
02/3/16 2:31PM

I'm super sore and cranky, so will try to keep this minimally whiny.   We were supposed to leave early Saturday morning, but my bf got a c… Read more

02/3/16 2:31PM
Help I have no idea what to choose as a theme
Sarini91
02/4/16 4:39PM

Hi I'm Sara and I'm new to the boards. Now my issue is that my wedding will be in late September so I think it's too early for a fall theme,… Read more

02/4/16 4:39PM
Engagement & Facebook status
TeamAwesomeJ&J
01/31/16 6:39PM

My Fi got engaged on Christmas Eve. I've told all close family and friends that I would like to be there at the wedding. We have a small bud… Read more

01/31/16 6:39PM
Ugh, WWWWD--awkward
Heffalump
02/2/16 4:13PM

My boss is out of town.  Coworker was out sick yesterday, back today.  Boss just emailed me to ask if Coworker "really seems like someone … Read more

02/2/16 4:13PM
Underexcited mom
kayteekay85
01/31/16 2:12PM

My mom is so hot and cold with all things wedding related. It hurts me. - She chose not to come to the party where FI proposed (She didn't… Read more

01/31/16 2:12PM

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FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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