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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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NWR: Ready for Kids?
dyerwise
09/20/17 9:30PM

My Husband and I have been together for almost 6 years, married for almost 1 year. We have traveled a bit, own a home, both have good career… Read more

09/20/17 9:30PM
Tatata Tuesday
kimmiinthemitten
09/19/17 2:28PM

I feel like I've been MIA for so long....hope everyone is good! Thursday I had a golf outing, Friday I snuck out of work early for a cowork… Read more

09/19/17 2:28PM
Destination Disaster!! ADVICE PLEASE !!
Knottieeae075af6c8c13d1
09/18/17 10:51PM

I'm  Read more

09/18/17 10:51PM
Let her cancel Thanksgiving.
mrsconn23
09/21/17 2:07PM

Dear Prudence, Since getting married my husband and I have always spent Thanksgiving with his family. This year, for the first time, his mot… Read more

09/21/17 2:07PM
Naming Kids After Dead People?
kwiksilver
09/20/17 12:33AM

I mean maybe if it was like a grandparent or something?  I can't believe there were 2 of these in one day: Read more

09/20/17 12:33AM
Monday??
6fsn
09/18/17 2:39PM

Is everyone sleeping in?  How was the weekend? Ours was busy but good: soccer, groceries, cleaning.  6let turns NINE today.  My parents t… Read more

09/18/17 2:39PM
It's not about the guitar, really...
mrsconn23
09/21/17 2:13PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend is really into playing guitar. A lot. He’s good at it and gets a little income that way, alongside some (prett… Read more

09/21/17 2:13PM
I don't understand this question
Ro041
09/21/17 4:32PM

Today's Dear Abby has me going, "wut?": DEAR ABBY: I am wondering about the use of the term "fiancee." Urban Dictionary says it is now cons… Read more

09/21/17 4:32PM
Move up ceremony for sick grandma?
augustgirl21
09/18/17 7:51PM

My fiancé's grandma hasn't been doing well for a while but she's been trying to make it to the wedding. Last week she took a turn and only … Read more

09/18/17 7:51PM
What is up with dudes writing to Prudie about…
mrsconn23
09/21/17 2:01PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve had two specific fantasies since puberty. Now, many years later, I feel my sexuality drying up and blowing away, and I… Read more

09/21/17 2:01PM
Heavy Appetizer Quantity Question
Karifaith
09/18/17 8:20PM

My wedding is in a few weeks (less than 3) and we were wondering how many people should we tell the caterer since we think we will have too … Read more

09/18/17 8:20PM
Is this too strange?
nmvaladanzouj
09/20/17 3:17PM

My father and I have little to no relationship. He does not approve of my life choices, as he is Muslim, and I am not. Even so, I still plan… Read more

09/20/17 3:17PM
Excluded from the Bachelorette Party??
sbjanuary
09/17/17 11:03PM

I am currently the maid of honor for my cousin's upcoming wedding. She also has two matrons of honor, as well as 3 bridesmaids. Being the cl… Read more

09/17/17 11:03PM
Lunch Reception Feedback
15bcouch
09/20/17 10:12PM

We're getting married in a church about 15 min from the park where the reception will be. The park is ours the whole weekend, though the wed… Read more

09/20/17 10:12PM
Must I invite my godmother?
erilana
09/22/17 6:26PM

My mother's younger sister is her best friend and my godmother. Growing up, our families spent Thanksgiving and Christmas together, as well … Read more

09/22/17 6:26PM
It's that time...
MandTFebruary62011
09/18/17 2:01AM

So this isn't really an etiquette question but I'm three weeks out and at this point I'm so frustrated and over it... we have started to ref… Read more

09/18/17 2:01AM
Mother/Son Dance Alternative
Amicos2017
09/22/17 3:38AM

My fiance's mother is in a nursing home and physically unable to come to our wedding. My fiance is very close to his mother so the discussio… Read more

09/22/17 3:38AM
Get thee to counseling.
mrsconn23
09/21/17 2:05PM

Dear Prudence, My parents died more than a decade ago, when I was 25. I moved home and helped raised my younger siblings (ages 11 to 17). I … Read more

09/21/17 2:05PM
Waiting on Thank You notes
ILoveBeachMusic
09/22/17 11:33AM

Ugh, I sent my niece a message asking if they had received my wedding gift that was sent in April from an on line order. I save my email not… Read more

09/22/17 11:33AM
Maybe you can make it, but time apart may hel…
mrsconn23
09/21/17 2:03PM

Dear Prudence, I have been with my fiancé for almost four years. He’s smart, funny, generous, and attentive. He also has some problems wi… Read more

09/21/17 2:03PM
Out of hand miscommunication
knottie1027
09/22/17 3:35PM

So. I thought FMIL was out of hand, I guess I was wrong.  Here's the story...I am only having 3 children at my wedding, those part of the … Read more

09/22/17 3:35PM
Gifts shipped not brought??
augustgirl21
09/23/17 1:42AM

While waiting for one of my floral appointments I overheard a bride talking with the florists about how guests bringing gifts to the wedding… Read more

09/23/17 1:42AM
Nope, nope, nope.
charlotte989875
09/20/17 1:23PM

I'm not attending a wedding that comes with a 150 Euro price tag, per person.  http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-derbyshire-41317297?ocid… Read more

09/20/17 1:23PM
Mom forgot to write "and guest" on the invita…
Knottie091c4e29aec8d33a
09/19/17 1:06PM

Hey folks, my mom sent out all of our invitations.  The RSVP cards themselves had no spot to select "guest", just a blank line to write who… Read more

09/19/17 1:06PM
Unknown gift giver, how to thank?
estrella2017
09/19/17 12:05PM

This board was a great resource while planning my wedding, so thank you all! But now I have a question about thank you cards. We received… Read more

09/19/17 12:05PM
Anyone tried Cloud Bread?
AmandaKess
09/19/17 5:58PM

I truly can't get enough of this stuff lately: https://www.beachbodyondemand.com/blog/cloud-bread-recipe The clean up is a pain, but SO wor… Read more

09/19/17 5:58PM
Maui Marathon during my "off season" honeymoo…
knottiea6db481f2b6bc6a3
09/19/17 5:04PM

Hello, I am going to Maui for my honeymoon the 2nd week of October, it was booked months ago. I just found out the Maui Marathon is that we… Read more

09/19/17 5:04PM
Is a head covering necessary?
nmvaladanzouj
09/20/17 1:10PM

A little background information first. My fiance was a "lapsed Catholic" as he calls it, for most of his life. I was raised Muslim, but was … Read more

09/20/17 1:10PM
If you're in therapy, why do you think Prudie…
mrsconn23
09/21/17 2:09PM

Dear Prudence, Apologies in advance for how melodramatic this is, and I promise I have a therapist and a psychiatrist and all that jazz. I… Read more

09/21/17 2:09PM
Destination wedding help!
jennyswish
09/19/17 9:25PM

Hello, My fiance and I are planning on a destination wedding in New Orleans in November 2018.  Only are close family/friends will be attend… Read more

09/19/17 9:25PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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