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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
Knot1
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Heffalump
02/20/17 1:20PM

Good morning, WW!  How was the weekend?  Everyone survive? Wooz had a rough weekend.  When I picked her up Friday afternoon, she was cry… Read more

02/20/17 1:20PM
UO Thread
KahluaKoala
02/17/17 9:28PM

We haven't had one of these in awhile, thought it would be fun! A UO is an "unpopular opinion", but please be kind and don't insult other po… Read more

02/17/17 9:28PM
How is it week 5
kimmiinthemitten
02/19/17 4:04PM

I thought this was a good way to start: Chuck Todd to John McCain on Meet the Press: Q:  Can the American people have faith that a Republ… Read more

02/19/17 4:04PM
What style earrings?
KnottieTara
02/16/17 4:33AM

I'm having an outdoor ceremony in a botanical garden. I'll wear a floral crown with lavender and rosemary and my dress is a simple strapless… Read more

02/16/17 4:33AM
Would You Prefer Pre-Made Sandwiches or Cold …
KwikSilver
02/21/17 5:01PM

We are having a casual luncheon wedding, and I am currently debating between doing trays of cold cuts, cheeses, etc and letting everyone pic… Read more

02/21/17 5:01PM
Stop making it your circus and your monkeys
mrsconn23
02/16/17 3:11PM

Dear Prudence, My cousin is a single mother who needs rides everywhere. She has to take two buses just to get to the grocery store (with a t… Read more

02/16/17 3:11PM
Have a wedding or just elope?!
[Deleted User]
02/21/17 4:33AM

Hi... Okay so here's the deal. We don't know whether to have a wedding or just to forget the whole show and elope somewhere beautiful, just… Read more

02/21/17 4:33AM
How to add how to dress on the invite?
ppgbeb
02/18/17 12:10AM

Hey lovely brides and wives, I am making my own invitations for my Christmas themed wedding in December and am curious how to tell my guest… Read more

02/18/17 12:10AM
Spring/Summer Makeup Vs Fall/Winter Makeup {a…
MissKittyDanger
02/22/17 3:51PM

Curious, but what things do you change up when the seasons change? For myself, when it's more spring I tend to reach for lighter things as … Read more

02/22/17 3:51PM
She's an asshole, but she did leave a 'thank …
mrsconn23
02/16/17 3:13PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been friends with “Laura” for 15 years and seen her through many crises. Last fall she lost her job and was evicte… Read more

02/16/17 3:13PM
Returned thank yous.... UGH!
KnickerGold
02/21/17 3:03AM

I worked really hard to get all of my thank yous out within a week-10 days of receiving presents before my wedding. Our wedding was OOT, an… Read more

02/21/17 3:03AM
Whaaaaaaa?
mrsconn23
02/16/17 3:09PM

Dear Prudence, I need an unbiased opinion over whether I’m overreacting. My 8-year-old daughter Grace received a kitten for her birthday a… Read more

02/16/17 3:09PM
are rehearsal dinner/brunch invitations inclu…
penguinpop
02/17/17 2:08AM

We are getting ready to print invitations. The majority of guests are out of town. Are the invitations to the oot/rehearsal dinner and bru… Read more

02/17/17 2:08AM
Would bridesmaids want this candle or do I on…
theknotsarah
02/18/17 4:40PM

What do y'all think of this candle?  It's really cute and I was thinking of getting one for all of my bridesmaids (in addition to their gif… Read more

02/18/17 4:40PM
Sexism in the workplace...how do you handle i…
kimmiinthemitten
02/20/17 7:21PM

So, I've talked before about how I have a dude job.  I am in industrial sales and 90% of my customers are automotive suppliers.  I am one … Read more

02/20/17 7:21PM
Future SIL Not a Bridesmaid
Knottiea7c09ed65abecbd3
02/21/17 2:57AM

My fiance has 5 siblings - 1 biological sister, 2 half brothers, 1 adopted brother, and 1 step sister. No one thinks of them with any of tho… Read more

02/21/17 2:57AM
Ro041
02/17/17 7:57PM

Outfit of the Day I just remembered I bought these slip on chucks a few years ago and never wore them. Score! It's Friday! How are you cele… Read more

02/17/17 7:57PM
Seating Plan
Knottie1454342962
02/17/17 9:57AM

We're doing a destination wedding in Romania, but my fiance and most of the wedding party are coming from the UK (I'm half Romanian).  I w… Read more

02/17/17 9:57AM
Decline to be sister's bridesmaid?
vikinganna87
02/16/17 5:42PM

Hope you're all doing well out there. My youngest sister is getting married for the second time--- both are destination weddings. I was in… Read more

02/16/17 5:42PM
Those Who Pay...Are Holding The $$ Hostage
KwikSilver
02/20/17 11:31PM

When we got engaged my FMIL offered us a generous contribution to the wedding. FI is her last (of 4) children to get married and she gave ea… Read more

02/20/17 11:31PM
Babysitter
greeninspring
02/20/17 3:53PM

So let me start out by saying that we are very happy that so many of our friends and family are wanting to come to our wedding. We are antic… Read more

02/20/17 3:53PM
Include +1s in Save the Date address labels
Knottie1450828272
02/20/17 2:52PM

Hi, my fiancée and I are getting ready to ship off our Save the Dates and we're trying to figure out etiquette and protocol for addressing … Read more

02/20/17 2:52PM
Diet Tips While Shredding For The Wedding....…
OCAlana985
02/17/17 5:10AM

Hello. So I have been trying to get in shape for my wedding which is now 2 months away and I am getting so discouraged. I was hoping I could… Read more

02/17/17 5:10AM
Secondary infertility is ruining my sister's …
mrsconn23
02/16/17 3:07PM

Dear Prudence, In the decade since my sister married her husband (when her daughter was 4 months old), she has suffered from multiple miscar… Read more

02/16/17 3:07PM
Wear or not wear a blusher?
greeninspring
02/22/17 5:00PM

My parents just had their 35th wedding anniversary this month! I am planning on wearing my mother's veil for my wedding ceremony this spring… Read more

02/22/17 5:00PM
How to word...
Knottie1467492871
02/16/17 7:44PM

Hello,    My finace's mom passed away and he is not close with his father. He has a family (unrelated) that has been like his family since… Read more

02/16/17 7:44PM
JediElizabeth
02/21/17 10:29PM

So, I'm trying to figure out my headpiece/veil. I was originally planning on a birdcage, since I'm not a big fan of veils. I've been active … Read more

02/21/17 10:29PM
Farm Engagement photo locations in Chicago/!I…
MandaLang
02/22/17 6:17AM

I am looking for locations to take engagement photos on a farm or land with barns even animals would be a plus if anyone has any ideas they … Read more

02/22/17 6:17AM
Paying for floral donation
Knottie1461111056
02/20/17 6:03PM

I really want to donate my centerpieces from my wedding.  I found a non-profit that will come to the venue to collect them after the recept… Read more

02/20/17 6:03PM
Low-Key, Casual Friends-Only Engagement Pub C…
alliepmeek
02/17/17 6:08PM

Hi All, My fiance and I got engaged 12/26 and we want to have a pub crawl on 4/1 (1pm-into the night) where friends, coworkers, etc are inv… Read more

02/17/17 6:08PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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