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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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East coast beach bachelorette in Feb?
KNols
07/25/17 4:06PM

Hey everyone,  I'm getting married in April 2018 and my first choice is to have a bachelorette getaway in Miami for a long weekend in eith… Read more

07/25/17 4:06PM
The "no thank you card" trend
marigold40
07/23/17 6:36PM

Thoughts on the article below? Out of the last 6 weddings I've attended, I have only received 1 thank you card. All of the gifts I gave were… Read more

07/23/17 6:36PM
What to do about the office milk thief?
mrsconn23
07/27/17 1:38PM

Dear Prudence, I recently returned to my job at a large company after maternity leave. I share two lactation rooms with several other women … Read more

07/27/17 1:38PM
Bride's parents
CMGragain
07/24/17 11:15PM

I know a bride who has decided to be married at city hall.  After first telling her parents she wanted to do this as an elopement, she has … Read more

07/24/17 11:15PM
Addressing save the dates
ellamber
07/25/17 10:36PM

So I have to send out my STDs and I'm following these rules: * TO A MARRIED COUPLE:Mr. and Mrs. Walter Stuart Brown * TO A MARRIED COUPLE… Read more

07/25/17 10:36PM
retirement vacation. . . . drawing a blank
kaos16
07/26/17 3:28PM

Looks like dad wants to go on a little vacation when he retires.  It'll likely be in the winter.  Looking for long weekend ideas out of NY… Read more

07/26/17 3:28PM
Wasn't there a Seinfeld ep about a yeller?
mrsconn23
07/27/17 1:40PM

Dear Prudence, My girlfriend and I have been together for a while now, and we are very much in love. She’s an incredibly supportive person… Read more

07/27/17 1:40PM
Very very Awkward invite issue
Australian_girl_in_Paris
07/27/17 9:41AM

Hi y'all, So I have a super awkward issue about possible B list issue. So we booked the room for our reception last year and paid the dep… Read more

07/27/17 9:41AM
I no longer like my dress
Australian_girl_in_Paris
07/22/17 8:39AM

So I went and had my first fitting for my dress yesterday after the dress arriving a month and a half late. I think it's so boring. Don't kn… Read more

07/22/17 8:39AM
Unhelpful Bridal Party
ajflkdafs
07/27/17 3:50AM

Got the advice I needed, thanks. Read more

07/27/17 3:50AM
Please help!! Who to invite and who to not.
Knottie3e4c15a54dfe8265
07/26/17 6:04PM

Hello everyone.  We are about to send out Save the Date and I'm going over the guest list with a fine tooth comb.  I've been saying this w… Read more

07/26/17 6:04PM
Should I have walked out on the racist nail l…
mrsconn23
07/27/17 1:41PM

Dear Prudence, Recently I was at a nail salon getting a manicure from a pleasant woman. She told me about her life, her family, and her adju… Read more

07/27/17 1:41PM
Advice Needed!
jujubree1211
07/26/17 8:18PM

Hi! I'm planning a wedding for next year and wanted some advice from current brides and brides that have already thrown their wedding. My fi… Read more

07/26/17 8:18PM
Structure of reception and ceremony
Knottie1439410545
07/26/17 4:38PM

I'm probably way overthinking all this, so bear with me. I really do not want to get married with 150+ people staring at me, and my fian… Read more

07/26/17 4:38PM
Health Care Debate
kimmiinthemitten
07/25/17 8:53PM

I'm so confused and the news isn't helping... Today they voted in favor of opening the floor to debate the health care bill, but do we know… Read more

07/25/17 8:53PM
Day of coordinator
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/26/17 10:03PM

I have heard many times to get a day of coordinator for your wedding since you will have to deal with so many other things its nice to have … Read more

07/26/17 10:03PM
Wayfair Customer Service Was Fantastic
ernursej
07/25/17 2:43AM

I just wanted to post how wonderful the customer service at Wayfair was. My first order from them was damaged when I received it. No problem… Read more

07/25/17 2:43AM
4 men in the world
mrsconn23
07/27/17 1:42PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend just had a stroke. We have been dating for a while, but he is still married. He kept telling me he was going to … Read more

07/27/17 1:42PM
Heeeeyy- it's been awhile
footballwife77
07/25/17 1:57PM

What up NEWBS. Who's all ready to get married?  Read more

07/25/17 1:57PM
How can I invite "extras" on my cruise weddin…
Knottie30716c0c0eaf0769
07/25/17 9:11PM

FI and I have planned a private ceremony in Grand Cayman during a 5 day cruise. Although the ceremony itself is limited to us and our parent… Read more

07/25/17 9:11PM
Bridesmaid getting hair done at different sal…
MissEastCoast
07/27/17 7:40PM

Hi everyone!  For the day of my wedding, I asked all my bridesmaids if they wanted to get their hair and makeup done with me. I told them … Read more

07/27/17 7:40PM
Forgotten gift
penguinpop
07/24/17 10:53PM

Grandma-in-law has given a certain amount of $ to each of her grandkids when they got married. My husband was the last of the grandkids to g… Read more

07/24/17 10:53PM
Bridesmaid auction!
ahoywedding
07/27/17 12:58PM

Yes, it's as tacky as you'd think: http://nypost.com/2017/07/26/bride-makes-her-friends-bid-on-a-spot-in-her-wedding-party/ Read more

07/27/17 12:58PM
Thursday
mrsconn23
07/27/17 12:47PM

DefConn cried as we put him on the bus this morning.  I felt equal parts 'd'awww' and 'thanks for the guilt, jerk.'   I'm off again today… Read more

07/27/17 12:47PM
Bridezilla wants to be my MOH
knottie67d5e7df78719cd2
07/23/17 6:06PM

Hey Everyone! A few years ago I was MOH for my college roommate and it was not the best of times. I had raised some concerns about her futur… Read more

07/23/17 6:06PM
Maid of Honor Woes (Long)
knottie3fee8d8d37b65cab
07/23/17 11:25PM

Hi everyone, I need some advice on how to approach this situation. I'm getting married late next summer so I'm still early in the planning.… Read more

07/23/17 11:25PM
NWR...but what are all of your thoughts on Bi…
JediElizabeth
07/27/17 12:01AM

Because I'm totally side-eyeing it as a thing. Raise money or don't, but don't be AWish about it. Read more

07/27/17 12:01AM
If the state accepts an online ordination for…
knottie551895dae414b072
07/22/17 5:23PM

My wedding is just a few months away, and we've decided to have my mother officiate. She got ordained online through Universal Life Church. … Read more

07/22/17 5:23PM
Why wouldn't use the tools you have in a nego…
mrsconn23
07/27/17 1:44PM

Dear Prudence, I work in an office where my co-workers and I all work for different contractors. We sit right next to one another doing the … Read more

07/27/17 1:44PM
Invite Question
knottie414c40be068d745a
07/24/17 5:45AM

My grandfather's wife has caused a lot of family drama in the past to the point where I have not seen her in over 13 years. I see my grandfa… Read more

07/24/17 5:45AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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