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Venues without preferred catering lists
Knottie1449423031
02/1/16 6:19PM

Hello, I'm in a strange situation. I'm looking to find a venue in Chicago that does not require you to use their preferred catering list. M… Read more

02/1/16 6:19PM
MOH's 10th anniversary 2 days before my weddi…
korinda76
01/28/16 2:32PM

My best friend, who is my MOH, will be bringing her mother, husband, and three very young kids to Indiana from Utah for my wedding.  They w… Read more

01/28/16 2:32PM
Organizing day-of timing
khubbert1022
01/27/16 4:40PM

Hi everyone!  My wedding is at 2pm, and the salon where I (and some of my bridesmaids) are getting our hair/makup done asked what time we n… Read more

01/27/16 4:40PM
Adult only wedding - Groomsman refuses to att…
sjz1027
02/2/16 1:00PM

We have decided to have an adult only wedding which we communicated with most of our guests with children over a year ago - including one of… Read more

02/2/16 1:00PM
Engagement & Facebook status
TeamAwesomeJ&J
01/31/16 6:39PM

My Fi got engaged on Christmas Eve. I've told all close family and friends that I would like to be there at the wedding. We have a small bud… Read more

01/31/16 6:39PM
Did your FI see/help choose your dress?
kimmiinthemitten
01/31/16 5:24PM

It's official. I hate wedding dress shopping.  I find the whole process to be stressful and teeming with imaginary expectations.  Even las… Read more

01/31/16 5:24PM

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MOB and MOG dresses-cross posted
Knottie1446491565
02/10/16 2:03AM

Hello all! So I've been trying to read up on how the mother of the bride dress and mother of the groom dress shopping should be handled. Le… Read more

02/10/16 2:03AM
Seriously
[Deleted User]
02/10/16 5:17PM

I've been lurking around this website for a while and I just have to say a good majority of you should be ashamed of yourselves. With a few … Read more

02/10/16 5:17PM
I'm TORN over this, please help.
carmella2016
02/11/16 5:13PM

Long story, but I'll try for brevity. - My fiance dated a girl probably 4 years ago for a couple months. They slept together, but decided t… Read more

02/11/16 5:13PM
Anyone here?
speakeasy14
02/8/16 2:47PM

Anyone here or is everyone hungover from all the superbowl food and drinks!?! Read more

02/8/16 2:47PM
What are you streaming lately (Netflix, Amazo…
kvruns
02/8/16 3:31PM

We have Amazon Prime and Netflix and I'm looking for some new shows to watch (or old shows to rediscover). I can never find anything on Amaz… Read more

02/8/16 3:31PM
Cake after Wedding
lovemesomemonster
02/9/16 6:54PM

I'm curious to see how many of you saved your cake for your one year? I thought about it for a hot second and then realized we drove straigh… Read more

02/9/16 6:54PM
Cousin jealous of my wedding?!
kayteekay85
02/7/16 4:35AM

OK, grab some popcorn and get ready for this circus. My youngest cousin (23) is a recovering drug addict who got kicked out of rehab with h… Read more

02/7/16 4:35AM
Last name that could be a first name vent
marriedhamstermom
02/9/16 7:25PM

So when I married my husband I decided to take his last name which could be a common female first name. Well I was pretty excited because it… Read more

02/9/16 7:25PM
A Very Monday Wednesday
sparklepants41
02/10/16 6:33PM

Holy crap. I have zero patience for speshul snowflakes - and perhaps people in general today. Add to that the fact that I am flying north f… Read more

02/10/16 6:33PM
Valentine's Day?
charlotte989875
02/12/16 12:36PM

H and I have never been big Valentine's celebrators, just wasn't really our thing. This is your first one since we've been married and I was… Read more

02/12/16 12:36PM
LABELS FOR GROOMSMEN SOCKS
Knottie6309732
02/12/16 5:07PM

DOES ANYONE HAVE COOL LABELS THEY PUT ON THEIR GROOMSMEN SOCKS? I WANTED TO DO A LABEL WITH THEIR NAMES ON THEM. IF SOMEONE HAS A LABEL OR C… Read more

02/12/16 5:07PM
Birthdays -- love or hate 'em? (or are neutra…
tigerlily6
02/6/16 2:33PM

FI's birthday is at the end of February so I'm once again sitting here trying to figure out how to walk the delicate line of doing something… Read more

02/6/16 2:33PM
I'm married! (+many)
hellohkb
02/11/16 7:58PM

I wanted to post these sooner, but the past few weeks have been nuts. Pretty much everything that could have gone wrong did, but I'm still h… Read more

02/11/16 7:58PM
Who wants to talk NH primary?
Heffalump
02/10/16 2:28PM

1.  Bernie vs. Hillary.  Thoughts?  Bets?  (BTW, you still can't prove to me that Bernie is not Larry Sanders.)  I keep meaning to drag… Read more

02/10/16 2:28PM
No ring bearer or flower girl
Knottie1451766291
02/10/16 5:50AM

What's a good alternative to having a "here comes the bride" sign or "happily every after" sign if there's no ring bearer or flower girl? Read more

02/10/16 5:50AM
FI wants to change colors
Knottie1438368909
02/11/16 3:12PM

HELP ! FI and his GM's went suit shopping this week. Our theme is black and white, going for chic elegant. Girls dresses are black, floor … Read more

02/11/16 3:12PM
European venue ideas
Knottie1454712103
02/11/16 5:15PM

Hello, We're searching for a small, intimate, romantic chapel or abbey in Europe for our DW, and are hoping for some suggestions. We've be… Read more

02/11/16 5:15PM
Where are you cutting in YOUR budget wedding?
kayteekay85
02/8/16 2:05AM

Everyone has their priorities -- where are yours? Where are you replacing a service/product with a DIY project? Are you cutting something e… Read more

02/8/16 2:05AM
Happy MARDI GRAS!
lyndausvi
02/9/16 4:25PM

We are not doing anything this year.  I think next year I will go to  NOLA though.  My boss man is really stressed this year, I've volunt… Read more

02/9/16 4:25PM
Things you should not be concerned about when…
geebee908
02/10/16 2:02PM

Reading some of the threads lately has made me think about what is and isn't important in the grand scheme of things with regard to wedding … Read more

02/10/16 2:02PM
Hostile FSIL "needs" a shower invitation
Bleve0821
02/10/16 3:58PM

I apologize in advance for the length of this post, but I am at my wits' end. My bridal shower is a little under a month away, and my … Read more

02/10/16 3:58PM
Stressed.to.the.max.
Knottie1449774681
02/6/16 7:30AM

I thought everything was going perfectly..apparently not. I wanted to come here and get an opinion on some bridal party clothing weirdness a… Read more

02/6/16 7:30AM
Tuesday
mrs.conn23
02/9/16 1:31PM

I slammed my foot into the recliner while working out yesterday (which I was trying to avoid).  It's bruised and it hurts to walk...I don't… Read more

02/9/16 1:31PM
Wednesday
Heffalump
02/10/16 1:49PM

What's on the docket? Not much here.  Counting down the minutes until we leave for the mountains, even though it's still a few days off. … Read more

02/10/16 1:49PM
Paying for our wedding
Knottie1446491565
02/11/16 11:04PM

My FI and I got engaged a few months ago and decided to pay for our own wedding for a few reasons.  One being we think it's only appropriat… Read more

02/11/16 11:04PM
Bridesmaid Gifts
FutureG
02/12/16 2:32PM

I'm looking for some advice on what to get my bridesmaids. I'm already planning on getting them necklaces to wear in the wedding, from what … Read more

02/12/16 2:32PM
Dress Regret
Knottie1446384818
02/6/16 3:59PM

Alright, so I am now about 50 days away or so from my wedding. I started dress shopping about 3 months prior to the wedding (I know....not s… Read more

02/6/16 3:59PM
Ghosted by Bridesmaid
Knottie1439487487
02/7/16 2:02PM

I got engaged in August and have asked my sister and a few close friends to be bridesmaids. One of my bridesmaids has completely disappeared… Read more

02/7/16 2:02PM
Not sure how to incorporate my themes
LileCarmel
02/6/16 8:52PM

Hi everyone I'm getting married in 2018 in New York and I was wondering how to incorporate all of my themes. I come from an Irish backgrou… Read more

02/6/16 8:52PM
Gifts for destination wedding.
Knottie59623337
02/7/16 6:35AM

We live in Minnesota & are getting married in South Carolina. My fiancé &I will be flying to SC & of course flying back home from SC to MN.… Read more

02/7/16 6:35AM

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FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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