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DrillSergeantCat
06/23/16 6:15PM

When should tuxedos be ordered? And should they match the BP?  Read more

06/23/16 6:15PM
Gifts For Parents
HonorBlossom
06/22/16 5:40PM

Hi, I was thinking about getting nice photo books made for my parents with pictures from their wedding and also doing the same for my futur… Read more

06/22/16 5:40PM
Have not met best man
horselover2017
06/30/16 7:23PM

I have not met my fiance's best man. I talked to him over skype. He has not officially asked him, but he knows that's who he wants.  I was … Read more

06/30/16 7:23PM
Is it necessary to list the grooms parents na…
Knottie1440106606
06/27/16 5:47PM

 I mailed wedding invitations out a few weeks ago and I found out my future mother in law is not happy with the way I did the invitations. … Read more

06/27/16 5:47PM
Catering for Cocktail Hour Etiquette
tjackson418
06/24/16 5:29PM

Hi everyone, Quick etiquette question. My fiance and I are planning a wedding for next summer. We are having a local restaurant cater the m… Read more

06/24/16 5:29PM
Last Minute Mishaps
tigerlily6
06/29/16 11:25AM

Some of you have shared a few of these before, and they're always great. FI and I had our first comical "thing gone wrong" last night around… Read more

06/29/16 11:25AM

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SIL is skipping my shower to go to a yearly b…
Knottie1431621404
07/21/16 11:03AM

Some backstory.... So I have an enormous family and decided to have a very small wedding (under 30 people invited). Because I am having a ve… Read more

07/21/16 11:03AM
How to include my fiance's sister?
Knottie1460327909
07/26/16 3:38AM

So we are having a small bridal party, which means that I don't have room for my fiancé's two sisters to be bridesmaids (and we aren't supe… Read more

07/26/16 3:38AM
Tuesday!
mrsconn23
07/26/16 12:17PM

We had meet the teacher night last night.  DefConn's teacher seems very nice.  I'm thinking about getting involved in the PTA.  What?! I … Read more

07/26/16 12:17PM
VarunaTT
07/25/16 8:43PM

Well, let's get this shit show under way. They started off with booing Barney Frank.  I cannot with these delegates.  That's BS.  Sander… Read more

07/25/16 8:43PM
Failure to start
SweetSouthernFirecracker
07/21/16 4:39PM

My fiancé and I are going on our third time setting a date for our wedding. Life has been pretty rough for us and when push came to shove t… Read more

07/21/16 4:39PM
Swazzle
07/25/16 1:37PM

Morning. I hate Monday.  My weekend was pretty good. Friday Lucy came home and she is such a stinkface (literally, from the skunk). Bailey… Read more

07/25/16 1:37PM
Monday!
mrsconn23
07/25/16 12:51PM

How was the weekend? I had a friggin' blast Friday night at the Crazy for Swayze movie thing.  Roadhouse is the cheesiest movie I've ever … Read more

07/25/16 12:51PM
Who's ready for fall?
peachy13
07/25/16 5:49PM

Well it's been about 85-95 degrees here in the Boston area for about a month, with no cooling down in sight. The city is sticky and the peop… Read more

07/25/16 5:49PM
Thursday!
mrsconn23
07/21/16 1:15PM

It's almost the end of the week!  But I work Saturday...   DH also has to work Friday night.   I do have a 3-day weekend next weekend. … Read more

07/21/16 1:15PM
Should I change my wedding date?
bohobrideCA
07/21/16 4:52PM

I was getting a quote from a florist and she described my wedding date as "Mother's Day Weekend", I'm getting married on the Saturday before… Read more

07/21/16 4:52PM
Swazzle
07/27/16 12:40PM

Yesterday, I thought it was Thursday about 5 times so imagine my disappointment when I woke up today and it's not Friday.  I had a much le… Read more

07/27/16 12:40PM
NWR - Advice on parenting adults
CMGragain
07/21/16 9:37PM

Many of you know that my 34 year old son is severely ADD.  He is an employed computer software engineer and owns his single family three be… Read more

07/21/16 9:37PM
Who to invite to rehearsal?? S.O.S
Knottie03548242
07/21/16 6:57PM

For our rehearsal dinner I am struggling with who to invite for plus ones. All of my bridesmaids have S.O's except one who has a received a … Read more

07/21/16 6:57PM
Friday Eve
Swazzle
07/21/16 11:53AM

Good morning!  YOU GUYS!!!!!! @jenna8984 is a mommy!!! She said they're both doing great and she's hoping to pop in at some point with a … Read more

07/21/16 11:53AM
Unreasonable MOB?
Knottie1453745414
07/26/16 10:10PM

Some background- my relationship with my Mum has always been strained and I've always had to deal with her making events about her- my gradu… Read more

07/26/16 10:10PM
Wednesday
6fsn
07/27/16 11:55AM

I'm taking the kids to swim with MIL.  I'm already cranky.  There will be an awkward conversation about going to BIL's granddaughter's 1st… Read more

07/27/16 11:55AM
Excluded for your comfort
DrillSergeantCat
07/22/16 11:55AM

I came across this article while pretending I don't need to get up and wanted to share it with you all.  Not getting a wedding invite to a… Read more

07/22/16 11:55AM
FRIDIZZLE
Swazzle
07/22/16 12:41PM

I am SOOOO ready for the weekend!  Last night, I got home and read my book pretty much all night except to help H make dinner (steak on th… Read more

07/22/16 12:41PM
Silencing cell phones?
oywiththepoodles
07/25/16 2:39PM

I understand how unplugged ceremony requests are rude (and have seen the recent thread on that particular topic), and completely agree. How… Read more

07/25/16 2:39PM
NWR: Anyone here in HR & willing to give …
MJKlover
07/25/16 10:29PM

I am a licensed mental health therapist but I'm burned out with this field. I've always had an interest in the HR field but don't know where… Read more

07/25/16 10:29PM
Friday!!
mrsconn23
07/22/16 12:46PM

What's up for the weekend?! Tonight: I'm going to 'Swayze Fest' on the art museum lawn.  Roadhouse and Dirty Dancing.  Woo-hoo.  I'm goi… Read more

07/22/16 12:46PM
Earworms
OurWildKingdom
07/23/16 2:04PM

What song is stuck in your head right now?  For some reason, I woke up with this one. Pixies, "Here Comes Your Man" Read more

07/23/16 2:04PM
Help! Mother of my fiancee's daughters demand…
Knottie1465252831
07/25/16 4:32PM

So background here, this woman was never married to my fiancee. And let's be very clear, she is not a nice person. For many years she has pl… Read more

07/25/16 4:32PM
So...weekly spelling tests?
mrsconn23
07/21/16 2:21PM

Dear Prudence,  I’ve been dating a sweet, funny, caring man for a year. I think marriage is in our future. I love everything about him, e… Read more

07/21/16 2:21PM
In weekend news, let's meet Varuna!
VarunaTT
07/25/16 2:45PM

I've had a close friend destroy our friendship over this election cycle.  And I mean destroy, there will never be any repairing this.  I'v… Read more

07/25/16 2:45PM
No Cake?
Knottie1460327909
07/27/16 9:45AM

So I really hate wedding cake and have no desire to have one at my own wedding.  Are there any fun dessert alternatives that you guys have … Read more

07/27/16 9:45AM
Food while getting ready
kamisc
07/21/16 5:47PM

I am getting ready at the W downtown in NYC- but the cost for catering while we get ready is INSANE.  I was thinking of ordering from somew… Read more

07/21/16 5:47PM
Reception Venue Asked To Use My Photos for Ad…
jenmhobbs
07/23/16 12:39AM

We're officially married 6 days now!! My reception venue was awesome and no complaints - the event planner just emailed to ask if she could … Read more

07/23/16 12:39AM
Birth story and weekend
jenna8984
07/25/16 10:24AM

Well hey there!  I'll keep this short and as least gross details as possible lol. Tuesday night H and I were lying in bed snuggling at 8:30… Read more

07/25/16 10:24AM
Too Many Parties, not enough weekends left.
FeelTheRain
07/26/16 2:16PM

FI and I are getting married on 10/14/16 and his aunt and uncle just told us this week that they are wanting to have a party for us. Great! … Read more

07/26/16 2:16PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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