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Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM
Did you keep your wedding dress
[Deleted User]
08/12/16 2:01PM

Hi,  I'm debating donating my wedding dress after the wedding, but a small part of me worries I may regret it. What did you do after you wo… Read more

08/12/16 2:01PM
Receiving Line and Photos - or Table Visits?
CaitFins
08/8/16 12:38AM

All of our portraits will be taken directly after the ceremony. How would we manage/time the receiving line around this? My parents are not … Read more

08/8/16 12:38AM
Time Management for DIY
SarahTiestheKnot
08/7/16 8:47PM

Hi everyone! I'm doing a lot of DIY stuff for my wedding, one of the biggest being my veil. I am knitting my veil, which is going to be a gi… Read more

08/7/16 8:47PM
Groom's Family & the Dress
lottie64
08/8/16 6:48PM

Good morning! New to The Knot here! I just have a quick question. I went shopping this weekend for my dress (ended up finding one too!!!), … Read more

08/8/16 6:48PM

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Wedding Woe-Wednesday
kimmiinthemitten
04/25/18 1:09PM

Morning, I'm WFH for a bit and then have an appointment this afternoon so I have to head in.  I'm supposed to be doing proposals but instea… Read more

04/25/18 1:09PM
Imma put this here…posting website to Faceb…
swishswoosh
04/20/18 5:28AM

Do you or do you not? Fiance was looking at our registry and it said only 3 things have been purchased. I forgot to include the website on t… Read more

04/20/18 5:28AM
Throwing own bridal shower
jamiedave090118
04/22/18 4:59PM

I am stuck, I am from Chicago but my fiancée is from Indianapolis . My family is throwing me a shower in Chicago but in Indy no one wants t… Read more

04/22/18 4:59PM
NWR Sympathy Cards
climbingwife
04/19/18 2:52PM

My FIL passed away 3 weeks ago. He didn't want any service, so we just had him cremated and will privately spread his ashes where he request… Read more

04/19/18 2:52PM
I need gift ideas
6fsn
04/19/18 4:26PM

Our 13 year anniversary is Monday- lace.  I got him lingerie for Valentine's, Christmas, and our last anniversary!  His 41st bday. His … Read more

04/19/18 4:26PM
Privacy and self-protection is not 'lying by …
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:46PM

Dear Prudence, My girlfriend of eight years had an affair with a married acquaintance of ours, “Konstantin.” They both claim it never g… Read more

04/19/18 1:46PM
Eff this lady and your boss.
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:47PM

Dear Prudence, I work in a small office of about 30 people. Recently a woman who is a bit of a prankster has moved into our office suite. I… Read more

04/19/18 1:47PM
Bridal Shower Etiquette (gifts) for family on…
knottiec3e83423bc2cbffa
04/24/18 7:31PM

I am having a small family only (50 guests, no bridal party) wedding out of state.  My mom and best friend want to host a bridal shower in… Read more

04/24/18 7:31PM
Talk to her, but check the passive-aggression…
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:44PM

Dear Prudence, About six months ago, I moved in with my friend “Jenny” to save on rent. Jenny owns a two-bedroom townhouse, and I pay h… Read more

04/19/18 1:44PM
Rant Regarding Guest List
Knottie1474857822
04/20/18 3:04PM

Hello all! My wedding is in 22 days and today is the deadline for RSVP's and I just needed somewhere to rant! We invited 231 guests (30+ mo… Read more

04/20/18 3:04PM
Vows - thoughts please?
swishswoosh
04/20/18 5:20AM

Hello all, It's my first post here, my wedding is next weekend and my fiance and I are writing our own vows. I think I like how it sound… Read more

04/20/18 5:20AM
Vows after Domestic Abuse
knottie2ba3a8a909cff7e1
04/23/18 7:04PM

I am working on writing my vows, but feel like I need a couple ideas to help navigate through the beginning of them. This is my second marri… Read more

04/23/18 7:04PM
Invite Question
dontbeaturd
04/19/18 6:45PM

What are the the absolutely required elements of a wedding invitation? It's been a while since I've actually gotten one in the mail.  My f… Read more

04/19/18 6:45PM
Does what he wants matter?
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:38PM

Dear Prudence, My biological father was emotionally and verbally abusive to my sister and me when we were young, and my mother divorced him… Read more

04/19/18 1:38PM
WWYD? 2 Showers
dontbeaturd
04/24/18 4:10PM

I have a dilemma... My MOH has  graciously offered to throw me a shower in my hometown (she's from OOT). My cousin has also offered to thr… Read more

04/24/18 4:10PM
Mom Wants Hometown Wedding
msdds51
04/24/18 6:16PM

Hello! I'm recently engaged and I've been trying to begin the process of planning my wedding.  My fiance is from Michigan and I am from Oh… Read more

04/24/18 6:16PM
Paperless Invitations
knottie2ba3a8a909cff7e1
04/23/18 9:18PM

We really want to do invitations and rsvp's online!  What are the best sites?  Paperless Post seems very reasonable and reliable.  Any ot… Read more

04/23/18 9:18PM
Step Father
knottiede6953c4cd30da22
04/24/18 5:15PM

Hi everyone! I am having some problems with how to include my step dad in the wedding.  My father passed away 5 years ago and my mom remar… Read more

04/24/18 5:15PM
Should I be 'straight' with the team?
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:40PM

Dear Prudence, I am a straight woman who recently moved to the U.S. In order to make friends, I joined a softball team. I found a team tha… Read more

04/19/18 1:40PM
Bridal Shower Etiquitte for small family only…
knottiec3e83423bc2cbffa
04/24/18 7:28PM

I am having a small family only (50 guests, no bridal party) wedding out of state. My mom and best friend want to host a bridal shower in … Read more

04/24/18 7:28PM
Baltimore Wedding Venue Recommendations
bergwedding2019
04/22/18 1:17AM

We are planning on getting married on May 25, 2019 and are on the search for an awesome wedding venue in Baltimore. We are looking at a gues… Read more

04/22/18 1:17AM
Member of Wedding Party Death
merenose
04/21/18 6:18PM

One of my best friends--he was going to be on my side of our wedding crew--died very unexpectedly just over a month ago. (Our wedding is in … Read more

04/21/18 6:18PM
Bridal Shower gifts (etiquette) for small fam…
knottiec3e83423bc2cbffa
04/24/18 7:32PM

I am having a small family only (50 guests, no bridal party) wedding out of state.  My mom and best friend want to host a bridal shower in… Read more

04/24/18 7:32PM
Don't respond to anything that's not business…
mrsconn23
04/19/18 1:49PM

Dear Prudence, “Kirk” works for a company that’s a customer of my company. Before I was promoted into my current job, I worked closel… Read more

04/19/18 1:49PM
Thank you, Knot, for the flowers!
CMGragain
04/25/18 3:40PM

This warmed up our hearts and blew us away! Somebody must have found CMGr's obituary and sent these to the church in time for the memorial s… Read more

04/25/18 3:40PM
CMGragain passed away. (Link to chitchat post…
CMGragain
04/23/18 6:38AM

Link to my post on the Chit Chat board: http://forums.theknot.com/discussion/1078609/cmgragain-passed-away#latest Love to all the invites an… Read more

04/23/18 6:38AM
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freriks1
04/22/18 7:47AM

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04/22/18 7:47AM
Tropical With Nightlife
knottief5df8a503d90f73c
04/21/18 6:25AM

Fiance and I are deciding on our Honeymoon. We would like somewhere tropical, warm, and lively with nightlife. Our wedding is in December … Read more

04/21/18 6:25AM
Baltimore Wedding Venue Recommendations
bergwedding2019
04/22/18 1:30AM

We are planning on getting married on May 25, 2019 and are on the search for an awesome wedding venue in Baltimore. We are looking at a gues… Read more

04/22/18 1:30AM
Wedding items for Sale
Lizasap
04/21/18 3:10AM

Hi Knotties I am a past Knottie and have some wedding items for sale. Let me know if you are interested. I have 50 Red chair sashes in Satin… Read more

04/21/18 3:10AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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