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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
Knot1
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Monday!
mrsconn23
01/16/17 2:07PM

How was the weekend?  Who has the day off?   The kids are home and hanging out today.   Our weekend was great.  Nephew's first bday was… Read more

01/16/17 2:07PM
Proper timeline to have a hor d'oeuvres recep…
Bride04272017
01/17/17 7:43PM

I was planning a 6:30pm ceremony with a 7pm until 9:30pm hor d'oeuvres and champaign punch reception along with cake served. Seating and lig… Read more

01/17/17 7:43PM
Elopement- How do you include people?
[Deleted User]
01/17/17 12:07PM

 Any ideas welcomed! Thanks, Abbie  Read more

01/17/17 12:07PM
Carrying on after loss
KimM0915
01/18/17 8:20PM

Hi all, On December 12th, my fiancé and I tied the knot at town hall. My parents, his mom, and his kids were with us.  We decided to do t… Read more

01/18/17 8:20PM
Save the date was mailed but no call, no show…
Knottie1464707323
01/17/17 2:53PM

Long story short – I used to be very close to someone but over the years we fell apart. I wasn’t sure if I was going to invite her to my… Read more

01/17/17 2:53PM
Bridesmaids Dresses - Let Them Pick Their Own…
Knottie935c88d6a00cf00d
01/14/17 2:00AM

Hi   I was curious other community members thoughts/experiences with selecting a color for bridesmaids dresses versus selecting one design… Read more

01/14/17 2:00AM
How did you propose to bridesmaids? *Location…
Knottie1463276970
01/18/17 6:21AM

So I've read all about HOW to propose but what about the location and whereabouts? Did you bring everyone to a certain spot and pop the ques… Read more

01/18/17 6:21AM
Maid and matron of honor being difficult
Knottie1464707323
01/13/17 3:49PM

I  have both a Maid and a Matron of Honor in my bridal party.  I was the Maid of Honor in my Matron’s wedding. She also happened to hav… Read more

01/13/17 3:49PM
SO question
drid
01/19/17 5:48AM

Long story short, my step-cousin's boyfriend is a known drug dealer. I'm not talking maybe just some weed, he deals the hard stuff. Pleeeeea… Read more

01/19/17 5:48AM
Do I invite my step sisters and their boyfrie…
Knottieb9eb3532223f22ab
01/14/17 3:54PM

I have grown up with my step sisters since I was 6. One of them I get along with and the other one has never really made an effort with me. … Read more

01/14/17 3:54PM
BYO food and beverage?
Knottieb77e3a392f6b4655
01/12/17 11:44PM

Is it too tacky? Im a young bride with lots of friends. We aren't too formal to begin with. I want to have a small outdoor wedding and shor… Read more

01/12/17 11:44PM
Save The Dates/Invite List - Few Questions
Knottie935c88d6a00cf00d
01/16/17 5:07AM

Hey all -  I have a couple of questions that I have been pondering (or perhaps overthinking - ha!). Here it goes... 1. Is it better on th… Read more

01/16/17 5:07AM
A DefConn story
mrsconn23
01/16/17 6:08PM

So Friday morning, DefConn got on the bus and I said to DH, "A sub...again?  He has an awful lot of substitute bus drivers."  DH agreed. … Read more

01/16/17 6:08PM
How should I ask for those who haven't RSVP'd…
Knottie73470683228865cd
01/17/17 1:12AM

I didn't think this would an issue I would have but I have a bunch of people that didn't RSVP, and it's past our RSVP date. One response I … Read more

01/17/17 1:12AM
Guest List Cut-Offs
Knottie276eced7d20426ca
01/18/17 3:04PM

I recently got engaged and am making a draft of my guest list. We would really like to keep the list at or under 150 people, and were doing … Read more

01/18/17 3:04PM
Thursday
mrsconn23
01/19/17 1:43PM

I wrote 'Friday' before I caught myself.  So that's how I feel about today.   I got my review yesterday and my boss paid me a pretty wond… Read more

01/19/17 1:43PM
Mom and BF Relationship
KnotYetTied
01/13/17 5:09PM

TL:DR at bottom I'm very close with my mom, and I always have been. I am 26; I still live at home, though I pay rent to my parents and cov… Read more

01/13/17 5:09PM
Engagement party date woes
Knottieea4c9ca86e624c8e
01/13/17 8:28PM

Hello everyone, My future hubby and I decided to throw an informal engagement BBQ this summer for everyone to attend, so everyone can meet,… Read more

01/13/17 8:28PM
Toastmaster/ Other "Special" Roles
katsandtatts
01/15/17 1:05AM

Hey all, Not sure if this belongs here or in Reception, so correct me if I'm wrong by posting here! I was talking about the order of spee… Read more

01/15/17 1:05AM
The Bachelor
kimmiinthemitten
01/18/17 2:13AM

Please tell me someone else is watching this shit show. My sister talked me into a fantasy draft so now I'm in, because I'm Type A and must… Read more

01/18/17 2:13AM
Re-Engaged Announcement
Knottie40089300
01/12/17 8:25PM

My fiance and I have been engaged - in the past. We were supposed to get married in May of 2016 and called the wedding off in March. We went… Read more

01/12/17 8:25PM
BHLDN -- Ginger Convertable bridesmaid dress …
Knottie4127830cf8c3b06e
01/17/17 3:43PM

Looking to sell my BHLDN Ginger Convertable Bridesmaid dress by Twobirds -- Charcoal size A. Worn in one wedding, brand new!! Asking $250  Read more

01/17/17 3:43PM
New wedding timeline better?
Bride04272017
01/18/17 1:19AM

I have taken some advice that was given on this site so Im hoping to run it by you all again to see if it needs any correcting before I hand… Read more

01/18/17 1:19AM
Picking kids in wedding party?
Knottie58cbad691c6bc539
01/18/17 11:50AM

My FI and I have several grown siblings with their own family's and young kids on both sides of our family's.  Is it ok to only select one … Read more

01/18/17 11:50AM
Bridesmaid Dilemma!
Knottie935c88d6a00cf00d
01/13/17 10:03PM

Hi all   I'm new to this site, but have something I need some opinions on! I am in the process of finalizing my wedding party - I have a m… Read more

01/13/17 10:03PM
Timing of Bridal Portraits, Nails, Trials, et…
k&n62517
01/16/17 4:56PM

Hi! I wanted to time my bridal portraits so that I could get my hair color done (I'm not changing my hair color, I routinely get highlight… Read more

01/16/17 4:56PM
Wedding invite wording...please help.
Bride04272017
01/17/17 6:13AM

Hi, I plan on having a backyard ceremony and reception. It will be an 11am ceremony and then a hor d'oeuvres & champagne punch reception alo… Read more

01/17/17 6:13AM
Do I really need a photographer this time aro…
J+S=TrueLove
01/17/17 8:16PM

I'm starting to plan my wedding and this will be the second one for both of us.  We both had the big hoopla the first time around.  So, we… Read more

01/17/17 8:16PM
Destination Wedding - People Assuming they ar…
Knottie1446494546
01/14/17 10:48PM

Big problem occurring in my wedding planning right now. The people invited to my  Read more

01/14/17 10:48PM
Resolved; please delete :)
Knottieed8c1a2c57d45f22
01/18/17 1:40AM

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01/18/17 1:40AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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