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What to do when everyone hates you because yo…
Knottie1448238834
03/7/16 12:30AM

We are planning a very small no-frills wedding for our family and close childhood friends. We did this for a lot of reasons... one of which,… Read more

03/7/16 12:30AM
Walking Together
Knottie62971762
03/10/16 1:14AM

I would like my partner and I to walk down the aisle together, instead of my father walking me down. However, I would still like to to honor… Read more

03/10/16 1:14AM
Flowers for the hair
CharmedPam
03/8/16 7:35PM

When I was getting quotes from florists, a lot of them were asking me if I'd need small flowers for my hair.  I never even thought about i… Read more

03/8/16 7:35PM
Cupcakes!
ahoywedding
03/9/16 2:43PM

Has anyone done strictly cupcakes for dessert? How well did that go over with guests? What might be a good estimate for how many might be ne… Read more

03/9/16 2:43PM
Childhood friend FUMING about not being a bri…
Knottie1448744891
03/4/16 1:59PM

Hello, sorry for the essay, it's a bit complicated.  This friend was my best friend in high school ages 11-16, we did everything together … Read more

03/4/16 1:59PM
Mom and purple hair
Jinx1990
02/27/16 11:36PM

So let me start by saying that my mother and I have clashed from day one with wedding planning.... From my bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the f… Read more

02/27/16 11:36PM

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Living alone - self defense
spockforprez
04/28/16 3:53AM

H is going to rehab here in a couple weeks and I'll be alone for awhile - I know he can get up to 60 days inpatient with his insurance and h… Read more

04/28/16 3:53AM
RSVP with children
Knottie32263219
04/26/16 8:32PM

Hi Everyone! I know this topic has been beaten to death so I apologize in advance. My FI and I decided (over 10 months ago) that we would … Read more

04/26/16 8:32PM
Invites with two rsvp dates
[Deleted User]
04/29/16 5:21PM

Wondering if anyone has done this before?  I'm getting married early September and for several reasons which I won't get into, I feel like… Read more

04/29/16 5:21PM
Invitations
Knottie11262721
04/25/16 5:14PM

We have decided to just invite family and very close friends to the ceremony. We want it to be intimate and not overcrowded. The rest of the… Read more

04/25/16 5:14PM
Dress Doubts
Tyvm
04/27/16 6:45PM

I went to David's Bridal in December, expecting just to try on wedding dresses while I could get my mom, sister, and best friend all in one … Read more

04/27/16 6:45PM
What's with Beyoncé's Album?
holyguacamole79
04/27/16 8:10PM

Apparently I live under a rock.   What's the big deal? Read more

04/27/16 8:10PM
Teenage ring bearer?
PaperTigersx
04/25/16 1:37PM

my FI and I do not have any younger relatives or family members. We are having a small wedding with no bridal party or groomsmen. We still w… Read more

04/25/16 1:37PM
My mom doesn't want to help (Rant)
Knottie1451173642
04/25/16 9:09PM

Let me preface this really fast with the fact that my parents are disabled, they've been that way my whole life, and though I can accept thi… Read more

04/25/16 9:09PM
Help me find shoes - Updated with more photos
WinstonsGirl
04/26/16 4:21AM

Ok, so I know most of you are sleeping, but if I leave this later, I'll forget.  I have a semi-formal banquet thing this weekend that I was… Read more

04/26/16 4:21AM
Officiant trouble
Knottie84221682
04/26/16 1:20PM

  So FH and I had agreed to use the same guy who did his mom's wedding. This was before we had ever met so I don't know the man. But it was… Read more

04/26/16 1:20PM
Wednesday!
mrs.conn23
04/27/16 1:32PM

I'm watching a trainwreck on FB and am sipping on coffee.   So many questions, but it's best to just watch it unfold.  Other than that, S… Read more

04/27/16 1:32PM
Friend didnt invite me to ladies night
Knottie1461111618
05/1/16 5:04PM

I am so upset, this girl from my church who I thought was my friend had a ladies night get together and posted pictures on FB, and when I as… Read more

05/1/16 5:04PM
Honorary Bridesmaid
MRSGALKA
04/27/16 3:40PM

I invited a very close cousin to be one of my bridesmaids. To my surprise, she declined with the response that she would be almost 9 months … Read more

04/27/16 3:40PM
What is Your Present?
tigerlily6
04/29/16 8:45PM

Words of Wisdom:  I really wanted to get a scalp massage today (my sinuses are going out of control from allergies), but the salon was bo… Read more

04/29/16 8:45PM
Calling all Chicago knotties
peachy13
04/25/16 6:44PM

I'm attending a work conference in Chicago this September and am really excited because I've never been. DH is buying a ticket on my flights… Read more

04/25/16 6:44PM
Tuesday
*Barbie*
04/26/16 12:57PM

I have a bunch of (telecon) meetings today so Boss was on board with WFH. He is awesome.  I hit my 10th anniversary at my company on Sunda… Read more

04/26/16 12:57PM
Order of Toasts
anidorikiladra
04/25/16 5:08PM

Hi everyone, I need some help deciding the order of the toasts. We are going to do them during dinner, once every table has been through the… Read more

04/25/16 5:08PM
Catholic Ceremony Helpers?
Knottie35128127
04/27/16 2:40PM

I'm having Roman Catholic service, not mass since my FI is not baptized. I know I will have a reader for the first and second reading as wel… Read more

04/27/16 2:40PM
How to handle no-show/runaway bride or groom …
MaggieThatcher
04/28/16 5:58PM

I will be the maid of honor for a friend's wedding in a couple months, and I'm concerned that either the bride- or groom-to-be might back ou… Read more

04/28/16 5:58PM
What Are You Watching?
glasgowtolondon
04/29/16 8:57AM

We have a glorious 3 day weekend upon us but it's forecast to be a little bit miserable (last night was hailstones, ugh). Work has been pret… Read more

04/29/16 8:57AM
FRIDAY!
mrs.conn23
04/29/16 1:29PM

Looks like we made it!   I have to work this weekend.  Blerg.  I totally rearranged my kid's dentist appts so that I didn't have to take… Read more

04/29/16 1:29PM
Just another manic Monday...
Heffalump
04/25/16 12:47PM

Happy Monday, WW.  What's cookin'? This weekend was all the feels at my house.  And ridiculously productive.  Got a ton of spring cleani… Read more

04/25/16 12:47PM
Hurt that friends who aren't bridesmaids aren…
MorgantePigg2016
04/28/16 1:19PM

How do you deal with this drama? Read more

04/28/16 1:19PM
Registry Etiquette
justsuzie
04/29/16 1:41AM

My work friends are throwing me a shower at my job.  I am 36 years old and have been living with my fiance for four years.  We do not need… Read more

04/29/16 1:41AM
Something of a...personal issue...
PictureMe
04/25/16 2:55PM

Hey everyone! I'm new to this site so I apologize if this isn't exactly the right place to post this.  So I've been married for about 3 ye… Read more

04/25/16 2:55PM
Snappy casual?
msuprincess04
04/27/16 5:14PM

So, DH and I were just invited to a wedding where the attire is listed as "snappy casual". In the words of my husband, "what the hell does t… Read more

04/27/16 5:14PM
Completely lost between marriage license and …
van7315
04/28/16 6:31AM

My fiancé and I are planning on getting married in Finland. We want to make it super simple, no frills, just family and a simple dinner. Is… Read more

04/28/16 6:31AM
Bridal shower at the bride's house?
drglitter
04/29/16 3:45PM

My sisters offered to host a bridal shower for me. I was talking to one of them yesterday, and she said they were having difficulty finding … Read more

04/29/16 3:45PM
No Guest Book
ScottishSarah
04/25/16 11:45PM

Hey lovely ladies. Last week I ran a wedding where the bride bought a lovely silver plated Vera Wang guest book with a space for a photogra… Read more

04/25/16 11:45PM
A cabin on the lake . . . with friends?
tigerlily6
04/29/16 1:56AM

Hi all, FI just floated me this idea, and I told him I need time to think about it and just kind of needed a place to get some reactions fr… Read more

04/29/16 1:56AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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