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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Enough With the Photos ...
ernursej
07/17/17 3:03AM

So ... small rant here. Went to a wedding yesterday and throughout the whole ceremony, the couple in front of us were completely absorbed … Read more

07/17/17 3:03AM
Wedding Dress Disaster...my brand new dress i…
Knottie1467763794
07/19/17 12:28AM
07/19/17 12:28AM
Need to get something off my chest
lyndausvi
07/17/17 5:23PM

As some of you know, 3 years ago my husband and I were involved in rafting accident.     My husband and another man were ejected from the … Read more

07/17/17 5:23PM
Friday
6fsn
07/14/17 2:57PM

What's up for the weekend? We're going to a visitation for SIL's dad today.  I probably pissed her off today.  SHe keeps sending/posting t… Read more

07/14/17 2:57PM
Anonymous inappropriateness
mrsconn23
07/20/17 2:20PM

Dear Prudence, I have a friend who loves to tell work stories. This would not be a problem if she were an actress or website developer, b… Read more

07/20/17 2:20PM
Family Wedding Rant
JediElizabeth
07/19/17 1:15AM

Can I just rant for a minute here, please? A family member of mine just got engaged. He's one of my favorite people, and he and his FI have… Read more

07/19/17 1:15AM
Wedding Vs. No Wedding
piscinadelamuerta
07/16/17 11:31AM

Here's the thing, I'm getting married in September and I am so excited for it because it's everything I want to have. It's quirky and I've m… Read more

07/16/17 11:31AM
Groom and Groomsmen tux
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/19/17 6:24PM

Hello, Need an opinion on the tux colors I have picked out and friends/family are split on if they like it or not.   Sorry the pictures… Read more

07/19/17 6:24PM
I love my mom but...
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/20/17 11:03AM

Hey knotties!! 1st off I apologize for any odd autocorrects. Doing this during break on my phone.  Without going into too much back story t… Read more

07/20/17 11:03AM
Did I do the right thing by turning down a sh…
knottie551895dae414b072
07/18/17 7:52AM

This has probably been discussed a bunch of times, but I'm feeling super guilty and just need some people to hear me out. Bear with me. I a… Read more

07/18/17 7:52AM
Bridemaid/Sister in Law out of state
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/19/17 6:55PM

So one of my bridesmaid is my future sister in law who lives half way across the country in another state. I've only met her in person a han… Read more

07/19/17 6:55PM
Reception Outfit Changes/Negotiating Tips
Knottie75624729
07/20/17 4:24AM

Hi everyone! I have a two part question. They're a bit long, so to sum it up: 1. Outfit change locations during reception? 2. How to negoti… Read more

07/20/17 4:24AM
Wedding party size issue?
keriann23
07/18/17 9:23PM

i had my 3 girls ready to be asked to be part of our special day. First my maid of honor agreed before she even hear do the question, next m… Read more

07/18/17 9:23PM
Mother of the Bride/Groom Wristlets
Knottie455dfde9f9e8f107
07/15/17 8:37PM

So opinions! Im trying to figure out the mothers wristlets for our wedding. Do we get the wristlets in our wedding colors, or do we match th… Read more

07/15/17 8:37PM
You didn't rent the entire arboretum for "you…
Mircakes
07/17/17 8:27PM

I just have to rant about an experience I had this past weekend with a very entitled bride and her family.  My FH, his family, and I all w… Read more

07/17/17 8:27PM
Asking for parents help for wedding in our 30…
knottied8057fde89686788
07/18/17 6:27PM

My fiancé and are I are both in our early 30s and plan on paying for the wedding mostly ourselves. Is there a certain age where it becomes … Read more

07/18/17 6:27PM
Ask to meet for coffee? Via text, of course.
mrsconn23
07/20/17 2:16PM

Dear Prudence, I'm in my mid-20s and consistently annoyed by the way many people my age approach conflict. Over the past few years, I’v… Read more

07/20/17 2:16PM
Uneven Guest List Dilemma
smirgalicious
07/18/17 1:47PM

Hey everyone!  My FI and I are trying to plan a fairly small and casual wedding/reception. Originally, we were only inviting immediate fami… Read more

07/18/17 1:47PM
Rehearsal Dinner Advice Needed for a Budget B…
Knottie8d485e2de186b4bd
07/18/17 5:44PM

My fiance and I come from very low budget families and I grew up knowing that the tradition of the bride's family paying for the wedding wou… Read more

07/18/17 5:44PM
2nd wedding family being weird?
keriann23
07/18/17 9:35PM

i got engaged 1 month ago. My parents support it as my fiancée asked my dad for his approval. This is my 2nd marriage and his first. We are… Read more

07/18/17 9:35PM
They FIXED The Knot!
CMGragain
07/20/17 1:10AM

It has now been three days since I have had to sign in more than once!  We have been moaning and complaining for over a year.  The Knot Go… Read more

07/20/17 1:10AM
Alfred Angelo is Out of Business
OliveOilsMom
07/14/17 1:47PM

Alfred Angelo is out of business and supposedly filing for bankruptcy.  If your dresses are in, make every effort to get them from the stor… Read more

07/14/17 1:47PM
Why, WHY is this a thing?
MCmeow
07/18/17 6:21PM

Dollar selfies. For when you need more ideas on how to beg for money. I just had to post it here after seeing it on facebook: http://offbeat… Read more

07/18/17 6:21PM
Should groom's father, who is Best Man, sit a…
Knottie10724897
07/18/17 8:19PM

We have a rather large wedding party but are able to have significant others of our wedding party be seated at the head table, luckily. My f… Read more

07/18/17 8:19PM
Bachelorette Party Attire
christi.mayo
07/17/17 6:26PM

Wow! It's been so long since I posted on here. Happily married for 4 years in September! Wanted to post since I can always count on you all… Read more

07/17/17 6:26PM
We Got Wee Baby Chickens!!
kwiksilver
07/16/17 12:18PM

H and I recently moved onto an acreage, and the first "farm animals" we got are these adorable fluffs!!  I had to share. Because how could … Read more

07/16/17 12:18PM
30+ years?
mrsconn23
07/20/17 2:20PM

Dear Prudence, I've been with my partner/husband for 32 years, and we finally got married in 2013 after it became legally possible for us… Read more

07/20/17 2:20PM
How do I nicely explain to my coworkers that …
knottie3e39dd440dba867d
07/16/17 4:33AM

One of my coworkers mentioned the other day that there was a girl who worked there in the past who didn't invite anyone from the workplace b… Read more

07/16/17 4:33AM
Fiance's Brother/Groomsman Try to Break Our E…
Knottie1473729626
07/18/17 2:57AM

Fiance's brother was a groomsman. They aren't close. When we visit, he doesn't make a point to see us. In the 6 years we've been together, … Read more

07/18/17 2:57AM
"Being a bridesmaid is a job and you should j…
redoryx
07/19/17 3:04PM

http://www.rolereboot.org/sex-and-relationships/details/2017-07-dear-dana-best-friends-bridesmaid-making-hate I just can't with this. Read more

07/19/17 3:04PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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