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Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM
Did you keep your wedding dress
[Deleted User]
08/12/16 2:01PM

Hi,  I'm debating donating my wedding dress after the wedding, but a small part of me worries I may regret it. What did you do after you wo… Read more

08/12/16 2:01PM
Receiving Line and Photos - or Table Visits?
CaitFins
08/8/16 12:38AM

All of our portraits will be taken directly after the ceremony. How would we manage/time the receiving line around this? My parents are not … Read more

08/8/16 12:38AM
Time Management for DIY
SarahTiestheKnot
08/7/16 8:47PM

Hi everyone! I'm doing a lot of DIY stuff for my wedding, one of the biggest being my veil. I am knitting my veil, which is going to be a gi… Read more

08/7/16 8:47PM
Groom's Family & the Dress
lottie64
08/8/16 6:48PM

Good morning! New to The Knot here! I just have a quick question. I went shopping this weekend for my dress (ended up finding one too!!!), … Read more

08/8/16 6:48PM

Most Popular

"Never Speak To Me Or My Son Again" or: How I…
baconsmom
01/11/18 7:15PM

So back in October, Mr. Winters and I went down to Houston for a book event. Great event, had a nice trip and a great time, and I met my fir… Read more

01/11/18 7:15PM
Bridesmaid Drama
knottie97fef26bcd5844af
01/11/18 10:41PM

So my girls in my WP consist of my sisters as Maid of Honor and Matron of Honor, and 4 friends. The friends are all close knit, we all are i… Read more

01/11/18 10:41PM
The Monday-est of Monday
VarunaTT
01/15/18 3:05PM

Good morning. It is snowing here still and the roads are gross.  I have had 2 crappy phone calls already this morning and I'm done with peo… Read more

01/15/18 3:05PM
Lackluster Short Wedding Reception For A DW D…
knottiea216f9e2282c6d6a
01/14/18 7:12PM

We're having a DW in Las Vegas with a guest count of 18 people not including us. Our ceremony would be at 11:30AM and we will be having a 2-… Read more

01/14/18 7:12PM
I can't tell if I'm being a bitch...
ellamber
01/13/18 12:38AM

Okay. My fbil is getting married 6 wks after my FH and I. They asked us if it was okay, and we said yes, why would we care? Because we don't… Read more

01/13/18 12:38AM
I'd probably never invite her again.
mrsconn23
01/11/18 4:30PM

Dear Prudence, The other night I had some of my neighbors over for a glass of wine. One guest let me know she’d be bringing her toddler. S… Read more

01/11/18 4:30PM
Cancel and elope? Help!
knottie9d978e496df7885c
01/11/18 10:55PM

My fiance and I are supposed to be getting married at the end on March. We have been together for about 7 years and have a 1 year old, so ba… Read more

01/11/18 10:55PM
FOUND DUCK
levioosa
01/10/18 11:52PM

So, someone on my NextDoor just posted this. I am dying. FOUND DUCK was the title of the thread.  Is anyone missing a duck? I have one on… Read more

01/10/18 11:52PM
Funny Invite for Reception, Ceremony is Famil…
knottiea284dff5e2d0c74e
01/10/18 6:13PM

Our wedding is being held at a lake cabin with not a lot of property. We decided to invite family only (and bridal party) to the ceremony. H… Read more

01/10/18 6:13PM
Completely NWR or NWWR - Coat problems
banana468
01/10/18 9:09PM

I want to buy a new coat and I'm stuck figuring out whether or not I want a hooded one with or without fur.  Here are my favorites.   I … Read more

01/10/18 9:09PM
Gifts
shoogaroo
01/16/18 5:56PM

I am the bride and am wondering who all I need to get a gift for besides: Mother and Father of bride Mother of Groom   Father of Groom  M… Read more

01/16/18 5:56PM
Missed part of my website on the save the dat…
shoogaroo
01/11/18 8:45PM

I'm SO UPSETTTTTTTT I accidentally missed the /us on the save the date...and I ALREADY SENT OUT MY save the date  Should I just try to ma… Read more

01/11/18 8:45PM
Spouse death on invite list
ellamber
01/10/18 9:17PM

So, a friend of mine recently lost their spouse, suddenly and unexpectedly. I had previously sent them both a save the date, and am getting … Read more

01/10/18 9:17PM
Invitation/Wedding Shower Etiquette
Knottieb268693631c25ddc
01/15/18 9:39PM

Hi everyone! Hoping for some solid advice here. I am having a DW in Ireland this summer. Our guest list is floating around 120 people curr… Read more

01/15/18 9:39PM
Can I wear this??
Knottie31267340
01/11/18 3:56PM

Hello Everyone!  I am looking for some advice.  We have been invited to a friend’s wedding that will be on May 5, Cinco de Mayo.  I hav… Read more

01/11/18 3:56PM
I can't keep working for free.
mrsconn23
01/11/18 4:25PM

Dear Prudence, I’m in my mid-20s and have been trying to find work in my chosen field. I’m hoping to go back for (more) grad school in t… Read more

01/11/18 4:25PM
XP Bridal Shower with No Registry?
walgrrl
01/16/18 9:47PM

Hi everyone.  I am the maid of honor in an upcoming wedding.  The bride has chosen not to register, as she and her fiance are already livi… Read more

01/16/18 9:47PM
Who pays for bridesmaids hair and makeup?
knottiec48d0994149c454c
01/16/18 1:20AM

I will be having a professional come do the hair and makeup at my wedding.  Read more

01/16/18 1:20AM
Card Box (lantern) pic
knottie6f05dc9f7907d7da
01/13/18 1:54AM

I've been obsessed with doing a lantern for a card box. Our reception is in a classic ballroom and our colors are silver, pewter, white and … Read more

01/13/18 1:54AM
They can't know what they don't know
mrsconn23
01/11/18 4:31PM

Dear Prudence, Two years ago I moved to a new city and was quickly welcomed into a pre-existing group of friends. Within a few months, sever… Read more

01/11/18 4:31PM
Unconventional MOH Situation
knottie2ddb4175c25e9c51
01/16/18 9:50PM

Hello! I was looking for some insight and advice here. I am getting married in a year, and I actually have two MOHs (they are twins, and I … Read more

01/16/18 9:50PM
Unusual Name Change
knottie6372dde543056fc0
01/10/18 4:56AM

Hi everyone! Soooo I'm getting married in June and I'm trying to make my decision about changing my name. Let me give you some background a… Read more

01/10/18 4:56AM
Hair & makeup for bridesmaids - who pays?…
knottiec48d0994149c454c
01/16/18 12:34AM

I hired a hair and makeup artist for my wedding and am not sure what to do. I know different people do different things but what tends to be… Read more

01/16/18 12:34AM
Plain vs lace detail veil?
knottiec48d0994149c454c
01/16/18 12:16AM

I purchased a cathedral length veil with no details/design on it. The dress is lace. What are your thoughts on that, does that tend to loo… Read more

01/16/18 12:16AM
Can you help me find this dress?
knottiecd80f266d193eaa5
01/10/18 6:55AM

Hi ladies!  I’m acting as the wedding planner for a friend. She found this dress on Pinterest and absolutely loves it, but we are having … Read more

01/10/18 6:55AM
Oh LW, this guy is the worst.
mrsconn23
01/11/18 4:29PM

Dear Prudence, I have been friends with a law school classmate since the beginning of the fall. I have Asperger’s and I am deaf, so it can… Read more

01/11/18 4:29PM
Ceremony , vows, I do's, etc
shoogaroo
01/15/18 6:02PM

Hello! I am working with my officiant to prepare our ceremony script and really struggling.  She has been so helpful and I have tweaked it … Read more

01/15/18 6:02PM
Academia is a racket
mrsconn23
01/11/18 4:36PM

Dear Prudence, I am an adjunct assistant professor at a four-year public university. Due to funding cuts, we have not had any tenure-track j… Read more

01/11/18 4:36PM
Etsy and accessories
fahlalalala
01/11/18 5:45PM

Just wondering how much faith to put into buying a veil off etsy. They are actually reasonably priced and have good reivews, but I'm not qui… Read more

01/11/18 5:45PM
Bachelorette Party invite longer than bridal …
augustgirl21
01/15/18 9:52PM

Hello,  So my MOH is throwing me a bachelorette party as well as a bridal shower and needs the names/addresses for them.  I'm going over … Read more

01/15/18 9:52PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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