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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Friday!
Heffalump
07/21/17 12:17PM

I'm back.  What have I missed here, WW?  How's things? We had a great trip.  My brother is married.  He's in the Seychelles now with hi… Read more

07/21/17 12:17PM
Baby Mama Drama
knottie84ef0ab05792eedd
07/24/17 10:32PM

Major issue... So my husband and I got married in a semi-secret ceremony for personal/legal purposes... His daughter was our flower girl … Read more

07/24/17 10:32PM
Anonymous inappropriateness
mrsconn23
07/20/17 2:20PM

Dear Prudence, I have a friend who loves to tell work stories. This would not be a problem if she were an actress or website developer, b… Read more

07/20/17 2:20PM
Wedding Dress Disaster...my brand new dress i…
Knottie1467763794
07/19/17 12:28AM
07/19/17 12:28AM
Family Wedding Rant
JediElizabeth
07/19/17 1:15AM

Can I just rant for a minute here, please? A family member of mine just got engaged. He's one of my favorite people, and he and his FI have… Read more

07/19/17 1:15AM
The "no thank you card" trend
marigold40
07/23/17 6:36PM

Thoughts on the article below? Out of the last 6 weddings I've attended, I have only received 1 thank you card. All of the gifts I gave were… Read more

07/23/17 6:36PM
Reception Outfit Changes/Negotiating Tips
Knottie75624729
07/20/17 4:24AM

Hi everyone! I have a two part question. They're a bit long, so to sum it up: 1. Outfit change locations during reception? 2. How to negoti… Read more

07/20/17 4:24AM
"Being a bridesmaid is a job and you should j…
redoryx
07/19/17 3:04PM

http://www.rolereboot.org/sex-and-relationships/details/2017-07-dear-dana-best-friends-bridesmaid-making-hate I just can't with this. Read more

07/19/17 3:04PM
I love my mom but...
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/20/17 11:03AM

Hey knotties!! 1st off I apologize for any odd autocorrects. Doing this during break on my phone.  Without going into too much back story t… Read more

07/20/17 11:03AM
Groom and Groomsmen tux
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/19/17 6:24PM

Hello, Need an opinion on the tux colors I have picked out and friends/family are split on if they like it or not.   Sorry the pictures… Read more

07/19/17 6:24PM
Ask to meet for coffee? Via text, of course.
mrsconn23
07/20/17 2:16PM

Dear Prudence, I'm in my mid-20s and consistently annoyed by the way many people my age approach conflict. Over the past few years, I’v… Read more

07/20/17 2:16PM
I no longer like my dress
Australian_girl_in_Paris
07/22/17 8:39AM

So I went and had my first fitting for my dress yesterday after the dress arriving a month and a half late. I think it's so boring. Don't kn… Read more

07/22/17 8:39AM
Did I do the right thing by turning down a sh…
knottie551895dae414b072
07/18/17 7:52AM

This has probably been discussed a bunch of times, but I'm feeling super guilty and just need some people to hear me out. Bear with me. I a… Read more

07/18/17 7:52AM
Rehearsal Dinner Advice Needed for a Budget B…
Knottie8d485e2de186b4bd
07/18/17 5:44PM

My fiance and I come from very low budget families and I grew up knowing that the tradition of the bride's family paying for the wedding wou… Read more

07/18/17 5:44PM
Bridemaid/Sister in Law out of state
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/19/17 6:55PM

So one of my bridesmaid is my future sister in law who lives half way across the country in another state. I've only met her in person a han… Read more

07/19/17 6:55PM
False eyelashes yes or no?
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/20/17 9:05PM

I was never a fan of false eyelashes in general because I always thought they looked obviously fake and over done. But at 2 of my friends … Read more

07/20/17 9:05PM
Wedding party size issue?
keriann23
07/18/17 9:23PM

i had my 3 girls ready to be asked to be part of our special day. First my maid of honor agreed before she even hear do the question, next m… Read more

07/18/17 9:23PM
2nd wedding family being weird?
keriann23
07/18/17 9:35PM

i got engaged 1 month ago. My parents support it as my fiancée asked my dad for his approval. This is my 2nd marriage and his first. We are… Read more

07/18/17 9:35PM
No, I don't need a damn wedding planner!
divarhd
07/21/17 3:42AM

I freaking need my FI to not wait two months and 50 reminders to get me addresses for his family, friends and coworkers on the invite list s… Read more

07/21/17 3:42AM
Complicated Inlaws
JamieLynn98
07/19/17 3:25PM

My fiance comes from a VERY complicated family. His mom and dad were never married and split up 20+ years ago. His mom was married to anothe… Read more

07/19/17 3:25PM
Honoring past love ones
Knottiedb01ad207c236d23
07/20/17 9:25PM

I was really close with my grandparents on my dad's side before they passed away and I want to honor them at my wedding (along with my fianc… Read more

07/20/17 9:25PM
Bridezilla wants to be my MOH
knottie67d5e7df78719cd2
07/23/17 6:06PM

Hey Everyone! A few years ago I was MOH for my college roommate and it was not the best of times. I had raised some concerns about her futur… Read more

07/23/17 6:06PM
Asking for parents help for wedding in our 30…
knottied8057fde89686788
07/18/17 6:27PM

My fiancé and are I are both in our early 30s and plan on paying for the wedding mostly ourselves. Is there a certain age where it becomes … Read more

07/18/17 6:27PM
Uneven Guest List Dilemma
smirgalicious
07/18/17 1:47PM

Hey everyone!  My FI and I are trying to plan a fairly small and casual wedding/reception. Originally, we were only inviting immediate fami… Read more

07/18/17 1:47PM
They FIXED The Knot!
CMGragain
07/20/17 1:10AM

It has now been three days since I have had to sign in more than once!  We have been moaning and complaining for over a year.  The Knot Go… Read more

07/20/17 1:10AM
Maid of Honor Woes (Long)
knottie3fee8d8d37b65cab
07/23/17 11:25PM

Hi everyone, I need some advice on how to approach this situation. I'm getting married late next summer so I'm still early in the planning.… Read more

07/23/17 11:25PM
Why, WHY is this a thing?
MCmeow
07/18/17 6:21PM

Dollar selfies. For when you need more ideas on how to beg for money. I just had to post it here after seeing it on facebook: http://offbeat… Read more

07/18/17 6:21PM
Should groom's father, who is Best Man, sit a…
Knottie10724897
07/18/17 8:19PM

We have a rather large wedding party but are able to have significant others of our wedding party be seated at the head table, luckily. My f… Read more

07/18/17 8:19PM
If the state accepts an online ordination for…
knottie551895dae414b072
07/22/17 5:23PM

My wedding is just a few months away, and we've decided to have my mother officiate. She got ordained online through Universal Life Church. … Read more

07/22/17 5:23PM
30+ years?
mrsconn23
07/20/17 2:20PM

Dear Prudence, I've been with my partner/husband for 32 years, and we finally got married in 2013 after it became legally possible for us… Read more

07/20/17 2:20PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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