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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Pregnancy and Two Weddings
JBee85
06/26/17 8:00PM

Hello! I need some help with phrasing and potentially avoiding family conflict. The bride is my sister.  She got engaged and found the ri… Read more

06/26/17 8:00PM
Tuesday
mrsconn23
06/20/17 2:01PM

What's up people? I have wood painting tonight at my sister's.  I'm taking DefConn and he's going to have a sleepover with my nephew.  My… Read more

06/20/17 2:01PM
Why are people so f'in flakey?
scribe95
06/20/17 8:40PM

Sorry but there have been an abundance of issues lately in my life where people either don't respond to invites at all or say they are comin… Read more

06/20/17 8:40PM
Paper plates for dessert - tacky?
Kimora_Blax
06/25/17 4:18PM

I know this isn't strictly etiquette, but would love honest opinions. I'm having real china for the wedding lunch, but thought it would be a… Read more

06/25/17 4:18PM
Another BM post, I know...
MrsSolberg
06/20/17 1:54PM

Long time lurker, first time poster. I come to you guys on my knees. I've read a lot about how you should not, under any circumstances, "fi… Read more

06/20/17 1:54PM
Am I just free accommodation?
Australian_girl_in_Paris
06/21/17 6:00PM

So I have a quite good very old friend who contacted me to say could she come and stay with us; we live in Paris so this happens a lot, on h… Read more

06/21/17 6:00PM
Vent and vibes
6fsn
06/21/17 7:22PM

MIL sent DH a text "call when you get home." around 2ish.  DH tried to call and his mom didn't answer but texted back "can't answer call b… Read more

06/21/17 7:22PM
What should I do for dinner?
KahluaKoala
06/26/17 5:51PM

I'm having a scheduling / eating conflict and I want to see what you would all would do and see if you have any ideas or advice. I work a p… Read more

06/26/17 5:51PM
Non-overnight bachelorette party
hales2010
06/26/17 1:43AM

So I have been given the task of planning the bachelorette party for a good friend of mine. I have planned one before so this usually isn't … Read more

06/26/17 1:43AM
Reception Extras?
Brittbritt717
06/22/17 4:36PM

What were your reception extras? Thinking back to weddings that I've been to and searching Pinterest - I've only really seen/noticed custom … Read more

06/22/17 4:36PM
Having 2 Maids of Honor - Promised one that I…
knottie90dc5f8897d4e235
06/25/17 4:07PM

So I'm on the fence about how many maids of honor I should have.  I absolutely definitely want my best friend to be my/one of my MoH. W… Read more

06/25/17 4:07PM
If you don't want an open relationship, you d…
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:48PM

Dear Prudence, I met a new guy online, and on the second date he told me he is bisexual. I am OK with it overall, but he wants to have a guy… Read more

06/22/17 2:48PM
Dinner ideas for a toddler
kaos16
06/26/17 6:11PM

Anyone have any good dinner ideas for a 1.5 year old?  I feel like we are in a dinner rut, and want to mix things up for him.  We always h… Read more

06/26/17 6:11PM
Is it too late for my engagement party?
knottie1b36a215ee014a2c
06/23/17 10:37PM

Hey, so we got engaged middle of May this year. The wedding is October 20, 2018. I am now trying to plan the engagement party. I found a pla… Read more

06/23/17 10:37PM
Send your regrets and silently judge this per…
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:47PM

Dear Prudence, I received a wedding-related invitation from a family member, and I’m not sure how to respond. The couple lives a few state… Read more

06/22/17 2:47PM
Tent Air Conditioning
knottie4e39b5696aa7d544
06/22/17 1:02AM

Hey there! My fiancee and are getting married in my mom's backyard in the summer. Which means we have to rent a tent. She's nagging me that … Read more

06/22/17 1:02AM
Bridal Shower Post Mortem
penguinpop
06/20/17 8:56PM

Here's the good, the weird, and the unexpected from my shower: First the good - I was very grateful that I got some stuff from my registry!… Read more

06/20/17 8:56PM
Family in Crisis
tinkerbell5679
06/20/17 2:57PM

I am getting married on 10-6-17 and my fiancé and I are having a really crummy year.  It is not crummy because of the wedding it has just … Read more

06/20/17 2:57PM
Only you can decide if it's a deal-breaker.
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:50PM

Dear Prudence, My housemate has a habit that is seriously cutting into my sleep. Whenever she uses the bathroom, she blows her nose—and it… Read more

06/22/17 2:50PM
Question for Complicated Family Situation
VarunaTT
06/23/17 2:35PM

So, when I say "mom and dad", I actually am referencing my bio maternal grandmother and grandfather, who raised me. Mom has bio daughter sh… Read more

06/23/17 2:35PM
Best man killed himself and we're at a loss.
whiterosehoneybee
06/25/17 5:50PM

My fiance's best friend and co-best man, "T", killed himself recently.  We're getting married October 28 of this year. He was also dating m… Read more

06/25/17 5:50PM
We Did The Thing
kwiksilver
06/25/17 10:40PM

Well ladies, the self-catered, remote mountain wedding has come and gone.  Overall, I have to say it actually turned out significantly bet… Read more

06/25/17 10:40PM
Wearing a white floral print dress to a weddi…
Mircakes
06/22/17 9:21PM

Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask whether it is ok to wear this white floral print dress (pictured) to a wedding. I'm going to an outdoor s… Read more

06/22/17 9:21PM
sarcasm
drid
06/25/17 1:58AM

im in a local wedding buy and sell on fb and recently made a comment re STDS and RSVP dates when it comes to e-vites..... I made a personal … Read more

06/25/17 1:58AM
How to address invitations for "ladies only" …
wakeamy1995
06/26/17 9:33PM

I'm going to be having a ladies only bridal shower, but all women/girls in the household are invited - Moms and daughters, regardless of age… Read more

06/26/17 9:33PM
beverages for at home reception
Knottiea1fa6265cd42ab2b
06/20/17 3:15PM

I am trying to estimate how much to buy for my at home, outdoor July reception.  It is a very casual affair with cook-out style catered mea… Read more

06/20/17 3:15PM
Start with social services
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:36PM

Dear Prudence, I work with a volunteer group that helps fix up houses for low-income residents. For the past several weekends we have been b… Read more

06/22/17 2:36PM
Venue Closed so RE Doing everything
knottieafc578b999766e15
06/26/17 7:14PM

Here we go-stressing bride: Venue-CANCELLED Out and was sold so we are looking for a place to have an out door wedding in September of this … Read more

06/26/17 7:14PM
Bouquet toss and Garter Songs
marine18-2
06/27/17 1:37AM

My DJ has an option on their sheet that I need to fill out for the Bouquet toss and garter removal songs. What have you done or will do for … Read more

06/27/17 1:37AM
Someone wants to throw me a shower, but they'…
Knottie6abe5809eb0d3cfc
06/26/17 9:13PM

I'm definitely on the proper etiquette bandwagon that shower guests = wedding guests. I've had a couple lovely women from a community group… Read more

06/26/17 9:13PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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