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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Tatata Tuesday
kimmiinthemitten
09/19/17 2:28PM

I feel like I've been MIA for so long....hope everyone is good! Thursday I had a golf outing, Friday I snuck out of work early for a cowork… Read more

09/19/17 2:28PM
::red rage:: Keep your hands to your effing s…
mrsconn23
09/14/17 2:42PM

Dear Prudence, How do I discourage strangers from touching me? I’m a wheelchair user, and strangers often seem to feel like they have t… Read more

09/14/17 2:42PM
Naming Kids After Dead People?
kwiksilver
09/20/17 12:33AM

I mean maybe if it was like a grandparent or something?  I can't believe there were 2 of these in one day: Read more

09/20/17 12:33AM
Monday??
6fsn
09/18/17 2:39PM

Is everyone sleeping in?  How was the weekend? Ours was busy but good: soccer, groceries, cleaning.  6let turns NINE today.  My parents t… Read more

09/18/17 2:39PM
Grooming your GFs daughter? Go take a long w…
OliveOilsMom
09/14/17 3:39PM

Dear Amy: My girlfriend “Wendy” and I have been living together for seven years. She has a daughter, “Ariel,” 18, who recently gradu… Read more

09/14/17 3:39PM
engagement anniversary
Knottie1463668988
09/15/17 2:21PM

My fiance and I have been engaged a year - we were supposed to get married next month but postponed the wedding in May for a number of reaso… Read more

09/15/17 2:21PM
How to ask MoH to step down :(
knottiead20bfc5b1fb5867
09/14/17 5:42AM

I won't bore you with the entire story but I'll try to lay out the basics. My bridal shower was 2 weeks ago and was supposed to be hosted by… Read more

09/14/17 5:42AM
Heavy Appetizer Quantity Question
Karifaith
09/18/17 8:20PM

My wedding is in a few weeks (less than 3) and we were wondering how many people should we tell the caterer since we think we will have too … Read more

09/18/17 8:20PM
Wedding garter toss?
fmrsbnk
09/15/17 2:14AM

I hope this is the right board. I was going to post in "accessories" but after reading some of those posts, etiquette seemed like a more app… Read more

09/15/17 2:14AM
Can we ban the phrase, "I don't want to get h…
mrsconn23
09/14/17 2:43PM

Dear Prudence, We just moved into a new building that has three doormen. Two are wonderful, and the third has never once opened the door … Read more

09/14/17 2:43PM
Move up ceremony for sick grandma?
augustgirl21
09/18/17 7:51PM

My fiancé's grandma hasn't been doing well for a while but she's been trying to make it to the wedding. Last week she took a turn and only … Read more

09/18/17 7:51PM
Don't go, don't send a gift, and it certainly…
mrsconn23
09/14/17 2:44PM

Dear Prudence, My stepsister is very close with her father but strongly dislikes my mother (now his wife) and me for “replacing” her … Read more

09/14/17 2:44PM
Excluded from the Bachelorette Party??
sbjanuary
09/17/17 11:03PM

I am currently the maid of honor for my cousin's upcoming wedding. She also has two matrons of honor, as well as 3 bridesmaids. Being the cl… Read more

09/17/17 11:03PM
Is this too strange?
nmvaladanzouj
09/20/17 3:17PM

My father and I have little to no relationship. He does not approve of my life choices, as he is Muslim, and I am not. Even so, I still plan… Read more

09/20/17 3:17PM
elopement/personal loan/thoughts & creati…
Knottie1463668988
09/15/17 2:08PM

Hi All,  My fiance and have been engaged a year this month. We initially planned our wedding for Oct 2017 but due to a number of reasons (… Read more

09/15/17 2:08PM
Tell your boss and stop worrying about what h…
mrsconn23
09/14/17 2:40PM

Dear Prudence, I am a thirtysomething, single woman who has worked in the same small company for years. During this time a few of my mal… Read more

09/14/17 2:40PM
Is it the weekend yet?
charlotte989875
09/15/17 2:09PM

Happy Friday! Hope everyone's doing well. This week has been insane and I am so, so ready for the weekend. Both H and I are exhausted so we … Read more

09/15/17 2:09PM
This bothers you, so speak up.
mrsconn23
09/14/17 2:46PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend is still friends with an ex, which is something that I have no problem with in theory. However, I have known … Read more

09/14/17 2:46PM
Overpriced Gown
tcd1011
09/16/17 2:34PM

I purchased a wedding gown from a boutique in Florida. The owner of the salon helped me and told me the dress I wanted they didn't have it i… Read more

09/16/17 2:34PM
Thank you cards for Shower gifts mailed to ho…
Knottie1473742338
09/14/17 2:49AM

I had an out of town bridal shower and rather than brining gifts to the shower, most guests sent them to my home and brought pics of the gif… Read more

09/14/17 2:49AM
Anyone tried Cloud Bread?
AmandaKess
09/19/17 5:58PM

I truly can't get enough of this stuff lately: https://www.beachbodyondemand.com/blog/cloud-bread-recipe The clean up is a pain, but SO wor… Read more

09/19/17 5:58PM
Mom forgot to write "and guest" on the invita…
Knottie091c4e29aec8d33a
09/19/17 1:06PM

Hey folks, my mom sent out all of our invitations.  The RSVP cards themselves had no spot to select "guest", just a blank line to write who… Read more

09/19/17 1:06PM
Unknown gift giver, how to thank?
estrella2017
09/19/17 12:05PM

This board was a great resource while planning my wedding, so thank you all! But now I have a question about thank you cards. We received… Read more

09/19/17 12:05PM
Nope, nope, nope.
charlotte989875
09/20/17 1:23PM

I'm not attending a wedding that comes with a 150 Euro price tag, per person.  http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-derbyshire-41317297?ocid… Read more

09/20/17 1:23PM
Previously owned wedding dress sites?
CMGragain
09/15/17 8:49PM

I just had chemo, and a lovely nurse is looking for a previously owned wedding dress to save money.  Very practical!  What are the best we… Read more

09/15/17 8:49PM
NWR: Ready for Kids?
dyerwise
09/20/17 9:30PM

My Husband and I have been together for almost 6 years, married for almost 1 year. We have traveled a bit, own a home, both have good career… Read more

09/20/17 9:30PM
Destination wedding help!
jennyswish
09/19/17 9:25PM

Hello, My fiance and I are planning on a destination wedding in New Orleans in November 2018.  Only are close family/friends will be attend… Read more

09/19/17 9:25PM
Bonus: If I say something, does that make me …
mrsconn23
09/15/17 7:10PM

Jane, While I mainly use Facebook for outside-of-work activities, I am friends with lots of professional colleagues on there. Therefore, I … Read more

09/15/17 7:10PM
You don't have to be graphic to explain yours…
mrsconn23
09/14/17 2:47PM

Dear Prudence, I am a woman who has always identified as bisexual. I’ve been pretty open with my friends about that fact, although up t… Read more

09/14/17 2:47PM
Dress Preservation for Canadian Brides
Knottie64f0019a51874851
09/14/17 5:53PM

I originally posted this in the Canada board but am noticing that it's preeetty dead, so hopefully no one minds if I repost here: I’m loc… Read more

09/14/17 5:53PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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