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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
Knot1
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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What do you consider a "longtime boyfriend?"
lovesclimbing
03/22/17 4:23AM

Because according to People, a "longtime" is 11 months. The Bachelor/ette are my guilty pleasures, and I just saw that a former contestant, … Read more

03/22/17 4:23AM
Speech for groom's friends?
Knottie1ee10c9950bee84e
03/20/17 10:39PM

My future mother-in-law informed me that as a "surprise" to my fiance, her and my future father-in-law were planning a speech for our recept… Read more

03/20/17 10:39PM
Advice on final bridesmaids
cbs246
03/21/17 3:06AM

Hi everyone! I'm new here so forgive me if this sounds like a question that is always asked. I've done a lot of research/reading for weeks a… Read more

03/21/17 3:06AM
NWR - Multiple Showers
YourDogDontKnowSit
03/20/17 9:01PM

So NWR, but you guys give the best etiquette advice of any of the forums I belong to.  I'm pregnant and my shower is this coming weekend. … Read more

03/20/17 9:01PM
wedding dress sent to goodwill by accident
CharmedPam
03/23/17 5:56PM

This is sad.  I feel bad for her.  My dress has no sentimental value, and I am hoping to put it up for sale soon, but I can TOTALLY see ho… Read more

03/23/17 5:56PM
Part Time Event Planning? Opinions wanted, pl…
k&n62517
03/21/17 12:48AM

I don't know if this is the place for this, but anyway, here it is.  I am a teacher and I've always wanted to be a teacher aside from a sh… Read more

03/21/17 12:48AM
Pre-Mixed Cocktail: Yay or Nay?
kwiksilver-2
03/22/17 3:38AM

We are doing wine on the tables and then a selection of beer, for our small casual wedding. We have servers minding all the food and drink, … Read more

03/22/17 3:38AM
Is basicly engaged a thing?(also there's my f…
Knottie1469859163
03/23/17 1:33PM

So my guy and I have been together for over 5 years, last Sept he asked my grandpa for my hand. Never proposed. A few weeks ago during a par… Read more

03/23/17 1:33PM
Margni
03/20/17 12:38PM

Some context first: Second wedding for me, first for him. Between us we, have 4 kids. We're thinking September, out of town. I've planned … Read more

03/20/17 12:38PM
where does that number even come from?
Knottie1469859163
03/23/17 12:56PM

So all the advice sites are like "Step 1: Figure out your budget." Then break down the averages of where you should expect that money to go,… Read more

03/23/17 12:56PM
Changed mind on kids at our wedding
Knottiee9dcdb050ae70247
03/25/17 4:21AM

I have already sent out invites to everyone for our wedding in two months time. I addressed the envelopes to just the adults so it was clear… Read more

03/25/17 4:21AM
damnit dog. We've had to start crating her w…
GBCK
03/20/17 7:15PM

which is a whole ball of problems.  Because of her knees, she doesn't seem able to lay comfortably in her crate [so overnight = babygate in… Read more

03/20/17 7:15PM
*gag*
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:25PM

Dear Prudence, Recently I visited a good friend of mine. As soon as I walked in the door, I was hit with the smell of ammonia from cat urine… Read more

03/23/17 2:25PM
Today's 4 men...
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:33PM

Dear Prudence, I started seeing someone a couple of months ago. Things moved really quickly, and within three weeks he was calling me his gi… Read more

03/23/17 2:33PM
Dress nightmare - B.C. Canada
Carlygems
03/24/17 1:10AM

Just want to share my dress horror story with you all in hopes that the ladies out there looking for dresses can avoid what happened to me. … Read more

03/24/17 1:10AM
Where to get Dressed??
Knottie1435718499
03/25/17 11:57PM

My Fiance and I are flying down to Florida for our wedding. We have a hotel room (where I will do my hair and makeup) and will be getting ou… Read more

03/25/17 11:57PM
What's the easiest way to give dear ol' aunti…
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:24PM

Dear Prudence, Aunt “Winifred” came to live with my mother (her sister) and my father under a false pretense. She pleaded poverty and fa… Read more

03/23/17 2:24PM
MOH Zilla
Vshan06
03/19/17 11:02PM

I have had so many issues with my MOH that my fiancé no longer wants her in the wedding.  1. She says I spend too much time with my fianc… Read more

03/19/17 11:02PM
Adut Reception-Just a Vent
Iamnowmrsjms
03/24/17 5:36PM

As a longtime lurker, I know that it is inappropriate to put "adult reception," or "no children," on a wedding invitation.  H and I had a k… Read more

03/24/17 5:36PM
Save the dates diy?
beachwedding2017
03/20/17 6:14PM

I stumbled across this save the date and I love love love it!! I haven't seen this style customizable on any website that offers std. Anyone… Read more

03/20/17 6:14PM
Wedding Toasts
Knottie1448131004
03/25/17 2:00AM

Currently in a bit of a conflict. My father isn't much of a public speaker and neither is the best man. My father will make a speech, but ve… Read more

03/25/17 2:00AM
Woman wears wedding dress every year for anni…
Knottie737c32aade6d0ff7
03/26/17 4:15AM

http://www.today.com/style/why-bride-wears-her-wedding-dress-every-year-says-you-t102368 Thoughts? Read more

03/26/17 4:15AM
What could possibly go wrong?
OurWildKingdom
03/21/17 3:13AM
03/21/17 3:13AM
Ceremony Programs
greeninspring
03/23/17 1:51PM

I am working on making my programs and I have a few questions and thought I'd have y'all check my wording to make sure everything sounds oka… Read more

03/23/17 1:51PM
My neighbors, the smokey smokersons.
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:31PM

Dear Prudence, A couple of months ago, a family I was slightly acquainted with moved across the street. They adore our children and often in… Read more

03/23/17 2:31PM
Current Projects
kwiksilver-2
03/20/17 10:16PM

Just wanted to share a couple of the things I have been working on First, even though we are having a daytime wedding, I wanted to have s… Read more

03/20/17 10:16PM
Neck/Chest Blotches
katieweimer
03/20/17 10:25PM

I am getting married in September and I have this fantastic habit - thanks genes! - of breaking out in red blotches on my neck and chest whe… Read more

03/20/17 10:25PM
Rehearsal Declines?
k&n62517
03/25/17 12:19AM

This hasn't happened YET but we ended up with a somewhat large wedding party (1 BM and 1 MOH, with 5 GM and 5 BMs) which I think will increa… Read more

03/25/17 12:19AM
photo book vs photo album?
CharmedPam
03/23/17 2:13PM

I've never done a photo book or album before, so I need some recommendations.  first of all, is paying for the higher cost of a photo album… Read more

03/23/17 2:13PM
Trying to time my reveal
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:27PM

Dear Prudence, I am transgender and not yet out to my family. My grandmother died at 88 about a month and a half ago. I’d promised myself … Read more

03/23/17 2:27PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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