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Did you keep your wedding dress
WineAndLipgloss
08/12/16 2:01PM

Hi,  I'm debating donating my wedding dress after the wedding, but a small part of me worries I may regret it. What did you do after you wo… Read more

08/12/16 2:01PM
Receiving Line and Photos - or Table Visits?
CaitFins
08/8/16 12:38AM

All of our portraits will be taken directly after the ceremony. How would we manage/time the receiving line around this? My parents are not … Read more

08/8/16 12:38AM
Photographer Shotlist
GoingGoshko
08/4/16 2:44PM

Hi Ladies, Our photographer asked me to specifically list out what shots were a must, as well as others we wanted to include. Since we have… Read more

08/4/16 2:44PM
Place cards
ksulaski
08/10/16 11:51PM

Silly question here but having a discussion with FI and need opinions! We are getting married in two weeks. We are having our place cards p… Read more

08/10/16 11:51PM
Time Management for DIY
SarahTiestheKnot
08/7/16 8:47PM

Hi everyone! I'm doing a lot of DIY stuff for my wedding, one of the biggest being my veil. I am knitting my veil, which is going to be a gi… Read more

08/7/16 8:47PM
Groom's Family & the Dress
lottie64
08/8/16 6:48PM

Good morning! New to The Knot here! I just have a quick question. I went shopping this weekend for my dress (ended up finding one too!!!), … Read more

08/8/16 6:48PM

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Knottie1430153505
09/17/16 11:48PM
09/17/16 11:48PM
MONDAY!
mrsconn23
09/19/16 12:51PM

How was the weekend? Friday: The day was OK.  DefConn did all right, but was still up and down.  I went out to dinner with my sisters and… Read more

09/19/16 12:51PM
No Cake for Me?
Knottie1473800542
09/21/16 10:32PM

I am having a small, private wedding with just parents and grands in attendance. FMIL is taking it super hard and acting as if I am doing th… Read more

09/21/16 10:32PM
Is it rude?
DrillSergeantCat
09/20/16 2:11PM

When I sent my invitations 6 weeks ago, I sent one to my friend, his wife, and her daughter. He was deployed at the time and as soon as he g… Read more

09/20/16 2:11PM
This is a sticky wicket
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:51PM

Dear Prudence, Almost two months ago I got pregnant. My husband and I were absolutely thrilled to be having a baby. Shortly thereafter, I le… Read more

09/22/16 1:51PM
What day is it?
labro
09/21/16 1:24PM

Are we done yet??? I'm done. SO. DONE. I can't tell if it's allergies now or if I'm actually getting a cold. I didn't sleep well at all las… Read more

09/21/16 1:24PM
Folks with family in 2+ states - how did you …
ginnybinny17
09/21/16 3:19PM

Like many (most?) people, my SO and I come from two different states.  He has a huge family in New England, I have a huge family in the Mid… Read more

09/21/16 3:19PM
Heffalump
09/21/16 12:24PM

Crossing all crossables for an easy day.  Errands at lunch, swim after work, then home, dinner, baths, and everyone off to bed.  We are pr… Read more

09/21/16 12:24PM
12 days out- Check my Timeline, please?
dyerwise
09/19/16 5:36PM

Ok, 12 days out from our wedding. FREAKING OUT. Our ceremony and reception are taking place in the same location. Cocktail hour is just st… Read more

09/19/16 5:36PM
Bride wants every picture, guess what happens
InLoveInQueens
09/23/16 12:47PM

There is currently a post on reddit (not weddit for once, surprisingly) about a bride who had multiple signs and made multiple announcements… Read more

09/23/16 12:47PM
Monday Monday
labro
09/19/16 2:58PM

Blah how is it here already? I woke up this morning with a sore throat...which means ragweed season is definitely here. This weekend I jus… Read more

09/19/16 2:58PM
Tuesday!
mrsconn23
09/20/16 12:43PM

It's picture day!  DefConn looks so darn cute.  I may post a pic briefly.   Picture packages are a racket.  I don't want an 8x10 and I'… Read more

09/20/16 12:43PM
Budget planning/asking about money?
ginnybinny17
09/19/16 5:09PM

Hey folks -- just got engaged (yes!) and my fiancé and I are looking at venues.  We have an idea of what our budget will be if it's just t… Read more

09/19/16 5:09PM
FRIDAY!!!
mrsconn23
09/23/16 2:01PM

What's up people?!  What are you doing this weekend? For moi... Tonight:  Dinner with a friend Tomorrow: My first ever bikini wax (eee!… Read more

09/23/16 2:01PM
When to cut the cake..
MeetTheLaras
09/19/16 7:55PM

So, I wanted to get the cake cutting done pretty early in the reception. Especially because I know I'm going to be dancing and probably gett… Read more

09/19/16 7:55PM
Overthinkers gotta overthink
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:56PM

Dear Prudence, I started seeing a man three months ago and things are going really well. On our second date, he mentioned he might have sin… Read more

09/22/16 1:56PM
"This is us"
CharmedPam
09/22/16 2:34PM

Just saw the pilot (they aired 2 eps, right) but it's being talked about a lot on facebook (the only reason why I knew it existed)....anyone… Read more

09/22/16 2:34PM
Postponing the wedding
OurWildKingdom
09/18/16 12:32AM

FW and I have done some talking yesterday and today and have decided to postpone the wedding, probably until spring. I already notified my b… Read more

09/18/16 12:32AM
She had one job...
GlamQueenBride
09/18/16 3:46PM

Just got off the phone with one of my bridesmaids. Wedding is 10 weeks away and she never ordered the dress. This was a dress they all agree… Read more

09/18/16 3:46PM
Plus ones for wedding party
MCmeow
09/18/16 4:35PM

Hey, so I'm not sure what the general consensus is with this. We're on a tight budget so we're not giving plus one's to truly single guests.… Read more

09/18/16 4:35PM
Grin and Bare it?
PrettyGirlLost
09/19/16 5:03PM

This is the most insane wedding related Dear Prudence I think I have ever read. . . I don't mean to break protocol, but I wanted to share it… Read more

09/19/16 5:03PM
Fri-YAY!
LizzyTish88
09/23/16 12:23PM

Happy Friday NEY!  I'm so glad this week is coming to an end. The first week back to work after vacation is THE WORST! Thankfully I got pr… Read more

09/23/16 12:23PM
Late night snack?
drglitter
09/19/16 11:26PM

We need to choose a late night snack option for our reception. Anybody want to vote? Descriptions are as follows: Nachos: Fresh chips, tac… Read more

09/19/16 11:26PM
advice on getting grandma to stop forwarding …
kylexo
09/20/16 2:50PM

My Grandmother is an Obama birther, the-Clintons-have-people-murdered forwarding email sharer. I have, as kindly as possible, asked every ti… Read more

09/20/16 2:50PM
There has to be an in-between here?
mrsconn23
09/22/16 1:54PM

Dear Prudence,  My boyfriend and I have dated for a year now and are now considering moving in together. He’s the sole tenant on the lea… Read more

09/22/16 1:54PM
Knottie1430153505
09/17/16 11:52PM
09/17/16 11:52PM
Rehearsal Dinner at Church - Casual - Alcohol…
jsmcquaker
09/19/16 9:05PM

Hi All Our wedding is in April and away from my home town.  The rehearsal is at the church which has a hall we could use for our rehearsal… Read more

09/19/16 9:05PM
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charlotte989875
09/18/16 1:22PM

How did everything go? Are you feeling good after the surgery? Hope you're recovering well! Read more

09/18/16 1:22PM
AW/PIP - Truly Magical Vacation!
LizzyTish88
09/19/16 3:04PM

Hello NEY! I hope some people are around today because I have the BEST news to AW.... (Sorry in advance for the overload of pictures!) We… Read more

09/19/16 3:04PM
Ceremony Programs, bride's parents deceased
FutureFixl
09/21/16 3:50PM

I'm having one heck of a dilemma... both my parents are deceased and my uncle is walking me down the aisle.  I'm doing a memorial table for… Read more

09/21/16 3:50PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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