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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Insert for Shuttle?
CarrieJo04
06/19/17 5:49PM

We are hosting a shuttle to take guests from the hotel to the reception, about 15 minutes away, and back. How do I convey this to guests and… Read more

06/19/17 5:49PM
Wednesday
mrsconn23
06/21/17 1:13PM

What up kids? Wood painting was fun.   My sign turned out cute.  I just need to figure out where to hang it up.  Our lawnmower died las… Read more

06/21/17 1:13PM
Tuesday
mrsconn23
06/20/17 2:01PM

What's up people? I have wood painting tonight at my sister's.  I'm taking DefConn and he's going to have a sleepover with my nephew.  My… Read more

06/20/17 2:01PM
Why are people so f'in flakey?
scribe95
06/20/17 8:40PM

Sorry but there have been an abundance of issues lately in my life where people either don't respond to invites at all or say they are comin… Read more

06/20/17 8:40PM
Another BM post, I know...
MrsSolberg
06/20/17 1:54PM

Long time lurker, first time poster. I come to you guys on my knees. I've read a lot about how you should not, under any circumstances, "fi… Read more

06/20/17 1:54PM
Vent and vibes
6fsn
06/21/17 7:22PM

MIL sent DH a text "call when you get home." around 2ish.  DH tried to call and his mom didn't answer but texted back "can't answer call b… Read more

06/21/17 7:22PM
Monday Monday
CharmedPam
06/19/17 3:50PM

How was everyone's weekend?  Father's Day? Friday was good.  We had dinner at my friends house and on Saturday we went to see the musical… Read more

06/19/17 3:50PM
Packing
flantastic
06/19/17 4:08PM

I need y'all's best packing strategies. We're buying a house and offer to closing is like 6 weeks (closing is a month from today). We have … Read more

06/19/17 4:08PM
Am I just free accommodation?
Australian_girl_in_Paris
06/21/17 6:00PM

So I have a quite good very old friend who contacted me to say could she come and stay with us; we live in Paris so this happens a lot, on h… Read more

06/21/17 6:00PM
If you don't want an open relationship, you d…
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:48PM

Dear Prudence, I met a new guy online, and on the second date he told me he is bisexual. I am OK with it overall, but he wants to have a guy… Read more

06/22/17 2:48PM
Send your regrets and silently judge this per…
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:47PM

Dear Prudence, I received a wedding-related invitation from a family member, and I’m not sure how to respond. The couple lives a few state… Read more

06/22/17 2:47PM
Tent Air Conditioning
knottie4e39b5696aa7d544
06/22/17 1:02AM

Hey there! My fiancee and are getting married in my mom's backyard in the summer. Which means we have to rent a tent. She's nagging me that … Read more

06/22/17 1:02AM
Bridal Shower Post Mortem
penguinpop
06/20/17 8:56PM

Here's the good, the weird, and the unexpected from my shower: First the good - I was very grateful that I got some stuff from my registry!… Read more

06/20/17 8:56PM
Reception Extras?
Brittbritt717
06/22/17 4:36PM

What were your reception extras? Thinking back to weddings that I've been to and searching Pinterest - I've only really seen/noticed custom … Read more

06/22/17 4:36PM
Family in Crisis
tinkerbell5679
06/20/17 2:57PM

I am getting married on 10-6-17 and my fiancé and I are having a really crummy year.  It is not crummy because of the wedding it has just … Read more

06/20/17 2:57PM
Recipe swap!
missJeanLouise
06/19/17 1:24PM

here are a couple of my favorite recent recipes. We basically survive on a bag of frozen chicken breast so there are serval chicken recipes.… Read more

06/19/17 1:24PM
Only you can decide if it's a deal-breaker.
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:50PM

Dear Prudence, My housemate has a habit that is seriously cutting into my sleep. Whenever she uses the bathroom, she blows her nose—and it… Read more

06/22/17 2:50PM
Question for Complicated Family Situation
VarunaTT
06/23/17 2:35PM

So, when I say "mom and dad", I actually am referencing my bio maternal grandmother and grandfather, who raised me. Mom has bio daughter sh… Read more

06/23/17 2:35PM
RHONY Side Eye Celebration of Marriage Partie…
PrettyGirlLost
06/19/17 3:51AM

Their comments echo many that a lot of us have on the subject: Bethenny- "The party to celebrate the marriage that none of us were invited … Read more

06/19/17 3:51AM
Gym (not using florescent lights, so outdoors…
knottie08c1a72622699a92
06/19/17 8:31PM

Hello everyone. Me and my bride to be are planning on doing our wedding in the gym of the church we are to be wed at. I'm not a fan of the s… Read more

06/19/17 8:31PM
Start with social services
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:36PM

Dear Prudence, I work with a volunteer group that helps fix up houses for low-income residents. For the past several weekends we have been b… Read more

06/22/17 2:36PM
Wearing a white floral print dress to a weddi…
Mircakes
06/22/17 9:21PM

Hi everyone, I just wanted to ask whether it is ok to wear this white floral print dress (pictured) to a wedding. I'm going to an outdoor s… Read more

06/22/17 9:21PM
How to address the invitation clearly in this…
charlieray-2
06/19/17 5:03PM

Hello hello wonderful people...I need some addressing advice... I actually have most of the invitations addressed and I'm pretty sure I man… Read more

06/19/17 5:03PM
100 Years of Bridesmaid Dresses
OurWildKingdom
06/19/17 3:13PM

Enjoy! Read more

06/19/17 3:13PM
beverages for at home reception
Knottiea1fa6265cd42ab2b
06/20/17 3:15PM

I am trying to estimate how much to buy for my at home, outdoor July reception.  It is a very casual affair with cook-out style catered mea… Read more

06/20/17 3:15PM
Is it too late for my engagement party?
knottie1b36a215ee014a2c
06/23/17 10:37PM

Hey, so we got engaged middle of May this year. The wedding is October 20, 2018. I am now trying to plan the engagement party. I found a pla… Read more

06/23/17 10:37PM
Can you identify my Unicorn dress?
knottie8c0284bd48295c79
06/19/17 6:17PM

Ladies, I have a backup dress in mind, however, I have had zero luck finding the designer. Here are a few clues: It's available in white, … Read more

06/19/17 6:17PM
How do I get people to ask me about myself?
mrsconn23
06/22/17 2:46PM

Dear Prudence, In conversation, I ask people open-ended questions, and I really listen to what they say. I try not to interrupt or shift the… Read more

06/22/17 2:46PM
@heffalump
mrsconn23
06/22/17 6:09PM

You're done with Bloodline, right?  I just finished this morning.   What did you think about the ending?  Read more

06/22/17 6:09PM
Mother of the bride dress goes on over my hea…
Knottie8af64bca0fabe978
06/19/17 10:23PM

Mom of the bride here, petite lady, just realized my dress goes over my head only. I have long hair, was hoping for a simple updo. Do I have… Read more

06/19/17 10:23PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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