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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
Knot1
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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NO Monday yet?
6fsn
04/24/17 1:30PM

How was the weekend?  How's the week shaping up? Saturday was COLD.  M2 had a birthday party (I was odd mom out), 6let had baseball practi… Read more

04/24/17 1:30PM
TGIF?
Heffalump
04/21/17 2:46PM

We're having lunch provided today, for meeting our Q4 goals.  (We're on an April-March fiscal, so this isn't as late as it sounds.)  That'… Read more

04/21/17 2:46PM
Planning my own bachelorette weekend ?
Knottie1459198815
04/19/17 12:56AM

Hi ladies I need advice! So to begin .. as all of us girls know being engaged and starting to plan our wedding it's probably going to be one… Read more

04/19/17 12:56AM
How to let guests know it's time to leave?
bride2be1028
04/20/17 8:35PM

I feel kind of silly asking this because I feel like it's something I should know or be able to figure out.  We are renting a private lake … Read more

04/20/17 8:35PM
Thinking Again...
katsandtatts
04/19/17 5:52PM

I love my fiance with all of my heart, however lately I have been having second thoughts. We have been together since highschool (7 years) a… Read more

04/19/17 5:52PM
Frustrated with my sister.....venting!
kaos16
04/18/17 7:00PM

So, my sister and I are only 18 months apart in age.  We've never really been that close though, choosing quite different paths in life. S… Read more

04/18/17 7:00PM
Very Small To No Wedding Party
RyansGirl0126
04/20/17 9:56PM

My fiancé and I do not have very many people in our lives that we would consider close enough to ask to be in our wedding party.  We might… Read more

04/20/17 9:56PM
Are you a bridezilla? Read this.
DrillSergeantCat
04/18/17 9:08PM

I know it's your special day and you think it should be all about you, but here's some real life stories from the former friends of badly be… Read more

04/18/17 9:08PM
NWR - Kiwi needing suggestions for West Coast…
Greenjinjo
04/24/17 1:42AM

H and I are in the process of planning an end of year trip over to North America!  Since so many users on this forum are from that neck of … Read more

04/24/17 1:42AM
Tuesday!
charlotte989875
04/25/17 1:41PM

Taking a break from interview prep to Knot. How's your day so far?  Interview at 1:45, then a work out, probably should do some actual wor… Read more

04/25/17 1:41PM
NWR: Funeral thank you notes
lovesclimbing
04/22/17 1:32AM

This came up in a thread over on The Bump - funeral thank you notes. Apparently, some people say you have to send TYs to everyone who comes … Read more

04/22/17 1:32AM
Mom passed away; not sure where to start
knottie0c24a9edadfbb263
04/19/17 7:32PM

I could really use some sound advice... My mom died in February after a very long illness. Two weeks ago the bf and I got engaged. I don't … Read more

04/19/17 7:32PM
Recruiter Issues
DrillSergeantCat
04/20/17 2:43PM

I have been working with an accounting employment agency for a couple of years off an on. Recently, I submitted my resume for a position I f… Read more

04/20/17 2:43PM
"No, you first. Thanks."
mrsconn23
04/20/17 2:37PM

Dear Prudence, I work for a tech company where the men outnumber the women. On the elevators in our building, men often go out of their way … Read more

04/20/17 2:37PM
HELP! NEED TO MAKE A DECISION BY 4/21!
MrsMik2017
04/18/17 8:20PM

Hi all, I need to choose my wedding dress by THIS Friday (4/21) and I am torn between one that I tried on in the shop with my dad and stepmo… Read more

04/18/17 8:20PM
Did you ever get counseling?
mrsconn23
04/20/17 2:33PM

Dear Prudence, My husband cheated on me while I was pregnant, and when I found out he stopped the affair a year ago. During the time of his … Read more

04/20/17 2:33PM
Future MIL Overtaking Shower
Knottie9910725
04/19/17 12:55PM

Ok...so my fiance and I are getting married in August 2017. We are paying for most of the wedding ourselves - both sides of the family gave … Read more

04/19/17 12:55PM
Planning Overseas for an At-Home Wedding
Knottie1459048711
04/21/17 5:04AM

My fiance and I currently live and work in Japan and we are attempting to plan a wedding for next spring (likely late April/early May). We c… Read more

04/21/17 5:04AM
Dealbreaker or no?
mrsconn23
04/20/17 2:36PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I are very similar politically, so we rarely argue about hot-button topics. He’s a Silicon Valley engineer… Read more

04/20/17 2:36PM
Back fat in wedding dress
Knottie1452569838
04/20/17 2:19PM

I had my second dress fitting, and I noticed that I have pretty noticeable back fat in my dress.  I don't know what to do about that at thi… Read more

04/20/17 2:19PM
Wedding Shower?
Knottie518020bf8087a5d0
04/20/17 2:22PM

I'm getting married this October, and my fiance and I were discussing having an engagement party/wedding shower in July. We weren't planning… Read more

04/20/17 2:22PM
Knottief82f9eec4f6705da
04/18/17 8:41PM

I have read a lot of forums about how the gifts should be individual/not related to the wedding. The gifts aren't individualized, but they d… Read more

04/18/17 8:41PM
Save the date - how much information to inclu…
OurWildKingdom
04/24/17 12:06AM

We're having the ceremony at home and the reception at a restaurant. We might be moving, however, so I'm hesitant to put the address on the … Read more

04/24/17 12:06AM
He's just not that into you.
mrsconn23
04/20/17 2:38PM

Dear Prudence,  Last summer, I met John during an internship. We quickly became close and developed a friends-with-benefits relationship ab… Read more

04/20/17 2:38PM
direction cards...
Knottiec655e1df86dd71b3
04/21/17 7:41PM

hi everyone,  just a quick question about direction cards. We are having the ceremony and reception in two different location and, I am un… Read more

04/21/17 7:41PM
The first paragraph and the second should be …
mrsconn23
04/20/17 2:34PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a 28-year-old guy, and I finally got my first girlfriend earlier this year. Then, out of nowhere, she broke up with me.… Read more

04/20/17 2:34PM
NWR - Vintage diet recipes
OurWildKingdom
04/22/17 4:14AM

These would make me lose my appetite fast. https://www.buzzfeed.com/hilarywardle/diet-recipes-1970s Read more

04/22/17 4:14AM
Just need to vent about fmil
beachwedding2017
04/24/17 2:44PM

It all started about 8 or 9 months ago. She told me I could save money on something by showing a copy of my tax return since I have low inco… Read more

04/24/17 2:44PM
Grad school advisor retiring, student wanting…
Alaska_RockGirl
04/20/17 4:25PM

As I was composing this post in my head I mostly made my decision, but what the hell, I'll run it by you all just to make sure I'm not being… Read more

04/20/17 4:25PM
Camera for honeymoon?
bride2be1028
04/18/17 9:45PM

We are going to Jamaica for our honeymoon and I'm trying to figure out the best way to take pictures and videos while we're there. Currently… Read more

04/18/17 9:45PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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