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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Laser Hair Removal
southernbelle0915
11/20/17 6:30PM

Have y'all done this? If yes, did it work? Was yours painful? What areas did you get done? How many treatments did it take? How much did you… Read more

11/20/17 6:30PM
Gender reveal party - Gifts or no?
WinstonsGirl
11/17/17 7:20AM

I'm leaning towards no, but I've never been to one, so I'm not sure.  It's for my cousin who is having her first.  I'm assuming there will… Read more

11/17/17 7:20AM
Prudie Day. Also Thursday.
charlotte989875
11/16/17 3:45PM

What's going on today, anything fun? We run a culinary program out of our building so everything smells delicious (it's their graduation day… Read more

11/16/17 3:45PM
"I have a confession" - and other things spou…
MissKittyDanger
11/20/17 8:30PM

I can't be the only one! M just texted me saying "I have a confession" so instead of waiting for the response on what he's done, I called h… Read more

11/20/17 8:30PM
How does this even happen?
lovesclimbing
11/19/17 1:46AM

DEAR ABBY: We bought our first home seven months ago. We love it, except for one major issue. Our neighbor, who's the same age as I am, is t… Read more

11/19/17 1:46AM
Invitations and RSVPs
knottie4329f471f0a951a2
11/19/17 5:26PM

Hi! I’m just messing around with online RSVP sites way earlier than I need to, and I’m wondering about invitation wording now. We are … Read more

11/19/17 5:26PM
WTELMF?
mrsconn23
11/16/17 4:14PM

Dear Prudence, I started a new job two weeks ago. Today, one of the managers came around and asked everyone if they had gotten something … Read more

11/16/17 4:14PM
If you keep it, you're asking for bad juju
mrsconn23
11/16/17 3:57PM

Dear Prudence, I just got out of a financial and romantic wreck. My boyfriend moved his mistress into my guest bedroom, telling me she wa… Read more

11/16/17 3:57PM
S/o hostess gifts
6fsn
11/17/17 5:46PM

i mentioned to Dh we should take one for the party at the ceo's house. He looked at me like I had 3 heads. It would be normal right?   Wha… Read more

11/17/17 5:46PM
WWWWD (loss mentioned)
kaos16
11/17/17 2:32PM

A dear, sweet coworker of mine confided in me that she just experienced a miscarriage.  She is back at work today, but it expectedly very … Read more

11/17/17 2:32PM
Bday disappointment
mrsconn23
11/16/17 4:12PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve been married for 10 years now and for nearly the whole time my birthday has been an afterthought. This past year wa… Read more

11/16/17 4:12PM
A canceled wedding is cheaper than divorce
mrsconn23
11/16/17 4:15PM

Dear Prudence, I’ve done a terrible thing, and I have no idea how to emerge on the other side of it. My fiancée of six years and I are… Read more

11/16/17 4:15PM
Oh lord, this is about 3 paragraphs too long.
mrsconn23
11/16/17 4:17PM

Dear Prudence, When I met “Ryan,” I knew he had a girlfriend because I met them both at the same time. From the moment I met Ryan, I … Read more

11/16/17 4:17PM
Nondenominational church?
knottiefbdd688241359391
11/17/17 1:45AM

Hi all, I always pictured getting married in a cathedral but my fiance is not Catholic. Anyone know a classic looking nondenominational chur… Read more

11/17/17 1:45AM
Who is this person friends with?! Also, USE …
mrsconn23
11/16/17 4:23PM

Dear Prudence, A very good friend recently came for an impromptu visit on short notice. I was excited to welcome him and his spouse, but … Read more

11/16/17 4:23PM
Great Deal on a Kate Spade Bag
MNNEBride
11/17/17 4:22PM

This bag https://www.katespade.com/products/holiday-lane-evie/098687153911.html is $99.00 with code HOLIDAYLANE - black, gray or rose gold. Read more

11/17/17 4:22PM
Bridesmaid problem help please!
lmotts
11/16/17 9:39PM

I've had trouble with a friend that I asked to be in my wedding. She seems to have no interest in going dress shopping or participating in a… Read more

11/16/17 9:39PM
Tiffany Blue Bridesmaid Dresses
Knottie30a5a1b82af71278
11/21/17 5:50PM

Has anyone seen Tiffany Blue Bridesmaid dresses?  I'm having an awfully hard time finding them...if so, can you please tell me the name of … Read more

11/21/17 5:50PM
yay flags!
*Barbie*
11/16/17 5:52PM

I just booked dives in the GA Aquarium's whale shark tank for DK and I, for Feb. Super excited! Read more

11/16/17 5:52PM
New Orleans Bachelorette
Knottie20862782
11/20/17 4:39PM

Looking for any feedback if anyone has gone to NOLA for a bachelorette party? AIRBNB rentals is what im most looking for for a group of 12/1… Read more

11/20/17 4:39PM
No longer getting email notifications of onli…
wakeamy1995
11/19/17 10:02PM

I've stopped getting email notifications on my guest list. Every time I go check it, I find somebody new who is marked declined or accepted … Read more

11/19/17 10:02PM
Front page discussions
missJeanLouise
11/18/17 1:13PM

If you follow the community link from the TheKnot homepage, the top discussions have not been updated in over a year. Is Zika really the hot… Read more

11/18/17 1:13PM
Invitation wording
minealone
11/20/17 1:32AM

hey all, so I’ve been looking at the proper etiquette for wedding invites. My understanding is wording is based on who is paying, and I’… Read more

11/20/17 1:32AM
Photographer for Bridal Shower
tazdvl3
11/19/17 2:21AM

Hi ladies! I’m in need of a photographer for my sister’s Bridal Shower in January. Which photographers do you recommend? TIA! Read more

11/19/17 2:21AM
Christian bride, Muslim groom
knottie942c664c93394b92
11/18/17 11:14PM

I was raised Christian and my boyfriend is Muslim. We plan on having a Nikka within the next 6 months. However, I’ve been wondering if a C… Read more

11/18/17 11:14PM
Hair and make-up
knottie49efaca49eae76f4
11/18/17 5:58PM

Hello all!  I'm getting married next year at Chamard vineyards in Clinton CT. Starting to browse around for hair and makeup. I really like … Read more

11/18/17 5:58PM
Favor Frustration!
CollHes12
11/15/17 2:08AM

Hello Beautiful People! I’m in need of some feedback! My wedding is this coming New Year’s Eve (12/31/17), and we have yet to decide on … Read more

11/15/17 2:08AM
Moved: Nondenominational church?
southernbelle0915
11/17/17 12:20PM

This discussion has been moved. Read more

11/17/17 12:20PM
NJ Wedding venue
Knottie1452122060
11/16/17 7:13PM

Help!! I'm looking for a venue in the tri-state area that accommodates 150 people in July 2018. My budget right now is $50 per person. I kno… Read more

11/16/17 7:13PM
Has anyone used Elli.com for Invitations?
PedrazaWedding2018
11/21/17 9:51PM

As the title mentions, has anyone? I ordered a sample from there and love it, but it is a bit out of my price range for just invitations and… Read more

11/21/17 9:51PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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