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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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What would you do?
knottie1027
08/16/17 2:45AM

I am having a HARD time making a decision, mostly because it may go against traditional etiquette. I am aware that it can be taboo. As I wri… Read more

08/16/17 2:45AM
What to do about an unwanted "Family" member.…
no_one_you_know
08/15/17 5:56PM

My fiancee's brother's wife is someone we do not want at our wedding. She has done so much damage to the family and caused so much hurt. His… Read more

08/15/17 5:56PM
Photographer Issues
Knottie1446064632
08/10/17 11:56PM

Hi ladies! I've never posted before, so here it goes. My husband and I got married last month. We had a lot of issues with our photographe… Read more

08/10/17 11:56PM
First Look and FMIL
knottie1027
08/14/17 5:22AM

I absolutely love the idea of a first look photo-shoot. It's intimate and compliments the low-key personality of FI and I. I have mentioned … Read more

08/14/17 5:22AM
Appetizer Only Reception
kscott2018
08/13/17 6:43PM

My fiance and I ended up picking a venue that does not allow any outside food (we must order all food from them, except the cake). The dinne… Read more

08/13/17 6:43PM
Outdoor wedding...15 degrees
May14TXbride
08/11/17 11:39PM

Normally just a lurker here, but saw something on Facebook that I just had to share. An article was posted about outdoor wedding tips. And o… Read more

08/11/17 11:39PM
Hurt by BF comments
nassyv12
08/12/17 3:51PM

Okay so i'm going to preface this with the fact that both my partner and I are from unconventional religions. He's Norse pagan and I'm Helle… Read more

08/12/17 3:51PM
Post-Wedding MOH Resentment
theknotsarah
08/10/17 3:00PM

I have had a lot of trouble getting over resentment that I have had of my MOH. I just feel like she really let me down as a friend throughou… Read more

08/10/17 3:00PM
I think you both 'handled' it just fine?
mrsconn23
08/10/17 2:33PM

Dear Prudence, I recently was introduced to an important work client in a casual setting. In the course of our getting-to-know-you discus… Read more

08/10/17 2:33PM
Don't let him gaslight you, girl.
mrsconn23
08/10/17 2:36PM

Dear Prudence, I was with “Teddy” for three years. In that time, I caught him texting an ex, flirting with co-workers, hanging out wi… Read more

08/10/17 2:36PM
Jack and Jill Party
Australian_girl_in_Paris
08/11/17 12:50PM

So I just watched this - https://youtu.be/KJ9uLFBIBQE Its a You Tube channel that I occasionally watch they have nice DIY's but they were … Read more

08/11/17 12:50PM
Smiling my way to partnership.
mrsconn23
08/10/17 2:30PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a female lawyer on the brink of making partner at a mid-size firm. I’ve been passed up several times in favor of male… Read more

08/10/17 2:30PM
How to handle a baby at DW?
filaw
08/15/17 12:46PM

I'm a first time mom with what will be a 6 month old. My sister is having a DW. Both my husband and I are in the wedding party. I'm fairly s… Read more

08/15/17 12:46PM
Home Reception after Destination Wedding
knottiea6db481f2b6bc6a3
08/15/17 5:00PM

Hello Everyone, I'm at a loss for what to do with a home reception. I am getting married in California with 25 guests at a gorgeous remote I… Read more

08/15/17 5:00PM
4 men in the world-ish
mrsconn23
08/10/17 2:35PM

Dear Prudence, My partner is very into apps, social media, and the internet. I have Facebook so I can occasionally message people who liv… Read more

08/10/17 2:35PM
I think this is the opposite of a letter from…
mrsconn23
08/10/17 2:34PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend of 10 years recently proposed. I accepted, but I don’t think I should have. He’s my best friend and I lov… Read more

08/10/17 2:34PM
Ceremony and Reception Seating
MRDCle
08/12/17 1:43AM

We will be having our ceremony in the same room as our reception. In order to make a smoother transition between ceremony/cocktail hour/rece… Read more

08/12/17 1:43AM
Talk to a counselor? A gay friend?
mrsconn23
08/10/17 2:38PM

Dear Prudence, I am a woman who has known for a while now that I am attracted to women. Historically, I have only dated men and just got … Read more

08/10/17 2:38PM
Bonus letter: Yeah, you need to talk about it…
mrsconn23
08/10/17 4:28PM

Dear Jane, I have an issue. My husband and I have been together for seven years. We are both in our 30s, working professionals. Considering… Read more

08/10/17 4:28PM
Special Extras for Guests
Knottie616b760927029949
08/12/17 6:09PM

Hey guys, I'm looking for some reception ideas.  We're having the ceremony at a Catholic Church, with a reception immediately following at … Read more

08/12/17 6:09PM
Gift for shower
knottied8057fde89686788
08/13/17 10:30PM

I am attending a friend's shower who is coming in from out of state to attend her shower. The couple have made a small registry but have mad… Read more

08/13/17 10:30PM
Place cards/Meal choices
Knottiea3cfa9579f72b16c
08/11/17 8:43PM

My venue is only requiring total meal count per table, not by guest, but I was hoping to be more specific and indicate meal choices on the p… Read more

08/11/17 8:43PM
HELP! I can't decide between two dresses!
knottieaa1529cb90ce78c9
08/16/17 4:56PM

I have found two dresses that I love but am having trouble deciding between the two. They have similar characteristics but one has a more si… Read more

08/16/17 4:56PM
Wedding Program Question...
Knottie9a01ad3e0fe72f86
08/13/17 5:38PM

My father suddenly passed away in May, and I am getting married on October 1st.  How do I, or should I, incorporate his name onto my weddin… Read more

08/13/17 5:38PM
Bonus letter: IMO, your presence really is th…
mrsconn23
08/10/17 4:29PM

Dear Jane, I have a very good friend getting married in a few weeks and haven’t landed on what the proper etiquette is for this situation… Read more

08/10/17 4:29PM
Bonus letter: There's more than 4 friends in …
mrsconn23
08/10/17 4:26PM

Jane! I always knew I wasn’t likely to get married or even find a good dude; I always counted on my friends. Then they got married. Then… Read more

08/10/17 4:26PM
Tipping Wedding Planner/Designer
indigo-2
08/15/17 12:51AM

Hi everyone, So I've been working with a wedding planner/designer (who owns her own company) as my main contact this entire year of my eng… Read more

08/15/17 12:51AM
ending friendship with MOH
Knottie43f590fbfde66bc4
08/10/17 3:55PM

Hi everyone!  well this is my first post and I have no idea where to start. My discussion title is intense but I did fire and end my friend… Read more

08/10/17 3:55PM
My wedding band will be added to my engagemen…
conversegirl18
08/10/17 3:09PM

So i see a lot of posts about soldering vs not but my wedding band will be built onto my engagement ring. I'm sure we'll have to have this d… Read more

08/10/17 3:09PM
Hashtag Help - Nuttall
Knottie1471890739
08/14/17 4:02AM

Hi ladies! I've been throwing around ideas with my bridesmaids but nothing has stuck.  Everything sounds so dirty, but I guess it comes wi… Read more

08/14/17 4:02AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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