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DrillSergeantCat
06/23/16 6:15PM

When should tuxedos be ordered? And should they match the BP?  Read more

06/23/16 6:15PM
Gifts For Parents
HonorBlossom
06/22/16 5:40PM

Hi, I was thinking about getting nice photo books made for my parents with pictures from their wedding and also doing the same for my futur… Read more

06/22/16 5:40PM
Have not met best man
horselover2017
06/30/16 7:23PM

I have not met my fiance's best man. I talked to him over skype. He has not officially asked him, but he knows that's who he wants.  I was … Read more

06/30/16 7:23PM
Is it necessary to list the grooms parents na…
Knottie1440106606
06/27/16 5:47PM

 I mailed wedding invitations out a few weeks ago and I found out my future mother in law is not happy with the way I did the invitations. … Read more

06/27/16 5:47PM
Catering for Cocktail Hour Etiquette
tjackson418
06/24/16 5:29PM

Hi everyone, Quick etiquette question. My fiance and I are planning a wedding for next summer. We are having a local restaurant cater the m… Read more

06/24/16 5:29PM
Last Minute Mishaps
tigerlily6
06/29/16 11:25AM

Some of you have shared a few of these before, and they're always great. FI and I had our first comical "thing gone wrong" last night around… Read more

06/29/16 11:25AM

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SIL is skipping my shower to go to a yearly b…
Knottie1431621404
07/21/16 11:03AM

Some backstory.... So I have an enormous family and decided to have a very small wedding (under 30 people invited). Because I am having a ve… Read more

07/21/16 11:03AM
Photo Scavenger Hunt Contest - Voting!
Swazzle
07/20/16 11:39AM

Time to vote for the winner! Choose the best for each category (and bonus if you feel so inclined).  Category 1: A summer hobby/activity… Read more

07/20/16 11:39AM
Wednesday
mrs.conn23
07/20/16 12:42PM

In WAHM/FWP...We have in-office training that was supposed to be last week and it was pushed back.  I crossed my fingers and hoped it wasn'… Read more

07/20/16 12:42PM
Tuesday
Swazzle
07/19/16 12:31PM

Good morning!  I had SUCH a great weekend! Friday consisted of trying to pack while still feeling pretty crappy and going to bed reasonabl… Read more

07/19/16 12:31PM
Swazzle
07/25/16 1:37PM

Morning. I hate Monday.  My weekend was pretty good. Friday Lucy came home and she is such a stinkface (literally, from the skunk). Bailey… Read more

07/25/16 1:37PM
Fiance vs. Friend Issues (seriously need advi…
SilverSeaHorse
07/20/16 4:14AM

I am in serious need of help with a tough situation. Brace for a of long story... Back in December my close friend/college roommate finally… Read more

07/20/16 4:14AM
Thursday!
mrs.conn23
07/21/16 1:15PM

It's almost the end of the week!  But I work Saturday...   DH also has to work Friday night.   I do have a 3-day weekend next weekend. … Read more

07/21/16 1:15PM
Mind the Gap!
NBSquared2017
07/20/16 1:15AM

I have a dear friend whom I have known since junior high. I am in her wedding this coming September and today the BP received an email outli… Read more

07/20/16 1:15AM
Donut bar as dessert for reception
Knottie3116341
07/20/16 8:14PM

Looking to do a donut bar with all kinds of donuts and toppings as our dessert for our wedding in october. I don't like cake and I'm not muc… Read more

07/20/16 8:14PM
Failure to start
SweetSouthernFirecracker
07/21/16 4:39PM

My fiancé and I are going on our third time setting a date for our wedding. Life has been pretty rough for us and when push came to shove t… Read more

07/21/16 4:39PM
Should I change my wedding date?
bohobrideCA
07/21/16 4:52PM

I was getting a quote from a florist and she described my wedding date as "Mother's Day Weekend", I'm getting married on the Saturday before… Read more

07/21/16 4:52PM
Lamb?
TNDancer
07/20/16 3:16PM

I have a couple cook books that each have multiple lamb recipes listed as if this is normal. I don't think anyone in my entire family has ev… Read more

07/20/16 3:16PM
Monday!
mrs.conn23
07/25/16 12:51PM

How was the weekend? I had a friggin' blast Friday night at the Crazy for Swayze movie thing.  Roadhouse is the cheesiest movie I've ever … Read more

07/25/16 12:51PM
NWR - Advice on parenting adults
CMGragain
07/21/16 9:37PM

Many of you know that my 34 year old son is severely ADD.  He is an employed computer software engineer and owns his single family three be… Read more

07/21/16 9:37PM
Who to invite to rehearsal?? S.O.S
Knottie03548242
07/21/16 6:57PM

For our rehearsal dinner I am struggling with who to invite for plus ones. All of my bridesmaids have S.O's except one who has a received a … Read more

07/21/16 6:57PM
Friday Eve
Swazzle
07/21/16 11:53AM

Good morning!  YOU GUYS!!!!!! @jenna8984 is a mommy!!! She said they're both doing great and she's hoping to pop in at some point with a … Read more

07/21/16 11:53AM
FRIDIZZLE
Swazzle
07/22/16 12:41PM

I am SOOOO ready for the weekend!  Last night, I got home and read my book pretty much all night except to help H make dinner (steak on th… Read more

07/22/16 12:41PM
Incorporating Kids into the Wedding
Knottie1460327909
07/25/16 5:39AM

So my fiancé and I are in a pickle.  We have planned on having his nephew as a ring bearer, but he will be too little to walk down the ais… Read more

07/25/16 5:39AM
Saying "No"
Sarabeth1031
07/20/16 2:01PM

So a lot of my friends are getting engaged or have recently been married. I've noticed that a lot of them are very quick to give in to other… Read more

07/20/16 2:01PM
wanderlust help
*Barbie*
07/19/16 7:49PM

If you had ~2 weeks to travel anywhere with your SO, where would you go, what would you do/see, and why? Assume you don't have an unlimited… Read more

07/19/16 7:49PM
Friday!!
mrs.conn23
07/22/16 12:46PM

What's up for the weekend?! Tonight: I'm going to 'Swayze Fest' on the art museum lawn.  Roadhouse and Dirty Dancing.  Woo-hoo.  I'm goi… Read more

07/22/16 12:46PM
Earworms
OurWildKingdom
07/23/16 2:04PM

What song is stuck in your head right now?  For some reason, I woke up with this one. Pixies, "Here Comes Your Man" Read more

07/23/16 2:04PM
So...weekly spelling tests?
mrs.conn23
07/21/16 2:21PM

Dear Prudence,  I’ve been dating a sweet, funny, caring man for a year. I think marriage is in our future. I love everything about him, e… Read more

07/21/16 2:21PM
In weekend news, let's meet Varuna!
VarunaTT
07/25/16 2:45PM

I've had a close friend destroy our friendship over this election cycle.  And I mean destroy, there will never be any repairing this.  I'v… Read more

07/25/16 2:45PM
VarunaTT
07/25/16 8:43PM

Well, let's get this shit show under way. They started off with booing Barney Frank.  I cannot with these delegates.  That's BS.  Sander… Read more

07/25/16 8:43PM
Food while getting ready
kamisc
07/21/16 5:47PM

I am getting ready at the W downtown in NYC- but the cost for catering while we get ready is INSANE.  I was thinking of ordering from somew… Read more

07/21/16 5:47PM
Excluded for your comfort
DrillSergeantCat
07/22/16 11:55AM

I came across this article while pretending I don't need to get up and wanted to share it with you all.  Not getting a wedding invite to a… Read more

07/22/16 11:55AM
Tuesday!
mrs.conn23
07/19/16 12:12PM

What's up?   I got irrationally irritated with DH after work yesterday and we had a little spat.  And in the spat, he said he wasn't goin… Read more

07/19/16 12:12PM
Planning my own Bachelorette Party
Knottie1444270031
07/20/16 7:59PM

Opinions please. My MOH is my sister and will not be attending my bachelorette party (she says due to time off and lack of funds, since she … Read more

07/20/16 7:59PM
Posting here instead of complaining on Facebo…
helluvajoy
07/20/16 10:00PM

Planning this wedding has really revealed my "place" in my family's priorities, and it feels pretty low. Already my brother has emailed and… Read more

07/20/16 10:00PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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