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Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM
Did you keep your wedding dress
[Deleted User]
08/12/16 2:01PM

Hi,  I'm debating donating my wedding dress after the wedding, but a small part of me worries I may regret it. What did you do after you wo… Read more

08/12/16 2:01PM
Receiving Line and Photos - or Table Visits?
CaitFins
08/8/16 12:38AM

All of our portraits will be taken directly after the ceremony. How would we manage/time the receiving line around this? My parents are not … Read more

08/8/16 12:38AM
Time Management for DIY
SarahTiestheKnot
08/7/16 8:47PM

Hi everyone! I'm doing a lot of DIY stuff for my wedding, one of the biggest being my veil. I am knitting my veil, which is going to be a gi… Read more

08/7/16 8:47PM
Groom's Family & the Dress
lottie64
08/8/16 6:48PM

Good morning! New to The Knot here! I just have a quick question. I went shopping this weekend for my dress (ended up finding one too!!!), … Read more

08/8/16 6:48PM

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knottieda10bcd9733d97aa
07/17/18 2:11PM

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07/17/18 2:11PM
Bridesmaid dress dilemma.
knottiec1b6db28861a9e72
07/19/18 1:07AM

So, 9 weeks until the wedding and the bridal party still doesn't have their dresses. I told them they could wear what they want as long as i… Read more

07/19/18 1:07AM
Friday!!!!
6fsn
07/20/18 1:14PM

21 hrs until we are on the road to vacation!!! I was planning to sleep in, but apparently that meant 6:07.  Got up and starting washing sh… Read more

07/20/18 1:14PM
Missing Friends Bridal Shower but want to do …
Knottiee0e311eefed3a11a
07/19/18 12:24PM

I am missing a very good friend's bridal shower and am planning on sending a gift. While I know that even that is not required, I would love… Read more

07/19/18 12:24PM
Cocktail Hour Introduction
knottieda7b27f8c7dd1884
07/17/18 10:01PM

Has anyone joined in during their cocktail hour? We really want to take pictures before hand and then just our couple pictures right after t… Read more

07/17/18 10:01PM
Need some entertainment ideas (last minute!) …
knottie3a07c9dc00519677
07/15/18 11:51AM

Mother of the bride here. The wedding is in a few weeks and will be held at my daughter and her fiance's Catholic church. It is a morning we… Read more

07/15/18 11:51AM
4 men
mrsconn23
07/19/18 3:39PM

Dear Prudence, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years and moved in together about six months ago. While he’s a wonderful… Read more

07/19/18 3:39PM
Stay out of it, don't make assumptions, and b…
mrsconn23
07/19/18 3:21PM

Dear Prudence, My daughter and her boyfriend are both openly bisexual. We adore him, and their relationship seems to be full of genuine aff… Read more

07/19/18 3:21PM
Your mom is a jerk.
mrsconn23
07/19/18 3:40PM

Dear Prudence, My mom and I are very close and have been most of my life. If she witnesses something awful like an animal being hurt or ki… Read more

07/19/18 3:40PM
knottied713882e40bd02e0
07/20/18 4:04AM

Hi everyone, I’m curious what everyone’s experiences in buying their engagement/wedding rings! Did he surprise you with it or did y… Read more

07/20/18 4:04AM
mrsconn23
07/19/18 3:37PM

Dear Prudence,  I have a friend who has been a good confidant since I was in my early 20s. I have been attracted to them in the past, but m… Read more

07/19/18 3:37PM
Last minute math help?? Open vs host bar
knottie3a07c9dc00519677
07/19/18 11:42PM

Need to know this by tomorrow, because that is when the final payment is due, and I am having second thoughts. We originally booked a host b… Read more

07/19/18 11:42PM
You need to find a way to talk to him.
mrsconn23
07/19/18 3:30PM

Dear Prudence, A month ago, my estranged younger brother texted me to say he was separating from his wife, V, and needed a place to stay wh… Read more

07/19/18 3:30PM
Wedding Recap 7/14/18 (pro pics!)
knottie6f05dc9f7907d7da
07/20/18 1:25AM

**Edited for grammar** Let me start off by saying, the 10 days leading up to our wedding were insane. By that I mean: * A groomsman dropped … Read more

07/20/18 1:25AM
How many drinks for reception???
knottie2a49725ef58ddc14
07/16/18 3:50PM

Hey there, I am having difficulty deciding how much of each drink to provide at our reception. Please let me know what you think would be th… Read more

07/16/18 3:50PM
Flower Budget/Cost
knottieda10bcd9733d97aa
07/19/18 7:23PM

Hi there ladies! I'm looking for what a reasonable flower budget is in New England (getting married in Central Mass next September) - I re… Read more

07/19/18 7:23PM
Talk to me about Thailand
WinstonsGirl
07/18/18 9:07PM

We just booked tickets last minute and are leaving in a few weeks.  We're gone for 2 weeks, and have a tentative itinerary.  I'm looking f… Read more

07/18/18 9:07PM
Name Change Help
SoonToBeSmith0512
07/20/18 11:44AM

I got married a few months ago but am still undecided on if/how I’m going to change my last name. I was wondering if there is a time limit… Read more

07/20/18 11:44AM
Chairs for hora?
NaomiMeadow
07/17/18 8:10PM

If you did the hora (lifting people up on chairs) during your wedding, what kind of chairs did you use? The chairs that come with our venue … Read more

07/17/18 8:10PM
When should I send Save the Dates?
knottieda10bcd9733d97aa
07/20/18 12:15PM

Hey guys! Wedding date is 9/21/19.  I'm sure just like everyone else, our guests seem to get busier and busier! We have our venue, gettin… Read more

07/20/18 12:15PM
Public locations in St. Louis for engagement …
eclr78
07/16/18 8:02PM

Hi everyone! I live in St. Louis but have only lived here for about two months. My fiance and I are getting married in September of 2019 and… Read more

07/16/18 8:02PM
4th of July I Do's
knottie2418d5b94b6028c6
07/14/18 5:17PM

hi there!  Oh my goodness, I'm trying to figure out what I'm doing here -  Question, are there any suggestions for a 4th of July wedding i… Read more

07/14/18 5:17PM
canadianteacher
07/17/18 5:45PM

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07/17/18 5:45PM
Indoor ceremony near Narragansett
knottie120f7c6937e89aae
07/15/18 6:06AM

Hi!  So we are having our reception at The Towers in Narragansett in March.  I’m not a huge fan of their ceremony option since it means … Read more

07/15/18 6:06AM
Selling Centerpiece Candlesticks - Metro Detr…
ashleymattroonellett
07/16/18 1:59PM

$13/set - Original price $29.99 at Bed Bath & Beyond Selling 19 sets of three mercury glass candle sticks. Comes with three glass v… Read more

07/16/18 1:59PM
Hashtag Help Please!!! :)
knottie5207ae9309f5bbe7
07/20/18 6:44AM

Future Mrs. Gaitan Happy planning ladies and gents. I wish you all a stress free process and a magical big day!  Read more

07/20/18 6:44AM
Is anyone planning to wear the new floral org…
knottie42858a0f47c9c270
07/20/18 10:43AM

I will buy it from you if my wedding (6/22/19) is after yours! It's just a little out of my budget.  Read more

07/20/18 10:43AM
Tipping a wedding planner
knottie49d25936f2a2959a
07/17/18 9:21PM

We live in a more rural area - so our planner's fees were reasonable at $3600.  Will our planner expect to be tipped - if so what would be … Read more

07/17/18 9:21PM
$1350 Kleinfeld Store Credit to let go at Dis…
Knottieb0d86f244eba403e
07/14/18 10:21PM

Due to personal reasons, I have a store credit worth $1350 at Kleinfeld which I am looking to let go off. Will offer a discount and let go a… Read more

07/14/18 10:21PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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