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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
bookmaiden17_
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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What would you do?
knottie1027
08/16/17 2:45AM

I am having a HARD time making a decision, mostly because it may go against traditional etiquette. I am aware that it can be taboo. As I wri… Read more

08/16/17 2:45AM
FriYay!
charlotte989875
08/18/17 1:19PM

Finally back home! Training was long and exhausting and H is leaving tonight for his camp. But he went grocery shopping for me last night an… Read more

08/18/17 1:19PM
How to handle a baby at DW?
filaw
08/15/17 12:46PM

I'm a first time mom with what will be a 6 month old. My sister is having a DW. Both my husband and I are in the wedding party. I'm fairly s… Read more

08/15/17 12:46PM
Need help with bridesmaid dress colors AND my…
no_one_you_know
08/17/17 4:14PM

Hello ladies, I need some help with a couple things... 1. My wedding dress is silk crepe, form fitting, and not at all forgiving, even thou… Read more

08/17/17 4:14PM
Remember, the messenger always gets shot. Tea…
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:41PM

Dear Prudence, A few years ago my cousin married a guy who has always squicked me out, mainly because of the hateful and homophobic thing… Read more

08/17/17 1:41PM
Private Ceremony / Open Reception
Knottie4ae33bc78cdebc7b
08/17/17 7:45PM

Hello All,  My fiancé and I are considering a courthouse or a private ceremony, a quick vow exchange and rings then snap a few photos. Th… Read more

08/17/17 7:45PM
Home Reception after Destination Wedding
knottiea6db481f2b6bc6a3
08/15/17 5:00PM

Hello Everyone, I'm at a loss for what to do with a home reception. I am getting married in California with 25 guests at a gorgeous remote I… Read more

08/15/17 5:00PM
Has she gone bonkers?
knottie57e3a2a8e0a62b3f
08/18/17 7:01PM

I need to vent. I’m not one to really post stuff, but I’m just at my wits end.   So my friend has gone from sweet to sour in the p… Read more

08/18/17 7:01PM
HELP! I can't decide between two dresses!
knottieaa1529cb90ce78c9
08/16/17 4:56PM

I have found two dresses that I love but am having trouble deciding between the two. They have similar characteristics but one has a more si… Read more

08/16/17 4:56PM
Building Aesthetic
Knottie1473798315
08/18/17 12:57AM

I'm getting married on September 22 and my venue coordinator called me today to say that the building that they're leasing the space from is… Read more

08/18/17 12:57AM
mrsconn23
08/18/17 2:04PM

Dear Amy: I sent a check for $300 to my mother to cover my daughter’s expenses during her visit. Upon my daughter’s return, my mother s… Read more

08/18/17 2:04PM
Oy. Your sister is a dick.
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:48PM

Dear Prudence, I got engaged two weeks ago and my parents are throwing my fiancé and me an engagement party to celebrate. My little sist… Read more

08/17/17 1:48PM
plus one advice pleaseeeee!!!
cantoinette
08/18/17 9:22PM

Just looking for some advice/if anyone has been in this situation before and has any insight other than what I'm thinking..... FH and I have… Read more

08/18/17 9:22PM
If she has a kid, what is it to you?
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:46PM

Dear Prudence, My best friend, “Jen,” and I are in our mid-30s; we met as college roommates and have been a huge part of each other… Read more

08/17/17 1:46PM
No matter what grasp you have on yourself, pe…
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:52PM

Dear Prudence, I have always been an emotionally intelligent person, which I find fulfilling and useful in my personal life. It can also … Read more

08/17/17 1:52PM
Is a "Miniature Bride" a thing?
aurianna
08/21/17 10:19PM

I sort of put my foot in my mouth in a mommy group I'm in. Someone said their toddler daughter was a "miniature bride" in a wedding because … Read more

08/21/17 10:19PM
BEER & WINE help me choose!!! :)
feinwedding2017
08/16/17 2:23PM

Hi everyone, im getting married this September 23rd, on Whidbey Island (Seattle area). My fiancé and I are trying to pick out beer and win… Read more

08/16/17 2:23PM
This letter is equal parts sad and frustratin…
mrsconn23
08/17/17 1:43PM

Dear Prudence, I briefly dated a guy who I’m now just friends with. If he was on board with the idea, I’d still be up for exploring o… Read more

08/17/17 1:43PM
Places to purchase decor...
no_one_you_know
08/18/17 3:43AM

My colors will include something along the lines of gray/silver. Already purchased really pretty mercury glass votives for a great price b/c… Read more

08/18/17 3:43AM
Non traditional father daughter dance
knottie5fc7d5c7b0011f82
08/18/17 12:40AM

So I have an odd situation. My fiance and I have been together since I was 14 My fiance's parents took me in since my parents were out of th… Read more

08/18/17 12:40AM
What to wear to a couples' BBQ bridal shower
GCTA9302017
08/17/17 1:50PM

Hi all! I know I am overthinking, but I'm looking for some attire advice. My FMIL/FSIL are throwing a couples' BBQ bridal shower and I have… Read more

08/17/17 1:50PM
Both Dad and Stepdad Walking Down the Aisle
seeyalaterbudde
08/21/17 7:16PM

I want both my dad and my stepdad to walk me down the aisle. My parents got divorced when I was 10 and my stepdad has been in my life since … Read more

08/21/17 7:16PM
Getting dresses steamed?
filaw
08/18/17 10:11PM

The bride is having a DW. She just realized that when we arrive, all of the bridesmaid dresses will be super wrinkly and need steaming.  W… Read more

08/18/17 10:11PM
Hashtag help for super common last name...
no_one_you_know
08/18/17 2:48AM

last name will be Garcia...  Read more

08/18/17 2:48AM
Anyone tried a corset under their dress?
bride2be1028
08/21/17 10:59PM

hi all. I am wearing a fit and flare wedding dress. I don't know the right way to describe this but the dress doesn't have any kind of struc… Read more

08/21/17 10:59PM
Father/Daughter Dance - Father Deceased
Knottie093dffe358212eee
08/17/17 1:59AM

I am having my godfather/cousin walk me down the aisle. I lost my mother when i was 5 and my father only 3 years ago. I still want to do a f… Read more

08/17/17 1:59AM
Just need a place to vent
MandTFebruary62011
08/22/17 1:57AM

I really just need a moment to vent - I'm getting very frustrated as the wedding gets closer with how some people are acting.  It's a very … Read more

08/22/17 1:57AM
Double Decker Bus HELP
knottie0dad8a5b7e5c30e3
08/21/17 9:11PM

Hello everyone, We are looking for an open top, double decker bus to hire for a strip tour and to drop us at our wedding reception after ou… Read more

08/21/17 9:11PM
Hashtag help for The Makas!
l.shepherd21@gmail.com
08/20/17 6:57PM

We are also looking for a hashtag.  Our new last name is Maka. Any help is appreciated!!  Thank you in advance! Read more

08/20/17 6:57PM
Post Wedding Doubts and What ifs
Knottie1463609165
08/21/17 11:30PM

Hello! I've hesitated to bring this up, because it seems so silly. However, post wedding I've had the post wedding "blues" and doubting whet… Read more

08/21/17 11:30PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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