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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
Knot1
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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WTF? No. Just, no.
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:35PM

Dear Prudence, We live in a rural, wooded area. My neighbor has a cat that lives primarily outdoors. He is often gone for days at a time, an… Read more

03/23/17 2:35PM
How is this a thing?
charlotte989875
03/18/17 6:48PM

Okay I know the wedding industry is ridiculous, but really? A coach for the best man speech?! Read more

03/18/17 6:48PM
Speech for groom's friends?
Knottie1ee10c9950bee84e
03/20/17 10:39PM

My future mother-in-law informed me that as a "surprise" to my fiance, her and my future father-in-law were planning a speech for our recept… Read more

03/20/17 10:39PM
Advice on final bridesmaids
cbs246
03/21/17 3:06AM

Hi everyone! I'm new here so forgive me if this sounds like a question that is always asked. I've done a lot of research/reading for weeks a… Read more

03/21/17 3:06AM
What do you consider a "longtime boyfriend?"
lovesclimbing
03/22/17 4:23AM

Because according to People, a "longtime" is 11 months. The Bachelor/ette are my guilty pleasures, and I just saw that a former contestant, … Read more

03/22/17 4:23AM
NWR - Multiple Showers
YourDogDontKnowSit
03/20/17 9:01PM

So NWR, but you guys give the best etiquette advice of any of the forums I belong to.  I'm pregnant and my shower is this coming weekend. … Read more

03/20/17 9:01PM
How to Serve Wine/Champagne
greeninspring
03/17/17 1:38PM

We are serving beer, wine, and champagne at our reception. We are responsible for purchasing all the alcohol and icing it down and bringing … Read more

03/17/17 1:38PM
Part Time Event Planning? Opinions wanted, pl…
k&n62517
03/21/17 12:48AM

I don't know if this is the place for this, but anyway, here it is.  I am a teacher and I've always wanted to be a teacher aside from a sh… Read more

03/21/17 12:48AM
Pre-Mixed Cocktail: Yay or Nay?
kwiksilver-2
03/22/17 3:38AM

We are doing wine on the tables and then a selection of beer, for our small casual wedding. We have servers minding all the food and drink, … Read more

03/22/17 3:38AM
Is basicly engaged a thing?(also there's my f…
Knottie1469859163
03/23/17 1:33PM

So my guy and I have been together for over 5 years, last Sept he asked my grandpa for my hand. Never proposed. A few weeks ago during a par… Read more

03/23/17 1:33PM
How soon is too soon?
Knottie1471015293
03/17/17 4:46PM

Hi there - I am getting married in April 2018 but am starting to purchase things here and there to help break up costs. We will be serving a… Read more

03/17/17 4:46PM
Old, New, Borrowed, Blue
SoonToBeSmith0512
03/19/17 1:25AM

Hi brides! I know there are already a couple similar threads, but most are a bit older. I'm looking for some creative ideas for my "somethi… Read more

03/19/17 1:25AM
Margni
03/20/17 12:38PM

Some context first: Second wedding for me, first for him. Between us we, have 4 kids. We're thinking September, out of town. I've planned … Read more

03/20/17 12:38PM
Gifts for our parents... the struggle is real…
Knottie1452397313
03/19/17 8:38PM

My fiancé and I are getting married in a month and are searching for gifts for our parents.  We both need some help!   He wants to get g… Read more

03/19/17 8:38PM
where does that number even come from?
Knottie1469859163
03/23/17 12:56PM

So all the advice sites are like "Step 1: Figure out your budget." Then break down the averages of where you should expect that money to go,… Read more

03/23/17 12:56PM
damnit dog. We've had to start crating her w…
GBCK
03/20/17 7:15PM

which is a whole ball of problems.  Because of her knees, she doesn't seem able to lay comfortably in her crate [so overnight = babygate in… Read more

03/20/17 7:15PM
Today's 4 men...
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:33PM

Dear Prudence, I started seeing someone a couple of months ago. Things moved really quickly, and within three weeks he was calling me his gi… Read more

03/23/17 2:33PM
What's the easiest way to give dear ol' aunti…
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:24PM

Dear Prudence, Aunt “Winifred” came to live with my mother (her sister) and my father under a false pretense. She pleaded poverty and fa… Read more

03/23/17 2:24PM
MOH Zilla
Vshan06
03/19/17 11:02PM

I have had so many issues with my MOH that my fiancé no longer wants her in the wedding.  1. She says I spend too much time with my fianc… Read more

03/19/17 11:02PM
*gag*
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:25PM

Dear Prudence, Recently I visited a good friend of mine. As soon as I walked in the door, I was hit with the smell of ammonia from cat urine… Read more

03/23/17 2:25PM
wedding dress sent to goodwill by accident
CharmedPam
03/23/17 5:56PM

This is sad.  I feel bad for her.  My dress has no sentimental value, and I am hoping to put it up for sale soon, but I can TOTALLY see ho… Read more

03/23/17 5:56PM
Save the dates diy?
beachwedding2017
03/20/17 6:14PM

I stumbled across this save the date and I love love love it!! I haven't seen this style customizable on any website that offers std. Anyone… Read more

03/20/17 6:14PM
My neighbors, the smokey smokersons.
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:31PM

Dear Prudence, A couple of months ago, a family I was slightly acquainted with moved across the street. They adore our children and often in… Read more

03/23/17 2:31PM
What could possibly go wrong?
OurWildKingdom
03/21/17 3:13AM
03/21/17 3:13AM
photo book vs photo album?
CharmedPam
03/23/17 2:13PM

I've never done a photo book or album before, so I need some recommendations.  first of all, is paying for the higher cost of a photo album… Read more

03/23/17 2:13PM
Neck/Chest Blotches
katieweimer
03/20/17 10:25PM

I am getting married in September and I have this fantastic habit - thanks genes! - of breaking out in red blotches on my neck and chest whe… Read more

03/20/17 10:25PM
Current Projects
kwiksilver-2
03/20/17 10:16PM

Just wanted to share a couple of the things I have been working on First, even though we are having a daytime wedding, I wanted to have s… Read more

03/20/17 10:16PM
Reception music
Knottie08f5106aef5ef1e9
03/17/17 8:06PM

i live in south Florida having ceremony at church and then the reception in friends backyard which will start about 4:30-5pm. I a,m thinking… Read more

03/17/17 8:06PM
Trying to time my reveal
mrsconn23
03/23/17 2:27PM

Dear Prudence, I am transgender and not yet out to my family. My grandmother died at 88 about a month and a half ago. I’d promised myself … Read more

03/23/17 2:27PM
Grandfather/granddaughter dance
[Deleted User]
03/18/17 4:53AM

Hi! I'm in need of a few suggestions...  My father is he absolute greatest and he will be giving me away at my wedding as well as doing the… Read more

03/18/17 4:53AM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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