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Venues without preferred catering lists
Knottie1449423031
02/1/16 6:19PM

Hello, I'm in a strange situation. I'm looking to find a venue in Chicago that does not require you to use their preferred catering list. M… Read more

02/1/16 6:19PM
MOH's 10th anniversary 2 days before my weddi…
korinda76
01/28/16 2:32PM

My best friend, who is my MOH, will be bringing her mother, husband, and three very young kids to Indiana from Utah for my wedding.  They w… Read more

01/28/16 2:32PM
Organizing day-of timing
khubbert1022
01/27/16 4:40PM

Hi everyone!  My wedding is at 2pm, and the salon where I (and some of my bridesmaids) are getting our hair/makup done asked what time we n… Read more

01/27/16 4:40PM
Adult only wedding - Groomsman refuses to att…
sjz1027
02/2/16 1:00PM

We have decided to have an adult only wedding which we communicated with most of our guests with children over a year ago - including one of… Read more

02/2/16 1:00PM
Engagement & Facebook status
TeamAwesomeJ&J
01/31/16 6:39PM

My Fi got engaged on Christmas Eve. I've told all close family and friends that I would like to be there at the wedding. We have a small bud… Read more

01/31/16 6:39PM
Did your FI see/help choose your dress?
kimmiinthemitten
01/31/16 5:24PM

It's official. I hate wedding dress shopping.  I find the whole process to be stressful and teeming with imaginary expectations.  Even las… Read more

01/31/16 5:24PM

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LABELS FOR GROOMSMEN SOCKS
Knottie6309732
02/12/16 5:07PM

DOES ANYONE HAVE COOL LABELS THEY PUT ON THEIR GROOMSMEN SOCKS? I WANTED TO DO A LABEL WITH THEIR NAMES ON THEM. IF SOMEONE HAS A LABEL OR C… Read more

02/12/16 5:07PM
Bridesmaid Gifts
FutureG
02/12/16 2:32PM

I'm looking for some advice on what to get my bridesmaids. I'm already planning on getting them necklaces to wear in the wedding, from what … Read more

02/12/16 2:32PM
Valentine's Day?
charlotte989875
02/12/16 12:36PM

H and I have never been big Valentine's celebrators, just wasn't really our thing. This is your first one since we've been married and I was… Read more

02/12/16 12:36PM
SAMS flowers and DIY that week?
Knottie2017523
02/12/16 4:43PM

Has anyone done this?  We are closing in on our budget and flowers and alcohol are really the last things left to pay for. Neither of us ar… Read more

02/12/16 4:43PM
I'm married! (+many)
hellohkb
02/11/16 7:58PM

I wanted to post these sooner, but the past few weeks have been nuts. Pretty much everything that could have gone wrong did, but I'm still h… Read more

02/11/16 7:58PM
music for walking down the isle
Knottie2017523
02/12/16 5:27PM

We are having an outdoor ceremony, and I believe a good friend of mine if playing the piano for us (he can play literally anything you put i… Read more

02/12/16 5:27PM
Announcing an Unplugged Ceremony
Knottie1440365793
02/9/16 2:54PM

Hi all, My fiance and I have decided to have an unplugged ceremony because we really want people to be present during the ceremony. It'll b… Read more

02/9/16 2:54PM
Cruiseline question (port canaveral experts)
CharmedPam
02/8/16 8:57PM

FI and I are planning our first ever cruise next year.  We'll be in Orlando with family Jan 16-22nd, so we'd like to go then.  I'm searchi… Read more

02/8/16 8:57PM
Why are you crying?
spockforprez
02/11/16 1:48AM

I'm so emotional lately, good and bad. Let's share why we are crying. (Or if you aren't a crier, share your general verklempt moments.)  M… Read more

02/11/16 1:48AM
Bachelorette Party Help
Knottie1454644252
02/10/16 7:04PM

Hi All, MOH planning a bachelorette party weekend with a range of budgets. Trying to accommodate everyone.  Looking for a place to go in A… Read more

02/10/16 7:04PM
Friday!
mrs.conn23
02/12/16 1:39PM

w00t!  I was in bed at 9 last night.  I turned off the TV shortly after 10.  That's super early for me.    What's on tap for the weeke… Read more

02/12/16 1:39PM
Paying for our wedding
Knottie1446491565
02/11/16 11:04PM

My FI and I got engaged a few months ago and decided to pay for our own wedding for a few reasons.  One being we think it's only appropriat… Read more

02/11/16 11:04PM
Anyone have a diamond AND moissanite ring?
emmy7272
02/12/16 2:36AM

Hi, all! Rather new here, spent some time lurking, and have a question for you all. Anyone have a mixed-stone ring with diamond and moissa… Read more

02/12/16 2:36AM
Dress help!!!
Knotbride0416
02/12/16 2:07PM

Hey everyone. I am lost on what bra I need for my dress! My wedding is in April and I have my alterations appointment next weekend. They tol… Read more

02/12/16 2:07PM
Bridesmaid gift feedback plz
spockforprez
02/12/16 8:10AM

So far I've got: * Nail polish in our wedding colors * Jewelry for the day of * Shawl to wear for the pictures * Silk robes with the word "B… Read more

02/12/16 8:10AM
Cake after Wedding
lovemesomemonster
02/9/16 6:54PM

I'm curious to see how many of you saved your cake for your one year? I thought about it for a hot second and then realized we drove straigh… Read more

02/9/16 6:54PM
Alfred Angelo Wedding Dress
Knottie1452279851
02/12/16 7:07PM

I'm looking to sell an Alfred Angelo Wedding dress I purchased. I tried it on and bought it, but found a dress I like more to wear, so I nee… Read more

02/12/16 7:07PM
Cook on a steak ...
ernursej
02/12/16 12:36AM

We are planning a family style entrée service (have absolutely loved this at other weddings we've been to). We would like one of our protei… Read more

02/12/16 12:36AM
Illusion Neckline Dresses
Knottie1439071291
02/8/16 2:49AM

I was curious on other people's experience with the illusion necklines and tanning?  I tried on a dress I REALLY love!  It is mid February… Read more

02/8/16 2:49AM
Any Medical Students?
theresaweiss
02/12/16 2:45PM

My fiancé and I got engaged last year before I was accepted into medical school. We picked a date and a venue based on an important date to… Read more

02/12/16 2:45PM
Gifts for the parents
Knottie1438368909
02/12/16 4:58PM

I have started looking into gifts for our parents as I have always been under the impression that etiquette suggests to do so. However, I … Read more

02/12/16 4:58PM
Paper flower kissing balls
fyrchk
02/11/16 2:11AM

So I made this and plan on making more for our wedding. I am planning on hanging them on the chairs along the aisle. I'm welcome to any feed… Read more

02/11/16 2:11AM
A win for the introverts
peachy13
02/12/16 6:00PM

Hi guys -- I haven't been around much since my wedding in October but I did want to stop in, say hello and Happy Friday, and tell you about… Read more

02/12/16 6:00PM
Callanwolde Fine Arts Center wedding receptio…
Knottie1452606623
02/8/16 2:02PM

Hey everyone! So I am looking for a wedding reception venue that can hold 250-300 guests AND allows outside catering and BYOB. I came across… Read more

02/8/16 2:02PM
I'm TORN over this, please help.
carmella2016
02/11/16 5:13PM

Long story, but I'll try for brevity. - My fiance dated a girl probably 4 years ago for a couple months. They slept together, but decided t… Read more

02/11/16 5:13PM
Natural hair and weddings
Jazzykins87
02/9/16 6:04PM

Has any one else had any difficulty finding wedding-appropriate hairstyles for natural hair?  I have tried searching prom styles, formal st… Read more

02/9/16 6:04PM
My twin brother is not a groomsman?
Knottie1441570718
02/12/16 4:36AM

Okay so....back when we first got engaged in September 2015 we decided not to put family in the wedding party because I have so many  femal… Read more

02/12/16 4:36AM
MOH/BM
Knottie2017523
02/12/16 12:56PM

I am getting married in July, and when I asked my girls (She will be to be in my wedding party in September I had recently had a falling ou… Read more

02/12/16 12:56PM
Seriously
[Deleted User]
02/10/16 5:17PM

I've been lurking around this website for a while and I just have to say a good majority of you should be ashamed of yourselves. With a few … Read more

02/10/16 5:17PM
Healthy Recipe Ideas
PamBeesly524
02/12/16 12:42PM

H and I have been making a conscious effort to eat healthier this year... It's your typical "I feel gross after the holidays and need veggie… Read more

02/12/16 12:42PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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