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ahoywedding
10/17/16 9:02PM

Is anyone concerned about Zika affecting their DW? We are not having a DW, but my sister is planning one for (an affected area). It's defini… Read more

10/17/16 9:02PM
Printing Own Invites
Knot1
10/17/16 4:57PM

A friend of mine is designing our invitations. There are two types that I am looking at a 5x7 or a seal and send (doesn't have an envelope).… Read more

10/17/16 4:57PM
Venue Cancelled!
winterberry6
10/17/16 4:00PM

I am getting married February 4th, 2017 and just last week my venue called and cancelled my reception, stating they are closing temporarily … Read more

10/17/16 4:00PM
How would you respond?
Fuchsiavision
10/16/16 9:32PM

Knotties, I need your help on this as my husband has been most upset over the behaviour of his mother and brother and wants to confront them… Read more

10/16/16 9:32PM
Intimidated by Dress Shopping
FoxandCrow
10/9/16 11:59PM

Hi folks, So, I have some bridal appointments coming up on the 22nd of this month. I made one in the morning at one salon, and another at 3… Read more

10/9/16 11:59PM
DIY Polaroid Guestbook
pslovesus2016
10/11/16 3:10PM

Hi everyone. I am having a tiny wedding in Palm Springs and two after parties one in my hometown and one where my fiancee and I live.  We … Read more

10/11/16 3:10PM

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Abigail Ray
knottied52572f5ab7457f1
05/18/17 3:19PM

Dear etiquette people, My partner and I are getting married this summer after a very short engagement. We decided to push up our plans to ge… Read more

05/18/17 3:19PM
Anyone up for a good old fashioned reddit sna…
InLoveInQueens
05/18/17 12:09AM

Surprisingly this one isn't from weddit https://www.reddit.com/r/legaladvice/comments/6bqhzm Read more

05/18/17 12:09AM
What Would You Pay a Friend to Design Invites…
MrsMik2017
05/22/17 9:15PM

I have a talented bestie since childhood who's in marketing but trying to get a graphic design side-hustle going. Not doing bridesmaids, b… Read more

05/22/17 9:15PM
unaccompanied minor?
*Barbie*
05/16/17 9:32PM

have any of you had your kids fly as unaccompanied minors to visit family out of state? how was the experience? i was thinking kids had to … Read more

05/16/17 9:32PM
Asking guests to wear bright colours?
Kimora_Blax
05/22/17 11:01AM

My FI wants to add to the bottom of the wedding invite: 'Dress code: Please wear whatever feels comfortable, but in order to celebrate our … Read more

05/22/17 11:01AM
Pick my next tattoo location
kimmiinthemitten
05/16/17 6:06PM

I need to figure out where to put my next tattoo that is still work friendly.  PS Boo Jobs. I'm getting a pansy: But on a stem with hand… Read more

05/16/17 6:06PM
Bachelorette Party Woes
Knottie1463755638
05/17/17 2:01PM

My bridesmaids have planned my bachelorette party without including me. I understand that this is normal, but I have very bad anxiety, which… Read more

05/17/17 2:01PM
Inviting children on fiance's side but not mi…
kjkflorida
05/19/17 4:03PM

I have watched the posts for a while, but this is first time asking a question myself. Apologies in advance for its length. Situation:  Ou… Read more

05/19/17 4:03PM
Boy, is it wedding season
lovesclimbing
05/17/17 5:52PM

Prudie is getting LOTS of wedding letters. Here's two cray-cray brides from Prudie's chat from Monday and Tuesday this week.  Q. Should I … Read more

05/17/17 5:52PM
I don't understand this person's problem...
mrsconn23
05/18/17 2:21PM

Dear Prudence, I’m a thirtysomething woman who works in a bustling downtown area of a major city. On a recent lunch break, I took a short … Read more

05/18/17 2:21PM
Hooray for stem cells?
*Barbie*
05/16/17 5:50PM

I decided to try stem cell injections for my migraine and neck issues, and went through the process yesterday.  I had to be awake (albeit,… Read more

05/16/17 5:50PM
My roommate: The annoying apologizer
mrsconn23
05/18/17 2:16PM

Dear Prudence, My roommate is a fabulous person with one pretty obnoxious flaw: She gives the worst apologies. Like all of us, she occasiona… Read more

05/18/17 2:16PM
Can a black tie wedding be on a day other tha…
KahluaKoala
05/22/17 5:58PM

Hey knotties -  Quick etiquette question. In the coming wedding season, I'm invited to two black tie weddings that are on a Friday and a S… Read more

05/22/17 5:58PM
116 days, how many to go?
charlotte989875
05/17/17 2:19PM

Time for a new thread.  So Comey documented everything. Trump asks Comey to end Flynn investigation, asks Comey if he can jail reporters, … Read more

05/17/17 2:19PM
Dream Destination(s) For Fun
knottie10d72b1070ca8417
05/18/17 7:25AM

This has nothing to do with my honeymoon (there's already a post for ideas and we are still researching) but just for fun if you could go an… Read more

05/18/17 7:25AM
Is 4:30 a good ceremony start time?
knottie02b1efd0ae8eb4a3
05/16/17 5:44PM

My wedding is 09-08-2018. The ceremony and the reception are at the same place within walking distance from each other. When I asked the v… Read more

05/16/17 5:44PM
Bridesmaid's Boyfriend
Knottie7c0cb5dce61dfc57
05/18/17 2:15AM

I am very conflicted right now on whether to invite one of my best friends' and bridesmaids boyfriend to our wedding. I believe he is emotio… Read more

05/18/17 2:15AM
Pippa gets married
SP29
05/21/17 12:21AM

Saw some articles pop up about Pippa Middleton's wedding today. Gawd she looks stunning! I love her dress! I love the wedding bells as they … Read more

05/21/17 12:21AM
How big of a cake is needed?
calibride82
05/22/17 12:46AM

How many servings of cake should the wedding cake hold? I was thinking you would need more cake than guests as it may not be cut exactly to … Read more

05/22/17 12:46AM
Revenge is sometimes better not served at all
mrsconn23
05/18/17 2:17PM

Dear Prudence, I was pretty badly bullied in high school for my appearance and being two years younger than everyone else. In college I star… Read more

05/18/17 2:17PM
How Much Dessert Do We Really Need?
kwiksilver
05/17/17 3:47PM

Quick question!  We are having a bunch of kinds of dessert. Like 4 flavours of cupcakes, and 5 flavours of mini pies, plus krumkake (cookie… Read more

05/17/17 3:47PM
MrsMik2017
05/22/17 8:33PM

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05/22/17 8:33PM
Husband Vent
charlotte989875
05/16/17 4:54PM

So job searching/applying/interviewing sucks. It's just bad all around. And H has been doing it for a LONG time. I get that, and I'm support… Read more

05/16/17 4:54PM
Help me shop!
CMGragain
05/19/17 1:32AM

DH was diagnosed with stage 2 adult diabetes in January.  He has been difficult to live with since then, but he has lost 40 pounds!  His c… Read more

05/19/17 1:32AM
Ghost Bridesmaid..
ecleggett
05/22/17 2:11AM

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05/22/17 2:11AM
Invite your boss?
megtownxx
05/22/17 8:15PM

I'm not sure what etiquette officially dictates, but even if the answer is "you can choose to invite whoever you want", i'm curious to know … Read more

05/22/17 8:15PM
mrsconn23
05/18/17 2:14PM

Dear Prudence, I made a long-distance friend a year ago who is very unstable. He seemed normal at first, but as the time went on, he grew mo… Read more

05/18/17 2:14PM
Shameless Plug or AW
MissKittyDanger
05/18/17 6:26PM

Got something you want to AW or plug shamelessly? Put it here! {this can include websites, songs, videos, photos, etc} Read more

05/18/17 6:26PM
Skipping grand entrance, first dance and toas…
Knottie1472684201
05/16/17 11:58PM

I am skipping the grand entrance, first dance, father daughter/groom/mom dance, and toasts. Not into it.  However I had been advise that I… Read more

05/16/17 11:58PM
Anne with an E
*Barbie*
05/18/17 7:10PM

Is anyone else watching this? It's *dark*.  Read more

05/18/17 7:10PM

From The Knot

FAQ about TK Message Boards!
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:14PM

TK Help Center  http://wedding.theknot.com/wedding-tools-help-center.aspx TK Membership Help (also located under TK Help Center) http… Read more

11/5/14 4:14PM
Moderators and Responsibilities
KnotRiley
11/5/14 4:02PM

Hey Knotties! Please see the list of our current mods and their responsibilities below! Moderators Budget Weddings: @Wandajune6 … Read more

11/5/14 4:02PM
KnotRiley
12/30/14 2:28PM

Hey Everyone! Well we still haven't received a full list of emoji's from the tech team but luckily we have some awesome mods! @Photokitty … Read more

12/30/14 2:28PM
Adding Locations!
KnotRiley
12/8/14 4:23PM

Hey Knotties! Adding a location to your profile is an easy way for other Knotties to help you out with the questions you have! Below is di… Read more

12/8/14 4:23PM
Come meet your new KG- KnotHolly!
KnotRiley
04/16/15 5:20PM

Hi All! I'm very excited to announce we have a new KG, @KnotHolly ! She's been shadowing me for a little while now, trying to learn al… Read more

04/16/15 5:20PM
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