Help! I need relationship advice

lifeisajourney

lacqueredlover said:

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?

Because I am of the thought that people who act like you need to understand that their behavior is ridiculous and I'm trying to help so that maybe you can act like a rational human on here and make better life choices.  And because when you post in an online forum, you don't' get to dictate who responds and in what fashion.

Stop trying to help me. I dont like you. Let me be irrational and make horrible life choices. Leave me alone

GoldenPenguin

eilis1228

@lifeisajourney and @rn1989 The more you guys talk, the more I feel like this:

Swazzle

Swazzle

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover said:

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?

Because I am of the thought that people who act like you need to understand that their behavior is ridiculous and I'm trying to help so that maybe you can act like a rational human on here and make better life choices.  And because when you post in an online forum, you don't' get to dictate who responds and in what fashion.

Stop trying to help me. I dont like you. Let me be irrational and make horrible life choices. Leave me alone

labro

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover said:

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?

Because I am of the thought that people who act like you need to understand that their behavior is ridiculous and I'm trying to help so that maybe you can act like a rational human on here and make better life choices.  And because when you post in an online forum, you don't' get to dictate who responds and in what fashion.

Stop trying to help me. I dont like you. Let me be irrational and make horrible life choices. Leave me alone

[Deleted User]

Dignity100

lacqueredlover said:

I'm just gonna sit here and watch and enjoy,...

EDIT:  added additional MEME 'cause MEME's are fun.

peekaboo2011

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover said:

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?

Because I am of the thought that people who act like you need to understand that their behavior is ridiculous and I'm trying to help so that maybe you can act like a rational human on here and make better life choices.  And because when you post in an online forum, you don't' get to dictate who responds and in what fashion.

Stop trying to help me. I dont like you. Let me be irrational and make horrible life choices. Leave me alone

GoldenPenguin

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover said:

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?

Because I am of the thought that people who act like you need to understand that their behavior is ridiculous and I'm trying to help so that maybe you can act like a rational human on here and make better life choices.  And because when you post in an online forum, you don't' get to dictate who responds and in what fashion.

Stop trying to help me. I dont like you. Let me be irrational and make horrible life choices. Leave me alone

Swazzle

lacqueredlover

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover said:

lifeisajourney said:

lacqueredlover why are you still talking to me?

Because I am of the thought that people who act like you need to understand that their behavior is ridiculous and I'm trying to help so that maybe you can act like a rational human on here and make better life choices.  And because when you post in an online forum, you don't' get to dictate who responds and in what fashion.

Stop trying to help me. I dont like you. Let me be irrational and make horrible life choices. Leave me alone

Why don't you like me?  I'm just curious.  Was it my honesty?  My calling out of your relationship timeline?  My not validating your choices?  Because those are maybe points of advice I gave you that you don't' like but you don't know me personally enough to not like me.

I have no problem with you as a human being.  I have a problem with your attitude but I find it humorous that you are choosing me to go after on this post as being the one person you don't like.  Look I get it, at 25, I was a know it all brat also but once it was pointed out to me, I at least had the good sense to take a step back and really look at the kind of person I was and the choices I was making.  So hopefully, you'll do the same.  Or you can keep pouting and stamping your foot and be all

  

rn1989

Wow, I'm officially leaving the board. I can't believe even the mods in this forum are involved in this immaturity. I used to think you guys were cool, but you're obviously into making people feel like they don't fit in. I'M sorry if I bothered anyone, I really didn't mean to, but you people need to realize people come here for support, and not for this. I've already been through middle school, I don't feel the need to fit in with people who are hell bent on such rejection and negativity.

lifeisajourney

lacqueredlover U dont take rejection well do you. I just dont like you. Why does it matter why? Stop talking to me. 

Swazzle

lifeisajourney

noooo @rn1989 dont go! There are hundreds of ladies on this board. Dont let a few catty women scare you away. 

GoldenPenguin

rn1989 said:

Wow, I'm officially leaving the board. I can't believe even the mods in this forum are involved in this immaturity. I used to think you guys were cool, but you're obviously into making people feel like they don't fit in. I'M sorry if I bothered anyone, I really didn't mean to, but you people need to realize people come here for support, and not for this. I've already been through middle school, I don't feel the need to fit in with people who are hell bent on such rejection and negativity.

cu97tiger

rn1989 said:

Wow, I'm officially leaving the board. I can't believe even the mods in this forum are involved in this immaturity. I used to think you guys were cool, but you're obviously into making people feel like they don't fit in. I'M sorry if I bothered anyone, I really didn't mean to, but you people need to realize people come here for support, and not for this. I've already been through middle school, I don't feel the need to fit in with people who are hell bent on such rejection and negativity.

We get these posts occasionally. The problem with it is that we aren't 'hell bent on such rejection and negativity.' These threads usually start out trying to educate the poster on common discussion forum decency. Inevitably, there are a few who take exception to the advice, and make wise cracks, or some random poster will jump to the defense of a new poster who is making an etiquette mistake. It all blows up from there.

But make no mistake about it... most of the regular posters on this board are kind, supportive, helpful people when they aren't called out by total strangers.

peekaboo2011

  

rn1989 said:

Wow, I'm officially leaving the board. I can't believe even the mods in this forum are involved in this immaturity. I used to think you guys were cool, but you're obviously into making people feel like they don't fit in. I'M sorry if I bothered anyone, I really didn't mean to, but you people need to realize people come here for support, and not for this. I've already been through middle school, I don't feel the need to fit in with people who are hell bent on such rejection and negativity.

[Deleted User]

lifeisajourney

cu97tiger shouldnt you and @loves2shop4shoes be on a different board? Your already married right?

rn1989

They're not scaring me away, I just refuse to let them treat me poorly because they're jealous and will probably be on this board for the rest of their lives. There is no community here, it's a clique.

Swazzle

buddysmom80

rn1989 said:

They're not scaring me away, I just refuse to let them treat me poorly because they're jealous and will probably be on this board for the rest of their lives. There is no community here, it's a clique.

LOLZ

ETA: I miss fartbubbler, where the hell is she? Maybe this is her again?

peekaboo2011

lifeisajourney said:

cu97tiger shouldnt you and @loves2shop4shoes be on a different board? Your already married right?

Isn't there a Nest board for divorcees?

THERE IS: http://forums.thenest.com/categories/starting-over

lacqueredlover

You don't have to keep responding to me.  But alas, you cannot tell me what to do.  What you can do is chill out and start acting like a grown up.  Until then though I'll remain at your level:

Swazzle

lifeisajourney said:

cu97tiger shouldnt you and @loves2shop4shoes be on a different board? Your already married right?

cu97tiger

lifeisajourney said:

cu97tiger shouldnt you and @loves2shop4shoes be on a different board? Your already married right?

If everyone who got married left this board, it would be a bunch of not married people encouraging each other to be BSC, pre-plan their weddings, and make poor life choices. Us OMH (Old Married Hags) stay around to pass on the good advice that we once received before we were engaged. You should be thanking us instead of making veiled comments that basically are telling us to GTFO.

lifeisajourney

oh....ok....

rn1989

lifeisajourney said:

cu97tiger shouldnt you and @loves2shop4shoes be on a different board? Your already married right?

Thats why I said they'll be here forever. Jeeze.