Bear with me here. We have several close friends and family members who are either active or former military and law enforcement. The active ones cannot be hanging around marijuana smokers. Several people on our guest list (and I really can't take them off without a huge stink/friendship ending moves) happen to believe very strongly in marijuana legalization and smoke a. lot. of. pot. Medical use in my state is also in a weird legal position right now.
Can I put something discouraging illegal drug use on our planning web site, or is that going to be a no-no?