Destination wedding with second reception in home state

MobKaz

 

MobKaz

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

aefitz29 said:

@STBMrsEverhart -  You are just...awful.

If no one will care that you are getting married before you leave for your fake ceremony in MX then there is no reason to lie to them. You're just continuously trying to rationalize a ton of lies to your family and friends (on the damn internet).

Strangers who have no weight in your life have told you how wrong this is over and over. Instead of having and epiphany of 'holy crap I'm being a selfish liar,' you just defend your poor decisions. (Yes, lying is a poor decision no matter how you choose to sugar coat it).

You are posting on the Etiquette Board where lying matters. I don't think it's necessary for you to keep defending lying on a board that is here to discuss treating your guests properly.

Lying about when your legal ceremony is to your guests is just poor etiquette. So why keep posting here just to receive heavy push back and be continuously told how wrong you are? I would think you would be over it by now?

Plain and simple: You're a liar. You are lying to your guests out of convenience for you. That's a crappy thing to do.

I don't think she is trying to defend her lies. I think she continues to post to practice her "craft" of lying.  Trying to remember the cycle of lies laid forth takes a toll on memory.  On here she is afforded a running record of the stories she spins.  It must be some sort of memory exercise for her.  This is nothing but a game to her.  Sadly, she plays it in real life, too.

I'm not defending a thing. I'm answering questions as they are posed. You seem to think one lie equates to flagrantly lying, non-stop, all the time about everything to everyone. Sure, ok. If that is how it is, I hope you have never told a lie, big or small, white, grey or black, for any reason, ever. Because if you have, and we all know it's impossible to live to adulthood without not a single exaggeration, white lie, omitted detail, or outright fib, you are something far worse than a liar. You're a fucking hypocrite. And for the record, not mentioning something to a group of people doesn't take up any memory at all. It's pretty easy actually. There's lots of things I don't mention to people. And you know @mobkaz, you shouldn't make statements like, "Sadly, she plays it in real life, too" unless you know me in real life. What about my "real life" do you know? Nothing. You know very little about me. You

know what I have posted on TK. 

So that amounts to my future last name, my age, my occupation and where I'll be getting married next year. That's really not that much. It certainly does not afford you the luxury of making assumptions about who I am "in real life." Well, coffee's gone......

@STBMrsEverhart said..........."I never meant forever, sorry if you took it that way and now you're all disappointed. I meant I need to be more mindful of my priorities and make sure I'm not wasting time that can be spent being productive. I've promised myself only to argue with you girls during my morning coffee and late night hot toddy."

Another promise lie broken.  You posted at 2:16.  How long does your morning extend? Glad to know the coffee pot is empty.  How about you do us all a favor and not make another pot.

@STBMrsEverhart said, " I'm not interested in polling the masses to help decide which lies are okay to tell, and which aren't. I live my life with one thing in mind and it makes all decisions easy: what can I live with, what are the possible outcomes, can I handle the worst possible case scenario?"  

All I need to know about you is what I have seen on The Knot.  This ^^ tells me all I would ever need to know to form an opinion.  And as you have said yourself, we are all entitled to our opinion.

ohannabelle

"Repeating myself over, and over, and over has gotten dull. " Possibly the only thing STBMrsEverhart has posted that I fully agree with. She is tedious in the way that only completely self serving people can be.

MobKaz

ohannabelle said:

"Repeating myself over, and over, and over has gotten dull. " Possibly the only thing STBMrsEverhart has posted that I fully agree with. She is tedious in the way that only completely self serving people can be.

She may be a professional.  I think I just found her uniform patch............

PolarBearFitz

STBMrsEverhart said:

aefitz29 said:

@STBMrsEverhart -  You are just...awful.

If no one will care that you are getting married before you leave for your fake ceremony in MX then there is no reason to lie to them. You're just continuously trying to rationalize a ton of lies to your family and friends (on the damn internet).

Strangers who have no weight in your life have told you how wrong this is over and over. Instead of having and epiphany of 'holy crap I'm being a selfish liar,' you just defend your poor decisions. (Yes, lying is a poor decision no matter how you choose to sugar coat it).

You are posting on the Etiquette Board where lying matters. I don't think it's necessary for you to keep defending lying on a board that is here to discuss treating your guests properly.

Lying about when your legal ceremony is to your guests is just poor etiquette. So why keep posting here just to receive heavy push back and be continuously told how wrong you are? I would think you would be over it by now?

Plain and simple: You're a liar. You are lying to your guests out of convenience for you. That's a crappy thing to do.

I continue to post because people continue to pose questions. I also know that there are many out there who do not agree with the general consensus on this board, certainly do not appreciate its tone and I enjoy knowing I have helped quite a few individuals. 

Oh FFS stop spreading your bad advice on this board. Users are asking questions about Etiquette here not how to lie and deceive their family and friends.

BTW consensus means 'general agreement' so you do not need to say general consensus Captain Redundancy.

southernbelle0915

I've been a quiet observer on this thread because everyone else who is against the terrible idea of faking a wedding and lying to family/friends about it pretty much has my sentiments covered. 

I just don't get why people can't be satisfied with just being married. Why not just go on a trip as a honeymoon? Why turn it into some ridiculous fiasco that's super complicated, involves lying to family/friends, is expensive for guests, and above all isn't even a real wedding? It just makes ZERO sense to me. 

I guess for me, lying and withholding information from family and friends while watching them spend thousands to attend a fake event that they thought was real would make me feel terrible. As someone who has been married for just a few months, I also cannot fathom getting dressed up and pretending to get married again - I would feel absolutely ridiculous. I'm a wife - wtf! I think that's why I just cannot understand this way of thinking. It's like living in a dream world that is so selfish and out of touch with reality. I just can't...

Inkdancer

southernbelle0915 said:

I've been a quiet observer on this thread because everyone else who is against the terrible idea of faking a wedding and lying to family/friends about it pretty much has my sentiments covered. 

I just don't get why people can't be satisfied with just being married. Why not just go on a trip as a honeymoon? Why turn it into some ridiculous fiasco that's super complicated, involves lying to family/friends, is expensive for guests, and above all isn't even a real wedding? It just makes ZERO sense to me. 

I guess for me, lying and withholding information from family and friends while watching them spend thousands to attend a fake event that they thought was real would make me feel terrible. As someone who has been married for just a few months, I also cannot fathom getting dressed up and pretending to get married again - I would feel absolutely ridiculous. I'm a wife - wtf! I think that's why I just cannot understand this way of thinking. It's like living in a dream world that is so selfish and out of touch with reality. I just can't...

This x10000000.

mrs4everhart

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

aefitz29 said:

@STBMrsEverhart -  You are just...awful.

If no one will care that you are getting married before you leave for your fake ceremony in MX then there is no reason to lie to them. You're just continuously trying to rationalize a ton of lies to your family and friends (on the damn internet).

Strangers who have no weight in your life have told you how wrong this is over and over. Instead of having and epiphany of 'holy crap I'm being a selfish liar,' you just defend your poor decisions. (Yes, lying is a poor decision no matter how you choose to sugar coat it).

You are posting on the Etiquette Board where lying matters. I don't think it's necessary for you to keep defending lying on a board that is here to discuss treating your guests properly.

Lying about when your legal ceremony is to your guests is just poor etiquette. So why keep posting here just to receive heavy push back and be continuously told how wrong you are? I would think you would be over it by now?

Plain and simple: You're a liar. You are lying to your guests out of convenience for you. That's a crappy thing to do.

I don't think she is trying to defend her lies. I think she continues to post to practice her "craft" of lying.  Trying to remember the cycle of lies laid forth takes a toll on memory.  On here she is afforded a running record of the stories she spins.  It must be some sort of memory exercise for her.  This is nothing but a game to her.  Sadly, she plays it in real life, too.

I'm not defending a thing. I'm answering questions as they are posed. You seem to think one lie equates to flagrantly lying, non-stop, all the time about everything to everyone. Sure, ok. If that is how it is, I hope you have never told a lie, big or small, white, grey or black, for any reason, ever. Because if you have, and we all know it's impossible to live to adulthood without not a single exaggeration, white lie, omitted detail, or outright fib, you are something far worse than a liar. You're a fucking hypocrite. And for the record, not mentioning something to a group of people doesn't take up any memory at all. It's pretty easy actually. There's lots of things I don't mention to people. And you know @mobkaz, you shouldn't make statements like, "Sadly, she plays it in real life, too" unless you know me in real life. What about my "real life" do you know? Nothing. You know very little about me. You

know what I have posted on TK. 

So that amounts to my future last name, my age, my occupation and where I'll be getting married next year. That's really not that much. It certainly does not afford you the luxury of making assumptions about who I am "in real life." Well, coffee's gone......

@STBMrsEverhart said..........."I never meant forever, sorry if you took it that way and now you're all disappointed. I meant I need to be more mindful of my priorities and make sure I'm not wasting time that can be spent being productive. I've promised myself only to argue with you girls during my morning coffee and late night hot toddy."

Another promise lie broken.  You posted at 2:16.  How long does your morning extend? Glad to know the coffee pot is empty.  How about you do us all a favor and not make another pot. It was 1:16 MST. Considering my "morning" doesn't usually begin until  at least 12:30 p.m. because my "night" doesn't come to an end until 4:00 a.m. or later my one cup can and often does happen in the early afternoon. 

@STBMrsEverhart said, " I'm not interested in polling the masses to help decide which lies are okay to tell, and which aren't. I live my life with one thing in mind and it makes all decisions easy: what can I live with, what are the possible outcomes, can I handle the worst possible case scenario?"  

All I need to know about you is what I have seen on The Knot.  This ^^ tells me all I would ever need to know to form an opinion.  And as you have said yourself, we are all entitled to our opinion. Yes, you certainly are entitled to your opinion, that doesn't mean you should state it as fact. 

mrs4everhart

aefitz29 said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

aefitz29 said:

@STBMrsEverhart -  You are just...awful.

If no one will care that you are getting married before you leave for your fake ceremony in MX then there is no reason to lie to them. You're just continuously trying to rationalize a ton of lies to your family and friends (on the damn internet).

Strangers who have no weight in your life have told you how wrong this is over and over. Instead of having and epiphany of 'holy crap I'm being a selfish liar,' you just defend your poor decisions. (Yes, lying is a poor decision no matter how you choose to sugar coat it).

You are posting on the Etiquette Board where lying matters. I don't think it's necessary for you to keep defending lying on a board that is here to discuss treating your guests properly.

Lying about when your legal ceremony is to your guests is just poor etiquette. So why keep posting here just to receive heavy push back and be continuously told how wrong you are? I would think you would be over it by now?

Plain and simple: You're a liar. You are lying to your guests out of convenience for you. That's a crappy thing to do.

I continue to post because people continue to pose questions. I also know that there are many out there who do not agree with the general consensus on this board, certainly do not appreciate its tone and I enjoy knowing I have helped quite a few individuals. 

Oh FFS stop spreading your bad advice on this board. Users are asking questions about Etiquette here not how to lie and deceive their family and friends. I don't recall giving any advice. But I sure am going to start. 

BTW consensus means 'general agreement' so you do not need to say general consensus Captain Redundancy.

MobKaz

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

aefitz29 said:

@STBMrsEverhart -  You are just...awful.

If no one will care that you are getting married before you leave for your fake ceremony in MX then there is no reason to lie to them. You're just continuously trying to rationalize a ton of lies to your family and friends (on the damn internet).

Strangers who have no weight in your life have told you how wrong this is over and over. Instead of having and epiphany of 'holy crap I'm being a selfish liar,' you just defend your poor decisions. (Yes, lying is a poor decision no matter how you choose to sugar coat it).

You are posting on the Etiquette Board where lying matters. I don't think it's necessary for you to keep defending lying on a board that is here to discuss treating your guests properly.

Lying about when your legal ceremony is to your guests is just poor etiquette. So why keep posting here just to receive heavy push back and be continuously told how wrong you are? I would think you would be over it by now?

Plain and simple: You're a liar. You are lying to your guests out of convenience for you. That's a crappy thing to do.

I don't think she is trying to defend her lies. I think she continues to post to practice her "craft" of lying.  Trying to remember the cycle of lies laid forth takes a toll on memory.  On here she is afforded a running record of the stories she spins.  It must be some sort of memory exercise for her.  This is nothing but a game to her.  Sadly, she plays it in real life, too.

I'm not defending a thing. I'm answering questions as they are posed. You seem to think one lie equates to flagrantly lying, non-stop, all the time about everything to everyone. Sure, ok. If that is how it is, I hope you have never told a lie, big or small, white, grey or black, for any reason, ever. Because if you have, and we all know it's impossible to live to adulthood without not a single exaggeration, white lie, omitted detail, or outright fib, you are something far worse than a liar. You're a fucking hypocrite. And for the record, not mentioning something to a group of people doesn't take up any memory at all. It's pretty easy actually. There's lots of things I don't mention to people. And you know @mobkaz, you shouldn't make statements like, "Sadly, she plays it in real life, too" unless you know me in real life. What about my "real life" do you know? Nothing. You know very little about me. You

know what I have posted on TK. 

So that amounts to my future last name, my age, my occupation and where I'll be getting married next year. That's really not that much. It certainly does not afford you the luxury of making assumptions about who I am "in real life." Well, coffee's gone......

@STBMrsEverhart said..........."I never meant forever, sorry if you took it that way and now you're all disappointed. I meant I need to be more mindful of my priorities and make sure I'm not wasting time that can be spent being productive. I've promised myself only to argue with you girls during my morning coffee and late night hot toddy."

Another promise lie broken.  You posted at 2:16.  How long does your morning extend? Glad to know the coffee pot is empty.  How about you do us all a favor and not make another pot. It was 1:16 MST. Considering my "morning" doesn't usually begin until  at least 12:30 p.m. because my "night" doesn't come to an end until 4:00 a.m. or later my one cup can and often does happen in the early afternoon. 

@STBMrsEverhart said, " I'm not interested in polling the masses to help decide which lies are okay to tell, and which aren't. I live my life with one thing in mind and it makes all decisions easy: what can I live with, what are the possible outcomes, can I handle the worst possible case scenario?"  

All I need to know about you is what I have seen on The Knot.  This ^^ tells me all I would ever need to know to form an opinion.  And as you have said yourself, we are all entitled to our opinion. Yes, you certainly are entitled to your opinion, that doesn't mean you should state it as fact. 

mrs4everhart

NYCBruin said:

ClimbingBrideNY said:

So are the people you're lying to not your nearest and dearest? Why'd you even invite them then? Why are you not telling these people the truth too? 

Seeing as her plan would have been to say "fuck you we're doing what we want" even if the people she did tell had an issue with it, I think it's safe to say that she has no nearest or dearest.  Her people I care about list probably reads, "my, myself and I."  I wouldn't be surprised if her husband (I think they're already married?) didn't even make the list.

My FI is my ride or die. And I'm his. Past that, the people who needed to know, do. 

wrigleyville

Oh, please. Stop treating your fake wedding like covert ops. You aren't the goddamn President.

I feel really bad for your supposed loved ones, because you obviously don't care about them one bit.

mrs4everhart

wrigleyville said:

Oh, please. Stop treating your fake wedding like covert ops. You aren't the goddamn President.

I feel really bad for your supposed loved ones, because you obviously don't care about them one bit.

I have no idea what I've said that brings you to using such grandiose language to describe our plans. Covert ops? Wow, fancy. But then discussing it here could potentially blow our Op Sec, so that would be foolish. (sarcasm heavily intended). You people crack me up. There's this group outrage here that we're lying. I say we've told the ones that matter. That's still not good enough. Yea, ok, whatthefuckever. At this point just be glad you're not invited, but keep a careful lookout at all future weddings you are invited to because you just never know (insert your comment back about how you don't associate with liars and your family and friends would never do such a thing. I'll wait). 

MobKaz

STBMrsEverhart said:

wrigleyville said:

Oh, please. Stop treating your fake wedding like covert ops. You aren't the goddamn President.

I feel really bad for your supposed loved ones, because you obviously don't care about them one bit.

I have no idea what I've said that brings you to using such grandiose language to describe our plans. Covert ops? Wow, fancy. But then discussing it here could potentially blow our Op Sec, so that would be foolish. (sarcasm heavily intended). You people crack me up. There's this group outrage here that we're lying. I say we've told the ones that matter. That's still not good enough. Yea, ok, whatthefuckever. At this point just be glad you're not invited, but keep a careful lookout at all future weddings you are invited to because you just never know (insert your comment back about how you don't associate with liars and your family and friends would never do such a thing. I'll wait). 

I'm not sure why you would find this surprising.  How often do you see group delight when someone lies?  And as far as being "truthful" to the ones that matter?  I'm sure those that do not matter will wonder why they were invited in the first place.  Frankly if I don't rate high enough to be told the truth, I wouldn't want to be on your "scale of life" at all.

mrs4everhart

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

wrigleyville said:

Oh, please. Stop treating your fake wedding like covert ops. You aren't the goddamn President.

I feel really bad for your supposed loved ones, because you obviously don't care about them one bit.

I have no idea what I've said that brings you to using such grandiose language to describe our plans. Covert ops? Wow, fancy. But then discussing it here could potentially blow our Op Sec, so that would be foolish. (sarcasm heavily intended). You people crack me up. There's this group outrage here that we're lying. I say we've told the ones that matter. That's still not good enough. Yea, ok, whatthefuckever. At this point just be glad you're not invited, but keep a careful lookout at all future weddings you are invited to because you just never know (insert your comment back about how you don't associate with liars and your family and friends would never do such a thing. I'll wait). 

I'm not sure why you would find this surprising.  Never said I did. Saying something cracks me up isn't the same as being surprised. How often do you see group delight when someone lies?  And as far as being "truthful" to the ones that matter? I don't know why truthful was in quotation marks. Those that needed to know know the whole truth and nothing but the truth.  I'm sure those that do not matter will wonder why they were invited in the first place. Why would they? Odds are excellent they will never be the wiser and what they don't know will never hurt them. They are going to get everything they came to see and experience if they chose to come, which as I've mentioned most of the doesn't-need-to-know group will most likely not be attending. Frankly if I don't rate high enough to be told the truth, I wouldn't want to be on your "scale of life" at all. I'm shocked this is the first time anyone here has become acquainted with the concept of courtesy invites. I guess everyone on TK only invited the very closest people to them to their weddings. Let me use a particular couple invited to ours that doesn't make the need to know list as an example: my parents best friends. These are people they developed a relationship with after I moved away from home (15 years ago). I couldn't pick them out of a line up. My FI has never met them. My parents enjoy vacationing with them and my Dad would love a friend to golf with in MX. They've been to two of these people's children's weddings. My Mom, who has asked for nothing at all where all of this is concerned, asked if we would invite them. Sure, no problem I say. Am I getting on the phone with them and giving them the run down? No. So where are they on my scale of life? They don't quite make it on there at all really but if it would make my Mom and Dad happy inviting them it is no skin off my nose. But that still doesn't entitle them to our private medical business. 

MobKaz

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

wrigleyville said:

Oh, please. Stop treating your fake wedding like covert ops. You aren't the goddamn President.

I feel really bad for your supposed loved ones, because you obviously don't care about them one bit.

I have no idea what I've said that brings you to using such grandiose language to describe our plans. Covert ops? Wow, fancy. But then discussing it here could potentially blow our Op Sec, so that would be foolish. (sarcasm heavily intended). You people crack me up. There's this group outrage here that we're lying. I say we've told the ones that matter. That's still not good enough. Yea, ok, whatthefuckever. At this point just be glad you're not invited, but keep a careful lookout at all future weddings you are invited to because you just never know (insert your comment back about how you don't associate with liars and your family and friends would never do such a thing. I'll wait). 

I'm not sure why you would find this surprising.  Never said I did. Saying something cracks me up isn't the same as being surprised. How often do you see group delight when someone lies?  And as far as being "truthful" to the ones that matter? I don't know why truthful was in quotation marks. Those that needed to know know the whole truth and nothing but the truth.  I'm sure those that do not matter will wonder why they were invited in the first place. Why would they? Odds are excellent they will never be the wiser and what they don't know will never hurt them. They are going to get everything they came to see and experience if they chose to come, which as I've mentioned most of the doesn't-need-to-know group will most likely not be attending. Frankly if I don't rate high enough to be told the truth, I wouldn't want to be on your "scale of life" at all. I'm shocked this is the first time anyone here has become acquainted with the concept of courtesy invites. I guess everyone on TK only invited the very closest people to them to their weddings. Let me use a particular couple invited to ours that doesn't make the need to know list as an example: my parents best friends. These are people they developed a relationship with after I moved away from home (15 years ago). I couldn't pick them out of a line up. My FI has never met them. My parents enjoy vacationing with them and my Dad would love a friend to golf with in MX. They've been to two of these people's children's weddings. My Mom, who has asked for nothing at all where all of this is concerned, asked if we would invite them. Sure, no problem I say. Am I getting on the phone with them and giving them the run down? No. So where are they on my scale of life? They don't quite make it on there at all really but if it would make my Mom and Dad happy inviting them it is no skin off my nose. But that still doesn't entitle them to our private medical business. 

mrs4everhart

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

wrigleyville said:

Oh, please. Stop treating your fake wedding like covert ops. You aren't the goddamn President.

I feel really bad for your supposed loved ones, because you obviously don't care about them one bit.

I have no idea what I've said that brings you to using such grandiose language to describe our plans. Covert ops? Wow, fancy. But then discussing it here could potentially blow our Op Sec, so that would be foolish. (sarcasm heavily intended). You people crack me up. There's this group outrage here that we're lying. I say we've told the ones that matter. That's still not good enough. Yea, ok, whatthefuckever. At this point just be glad you're not invited, but keep a careful lookout at all future weddings you are invited to because you just never know (insert your comment back about how you don't associate with liars and your family and friends would never do such a thing. I'll wait). 

I'm not sure why you would find this surprising.  Never said I did. Saying something cracks me up isn't the same as being surprised. How often do you see group delight when someone lies?  And as far as being "truthful" to the ones that matter? I don't know why truthful was in quotation marks. Those that needed to know know the whole truth and nothing but the truth.  I'm sure those that do not matter will wonder why they were invited in the first place. Why would they? Odds are excellent they will never be the wiser and what they don't know will never hurt them. They are going to get everything they came to see and experience if they chose to come, which as I've mentioned most of the doesn't-need-to-know group will most likely not be attending. Frankly if I don't rate high enough to be told the truth, I wouldn't want to be on your "scale of life" at all. I'm shocked this is the first time anyone here has become acquainted with the concept of courtesy invites. I guess everyone on TK only invited the very closest people to them to their weddings. Let me use a particular couple invited to ours that doesn't make the need to know list as an example: my parents best friends. These are people they developed a relationship with after I moved away from home (15 years ago). I couldn't pick them out of a line up. My FI has never met them. My parents enjoy vacationing with them and my Dad would love a friend to golf with in MX. They've been to two of these people's children's weddings. My Mom, who has asked for nothing at all where all of this is concerned, asked if we would invite them. Sure, no problem I say. Am I getting on the phone with them and giving them the run down? No. So where are they on my scale of life? They don't quite make it on there at all really but if it would make my Mom and Dad happy inviting them it is no skin off my nose. But that still doesn't entitle them to our private medical business. 

I'd love to. So quit making stupid, unneeded comments. So easy.

NYCBruin

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

wrigleyville said:

Oh, please. Stop treating your fake wedding like covert ops. You aren't the goddamn President.

I feel really bad for your supposed loved ones, because you obviously don't care about them one bit.

I have no idea what I've said that brings you to using such grandiose language to describe our plans. Covert ops? Wow, fancy. But then discussing it here could potentially blow our Op Sec, so that would be foolish. (sarcasm heavily intended). You people crack me up. There's this group outrage here that we're lying. I say we've told the ones that matter. That's still not good enough. Yea, ok, whatthefuckever. At this point just be glad you're not invited, but keep a careful lookout at all future weddings you are invited to because you just never know (insert your comment back about how you don't associate with liars and your family and friends would never do such a thing. I'll wait). 

I'm not sure why you would find this surprising.  Never said I did. Saying something cracks me up isn't the same as being surprised. How often do you see group delight when someone lies?  And as far as being "truthful" to the ones that matter? I don't know why truthful was in quotation marks. Those that needed to know know the whole truth and nothing but the truth.  I'm sure those that do not matter will wonder why they were invited in the first place. Why would they? Odds are excellent they will never be the wiser and what they don't know will never hurt them. They are going to get everything they came to see and experience if they chose to come, which as I've mentioned most of the doesn't-need-to-know group will most likely not be attending. Frankly if I don't rate high enough to be told the truth, I wouldn't want to be on your "scale of life" at all. I'm shocked this is the first time anyone here has become acquainted with the concept of courtesy invites. I guess everyone on TK only invited the very closest people to them to their weddings. Let me use a particular couple invited to ours that doesn't make the need to know list as an example: my parents best friends. These are people they developed a relationship with after I moved away from home (15 years ago). I couldn't pick them out of a line up. My FI has never met them. My parents enjoy vacationing with them and my Dad would love a friend to golf with in MX. They've been to two of these people's children's weddings. My Mom, who has asked for nothing at all where all of this is concerned, asked if we would invite them. Sure, no problem I say. Am I getting on the phone with them and giving them the run down? No. So where are they on my scale of life? They don't quite make it on there at all really but if it would make my Mom and Dad happy inviting them it is no skin off my nose. But that still doesn't entitle them to our private medical business. 

I'd love to. So quit making stupid, unneeded comments. So easy.

mrs4everhart

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

NYCBruin

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

mrs4everhart

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

Based on the amount of memes, gifs and other assorted images I constantly see on this site I do not think that is an accurate statement. 

NYCBruin

STBMrsEverhart said:

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

Based on the amount of memes, gifs and other assorted images I constantly see on this site I do not think that is an accurate statement. 

Considering you just quoted me three times and based on some of your previous posts, I can see technology is not a strong suit for you.  FTR it takes about 5 seconds to find and insert a gif if you know how to.

Also, considering your love of lying, even if I spent hours and hours on Google images, I think you'd still spend more time lying.

mrs4everhart

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

Based on the amount of memes, gifs and other assorted images I constantly see on this site I do not think that is an accurate statement. 

Considering you just quoted me three times and based on some of your previous posts, I can see technology is not a strong suit for you.  FTR it takes about 5 seconds to find and insert a gif if you know how to.

Also, considering your love of lying, even if I spent hours and hours on Google images, I think you'd still spend more time lying.

Yes, TK's quoting feature freak out is clearly my issue with technology. I'm well aware how long it takes to google image things, I spend a fair amount of time doing it for work. I get paid to do it there though. Not motivated enough to do it on my free time. Too busy concocting awesome lies to throw around flagrantly! 

MobKaz

STBMrsEverhart said:

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

Based on the amount of memes, gifs and other assorted images I constantly see on this site I do not think that is an accurate statement. 

Considering you just quoted me three times and based on some of your previous posts, I can see technology is not a strong suit for you.  FTR it takes about 5 seconds to find and insert a gif if you know how to.

Also, considering your love of lying, even if I spent hours and hours on Google images, I think you'd still spend more time lying.

Yes, TK's quoting feature freak out is clearly my issue with technology. I'm well aware how long it takes to google image things, I spend a fair amount of time doing it for work. I get paid to do it there though. Not motivated enough to do it on my free time. Too busy concocting awesome lies to throw around flagrantly! 

Funny......I assumed lying just came naturally to you; you're so adept at it.  

Jen4948

@KnotPorscha, I don't think this thread has anything more to offer besides fights.  What do you think?

mrs4everhart

mobkaz said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

NYCBruin said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

How much time do you people spend on Google Image exactly? 

Less time than you spend lying.

Based on the amount of memes, gifs and other assorted images I constantly see on this site I do not think that is an accurate statement. 

Considering you just quoted me three times and based on some of your previous posts, I can see technology is not a strong suit for you.  FTR it takes about 5 seconds to find and insert a gif if you know how to.

Also, considering your love of lying, even if I spent hours and hours on Google images, I think you'd still spend more time lying.

Yes, TK's quoting feature freak out is clearly my issue with technology. I'm well aware how long it takes to google image things, I spend a fair amount of time doing it for work. I get paid to do it there though. Not motivated enough to do it on my free time. Too busy concocting awesome lies to throw around flagrantly! 

Funny......I assumed lying just came naturally to you; you're so adept at it.  

Guess you don't know what they say about assuming then do you? 

mrs4everhart

Jen4948 said:

@KnotPorscha, I don't think this thread has anything more to offer besides fights.  What do you think?

OMFG. 

Fran1985

STBMrsEverhart said:

Jen4948 said:

@KnotPorscha, I don't think this thread has anything more to offer besides fights.  What do you think?

OMFG. 

I don't get your reactions. You just said you wanted it to end. Let's just have the knot put this thread out of its misery- we are practically at the "I know you are but what am I" stage of the thread. Clearly no one is getting through to you, and both sides are just exasperated

PolarBearFitz

Fran1985 said:

STBMrsEverhart said:

Jen4948 said:

@KnotPorscha, I don't think this thread has anything more to offer besides fights.  What do you think?

OMFG. 

I don't get your reactions. You just said you wanted it to end. Let's just have the knot put this thread out of its misery- we are practically at the "I know you are but what am I" stage of the thread. Clearly no one is getting through to you, and both sides are just exasperated

Truest story I ever heard.