It's started. I am losing it. FI can't seem to remember a friggin' thing and is driving me crazy.
We talked no less than a dozen times about he and the groomsmen are wearing, yet just called me to ask what color shoes he should be buying. OMFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFFGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG are you KIDDING ME????!!!!!!
First of all, you're not 5. Buy whatever fucking shoes you want to. But don't act like we didn't alreayd discuss this a dozen times. Then he gets all butthurt when I'm impatient with him... "I'm just trying to help". Well I don't know, maybe take some fucking notes if it's so hard to remember?? That would be helpful.
Underneath all this anger is the frustration of feeling like if I don't do it myself, it won't get done. Vendors, FI, wedding party... all the same story. No one can seemingly get it together unless I'm leading the way. Getting REALLY old.