DH and I were having a conversation today (via text, because I'm OOS on business), and I mentioned giving the wedding presents we bought for two friends' upcoming wedding to them this weekend when we see them.
Him: But it's not their wedding yet.
Me: I know, but I want to give them their gift before the wedding.
Him: Can't we just take it to the wedding?
Me: No. We are not doing that. We are going to give it to them early, like normal folk.
Him: But we can't show up to the wedding empty-handed. What will people think?
Me: That we are polite, well-bred people who don't bring boxed gifts to weddings and instead deliver them before hand, like you're supposed to?
Him: I suppose your Knotter-people agree with you that this this is the right thing to do, don't they?
Me: Yes. So does Miss Manners. So does Mama HisGirl.
Him: OK, you win.
#TheKnot #FTW #etiquette
I'm gonna go with 'not my circus, not my monkeys.'