Hello everyone!
I'm new to the site. I've officially been engaged since yesterday to my boyfriend of 5 years.
I have questions about ring-wearing etiquette. I've never really been much of a ring-wearer, so now that I have this gorgeous new ring, how often should I wear it? I don't mind wearing it every day, but what about going to the gym? Going out for a run? Washing the dishes? I'll probably take it off before going to bed.
What are your opinions about when do you think it is ok to not wear the ring?
Thanks!
Re: Newly engaged! - How often should I wear my ring?
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I wear mine almost all the time. I take it off to shower, swim and when I am baking. When I workout I just wear my wedding band.
Its a personal preference. Just make sure its insured.
Other than that I wear it all day. May take it off if I'm baking something particularly messy or digging in the garden to save it from getting gunk between the prongs.
But number one rule for me is. If its not on your finger, its in the ring box. No taking it off and leaving it on the counter etc.
(I lost a ring my mother gave me this way. Left it on the counter while doing something and I assume it accidentally got knocked in the trash or something because when i remembered to go put it back on it was long gone.)
ETA: Congrats on the engagement
If it is a diamond ring, 14K gold, you can wear it all the time. I take mine off if I am making pie dough or scrubbing out the toilet. Otherwise, it has been on my hand for 38 years. I don't worry about losing it if it is on my hand.
If you have a pearl, opal, turquoise, or other soft stone, you need to be more careful about wearing it when you are doing sports or anything active where you might damage it.
Congratulations!
I wear my ring all the time, except when I'm at work, baking, washing dishes, swimming, gym, sleeping shower or any other activity that will get dirt on the ring or around the prongs. I never really wear it at home if I'm on my own. It stays in the ring box safely when it's not on my finger.
Can we see a pic of your ring?
Hi and Congrats!
I got engaged in March and I barely take it off. Pretty much the only times I do is when I take a shower (for fear it might slip off and go down the drain) and when I do my makeup just in case things get messy. Otherwise its on me all day and night and has not slipped off once. I think it is whatever your comfortable with. I was never a big jewelry wearer but it feels weird if I don't have it on now so on it stays:)
When we first got engaged (March 2013), I was so afraid of hurting it that I took it off to wash my hands, do the wishes - pretty sure anything besides just wearing it. Last summer, I wore it to the beach and went into the ocean with it on. After that, I realized, hey this thing isn't really going anywhere. Now 2 months before our wedding, like the PP, I take it off if I'm doing something particularly messy (baking, handling raw meat) and the shower. It's the first thing off when I crawl into bed (put it on my nightstand in the box) and it's the last thing I put on in the morning.
However, I do know people who only wear their rings in public (or wear the band but not the e-ring at home). My bff/MOH is a nurse and she can't wear her e-ring, so she's put it away and only wears her band now. Before that, she wore it 24/7 - going on 8 years and 3 kids later. I think it's just a matter of preference and what feels right for you.
We did get engaged in Mexico and I left it in the safe in our room there a lot so it wouldn't slip off in the ocean or while zip lining etc. I wear it when I run and hike and it doesn't bother me, you'll just have to see if it bothers you. I notice mine all the time because of the sparkle but I really don't physically feel it on my hand anymore. You'll get used to it.
ALL THE TIME!
At first I was really shocked however, my fiancés parents have been married a long time. One thing that stuck was when he said his mom never took her ring off even to do the dishes. I shower and I even went in the beach with it on from that point on. I love my ring and am proud. I wear it everywhere!
Shelly
I take mine off to clean it once a week. Put small squirt of dishwashing liquid in a cup, four squirts of Windex and add water a bit of water, stirring it up with your finger. Microwave 20 seconds. Now drop your rings in the hot liquid to soak for a couple of minutes. Brush rings with an old toothbrush, getting under any prongs. Rinse well in clear water and dry.