I'm also hoping to find a nice wedge but I need the height. I am already tall (5'8") but my fiancé is very tall (6'6") so I'm hoping to make up some of the difference with the shoes! We're getting married outside so I want wedge to avoid sinking if the ground is wet!
I voted others, but I wore heels for the ceremony and a few pictures. After an hour I was all "F this shit, get me my wedges!" So I changed into comfy foam wedged flip flops I got from VS that were the same height as my heels (no worries about the dress dragging). OMG, my feet felt great for the rest of the night! Comfort should always win, especially when no one will see them.