I went to bed, but I couldn't sleep and had a gnawing feeling about what FI was possibly doing in the other room. So, about a half hour or so later, I went out and asked to see the cell phone (because he had said the other day that I can ask at any time and he would hand it right over). After a few moments, I find that he was watching x-rated videos basically since I left the room to go to sleep. I called my mom and she picked me up and I am at her place with a bag of clothes and the necessities. I told FI I need some time and space to think. He said he would call me tomorrow to talk (and he wants me to come over to the apartment tomorrow, if I haven't made a decision by then, to scoop the litter).