FH and I don't really drink much (he's a diabetic, I just don't like it, we're not so desperate to drink that it's been put in our budget to have an open bar). How do we say to people (politely) that we won't be providing alcohol?
What if people BYOB (not that we suggest it, that they do it of their own initiative)? Will it be side-eyed?
We made the decision to tee-total, and our family will respect that, but I have a couple (two or three) friends who might be a bit arsey about it. Just... How do I handle it?