Hello everyone,
Long time lurker, first time poster.
My fiancés older brother “A” lives in our state and is in his mid 40’s. He is seeing a lovely lady “C” who is about his age, however, she happens to live in a different state. They do the long distance thing and each spend a few weeks going to each other’s homes. Neither has officially moved and each maintains their own homes. They spend equal time together at each of the homes and time alone at their own homes.
They are a couple and identify as one, but how is the invite addressed and which address does it go to?
I see a few options
1.“C” gets her own invite just to her sent to her home. “A” gets his invite sent to his home. Not loving this option because then then are not being invited as a couple and that just seems wrong.
2.“C” and “A” are invited on the same invite and sent to “C’s” address. Not loving this because A is my fiancés brother so I feel like an invite should go to his home.
3.“C” and “A” are invited on the same invite and it is sent to “A’s” address. I think this one might work but technically speaking it’s not right either.
I suppose option number 1 might be the technical answer but it “feels” wrong if that makes sense. I am sure if I addressed them as a couple and sent the invite to just one house they would in no way be offended. I just didn’t know what was “right”.
Additionally, she has a college age son who lives with her/at school. I understand that he will get his own invite as well which I am guessing will go to her address since that is where he lives.
Thank you!