Hi all, so I'm on the fence about asking my bridesmaids and groomsmen to cover their own meal as well as attire for my wedding. My FI and I have been together for 10 years he finally popped the question over the holidays and everyone is pushing us to start planning a wedding that they feel has been long over due. I recently went back to school so my FI has taken on the majority of our financial responsibilities. Needless to say he has put me on a very strict budget for the wedding planning with an extremely long guest list of family and friends that have been praying for the day. the only way that I can think to make this work is to ask my wedding party to cover their own meal and attire.
I don't want to be rude or offend anyone. Please help !!!!