So, when I say "mom and dad", I actually am referencing my bio maternal grandmother and grandfather, who raised me.
Mom has bio daughter she gave up for adoption; daughter found the family around 30+ years ago. Daughter is my very favorite Aunt P. Aunt P's family does not know Aunt P tracked us down.
Aunt P's mother has unexpectedly and traumatically, passed away this week. We are at a bit of a loss of what to do. We've sent a card, but we wanted to send something else. Aunt P is a master gardener, so there's no plant we could really send that would be memorable. Can't send wine due to alcohol laws. Aunt P's mother was really an amazing woman and highly involved in clubs and her church, so I'm sure Aunt P and her partner are drowning in food. Plus, we want it to be something significant.
Any other ideas? My mom and I are so sad for her, but this is something we absolutely do not want to seem like we're inserting ourselves into or infringing upon. Aunt P only has her father now, who is in a support home for those suffering from Alzheimers.