FI and I really like the idea of a unity sand ceremony, however we don't want to do it while exhanging our vows. We prefer to be holding hands and looking at each other.
When is a good alternate time in the ceremony do it? FI is a bit worried people might get bored if nothing else is going on while we're doing the sand ceremony. I thought maybe doing it after the vows and just having the musicians play a song in the background.
Re: When to do Unity Sand Ceremony if not during vows?
You would have a song played while you do the sand. Guests won't get bored, they'll be watching you and it only takes about a minute or two.
Pics in married bio of ours.
When a couple in the church I'm the organist for has a unity ceremony (candles, sand, etc.) I generally recommend that they just have organ music in the background. That's because I can tailor it to the length of the ceremony and the couple (and guests) aren't just awkwardly waiting for a vocal solo to end. (I gracefully fade out the music as they finish lighting, pouring, etc.)
my planning blog
There is the 'description' of what it means, we had a song in the background (Jim Brickman's 'Angel Eyes') that she started as we started to walk tward the table, the pastor read the 'description' then we poured followed by the mother's roses, she stretched the song through that entire part