My fiance is supposed to get deployed in January and we originally planned to get married the fall after he returns. the reason we are doing it in the fall because my little brother is graduating that year. We want a planned wedding with all our family there but we keep coming to wanting to just get married so we can be there to support each other. We are currently 7 hours apart and its already eating at us for not being able to be in each others arms.
Should we get married couple of weeks before his deployment and have our parents there then still plan out our wedding on the original date for the rest of the family?
My thing is I don't want my family feel that we got married so fast and for the wrong reasons. We both want a planned wedding not something way over the top just a celebration with family.
How will we have the ceremony at the real wedding since we will already be married when we have the wedding for the families?