What do you think of...

LetsHikeToday

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[QUOTE]I'm deleting my status. To those of you that saw it I'm sorry. I got irritated people were like I don't care if you're happy in a relationship I'm spending tonight drinking. There were some mean ones aimed at people in relationships so I retaliated. I'm sorry to thsoe of you that I upset
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]



No, don't delete your status. It's how you feel.i was just giving you my opinion. Dont llet my opinion guide your Facebook.

Zimsgirl

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What do you think of... : No, don't delete your status. It's how you feel.i was just giving you my opinion. Dont llet my opinion guide your Facebook.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
I deleted because my parents are on facebook and I don't want them to think I'm arguing with people. I definitely had some fb drama in early high school and while my parents didn't have fb, my aunt did so she told my dad. Just one less thing 

LetsHikeToday

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What do you think of... : I deleted because my parents are on facebook and I don't want them to think I'm arguing with people. I definitely had some fb drama in early high school and while my parents didn't have fb, my aunt did so she told my dad. Just one less thing 
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]



Gotcha.

For what it's worth, I wasn't trying to argue. I hate all Facebook statues about valentines: gushy or bitchy :-)

CAB1217

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What do you think of... : Gotcha. For what it's worth, I wasn't trying to argue. I hate all Facebook statues about valentines: <strong>gushy or bitchy :-)
</strong>Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]

YUP. I have shut down FB for the day. It's too much.

ggirl2001

At least single people can be more entertaining on v day haha. I can't stand the mushiness.

calindi

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[QUOTE]I'm deleting my status. To those of you that saw it I'm sorry. I got irritated people were like I don't care if you're happy in a relationship I'm spending tonight drinking. There were some mean ones aimed at people in relationships so I retaliated. I'm sorry to thsoe of you that I upset
Posted by Zimsgirl[/QUOTE]

I think the thing is that there's no need to be retaliatory.  If someone in particular annoys you, either hide their post (or all their posts) or tell them about it (as I did!).  It's not a mature or productive way to handle a difference of opinion.

I personally couldn't give two craps about Valentines Day.  I never celebrated, I never will.  FI took me out to dinner on Friday, which was semi-related to Valentines but mostly because we were just due for a date night.  I don't care if I see people complain, celebrate, whatever.  I never did, whether I was single or with someone.  But I don't like when someone tells other people what they can/can't or should/shouldn't do.  Do what you want to do, but don't judge others.  Most especially if you live in glass houses, don't throw stones.

ETA:  The only reason I'm posting today is because it's 200 days until my wedding!!!!

Zimsgirl

I definitely could've worded it better. My aunt even texted me asking about the comments and stuff so glad I deleted it. Need to be more careful and considerate next time

ggirl2001

Dude block your aunt from seeing crap if she gets all weir about it.

Zimsgirl

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[QUOTE]Dude block your aunt from seeing crap if she gets all weir about it.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]


She's just protective and I love her to death. It's my fault for forgetting how much family I have on there. I have people in lists so I just need to start being careful about what I post or if block certain lists from things

Zimsgirl

It was nice of her to see if I was ok because she's always been there for us. "family" on my moms side has been awful so it's nice that she's like that

crownsuperstar

I just try to be mindful of how I say and what I say on Facebook.  I (try any) not to post things about politics, religion or something that could possibly seem flame worthy.  I know I might not always do that but I do try to keep my facebook as unoffensive as possible with my posts.  That is just something that I do.  I don't want or care for drama. 

calindi

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[QUOTE]I just try to be mindful of how I say and what I say on Facebook.  I (try any) not to post things about politics, religion or something that could possibly seem flame worthy.  I know I might not always do that but I do try to keep my facebook as unoffensive as possible with my posts.  That is just something that I do.  I don't want or care for drama. 
Posted by crownsuperstar[/QUOTE]

I used to not post anything about politics.  Most of my friends are liberal (at least socially), so for the majority what I'd post would be fine anyway.  I've started posting those things more recently, though.

AmandaSC1988

Gah... I miss everything because I don't have any of you as friends on Facebook!

=(

Speaking of facebook. My FIs Crazzzyyy Aunt pointed out to FI that I used "colorful" language a few months ago..

I said "Texas Sucks" which is like saying "Boomer Sooner" or "Roll Tide"......Clearly I should be careful about the things I say on FB. I'm rolling my eyes right now.

crownsuperstar

I have friends across the board. So I agree with and some I don't. So for me, I just choose not to say anything that causes a discussion because they will not get me to change my mind and I won't change theirs. So I just don't get into it. Know what I mean?

kyrgyzstan

Those of you who are my FB friends know exactly how I feel about Chris Brown, and it ain't good. 

I'm mushy about H on FB because I'm a newleywed who can't talk to him often, so it's a nice thing for him to see and it makes me feel happy. Anyone who doesn't like me can delete or hide me.

I'll post about politics all day long.

ggirl2001

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[QUOTE]Those of you who are my FB friends know exactly how I feel about Chris Brown, and it ain't good.  I'm mushy about H on FB because I'm a newleywed who can't talk to him often, so it's a nice thing for him to see and it makes me feel happy. Anyone who doesn't like me can delete or hide me. I'll post about politics all day long.
Posted by WishIcouldbeinthe'stan[/QUOTE]


That goes back to acceptable mushiness. Your h is gone. Mushiness ok. And you tend to make it sweet yet funny at the same time. It's enjoyable to read. Or maybe I just like you and don't like the other people on fb. That's totally possible.

CAB1217

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What do you think of... : That goes back to acceptable mushiness. <strong>Your h is gone. Mushiness ok</strong>. And you tend to make it sweet yet funny at the same time. It's enjoyable to read. Or maybe I just like you and don't like the other people on fb. That's totally possible.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]

Agreed.

kyrgyzstan

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: What do you think of... :
Or maybe I just like you and don't like the other people on fb. That's totally possible.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]



*dances*

divinemsbee

I know we've left the subject of Chris Brown, but this is one of the best handing-of-his-ass to him I've seen:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IFOZ3dcNucY&feature=player_embedded#!