Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!)

bethsmiles

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[QUOTE]Confession: If it was socially appropriate, I would constantly refer to BF as my Gentleman Lover. <strong>Confession: I look at E-rings on etsy purposefully when BF is next to me so I can hint at certaint styles without feeling like Im bombarding him. To be fair, I mostly do it so that I can slowly make sure he gets me something that will be good for my profession, but still. THE SHAME.</strong>
Posted by PrincessTinyFeet[/QUOTE]

I didn't even hint when BF and I were talking about engagement rings. I sent him e-mails with pictures and links. I also really hope he got me e-ring off etsy because there were a lot on there that I loved!

skepticals

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : I didn't even hint when BF and I were talking about engagement rings. I sent him e-mails with pictures and links. I also really hope he got me e-ring off etsy because there were a lot on there that I loved!
Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]

<div>You guys are going on 4 years, I think youre allowed to lose a bit of tact at that point! haha!</div><div>Etsy has the best rings, they are so unique. One on there in particular always has me coming back to it.</div><div> Pics of the rings you like on there?  ;)</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: To clarify</div>

Peaseblossom55

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[QUOTE]Confession : Even though in general I'm not too upset about the lack of engagement, it bothers me when people who have been together for less time that he's had the ring get engaged. I'm like 'really?? ' But then I go back to not caring until the next person pops up (and, it seems lately, leaves just as quickly).
Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]

OMG me too... it's been almost 3 years now.... and we're old.

<strong>Also, I wasn't upset at all, except for the fact that it was 1:30 am and I was arguing about the line up of the Bulgaria National Quidditch team
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Drew you had me giggle out loud on this comment.

Hummingbird125

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[QUOTE]Confession : Even though in general I'm not too upset about the lack of engagement, it bothers me when people who have been together for less time that he's had the ring get engaged. I'm like 'really?? ' But then I go back to not caring until the next person pops up (and, it seems lately, leaves just as quickly).
Posted by ahstillwell[/QUOTE]

<div>Totally with you, Still. I'm very happy with where my relationship is right now - and wouldn't even want to be engaged quite yet, but it bothers me a little that one of BF's best friends is now happily married with a baby, when that couple started dating AFTER we did, and it definitely bothered me when my best friend got engaged to her boyfriend after less than a year. I know that the way they do things shouldn't affect my "plan", but I guess it bothers me because we get questions about when we're getting engaged/having kids, when we are doing everything at a very reasonable pace. I feel like I've just hit that age when <strong>everyone </strong>around me/on facebook seems to be getting engaged or pregnant, and it makes me a little uncomfortable. That's my unpop op/confession of the day.</div><div>
</div><div>Another (related) confession is that I've had so many little SQUUEEEE moments with BF lately. For god sakes, I bugged him to go get me a DD iced coffee this morning even though he didn't want coffee, and he finally agreed. Before leaving he gave me a big kiss and said "But ONLY because you're the love of my life." He's not normally a cheeseball, but he's been throwing the "I love you"'s around like crazy lately, and it makes me sooo happy.</div><div>
</div><div>I JUDGE those who claim to not have an opinion about big political issues. </div><div>
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audrewuh

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[QUOTE]Confession: If it was socially appropriate, I would constantly refer to BF as my Gentleman Lover. Confession: I look at E-rings on etsy purposefully when BF is next to me so I can hint at certaint styles without feeling like Im bombarding him. To be fair, I mostly do it so that I can slowly make sure he gets me something that will be good for my profession, but still. THE SHAME.
Posted by PrincessTinyFeet[/QUOTE]

<div>So so shameful. I used to do that and finally I went over to FI's apartment one day and grabbed his computer to look up something and he said, hey, show me some rings you like. I was sooo giddy. </div><div>
</div><div>In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_confessionsi-judgeun-pop-ops?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:1d933fea-8d9a-4381-9ec9-a074c37fb9c2Post:73deacf4-333e-43a5-9855-50e51d086c8d">Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!)</a>:
[QUOTE]I confess that even though I know it's not race, it really irks me that several of my friends this year have gotten engaged/married to people they've known for less than 6 months. I was talking to a good friend last night and he's thinking about proposing to a girl he's been dating for 3 1/2 weeks. And now the line "When you know, you know" they've all used to explain this behavoir makes me stabby. I confess that I'm jealous of Elle and Drew's HP conversation because I would love to discuss anything HP related at 1:30 am or really anytime.
Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]
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</div><div>The "when you know, you know" line makes me stabby too. Especially after a couple of months of dating. FI and I knew a couple months in, but we were smart (okay, he was smart, I had wedding fever at the time) about it and took our time. It also makes me vomit when I hear that phrase used by the same person more than once. </div>

bethsmiles

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : You guys are going on 4 years, I think youre allowed to lose a bit of tact at that point! haha! Etsy has the best rings, they are so unique. One on there in particular always has me coming back to it.  Pics of the rings you like on there?  ;) ETA: To clarify
Posted by PrincessTinyFeet[/QUOTE]

I'm hoping BF got something similar to these two rings:

<a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/83674007/14k-asscher-morganite-diamond-engagement" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/83674007/14k-asscher-morganite-diamond-engagement</a>

<a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/105187646/14k-white-gold-diamond-london-blue-topaz?ref=sr_gallery_2&ga_search_query=london+blue+topaz+halo+ring&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_ship_to=ZZ&ga_min=0&ga_max=0&ga_search_type=all" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/105187646/14k-white-gold-diamond-london-blue-topaz?ref=sr_gallery_2&ga_search_query=london+blue+topaz+halo+ring&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_ship_to=ZZ&ga_min=0&ga_max=0&ga_search_type=all</a>

thejucheidea

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) :  it bothers me a little that one of BF's best friends is now happily married with a baby, when that couple started dating AFTER we did
Posted by Hummingbird125[/QUOTE]

One of my coworkers is like that. She and her husband started dating a month after Tyler and I did, they got married before knowing each other for a year and she was pregnant six months after they got married, so she has a ten month old now. Say whaaaat. The closest thing we have to that is an eleven month old puppy :x.

audrewuh

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : Totally with you, Still. I'm very happy with where my relationship is right now - and wouldn't even want to be engaged quite yet, but it bothers me a little that one of BF's best friends is now happily married with a baby, when that couple started dating AFTER we did, and it definitely bothered me when my best friend got engaged to her boyfriend after less than a year. I know that the way they do things shouldn't affect my "plan", but I guess it bothers me because we get questions about when we're getting engaged/having kids, when we are doing everything at a very reasonable pace. I feel like I've just hit that age when everyone around me/on facebook seems to be getting engaged or pregnant, and it makes me a little uncomfortable. That's my unpop op/confession of the day. Another (related) confession is that I've had so many little SQUUEEEE moments with BF lately. For god sakes, I bugged him to go get me a DD iced coffee this morning even though he didn't want coffee, and he finally agreed. Before leaving he gave me a big kiss and said "But ONLY because you're the love of my life." <strong>He's not normally a cheeseball, but he's been throwing the "I love you"'s around like crazy lately, and it makes me sooo happy.</strong> I JUDGE those who claim to not have an opinion about big political issues. 
Posted by Hummingbird125[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I love those moments. :)</div><div>
</div><div>Confession: FI's been all "I love you" lately, but every damn time I say "I love you too" he responds with "are you sure?"</div><div>
</div><div>I told him a few days ago that it came across as needy and insecure and that annoyed the piss out of me and he needed to stop. <--- totally didn't help with the kind and caring demeanor he's been needing from me with all of this going on lately. </div><div>
</div><div>Hi, I'm Audrewuh and I'm an emotionally unsupportive b*tch. 

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skepticals

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : So so shameful. I used to do that and finally <strong>I went over to FI's apartment one day and grabbed his computer to look up something and he said, hey, show me some rings you like. I was sooo giddy.</strong>  In Response to  Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : The "when you know, you know" line makes me stabby too. Especially after a couple of months of dating. FI and I knew a couple months in, but we were smart (okay, he was smart, I had wedding fever at the time) about it and took our time. It also makes me vomit when I hear that phrase used by the same person more than once. 
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

<div>BF sometimes makes comments on the rings, or asks if I like that one in particular, and I feel the same way. Its like taking a bite of American Victory while riding a bald eagle.</div>

audrewuh

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : I'm hoping BF got something similar to these two rings: 
Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]

<div>Beth, those are pretty! Did I miss the post where you said he bought the ring?</div><div>
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audrewuh

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : BF sometimes makes comments on the rings, or asks if I like that one in particular, and I feel the same way. <strong>Its like taking a bite of American Victory while riding a bald eagle.</strong>
Posted by PrincessTinyFeet[/QUOTE]

<div>'Merica. Fck yea! </div>

skepticals

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : I'm hoping BF got something similar to these two rings: <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/83674007/14k-asscher-morganite-diamond-engagement" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/83674007/14k-asscher-morganite-diamond-engagement</a> <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/105187646/14k-white-gold-diamond-london-blue-topaz?ref=sr_gallery_2&ga_search_query=london+blue+topaz+halo+ring&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_ship_to=ZZ&ga_min=0&ga_max=0&ga_search_type=all" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/105187646/14k-white-gold-diamond-london-blue-topaz?ref=sr_gallery_2&ga_search_query=london+blue+topaz+halo+ring&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_ship_to=ZZ&ga_min=0&ga_max=0&ga_search_type=all</a>
Posted by bethsmiles[/QUOTE]

<div>WOW, those are both beautiful! I love the first one, the pale peachy pink is so classy!</div><div>
</div><div>Ive been eyeing some heavily nature-inspired ones. I hope he gets me something along these lines...</div><div>
</div><div><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/97215934/budding-branch-diamond-engagement-ring?ref=usr_faveitems" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/97215934/budding-branch-diamond-engagement-ring?ref=usr_faveitems</a></div><div>
</div><div><a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/82303524/pear-white-sapphire-twig-ring-in-white?ref=usr_faveitems" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/82303524/pear-white-sapphire-twig-ring-in-white?ref=usr_faveitems</a></div><div>
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audrewuh

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[QUOTE]Beth, I looove that morganite ring. LOVE. You have excellent taste :)
Posted by buggle2[/QUOTE]

<div>Now. Confess, Judge, or tell your Unpop Op.</div>

tuarceatha

I CONFESS that I like that Honey Boo Boo show and I know it is an UO!

Boom. Judge away.

skepticals

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : 'Merica. Fck yea! 
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

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audrewuh

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[QUOTE]I CONFESS that I like that Honey Boo Boo show and I know it is an UO! Boom. Judge away.
Posted by jenjenniferf[/QUOTE]

<div>I confess that I really really really want to watch Honey Boo Boo because I think I would love it. </div>

tuarceatha

I watched it last night and minus the pageant coverage, I'm 100% entertained.

Peaseblossom55

I love those rings.  I occaisionally leave up blue nile's website on my computer with pictures of rings that I like.  I did mention to BF awhile back to go to one of his close friends and co worker for ring advice his wife has a gorgeous ring.  I told him to not discuss it with his other two friends their FI's got ring that were not my style.

IrishDreamer

Confession: It was brought to my attention last night that I always take the easy way out - or run from my problems. I'm having a hard time dealing with this.

Confession: I have wanted to just curl up in a ball and cry for the last 5 days

Confession: I feel like a horrible FI because I'm so overwhelmed.

Unpop: I think there is nothing wrong with spankings. A good swat on the butt never hurt anyone. I'm not talking beat the snot out of your kid - but I think parents are waaaaaaay too soft nowadays

audrewuh

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[QUOTE]I love those rings.  I occaisionally leave up blue nile's website on my computer with pictures of rings that I like.  I did mention to BF awhile back to go to one of his close friends and co worker for ring advice his wife has a gorgeous ring.  I told him to not discuss it with his other two friends their FI's got ring that were not my style.
Posted by danser55[/QUOTE]

<div>That's awesome. </div><div>
</div><div>FI has said we can buy me a new ring as an anniversary gift in a few years. That makes me happy because, as I love my ring, I don't like it a whole lot. If that makes sense. </div>

bethsmiles

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : Beth, those are pretty! <strong>Did I miss the post where you said he bought the ring?</strong>
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

No, I didn't make a post about it. I can't even remember when he told me he bought it lol.

audrewuh

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[QUOTE]Confession: It was brought to my attention last night that I always take the easy way out - or run from my problems. I'm having a hard time dealing with this. Confession: I have wanted to just curl up in a ball and cry for the last 5 days Confession: I feel like a horrible FI because I'm so overwhelmed. Unpop: I think there is nothing wrong with spankings. A good swat on the butt never hurt anyone. I'm not talking beat the snot out of your kid - but <strong>I think parents are waaaaaaay too soft nowadays</strong>
Posted by IrishDreamer[/QUOTE]

<div>Amen sistah!</div><div>
</div><div>Don't cry, Irish! It's going to get better. Things just suck really hard right now. Did y'all get the house stuff figured out?</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: And I'll make room for you in the "horrible FI club" even though you don't belong. </div>

bethsmiles

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : WOW, those are both beautiful! I love the first one, the pale peachy pink is so classy! Ive been eyeing some heavily nature-inspired ones. I hope he gets me something along these lines... <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/97215934/budding-branch-diamond-engagement-ring?ref=usr_faveitems" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/97215934/budding-branch-diamond-engagement-ring?ref=usr_faveitems</a> <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/82303524/pear-white-sapphire-twig-ring-in-white?ref=usr_faveitems" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/82303524/pear-white-sapphire-twig-ring-in-white?ref=usr_faveitems</a>
Posted by PrincessTinyFeet[/QUOTE]

I like those! It took me forever to decide on a style of ring I like because I kept changing my mind. I finally had to make myself stop looking.

IrishDreamer

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : Amen sistah! Don't cry, Irish! It's going to get better. Things just suck really hard right now. Did y'all get the house stuff figured out?
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

House stuff?? HAHAHA NO.

We can't even deal with that until we deal with the vehicle situation.
Then it's the work situation, school, and then house. Oh yeah, and eventually we'll get married - probably after 2015.

audrewuh

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : House stuff?? HAHAHA NO. We can't even deal with that until we deal with the vehicle situation. Then it's the work situation, school, and then house. Oh yeah, and eventually we'll get married - probably after 2015.
Posted by IrishDreamer[/QUOTE]

<div>It'll all come together, don't worry. Drink all the wine and you'll be okay! :D</div>

Peaseblossom55

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[QUOTE]Confession: It was brought to my attention last night that I always take the easy way out - or run from my problems. I'm having a hard time dealing with this. Confession: I have wanted to just curl up in a ball and cry for the last 5 days Confession: I feel like a horrible FI because I'm so overwhelmed. Unpop: I think there is nothing wrong with spankings. A good swat on the butt never hurt anyone. I'm not talking beat the snot out of your kid - but I think parents are waaaaaaay too soft nowadays
Posted by IrishDreamer[/QUOTE]
i totally agree with your unpop op, even though I'm not a parent. I agree parents are way too soft nowadays.

I'm sorry you feel like crying though. Sending you hugs.

Hummingbird125

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : WOW, those are both beautiful! I love the first one, the pale peachy pink is so classy! Ive been eyeing some heavily nature-inspired ones. I hope he gets me something along these lines... <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/97215934/budding-branch-diamond-engagement-ring?ref=usr_faveitems" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/97215934/budding-branch-diamond-engagement-ring?ref=usr_faveitems</a> <a href="http://www.etsy.com/listing/82303524/pear-white-sapphire-twig-ring-in-white?ref=usr_faveitems" rel="nofollow">http://www.etsy.com/listing/82303524/pear-white-sapphire-twig-ring-in-white?ref=usr_faveitems</a>
Posted by PrincessTinyFeet[/QUOTE]

<div>OMGOSH Princess, I looove the last one you posted - that pear-shaped one? And it's totally not my style at all. Wow.</div><div>
</div><div>Seriously, I buy mos tof my jewelry at Forever 21, so I'm sure I'll be ecstatic over any ring I get someday.</div>

audrewuh

OMG guys. Can I trade my e ring in for THESE??????

tuarceatha

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[QUOTE]OMG guys. Can I trade my e ring in for  THESE ??????
Posted by audrewuh[/QUOTE]

holy crap.

audrewuh

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Confessions/I Judge/Un Pop Ops (Come play with meeeee!) : holy crap.
Posted by jenjenniferf[/QUOTE]

<div>You're totes jelly, I know. </div><div>
</div><div>I can get a whole hand worth for just $20!!</div>