Just got the dress! It is the J Crew Fleur Gown. Everyone kept telling me it is "very me," which I thought was a good sign. I am in love with the beautiful lace, and daises are my absolute favorite flower.
http://www.jcrew.com/AST/Browse/WeddingParties/Wedding_Bride/gowns/PRDOVR~94767/94767.jspI got it new and unworn off ebay for less than half the retail price. Now hopefully I love it just as much when it comes in. (I have the option of returning it and only losing out on a little bit of cash if for some reason it doesn't work out for me.)