A girl I work with loves watching the housewives of NJ show. She's from up north and said she gets a real kick out of it because the women remind her of her Italian family, but in a good way apparently. Isn't that basically insulting your family and calling them trash? I've seen bits and pieces of the shows and no way would I want to be associated with them in any form.
There's a daughter of one of the trashwives who is 18 and needs a swift, hard kick in the fucking teeth. She's disgusting. It makes me feel so much better about my teenager!
I really want the one with four kids and too much tan to go buy herself an acceptable hairline. Isn't there something, like the opposite of hairplugs, that she can do to get herself a forehead? But don't call Danielle's surgeon! Her face looks like she fell off a cliff and landed facefirst into a pit of jellyfish who stung and paralyzed her face in her state of shock.
I do like the older one with red hair. She seems to be the only one with any amount of sense.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:46330221-e105-4fcc-8ffd-3e6e752b6ba2">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]Sarahplz I love you. I judge people who are judgy about a big wedding budget. There has been a lot of that lately and I am sick of it. Plus, a big budget one place means nothing somewhere else and every one needs to get on board with the realities of that. Plus, I am taking this personally because I am no worse off for having spent a lot and really happy with the result. I hate being judged from something that is not detrimental to me, kwim? Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE] Oh yeah I judge this big time too. I also judge engagement ring elitism which also goes both ways -- I hate when people say "My ring was only $500, I can't imagine my FI spending more!!!1" and I hate when people brag on how much their ring cost. It just really grinds my gears.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:dd4bb5c5-f6cf-407c-b995-0a2e65de1e2a">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Where is Mrstay??? Yeah, Lisarose, I mean, it is one thing to be super in debt because of a freaking wedding, but if you want/feel the need to spend something especially on your guest behalf it kills me. Actually, flame me but I think some brides are super cheap on their guest behalf a la cash bars, no dinner at the wedding, <strong>not letting people sit at ceremonies</strong> etc. Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]
My sister suggested this for my wedding to cut costs, I told her she was crazy to think I would ever be that rude to my guests.
But given she had no alcohol at her wedding, no dinner, just hors d'oeuvres (at 7pm!) no tables, no chairs... everyone had to stand and eat, and didn't have enough food for everyone, I didn't even get to eat, she and my BIL didn't even get to eat! It doesn't surprise me that this logic seemed okay to her.
I judge my friend who needs/wants to lose weight, yet eats fast food burgers and fries countless times a week (with her preschool children), drinks 60 ounces of soda per day (not diet soda), and wants to do a master cleanse because she 'doesn't have time to eat healthier'. Really? You have plenty of time for crappy food. Eat a vegetable. Better yet, feed your kids a vegetable.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:92ecef9e-1942-43df-814f-6bdafd782bfe">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]I judge parents who enable their kids to become spoiled entitled brats with no manners, now a days. Saying NO, not giving in to every whim your kid has, and teaching them about responsibilities might suck at the time but the human race will thank you later. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
i totally judge that too! a lot of parents don't own up and can't figure out why their kids are effed up and outta control!
the 3 people (who came together) who ruined my 8pm viewing of Eclipse:
1. The first one for talking on her cell phone the entire time-and not just taking calls, but MAKING calls. Oh and using her tacky, fake acrylic press-on nails to scratch at the arm chair. 2. The second for brining her no older than 3 month old baby, feeding her over 16oz of milk, and then telling her to "shut up" when she started crying. 3. The other "mom" bringing her 2 children both under the age of 5 stuffing them full of popcorn and pop (remember this is an 8pm movie-on a Thursday night) and also telling them to shut up and sit down "don't you know we're at a movie" when they decide they don't want to watch mommy's vampire movie.
I seriously hate stupid, inconsiderate people who don't take good care of their kids.
P.S. it took 2 different manager and a handful of people complaining to finally get them kicked out an hour into the movie.
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^that's why I can't stand going to movies anymore, people have become so f'ing stupid I can't take it, there's always talking, sticky soda reside on the floor, babies crying, little kids whose parents decided an R rated movie would be good for them, cell phones, etc. Just coudln't take it anymore. Only good time at the movies anymore is one place near my house that serves alcohol and turns the whole theater into 21 and up on certain nights.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:46330221-e105-4fcc-8ffd-3e6e752b6ba2">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]Sarahplz I love you. I judge people who are judgy about a big wedding budget. There has been a lot of that lately and I am sick of it. Plus, a big budget one place means nothing somewhere else and every one needs to get on board with the realities of that. Plus, I am taking this personally because I am no worse off for having spent a lot and really happy with the result. I hate being judged from something that is not detrimental to me, kwim? Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]
I agree with this... one of my friends makes comments about how she would "NEVER spend the kind of money" that I am spending and then refers to my wedding in contrast to hers saying " we aren't having the extravagant affair that you guys are"... Well... we are paying for our wedding ourselves, not charging a dime of it, because WE BUST OUR ARSES so that we can have what we really want. Im proud of us for this and the fact that we don't have to depend on others to do this. What is wrong with that? In the same respect, I don't judge her for having a smaller, lower budget wedding either. I know it will be beautiful no matter the price tag.
oh and ditto on letting people sit at the ceremony. My FI cousin is getting married this Saturday, and only got 20 chairs for her 100+ guests. "It's only a 20-25 min ceremony-it shouldn't be a big deal for people to have to stand". Hopefully no one gets hurt fighting over a chair.
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In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:e647980d-faf7-4afa-bf81-40fd526f3c18">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]oh and ditto on letting people sit at the ceremony. My FI cousin is getting married this Saturday, and only got 20 chairs for her 100+ guests. <strong> "It's only a 20-25 min ceremony-it shouldn't be a big deal for people to have to stand"</strong>. Hopefully no one gets hurt fighting over a chair. Posted by MaggieandJake[/QUOTE]
Okay, I judge that. That's ridiculous! Well, I hope Grandma brought her cane because she's going to be busting kneecaps for a chair.
I judge my BIL for leaving my sister to carry their newborn, the diaper bag, her purse, and anything else they need while he runs off to smoke a cigarette not even looking back to make sure they cross the street okay. I also judge him for reeking of cigarette smoke all the time. He doesn't wash his hands between smoking and holding the baby. I judge my sister for not saying anything to him.
I judge people who have HPV and don't tell their sexual partners. An STD is an STD. Even if it doesn't hurt men they are still going to give it to any woman they sleep with unprotected in the future unknowingly and YOU are responsible for it. I know so many people who get mad at a girl for doing the same with Herpes or what have you but for some reason think they are exempt because HPV "isn't as bad". Um, really? Last time I checked cervical cancer sucked the big one.
I judge my FILs for being horrible at life in general .
I judge my FMIl for telling FI that if she doesn't do what she likes she is going to " write him and his son out of her life".
I judge my FIL for not doing what we ask of them when they wat SS ( stepson ) . For instance they watched him on Saturday night and we had church on Sunday so we told them to have him ready at 1am . Well FI was talking to his dad in the AM and even reminded him that we were going to be there at 11 am and to have him ready . Well we get there at 11 am and SS and FFIL are no where in sight . FMIL said they were out on the golf cart , god knows where. Well I walk inside and his church cloths were still in the diaper back . WTH? So FMIL had to chase them down and we had to change him . Thank God we left a little early from our house , so we did get to church on time. UGH.
I jusge my FI a little for putting up with there BS.
I also Judge the people who don't even put there kids in a car seat too. I swear I was walking into walmart and some lady was in her car with her 3 kids and she was driving and holding the infant ( i am talking like maybe 5 months old ) .
I agree with the kids. For my birthday Scott had planned a dinner with our couple friends, M1 and M2. M1 got off work at 8pm, picked up her 18 month old, and met us at the restaurant at 9. She plunked her kid down in a high chair and we talked. After about 10 minutes the little one M3 (no joke, they all have Mar...names) started fussing because she hadn't seen her mom all day. Mom ignored her. M2 (dad) showed up around 10pm when he got off work and then she really started fussing because she wanted to sit in his lap. After about 30 minutes of quietly fussing she starts shrieking her head off. I started to get up to pick her up since they weren't and M1 goes "Oh just leave her, she needs to learn".
Um no, right now she needs attention from her mom and dad who she hasn't seen all day and needs to go to sleep. 9pm is way too late for someone that small to be eating dinner and by 10 she was exhausted and done behaving. We are in a public place so pick up your kid and deal with her for the sake of everyone else in the restaurant.
I judge men (normal able-bodied) who cut in front of old women for the bus seats. This seems to be happening a lot lately. Actually I judge any able-bodied person who doesn't give up their seat (without having to be asked) for elderly, disabled or pregnant women.
I'm so glad the movie theater I go to is not child-friendly.
Re: wedding budgets. When a girl on my club board found out that Carrie Underwood's wedding cost $500,000 she said, "that's a perfect example of caring more about the wedding than the actual marriage." Whoa! It is? Because I really don't think one has anything to do with the other.
I judge my friend's sister for every other FB status update she makes. "I finished my wedding invitations! If you don't get one, sorry, but I only had 150 to send!" Seriously, every other update is about wedding details. She almost didn't send my friend an invitation because she's in Africa in the Peace Corps and didn't think she'd attend. My friend was like, "seriously? That's harsh." Well guess what? She's coming back from Africa for her sister's wedding. So she conceded and sent her an invitation. Then again, I've met this girl and it scares me that she 1) has a kid and 2) is a teacher. Scares me a LOT.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:b7fe40ac-ec42-44b8-9272-cf3e0bde9334">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]I'm so glad the movie theater I go to is not child-friendly.<strong> Re: wedding budgets. When a girl on my club board found out that Carrie Underwood's wedding cost $500,000 she said, "that's a perfect example of caring more about the wedding than the actual marriage." Whoa! It is? Because I really don't think one has anything to do with the other. </strong>I judge my friend's sister for every other FB status update she makes. "I finished my wedding invitations! If you don't get one, sorry, but I only had 150 to send!" Seriously, every other update is about wedding details. She almost didn't send my friend an invitation because she's in Africa in the Peace Corps and didn't think she'd attend. My friend was like, "seriously? That's harsh." Well guess what? She's coming back from Africa for her sister's wedding. So she conceded and sent her an invitation. Then again, I've met this girl and it scares me that she 1) has a kid and 2) is a teacher. Scares me a LOT. Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
Yeah and when you're as loaded as Carrie Underwood and her pro hockey playing husband, $500,000 is not all that much, especially compared to the cost of some other celebrity weddings! Basically all the money/budget threads on the boards in general completely annoy me.
I judge the parents that bring their children to completely inappropriate movies. I am not joking, FI and I went to see the remake of Texas Chainsaw Massacre when it came out and there were people with their children, all under 10 years old, in the theater. WTF, people? Way to scar your kid emotionally for life.
I judge places that have pregnant parking. You're knocked up; you're not handicapped. The fact that you are walking into some baby superstore or mall where you will spend hours walking around shopping means you can walk from the back of the parking lot to the damn front door, just like everyone else. I park in PG parking spots all the time, so you guys can judge me for that.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:f95aa23f-e1bf-49b9-80ad-a932aa6bc362">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]I judge places that have pregnant parking. You're knocked up; you're not handicapped. The fact that you are walking into some baby superstore or mall where you will spend hours walking around shopping means you can walk from the back of the parking lot to the damn front door, just like everyone else. I park in PG parking spots all the time, so you guys can judge me for that. Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE] I love when they say "expectant mother parking." My H always says "Do you expect to be a mother someday? Then I feel like you can park there." haha.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:c11ba07f-0b6e-4e21-ba63-468a0755cb7b">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I love when they say "expectant mother parking." My H always says "Do you expect to be a mother someday? Then I feel like you can park there." haha. Posted by K Byte[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I use the same justification to park there, too, if there aren't any other decent spots. Oh, I also use a similar rationale to park in the "Future Resident" spots at my apartment complex. I figure if anyone says anything to me about it, I'll explain that 1) it doesn't say future resident of what (these apartments? Colorado? Earth?), 2) tomorrow is the future and I plan to still be a resident then, and 3) unless they're clairvoyant they can't tell if I'm a future resident or not.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:1a8a7e78-5d0c-4ae3-ac4a-dfc58fa9fbce">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]I judge old people who have nothing better to do with their last years than report minor violations of the rules to the home owners' association. Posted by vegasgroom[/QUOTE]
Oh, man. There's an old dude in my parents' neighborhood that does that. He walks around the neighborhood every day and jots down violations and leaves tickets on peoples' cars as well. My sister got a ticket for parking on the street, at the curb, in front of the mailboxes. Really? There's no sign saying you can't park there. Asshole.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:d0838dd3-ea3a-42c6-a9ce-8b62a3cafbcd">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Oh, man. There's an old dude in my parents' neighborhood that does that. He walks around the neighborhood every day and jots down violations and leaves tickets on peoples' cars as well. My sister got a ticket for parking on the street, at the curb, in front of the mailboxes. Really? There's no sign saying you can't park there. Asshole. Posted by Bubbalub[/QUOTE]
I've received letters for a paint chip on my front door, pressure wash the sidewalk leading from the driveway to the porch (which is hidden from the street by bushes), throw out an old wood crate that was in the back yard because it was "debris" (you'd have to be in my back yard to have seen it, which they're allowed to do evidently), replace a small tree that had died, and now my favorite one of all, no parking of pickup trucks is permitted unless they're in the garage, where my truck won't fit. It's been in my driveway for the past 3.5 years since I moved in, at least 8 neighbors in the community of 48 houses also have trucks that they keep in their driveways and they got the same letter. Now we have to organize a vote and try to get 2/3 of the community to support removing that rule from the docs or either sell our trucks or change jobs that don't need a truck, effen ridiculous.
I judge people who judge other people's registries. If it isn't okay to judge someone for registering for cheap stuff then it isn't okay to judge someone for registering for expensive things (this is assuming all price points are accurately covered).
This is an old judge, but I was lurking on a month board and read an e-ring AW thread. Some chick was showing off her ring, and apparently doesn't believe in hair removal. Her fingers looked like a Lady Sasquatch was getting hitched and decided to show off her ring.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_judge-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:080521e5-d43b-47a2-a43f-0052e0105964Post:9153036b-1157-40d9-b263-6545bb0da61e">Re: I Judge...</a>: [QUOTE]I judge my BIL for leaving my sister to carry their newborn, the diaper bag, her purse, and anything else they need while he runs off to smoke a cigarette not even looking back to make sure they cross the street okay. I also judge him for reeking of cigarette smoke all the time. He doesn't wash his hands between smoking and holding the baby. I judge my sister for not saying anything to him. Posted by JoyTate1[/QUOTE]
Completely agree with you. Just because they are your babies father doesn't mean you can't say a word to them!
I judge my sister who works 12 hours a day, pays for EVERYTHING while the family takes care of the baby while the guy that knocked her up sits on his ass the whole day watching action movies and BITCHES that he has to take care of the baby and she's planning of getting knocked up again because he such a good person and no one understands him like she does, that he gives her thousands of dollars yet she's in debt. B.S
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There's a daughter of one of the trashwives who is 18 and needs a swift, hard kick in the fucking teeth. She's disgusting. It makes me feel so much better about my teenager!
I really want the one with four kids and too much tan to go buy herself an acceptable hairline. Isn't there something, like the opposite of hairplugs, that she can do to get herself a forehead? But don't call Danielle's surgeon! Her face looks like she fell off a cliff and landed facefirst into a pit of jellyfish who stung and paralyzed her face in her state of shock.
I do like the older one with red hair. She seems to be the only one with any amount of sense.
[QUOTE]Sarahplz I love you. I judge people who are judgy about a big wedding budget. There has been a lot of that lately and I am sick of it. Plus, a big budget one place means nothing somewhere else and every one needs to get on board with the realities of that. Plus, I am taking this personally because I am no worse off for having spent a lot and really happy with the result. I hate being judged from something that is not detrimental to me, kwim?
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]
Oh yeah I judge this big time too. I also judge engagement ring elitism which also goes both ways -- I hate when people say "My ring was only $500, I can't imagine my FI spending more!!!1" and I hate when people brag on how much their ring cost. It just really grinds my gears.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Where is Mrstay??? Yeah, Lisarose, I mean, it is one thing to be super in debt because of a freaking wedding, but if you want/feel the need to spend something especially on your guest behalf it kills me. Actually, flame me but I think some brides are super cheap on their guest behalf a la cash bars, no dinner at the wedding, <strong>not letting people sit at ceremonies</strong> etc.
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]
My sister suggested this for my wedding to cut costs, I told her she was crazy to think I would ever be that rude to my guests.
But given she had no alcohol at her wedding, no dinner, just hors d'oeuvres (at 7pm!) no tables, no chairs... everyone had to stand and eat, and didn't have enough food for everyone, I didn't even get to eat, she and my BIL didn't even get to eat! It doesn't surprise me that this logic seemed okay to her.
[QUOTE]I judge parents who enable their kids to become spoiled entitled brats with no manners, now a days. Saying NO, not giving in to every whim your kid has, and teaching them about responsibilities might suck at the time but the human race will thank you later.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
i totally judge that too! a lot of parents don't own up and can't figure out why their kids are effed up and outta control!
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1. The first one for talking on her cell phone the entire time-and not just taking calls, but MAKING calls. Oh and using her tacky, fake acrylic press-on nails to scratch at the arm chair.
2. The second for brining her no older than 3 month old baby, feeding her over 16oz of milk, and then telling her to "shut up" when she started crying.
3. The other "mom" bringing her 2 children both under the age of 5 stuffing them full of popcorn and pop (remember this is an 8pm movie-on a Thursday night) and also telling them to shut up and sit down "don't you know we're at a movie" when they decide they don't want to watch mommy's vampire movie.
I seriously hate stupid, inconsiderate people who don't take good care of their kids.
P.S. it took 2 different manager and a handful of people complaining to finally get them kicked out an hour into the movie.
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[QUOTE]Sarahplz I love you. I judge people who are judgy about a big wedding budget. There has been a lot of that lately and I am sick of it. Plus, a big budget one place means nothing somewhere else and every one needs to get on board with the realities of that. Plus, I am taking this personally because I am no worse off for having spent a lot and really happy with the result. I hate being judged from something that is not detrimental to me, kwim?
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]
I agree with this... one of my friends makes comments about how she would "NEVER spend the kind of money" that I am spending and then refers to my wedding in contrast to hers saying " we aren't having the extravagant affair that you guys are"... Well... we are paying for our wedding ourselves, not charging a dime of it, because WE BUST OUR ARSES so that we can have what we really want. Im proud of us for this and the fact that we don't have to depend on others to do this. What is wrong with that? In the same respect, I don't judge her for having a smaller, lower budget wedding either. I know it will be beautiful no matter the price tag.
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[QUOTE]oh and ditto on letting people sit at the ceremony. My FI cousin is getting married this Saturday, and only got 20 chairs for her 100+ guests. <strong> "It's only a 20-25 min ceremony-it shouldn't be a big deal for people to have to stand"</strong>. Hopefully no one gets hurt fighting over a chair.
Posted by MaggieandJake[/QUOTE]
Okay, I judge that. That's ridiculous! Well, I hope Grandma brought her cane because she's going to be busting kneecaps for a chair.
I judge my FMIl for telling FI that if she doesn't do what she likes she is going to " write him and his son out of her life".
I judge my FIL for not doing what we ask of them when they wat SS ( stepson ) . For instance they watched him on Saturday night and we had church on Sunday so we told them to have him ready at 1am . Well FI was talking to his dad in the AM and even reminded him that we were going to be there at 11 am and to have him ready . Well we get there at 11 am and SS and FFIL are no where in sight . FMIL said they were out on the golf cart , god knows where. Well I walk inside and his church cloths were still in the diaper back . WTH? So FMIL had to chase them down and we had to change him . Thank God we left a little early from our house , so we did get to church on time. UGH.
I jusge my FI a little for putting up with there BS.
I also Judge the people who don't even put there kids in a car seat too. I swear I was walking into walmart and some lady was in her car with her 3 kids and she was driving and holding the infant ( i am talking like maybe 5 months old ) .
For my birthday Scott had planned a dinner with our couple friends, M1 and M2. M1 got off work at 8pm, picked up her 18 month old, and met us at the restaurant at 9. She plunked her kid down in a high chair and we talked. After about 10 minutes the little one M3 (no joke, they all have Mar...names) started fussing because she hadn't seen her mom all day. Mom ignored her. M2 (dad) showed up around 10pm when he got off work and then she really started fussing because she wanted to sit in his lap. After about 30 minutes of quietly fussing she starts shrieking her head off. I started to get up to pick her up since they weren't and M1 goes "Oh just leave her, she needs to learn".
Um no, right now she needs attention from her mom and dad who she hasn't seen all day and needs to go to sleep. 9pm is way too late for someone that small to be eating dinner and by 10 she was exhausted and done behaving. We are in a public place so pick up your kid and deal with her for the sake of everyone else in the restaurant.
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I judge men (normal able-bodied) who cut in front of old women for the bus seats. This seems to be happening a lot lately. Actually I judge any able-bodied person who doesn't give up their seat (without having to be asked) for elderly, disabled or pregnant women.
Re: wedding budgets. When a girl on my club board found out that Carrie Underwood's wedding cost $500,000 she said, "that's a perfect example of caring more about the wedding than the actual marriage." Whoa! It is? Because I really don't think one has anything to do with the other.
I judge my friend's sister for every other FB status update she makes. "I finished my wedding invitations! If you don't get one, sorry, but I only had 150 to send!" Seriously, every other update is about wedding details. She almost didn't send my friend an invitation because she's in Africa in the Peace Corps and didn't think she'd attend. My friend was like, "seriously? That's harsh." Well guess what? She's coming back from Africa for her sister's wedding. So she conceded and sent her an invitation. Then again, I've met this girl and it scares me that she 1) has a kid and 2) is a teacher. Scares me a LOT.
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[QUOTE]I'm so glad the movie theater I go to is not child-friendly.<strong> Re: wedding budgets. When a girl on my club board found out that Carrie Underwood's wedding cost $500,000 she said, "that's a perfect example of caring more about the wedding than the actual marriage." Whoa! It is? Because I really don't think one has anything to do with the other. </strong>I judge my friend's sister for every other FB status update she makes. "I finished my wedding invitations! If you don't get one, sorry, but I only had 150 to send!" Seriously, every other update is about wedding details. She almost didn't send my friend an invitation because she's in Africa in the Peace Corps and didn't think she'd attend. My friend was like, "seriously? That's harsh." Well guess what? She's coming back from Africa for her sister's wedding. So she conceded and sent her an invitation. Then again, I've met this girl and it scares me that she 1) has a kid and 2) is a teacher. Scares me a LOT.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]
Yeah and when you're as loaded as Carrie Underwood and her pro hockey playing husband, $500,000 is not all that much, especially compared to the cost of some other celebrity weddings! Basically all the money/budget threads on the boards in general completely annoy me.
[QUOTE]I judge places that have pregnant parking. You're knocked up; you're not handicapped. The fact that you are walking into some baby superstore or mall where you will spend hours walking around shopping means you can walk from the back of the parking lot to the damn front door, just like everyone else. I park in PG parking spots all the time, so you guys can judge me for that.
Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]
I love when they say "expectant mother parking." My H always says "Do you expect to be a mother someday? Then I feel like you can park there." haha.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : I love when they say "expectant mother parking." My H always says "Do you expect to be a mother someday? Then I feel like you can park there." haha.
Posted by K Byte[/QUOTE]
Yeah, I use the same justification to park there, too, if there aren't any other decent spots. Oh, I also use a similar rationale to park in the "Future Resident" spots at my apartment complex. I figure if anyone says anything to me about it, I'll explain that 1) it doesn't say future resident of what (these apartments? Colorado? Earth?), 2) tomorrow is the future and I plan to still be a resident then, and 3) unless they're clairvoyant they can't tell if I'm a future resident or not.
Married in Vegas - June 2011
[QUOTE]I judge old people who have nothing better to do with their last years than report minor violations of the rules to the home owners' association.
Posted by vegasgroom[/QUOTE]
Oh, man. There's an old dude in my parents' neighborhood that does that. He walks around the neighborhood every day and jots down violations and leaves tickets on peoples' cars as well. My sister got a ticket for parking on the street, at the curb, in front of the mailboxes. Really? There's no sign saying you can't park there. Asshole.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I Judge... : Oh, man. There's an old dude in my parents' neighborhood that does that. He walks around the neighborhood every day and jots down violations and leaves tickets on peoples' cars as well. My sister got a ticket for parking on the street, at the curb, in front of the mailboxes. Really? There's no sign saying you can't park there. Asshole.
Posted by Bubbalub[/QUOTE]
I've received letters for a paint chip on my front door, pressure wash the sidewalk leading from the driveway to the porch (which is hidden from the street by bushes), throw out an old wood crate that was in the back yard because it was "debris" (you'd have to be in my back yard to have seen it, which they're allowed to do evidently), replace a small tree that had died, and now my favorite one of all, no parking of pickup trucks is permitted unless they're in the garage, where my truck won't fit. It's been in my driveway for the past 3.5 years since I moved in, at least 8 neighbors in the community of 48 houses also have trucks that they keep in their driveways and they got the same letter. Now we have to organize a vote and try to get 2/3 of the community to support removing that rule from the docs or either sell our trucks or change jobs that don't need a truck, effen ridiculous.
Married in Vegas - June 2011
Why are people so screwed up about money?
Yuck.
[QUOTE]I judge my BIL for leaving my sister to carry their newborn, the diaper bag, her purse, and anything else they need while he runs off to smoke a cigarette not even looking back to make sure they cross the street okay. I also judge him for reeking of cigarette smoke all the time. He doesn't wash his hands between smoking and holding the baby. I judge my sister for not saying anything to him.
Posted by JoyTate1[/QUOTE]
Completely agree with you. Just because they are your babies father doesn't mean you can't say a word to them!
I judge my sister who works 12 hours a day, pays for EVERYTHING while the family takes care of the baby while the guy that knocked her up sits on his ass the whole day watching action movies and BITCHES that he has to take care of the baby and she's planning of getting knocked up again because he such a good person and no one understands him like she does, that he gives her thousands of dollars yet she's in debt. B.S