AYG?

Nebb

Please don't tell me were already doing this and I just can't see. Flames? TK confessions? Something in general to say to someone?

Blueyed228

I flame you for making it multi-purpose thread.

I predict 1 of 2 things happening:

1: the "say something to someone" turns into a love fest
2: tk confessions gets used as a reason just to post in the thread.

Nebb

Tk confessions are usually roundabout flames I've found. NO LOVE FESTING! Ya hear?? Happy?

Nebb

Seesawgirl honestly seems like the biggest fucking downer, more so than missy if that's possible. She seems trashy to boot too so its a double whammy.

Blueyed228

Agreed Duds.  That annoyed me.

cheeseandrice

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:4ac08d45-8708-4a1c-976f-260793caac78">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]Seesawgirls rant about her sister being pregnant rubbed me the wrong way.  She's KU. Support her or keep your trap shut. Also, her finding excuses to not go have her own medical issues figured out is lame.
Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]

Seesawgirl in general has been... weird... to me.

And I flame Nebb for starting AYG without a flame.

Blueyed228

Lol, Nebb starts AYG and gets flamed twice.

SUCKA!

lbarr088

I can't remember where this thread was, I just looked... but the one where the boyfriend of the BM touched/whatevered the bride's boob annoyed me.  I think It was StephBean (?)  who said something along the lines of be careful how to approach the situation because it could be a friendship ending move (I think she wanted it so he didn't come or they were both not invited? gah horrible memory and I can't find it).

The man touched her titty, and the BM didn't care because they were in an open relationship or something like that.  If that was me, I would be pissed.  I don't care if my friend is in an open relationship with her man or not but they should respect my boundaries and if they cannot they can go screw.  

Nebb

Eh, lame flames :P nothing to pull a LDY over.

ElleB87

I definitely agree about Seesaw, everything she says seems to rub me the wrong way.  Everything Brosters posts still pisses me off.

I confess that I have been in a really weird mood the past week and I feel like some of my posts have come across as unintentionally bitchy so I apologize for that.

maratea

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:d74642e9-70b9-41c8-ba37-a3f00bf03371">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]Eh, lame flames :P nothing to pull a LDY over.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Oh snap! *cue board invasion*

seesawgirl

You know what, ladies, I really apologize that I "rub you the wrong way". That's not my intention at all. I came here to vent, and obviously, some took it for what it was, others, I offended for some reason. I came here, because I don't have female friends that care about having children yet,  and I thought, since some of you were mothers already, or were of the age where you might be trying soon, you might understand. Sorry for offending. 

lindseyann410

I flame edie in this thread for asking the OP if she had send save the dates for an engagement party. It seemed like she was just trying to "get" her on something.

 http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_intimate-engagement-party-not-inviting-fbils-gf-that-we-dont-really-know_.2

Oh, also, after the OP already said that she was inviting everyone over the age 16 to the wedding with a date, she asked, "Does this mean you're inviting all couples together?"   It seemed pretty clear to me, but again it was either a reading fail or she was just aiming for a "gotcha" moment.

This is my first flame. 

Nebb

Awesome, tk ate AYG

Celles

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:a0e043b4-b524-4eea-abc1-857fbea92378">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]Awesome, tk ate AYG
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I still see it.

I don't think I have any flames though.  It's been an unusually slow week.

Megbo2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:975fda80-81e5-40de-b88b-127dfef78c0e">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]This is a lame one but Tifffannieeeeeee posted this on our month board. <clicky.   She was asking for advice about if she and H should buy a house. She admitted to a certain amount of debt and even being in collections. When everyone advised her of their concerns regarding her financial stability she was all "ZOMG! Totes, I know! Thanks for the great <strong>advise</strong>. So should I like, let H apply for a home loan?"  She might be the stupidest person I have ever 'met' on TK. 
Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]

<div>Heh.  Good thing you don't live next store to her. ;)</div>

[Deleted User]

I really, really hate the TK party line of "you won't even notice *person in question* is there!" I've seen it a lot recently and it makes me roll my eyes every time.

I mean, come on. Unless you have 500 people at your wedding, chances are, you're going to notice the person you hate, the chick who tried to fvck your FI and break up your marriage, or whoever else it is. Besides, you are technically supposed to thank everyone who was there, whetehr by receiving line or table visit, so yeah, at some point you will have to deal wtih that person.

cheeseandrice

half the posts are gone. Damn TK.

Edie is a huge "party line" fan, so that doesn't really surprise me. I just roll my eyes at most party lines, though.

Seesaw, no one is offended.

Nebb

After me saying no love festing it jumps to maras post

lbarr088

TK hates me today, all of my posts are disappearing.

...ETA:... well this showed up... 

cheeseandrice

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:0e0a2d34-c48c-4f41-a069-757115c536bf">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : Heh.  Good thing you don't live next store to her. ;)
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

I see what you did there!

Blueyed228

TK is fucking pissing me off with this shiit.  I know we say it all the time, but ffs figure something out.

Megbo2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:74a5567d-58c8-44a3-acaf-e2776036aefe">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]I really, really hate the TK party line of "you won't even notice *person in question* is there!" I've seen it a lot recently and it makes me roll my eyes every time. I mean, come on. Unless you have 500 people at your wedding, chances are, you're going to notice the person you hate, the chick who tried to fvck your FI and break up your marriage, or whoever else it is. Besides, you are technically supposed to thank everyone who was there, whetehr by receiving line or table visit, so yeah, at some point you will have to deal wtih that person.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

<div>Yeah, I agree with this.  I'm also getting sick of people jumping to conclusions about OPs because of previous OPs who were unreasonable.  Read the post, it says nothing about that, or it was already addressed later on in the post. I get that people skim but if you are going to flip out on OP make sure it's actually deserved.</div>

NicoleSahara

seesaw, your post didn't offend me. I think you even said you just needed to whine or throw a temper tantrum about it, and plenty of people do that for things around here.

Nebb

Why the fuuck are our posts affected because they're changing formats of other sites. Fucking stupid it fuckups. Fuuck.

chelseamb11

I flame that mimi poster for being a drama-llama about her FSIL.  Asking how to not murder someone in your OP is a great way to get people to take you seriously *eyeroll*

cheeseandrice

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:8feb7b32-7b98-4724-b155-b18ce92d9299">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : Knot Kathleen posted on the mod board that it's because TN & TB are moving over to TK's board format. Should be fixed in two weeks.  They've been saying two weeks for months so yup.
Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]

nooooooo. Ohgod. People on TK/TN are going to be pissed.

lbarr088

So, I will try this again.  Now I'm sure they will both show up and I will look like a crazy person.  

I can't find the original thread but it had to do with a BM's SO touching the brides boob.  BM didn't seem to care and her and her SO are in an "open relationship."  The bride wanted him to be uninvited or to not have either of them come or something of the like.  StephBean(?) said something along the lines of being careful how to approach the situation because it could be a friendship ending move (highly paraphrased).  

Here's my thing... if my friend and her SO didn't respect my boundaries (especially sexually) they can go screw.  

FWIW, I didn't go back and read anymore of it because I got annoyed so things might have changed.

baystateapple

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:6cc45563-66d8-4dd8-bbdf-a44524535f17">Re: AYG?</a>:
[QUOTE]One party line that I've seen a lot this week is about not asking your bridal party too soon.  I think it's dumb in some cases. I've seen people get hurt by a bride waiting to ask the bridal party (as in "is she trying to decide if she wants us in it"). Then there was drama about that. Depending on what's normal for your circle of friends determines when and how you ask your bridal party, in my opinion. So I think it gets super repetitive to jump on people for asking their party "too soon" when they may have had valid reasons for doing so. Or known, like with some brides and their sisters, that no matter what happened between engagement and wedding, certain people would be in their bridal party.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]

Yup.  We asked our WP 16 months in advance.  And we never had any issues.

lbarr088

Ok now the old one is showing up and the new one isn't.  FFS this is irritating.  

Nebb

OH COME THE FUUCK ON This shiit is too much.