In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:fd7e1e17-7ede-45dd-969a-fd2f110d4e9e">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]I can't remember where this thread was, I just looked... but the one where the boyfriend of the BM touched/whatevered the bride's boob annoyed me. I think It was StephBean (?) who said something along the lines of be careful how to approach the situation because it could be a friendship ending move (I think she wanted it so he didn't come or they were both not invited? gah horrible memory and I can't find it). The man touched her titty, and the BM didn't care because they were in an open relationship or something like that. If that was me, I would be pissed. I don't care if my friend is in an open relationship with her man or not but they should respect my boundaries and if they cannot they can go screw. Posted by lbarr088[/QUOTE]
Yes! That was StephBean. Usually I agree with her on stuff, but I found it really weird that she was more or less suggesting to the OP to just let it go.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:c42210a0-6fdb-4bdf-8061-6d30f143748e">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : nooooooo. Ohgod. People on TK/TN are going to be pissed. Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
I thought this after I read it on the mod board, haha.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:bcbc046f-b4b6-400d-ad5d-41ef5bdebf27">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]At least it will get rid of that horrible quote feature on TN/TB where everything is super long. Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:b9d2dacd-b9f0-425e-aa22-2a2acaa5710f">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : In her defense, when I first read it (and she was one of the first responses) the OP hadn't specifically said that the guy did it on purpose or that the friend thought it was okay because they were in an open relationship. So until the OP came back with that info, I found myself trying to put myself in their shoes where a) the breast contact may have been incidental and not noticeable (she described it as his hand grazing her breast) and b) a complete accident. I think without the clarification of why the friend thought it was funny and that it was clearly on purpose, StephBean's reaction made sense. Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
Maybe I need to go back and re-read it, but based on what I read from the OP, the guy did it on purpose and very clearly on purpose. Idk it sounds really shady to me all around.
I suppose this is a confession? Blueeyeddramatix or whatever annoys the piss out of me and I'm not exactly sure why. H and I have waited 3 years to get a dog and we're so close to being ready. She just got a golden retriever puppy and it made me pathetically jealous. It obviously shouldn't matter and the puppy got a (hopefully) good home, but it still makes me sad that we're not able to have a dog at this point. If it were anyone else that would have gotten a new puppy I'd be thrilled for them, but she just drives me bonkers.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:b9d2dacd-b9f0-425e-aa22-2a2acaa5710f">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : In her defense, when I first read it (and she was one of the first responses) the OP hadn't specifically said that the guy did it on purpose or that the friend thought it was okay because they were in an open relationship. So until the OP came back with that info, I found myself trying to put myself in their shoes where a) the breast contact may have been incidental and not noticeable (she described it as his hand grazing her breast) and b) a complete accident. I think without the clarification of why the friend thought it was funny and that it was clearly on purpose, StephBean's reaction made sense. Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:b9d2dacd-b9f0-425e-aa22-2a2acaa5710f">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : In her defense, when I first read it (and she was one of the first responses) the OP hadn't specifically said that the guy did it on purpose or that the friend thought it was okay because they were in an open relationship. So until the OP came back with that info, I found myself trying to put myself in their shoes where a) the breast contact may have been incidental and not noticeable (she described it as his hand grazing her breast) and b) a complete accident. I think without the clarification of why the friend thought it was funny and that it was clearly on purpose, StephBean's reaction made sense. Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
<div>I really wish I could find the thread. I thought it said something along the lines of he dropped an ice cube down her shirt and then "grazed" her breast (in the initial post).</div><div> </div><div>ETA: I really hope there was an ice cube mentioned because then I just feel weird and need to figure out where the eff I saw that...</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:2734bf19-c151-4ab6-aed8-c9845e09c440">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]I suppose this is a confession? Blueeyeddramatix or whatever annoys the piss out of me and I'm not exactly sure why. H and I have waited 3 years to get a dog and we're so close to being ready. She just got a golden retriever puppy and it made me pathetically jealous. It obviously shouldn't matter and the puppy got a (hopefully) good home, but it still makes me sad that we're not able to have a dog at this point. If it were anyone else that would have gotten a new puppy I'd be thrilled for them, but she just drives me bonkers. Posted by VeggieLove1022[/QUOTE]
<div>Are you annoyed with her because she got a dog?</div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:975fda80-81e5-40de-b88b-127dfef78c0e">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]This is a lame one but Tifffannieeeeeee posted this on our month board. <clicky. She was asking for advice about if she and H should buy a house. She admitted to a certain amount of debt and even being in collections. When everyone advised her of their concerns regarding her financial stability she was all "ZOMG! Totes, I know! Thanks for the great advise. So should I like, let H apply for a home loan?" She might be the stupidest person I have ever 'met' on TK. Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]
For some reason, I can't get past the fact that she used "next store" (I'm guessing instead of "next door" twice in her OP.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:54118d9f-3582-4c92-a5c4-b5f2914262e0">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : No, I know she said he intentionally did the ice cube down her shirt but when I first read it, I thought the boob touch was accidental. That was what I was trying to say. Because putting an ice cube down someone's shirt is a stupid, immature joke and not really funny. But that's not the same as grabbing someone's breast and being inappropriate. Same story. It might just be that when I say I grazed something, I usually mean unintentional contact where others read it and OP meant it as just a light touch. <strong> I've seen 4 variations of your post. Let's see how many are showing by the time I actually click pos</strong>t. Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
<div>I can't see any of them :) At least they are showing up I guess? I have given up on trying to type up what I'm thinking 30 times.</div><div> </div><div>I might have just read it wrong and assumed that he put the ice cube down her shirt and THEN "grazed" her breast as it was all in the same moment pretty much. I don't even really care. I'm more annoyed with TK right now than that post.</div><div> </div>
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:2109fdc0-1aa5-4024-9b73-7fb798bf678b">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : For some reason, I can't get past the fact that she used "next store" (I'm guessing instead of "next door" twice in her OP. Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
DJ, I completely agree about asking the WP whenever is appropriate for your circle. I'm pretty sure I asked mine a month after we were engaged in September 2010. No drama and I predict that lasting another 101 days (and beyond).
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:6468b9cc-5ecb-4828-bb08-7b92de04db3e">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : She butchered the word financial more than once too, in that thread. I think her version of the word was <strong>'finical'</strong>. Seriously, I think out of all the tools in the shed she's a rusty blunt ended spade. Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]
Oh lovely. Spell check anyone?
Meg, I read your comment about it after I had already made mine. I laughed and said to myself "get out of my head!". ;)
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:8242c624-af18-4087-8783-43fe48fbe716">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]Cardmonsta- mostly jealous :/ I know it's honestly pathetic. ETA: I reread your post and I have never liked her. She always annoyed me, but the puppy was just the icing on the cake. Also, your puppy has the sweetest little face. Posted by VeggieLove1022[/QUOTE]
<div>I understand now. I thought you just didn't like her because she got a dog, lol.</div>
I find everything that she posts to be super irritating, including the " This concerns me. Like 'in the closet' concern." or something like that during the thread about impotence on E.
I don't see the post anymore, but duds I agree about the girl on E - being told she had to invite the SIL who made sexual advances toward the OP's FI, yet boob-touch girl got a pass (as I stated in the thread).
That was one case that made me roll my eyes hard at the party lines.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:5c01d9a6-16f3-443c-ba2c-1f69bfc318a8">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]I don't see the post anymore, but duds I agree about the girl on E - being told she had to invite the SIL who made sexual advances toward the OP's FI, yet boob-touch girl got a pass (as I stated in the thread). That was one case that made me roll my eyes hard at the party lines. Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]
Totally agree. FSIL or not, some people suck and don't need to be invited. Someone who tries to sleep with my FI is one of them.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:236cd86c-68c9-4ee8-950e-4e09b4a6dc55">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]I flame the a$$hat who used the word retarded 3 times in her post. I am sorry I don't remember what thread or her name but I flame her hard. Posted by sweetredhead[/QUOTE]
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:1f71868e-d5e5-4aca-9ddd-f415ac4c0c40">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : Ya, that's pretty gay. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
This is more of an I don't get it, but Girlie rubbed me the wrong way with the "I've never voted because I don't take time to educate myself." You don't have to be a super nerd and follow every debate and news article, but giving up an hour or so a year to educate yourself on issues and candidates shouldn't be that hard. I know a lot of people don't vote, but I just don't get how anyone can not care about anything at all and feel like voting isn't important.
It bugs the piss out of me that I can always count on Edie to be the first poster in a thread and her response is almost always a quote of the OP with a one sentence question. I don't know why it bugs me so much, but it just seems pointless. Like she is assuming that they are going to DD and she can be the hero for quoting.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:7bd5f932-8781-493e-a815-e71a6038155d">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : I don't quote in case they DD, but if I'm asking a question then I guess I need the information to answer their question, if that makes any sense. Did you notice a specific example recently? Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]
It just seems like you do it in every thread. Like I said, it's silly that it irritates me. It just seems pointless. It's not like it's an AYG thread where several people are having differenct conversations. I'm sure the OP knows you are asking a question to them.
In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_ayg-27?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:6a9b1298-792a-40fc-a542-0dcc3fe0616dPost:1f71868e-d5e5-4aca-9ddd-f415ac4c0c40">Re: AYG?</a>: [QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : Ya, that's pretty gay. Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Haaaaaa!
I flame all the party lines. I still think people need to stop getting all uppity about honeymoon registries.
If I wanted to hear the pitter-patter of little feet, I'd put shoes on the cat.
Until recently (the past 2-3 years) I wasn't remotely interested in politics and didn't care. I judge now that I do care but I do kinda get it. Politics can be confusing and aren't for everyone. I think a lot of people feel indifferent to them, atleast here in canada based on voter turnout.
Re: AYG?
[QUOTE]I can't remember where this thread was, I just looked... but the one where the boyfriend of the BM touched/whatevered the bride's boob annoyed me. I think It was StephBean (?) who said something along the lines of be careful how to approach the situation because it could be a friendship ending move (I think she wanted it so he didn't come or they were both not invited? gah horrible memory and I can't find it). The man touched her titty, and the BM didn't care because they were in an open relationship or something like that. If that was me, I would be pissed. I don't care if my friend is in an open relationship with her man or not but they should respect my boundaries and if they cannot they can go screw.
Posted by lbarr088[/QUOTE]
Yes! That was StephBean. Usually I agree with her on stuff, but I found it really weird that she was more or less suggesting to the OP to just let it go.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : nooooooo. Ohgod. People on TK/TN are going to be pissed.
Posted by Steph+J[/QUOTE]
I thought this after I read it on the mod board, haha.
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
[QUOTE]At least it will get rid of that horrible quote feature on TN/TB where everything is super long.
Posted by ILoveMilkDuds[/QUOTE]
and, TK's PIP is way easier, I think.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : In her defense, when I first read it (and she was one of the first responses) the OP hadn't specifically said that the guy did it on purpose or that the friend thought it was okay because they were in an open relationship. So until the OP came back with that info, I found myself trying to put myself in their shoes where a) the breast contact may have been incidental and not noticeable (she described it as his hand grazing her breast) and b) a complete accident. I think without the clarification of why the friend thought it was funny and that it was clearly on purpose, StephBean's reaction made sense.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
Maybe I need to go back and re-read it, but based on what I read from the OP, the guy did it on purpose and very clearly on purpose. Idk it sounds really shady to me all around.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : In her defense, when I first read it (and she was one of the first responses) the OP hadn't specifically said that the guy did it on purpose or that the friend thought it was okay because they were in an open relationship. So until the OP came back with that info, I found myself trying to put myself in their shoes where a) the breast contact may have been incidental and not noticeable (she described it as his hand grazing her breast) and b) a complete accident. I think without the clarification of why the friend thought it was funny and that it was clearly on purpose, StephBean's reaction made sense.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
I agree with this.
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : In her defense, when I first read it (and she was one of the first responses) the OP hadn't specifically said that the guy did it on purpose or that the friend thought it was okay because they were in an open relationship. So until the OP came back with that info, I found myself trying to put myself in their shoes where a) the breast contact may have been incidental and not noticeable (she described it as his hand grazing her breast) and b) a complete accident. I think without the clarification of why the friend thought it was funny and that it was clearly on purpose, StephBean's reaction made sense.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
<div>I really wish I could find the thread. I thought it said something along the lines of he dropped an ice cube down her shirt and then "grazed" her breast (in the initial post).</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: I really hope there was an ice cube mentioned because then I just feel weird and need to figure out where the eff I saw that...</div>
[QUOTE]I suppose this is a confession? Blueeyeddramatix or whatever annoys the piss out of me and I'm not exactly sure why. H and I have waited 3 years to get a dog and we're so close to being ready. She just got a golden retriever puppy and it made me pathetically jealous. It obviously shouldn't matter and the puppy got a (hopefully) good home, but it still makes me sad that we're not able to have a dog at this point. If it were anyone else that would have gotten a new puppy I'd be thrilled for them, but she just drives me bonkers.
Posted by VeggieLove1022[/QUOTE]
<div>Are you annoyed with her because she got a dog?</div>
[QUOTE]This is a lame one but Tifffannieeeeeee posted this on our month board. <clicky. She was asking for advice about if she and H should buy a house. She admitted to a certain amount of debt and even being in collections. When everyone advised her of their concerns regarding her financial stability she was all "ZOMG! Totes, I know! Thanks for the great advise. So should I like, let H apply for a home loan?" She might be the stupidest person I have ever 'met' on TK.
Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]
For some reason, I can't get past the fact that she used "next store" (I'm guessing instead of "next door" twice in her OP.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : No, I know she said he intentionally did the ice cube down her shirt but when I first read it, I thought the boob touch was accidental. That was what I was trying to say. Because putting an ice cube down someone's shirt is a stupid, immature joke and not really funny. But that's not the same as grabbing someone's breast and being inappropriate. Same story. It might just be that when I say I grazed something, I usually mean unintentional contact where others read it and OP meant it as just a light touch. <strong> I've seen 4 variations of your post. Let's see how many are showing by the time I actually click pos</strong>t.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]
<div>I can't see any of them :) At least they are showing up I guess? I have given up on trying to type up what I'm thinking 30 times.</div><div>
</div><div>I might have just read it wrong and assumed that he put the ice cube down her shirt and THEN "grazed" her breast as it was all in the same moment pretty much. I don't even really care. I'm more annoyed with TK right now than that post.</div><div>
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ETA: I reread your post and I have never liked her. She always annoyed me, but the puppy was just the icing on the cake.
Also, your puppy has the sweetest little face.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : For some reason, I can't get past the fact that she used "next store" (I'm guessing instead of "next door" twice in her OP.
Posted by midgetthemighty[/QUOTE]
<div>Yup, I found that to be awesome.</div>
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : She butchered the word financial more than once too, in that thread. I think her version of the word was <strong>'finical'</strong>. Seriously, I think out of all the tools in the shed she's a rusty blunt ended spade.
Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]
Oh lovely. Spell check anyone?
Meg, I read your comment about it after I had already made mine. I laughed and said to myself "get out of my head!". ;)
[QUOTE]Cardmonsta- mostly jealous :/ I know it's honestly pathetic. ETA: I reread your post and I have never liked her. She always annoyed me, but the puppy was just the icing on the cake. Also, your puppy has the sweetest little face.
Posted by VeggieLove1022[/QUOTE]
<div>I understand now. I thought you just didn't like her because she got a dog, lol.</div>
I find everything that she posts to be super irritating, including the " This concerns me. Like 'in the closet' concern." or something like that during the thread about impotence on E.
That was one case that made me roll my eyes hard at the party lines.
[QUOTE]I don't see the post anymore, but duds I agree about the girl on E - being told she had to invite the SIL who made sexual advances toward the OP's FI, yet boob-touch girl got a pass (as I stated in the thread). That was one case that made me roll my eyes hard at the party lines.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]
Totally agree. FSIL or not, some people suck and don't need to be invited. Someone who tries to sleep with my FI is one of them.
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[QUOTE]I flame the a$$hat who used the word retarded 3 times in her post. I am sorry I don't remember what thread or her name but I flame her hard.
Posted by sweetredhead[/QUOTE]
Ya, that's pretty gay.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : Ya, that's pretty gay.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
*snort*
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
DX: PCOS/Recurrent losses/MTHFR mutation (compound hetero)
5 hysteroscopies/2 surgical
3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : I don't quote in case they DD, but if I'm asking a question then I guess I need the information to answer their question, if that makes any sense. Did you notice a specific example recently?
Posted by edielaura[/QUOTE]
It just seems like you do it in every thread. Like I said, it's silly that it irritates me. It just seems pointless. It's not like it's an AYG thread where several people are having differenct conversations. I'm sure the OP knows you are asking a question to them.
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AYG? : Ya, that's pretty gay.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
Haaaaaa!
I flame all the party lines. I still think people need to stop getting all uppity about honeymoon registries.