Unpop ops/flameable confessions

J&K10910

Drinking and depression often go hand in hand.  I would guess that the doctor probably thinks he needs the meds to help him with his recovery. 

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[QUOTE]I saw some news article this week that kids born in october/november/december are more likely to be diagnosed with ADHD than older kids in their class. No shiit sherlock, in some cases theyre almost a year younger than the other kids. I think thats just bunk. I think ADHD itself is bunk. 
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

I was born in October and I was always one of the oldest in my class, not the youngest. I missed the cutoff for starting the year before.

Blueyed228

Sesh- my understanding is that the psychiatrist only sees you once or twice, gives you a prescription, and hands you off to a psychologist.  

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]Sesh- my understanding is that the psychiatrist only sees you once or twice, gives you a prescription, and hands you off to a psychologist.  
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]


yes.  This too.

chelseamb11

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[QUOTE]In the first thread you mentioned it last week, you said how you would keep working despite it because of the children.   In Response to Re: I'm lurking on TN. :
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

At that point I didn't have all the information TBH. At that point I was under the impression that we would have paychecks in our hands within the next couple of days. I had no clue the conversation that J had with all the teachers or the legal advice that would be given.  This whole situation has really changed my outlook on what's going on, I'll admit that.  But to me, striking is different because in the end, you most likely get what you deserve, so it's pointless and there's better alternatives.  They left compeltely (so no strike) because they were told they wouldn't be paid until May.  So, over a weeks pay? Yeah studnets need to come first.  Over 2 months pay? That changes the situation a bit in my eyes.

avsfan33

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[QUOTE]I think a lot of the over-prescription of meds goes back to the generation of not learning disappointment, everyone gets a medal etc.  This generation never learned coping skills so now they 'need' all this medication and therapy. 
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]

This reminded me...This is also not directed at YOU, I'm using a general "you" lol.

If you're in a 4th year honours program and cannot handle doing presentation and seminar classes, maybe you should drop down to a BA or rethink what you're doing in a program that is related to public speaking (political science). I get some people are afraid of public speaking and stuff but maybe university isn't for you? Your classmates shouldn't have to do double the work because you can't pull your own weight in the program.

AdeleDazeem

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : Thanks. H is totally in favor of me using them (so I don't break his hand while in the air), but I guess there is just the stigma. Last time I asked the doctor for them, he gave me a hard time and made me jump through a bunch of hoops. I have a new doctor now, but I'm just concerned they will do the same thing but not give me the meds, especially since I only need them for flying. And last time, I used the meds and meditation CDs, and it was still the longest 2 1/2 hours of my life!
Posted by SEWF[/QUOTE]

Honestly, my initialy reaction was that you can definitely learn to cope during a plane flight.  However, on second thought, coping mechanisms work best when you can practice what works and what doesn't.  You gain confidence (and more calm) the more often you are faced with the situation and your coping skills work.  Since flying is probably something you do every once and awhile, taking the meds might be easier.

However, try to stay open to the idea of flying without them one day.  It might also be useful to identify what makes you so anxious about flying.  Is it the lack of control?  The fear of crashing?  Fear of heights?  It helps to know exactly what makes you so nervous.  But, in the end, it really is what works for you.

Blueyed228

I have a bit of a flame/confession about teachers too (shocking I know).

It really aggravates me when the Canadians chime in on teacher/education debates in regards to the US.  Canada has one of the best education systems in the world.  You people test in the top effing 5.  You really have no idea how our education system works, and to comapre the 2 is just stupid.  Either educate yourself on the American education system or stfu about it.

Nebb

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : At that point I didn't have all the information TBH. At that point I was under the impression that we would have paychecks in our hands within the next couple of days. I had no clue the conversation that J had with all the teachers or the legal advice that would be given.  This whole situation has really changed my outlook on what's going on, I'll admit that.  But to me, striking is different because in the end, you most likely get what you deserve, so it's pointless and there's better alternatives.  They left compeltely (so no strike) because they were told they wouldn't be paid until May.  So, over a weeks pay? Yeah studnets need to come first.  Over 2 months pay? That changes the situation a bit in my eyes.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]
Whatever, im not arguing with you. You said all of that on that thread as well and still said what you did.

Blueyed228

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : It's a state to state cutoff. Here the cutoff is November 30th, but in Indiana (one state over) it's August 31st.
Posted by djhar[/QUOTE]

Here its early Sept.

Nebb

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[QUOTE]I have a bit of a flame/confession about teachers too (shocking I know). It really aggravates me when the Canadians chime in on teacher/education debates in regards to the US.  Canada has one of the best education systems in the world.  You people test in the top effing 5.  You really have no idea how our education system works, and to comapre the 2 is just stupid.  Either educate yourself on the American education system or stfu about it.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
Says the person with canadian ancestry! BOOM! I just went there :P

SEWF

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : Honestly, my initialy reaction was that you can definitely learn to cope during a plane flight.  However, on second thought, coping mechanisms work best when you can practice what works and what doesn't.  You gain confidence (and more calm) the more often you are faced with the situation and your coping skills work.  Since flying is probably something you do every once and awhile, taking the meds might be easier. However, try to stay open to the idea of flying without them one day.  It might also be useful to identify what makes you so anxious about flying.  Is it the lack of control?  The fear of crashing?  Fear of heights?  It helps to know exactly what makes you so nervous.  But, in the end, it really is what works for you.
Posted by Joy2611[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I don't know what it is, honestly. I don't like heights at all, but it's not really that. The fear of crashing is slight, because I'm always of the mind set that, if we did crash, there's not much I can do to stop it anyway. I know plane crashes are actually rare, and that hundreds of thousands of people fly every day. I used to be fine with flying and even look forward to it, and have flown by myself before. Hell, my FIL flies probably twice a month.</div><div>
</div><div>But over the last few flights, it's gotten worse and worse. Last time I had to get on a plane, I had an almost complete break down. Pacing, shaking, couldn't breathe, crying. I mean, I made it with the help of the meds, meditation, and H, but I certainly had a rough time. I'm beginning to practice the meditation more to prepare, but I can't really practice since I never feel that feeling unless I'm getting ready to fly.</div><div>
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Blueyed228

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : Says the person with canadian ancestry! BOOM! I just went there :P
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]

Shut yer face. Its Nova Scotia.  Thats not even really Canada.  AND THEY WERE NOT TEACHERS.

Blueyed228

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[QUOTE]I'm not a doctor so I'm sure I am missing some facts but what I know about<strong><u> ADHD is that it is a real neurological disorder but there is currently no scientific proven method to test for it.</u></strong>  So I think it exists but I also think that the methods used to determine if you have it are bs and therefore people are being disgnosed with it in correctly.  I confess that I have started listening to Rush Limbaugh on the way to work, mostly because I can't stand listening to the douchebag djs on the morning shows in my area.  I can't stand the way he phrases things and he is a nightmare on some issues but I find myself interested in some of the topics he covers.  I'm a registered democrat and I am positive they are going to pull my card any minute. 
Posted by Dot Dash[/QUOTE]

That makes no sense.  If its a neurological disorder, why isnt there a test for it? Wouldnt that classify it as a psychological disorder?

maratea

Confession: I don't have it in me to get worked up about Rush's slut comments. I think he's an idiot, but I just don't care enough about him to take what he has to say seriously.

Nebb

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[QUOTE]Confession: I don't have it in me to get worked up about Rush's slut comments. I think he's an idiot, but I just don't care enough about him to take what he has to say seriously.
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]
I feel like people just always want something to be up in arms about. Even if its not THAT inflamatory, people freak out and blow it up into massive proportions. Everything has to be sensational now a days.

Blueyed228

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[QUOTE]Confession: I don't have it in me to get worked up about Rush's slut comments. I think he's an idiot, but I just don't care enough about him to take what he has to say seriously.
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]

Me either.  All those guys say crazy shiit.  Him, Bill Maher, etc.  They all do it.

maratea

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : I feel like people just always want something to be up in arms about. Even if its not THAT inflamatory, people freak out and blow it up into massive proportions. Everything has to be sensational now a days.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
I know. I have called people sluts before and I usually meant it. If people are going to get pissed at him, they should get pissed at TV shows and movies that use that kind of language and just perpetuate the idea that it's ok to call a woman one of those names.


I went to the grocery over lunch and bought a bag of Smart Food. How have I never enjoyed this until now?

lbarr088

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[QUOTE]My confession is that I get anxiety meds just for flying. I know I should just get over it, but I literally can't get through a flight anymore without them. I'm worried about my flight in a couple weeks if my new doctor won't prescribe them for me. I have some left over from last time I flew, but I'm not sure if I should take them since they are a year and a half old. I feel like I'm too apathetic about almost everything. I know I SHOULD care about stuff, but I just can't. 
Posted by SEWF[/QUOTE]

<div>I NEED anxiety meds for this reason.  I get anxious just looking at planes, and I've avoided them so that I've never had to travel using them.</div>

Nebb

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : I know. I have called people sluts before and I usually meant it. If people are going to get pissed at him, they should get pissed at TV shows and movies that use that kind of language and just perpetuate the idea that it's ok to call a woman one of those names. I went to the grocery over lunch and bought a bag of Smart Food. How have I never enjoyed this until now?
Posted by maratea[/QUOTE]
Your tastebuds are thanking you right now.

Nebb

Maybe this isnt flameable but its a confession,  I have been known to buy one of the massive costco sized bags of smart food and finish it myself in a day. I love that damn stuff. Im pretty sure thats crack and not white cheddar powder.

Blueyed228

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[QUOTE]Also Blue on ADHD the symptoms often mimick those of psychological disorders and that makes it tough too. 
Posted by Dot Dash[/QUOTE]

Not if ADHD doesnt really exist, lol

allisong23

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[QUOTE]All this stuff at my school has got me thinking of my unopop op.  I think anyone who thinks that a teacher's 100% number one priority in life is the students is full of shiit.  yeah teachers care a LOT about their students and make lots of sacrifices.  But there needs to come a point where people realize that when a teacher is faced with the choice between the temporary psychological of their students and feeding their own families, they will choose feeding their own families.
Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]

Chels,considering how much you post during the school day, I really doubt anyone is going to accuse you of putting the students' needs above your own.

There, I said it.

allisong23

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : Flameable confession: I wish people would educate themselves on what taking antibiotics for an infection that is not bacterial does to their bodies.  After suffering from tons of sinus infections that were not being successfully treated with antibiotics, I finally had a competent doctor inform me that most sinus infections are not bacterial, but viral, and taking antibiotics wouldn't do a thing to cure them.  If your doctor won't give you antibiotics, it's because the risks of taking them (developing antibiotic resistance, side effects of the antibiotic itself) outweighs the benefit of taking them (which is none if it's viral).   I get irrationally angry when people beg for antibiotics from their doctor, especially if it's for something clearly viral, like the flu or a cold.  
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

You are absolutely right. Not all sinus infections need antibiotics.

adamar15

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[QUOTE]I'm going to pretend that I never read Nebb's post about a costco size bag of smart food.  Though I can only imagine how wonderful it would feel to polish off the last crumbs from a giant bag.  <strong>Just think about all the powdery cheese that would be left over waiting to slide down that glorious foil lined bag into my mouth. 
</strong>Posted by kodakitty[/QUOTE]

That's the stuff of wet dreams right there.

Nebb

I still think ADHD is bunk. As far as im concerned, it was created by helicopter parents in the 90s.

KateJ10

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : Flameable confession: I wish people would educate themselves on what taking antibiotics for an infection that is not bacterial does to their bodies.  After suffering from tons of sinus infections that were not being successfully treated with antibiotics, I finally had a competent doctor inform me that most sinus infections are not bacterial, but viral, and taking antibiotics wouldn't do a thing to cure them.  If your doctor won't give you antibiotics, it's because the risks of taking them (developing antibiotic resistance, side effects of the antibiotic itself) outweighs the benefit of taking them (which is none if it's viral).   I get irrationally angry when people beg for antibiotics from their doctor, especially if it's for something clearly viral, like the flu or a cold.  
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]

I also agree. The vast vast majority of sinus infections are viral. It is my understanding there are occasional bacterial ones, but it is few and far between.

chelseamb11

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[QUOTE]I confess I have never heard of smart food. 
Posted by Dot Dash[/QUOTE]

Ditto.

maratea

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[QUOTE]I confess I have never heard of smart food. 
Posted by Dot Dash[/QUOTE]
Do yourself a favor and get some tonight. I just bought my first bag over lunch and holy shiit. It's so good.

ErinG93

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Unpop ops/flameable confessions : Flameable confession: I wish people would educate themselves on what taking antibiotics for an infection that is not bacterial does to their bodies.  After suffering from tons of sinus infections that were not being successfully treated with antibiotics, I finally had a competent doctor inform me that most sinus infections are not bacterial, but viral, and taking antibiotics wouldn't do a thing to cure them.  If your doctor won't give you antibiotics, it's because the risks of taking them (developing antibiotic resistance, side effects of the antibiotic itself) outweighs the benefit of taking them (which is none if it's viral).   I get irrationally angry when people beg for antibiotics from their doctor, especially if it's for something clearly viral, like the flu or a cold.  
Posted by yaga13[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I keep trying to tell my sister this. She is absolutely dead set on taking antibiotics at the slightest sneeze. It's <em>bad. </em> I try to avoid taking antibiotics at all costs, but I can get a little weird and preachy about the over use of antibiotics. I don't understand why my sister's doctor gives in and prescribes a z-pack every month.

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