i'm with CEW, i dont care what people wear. my nephew asked if he could wear a red tuxedo and i said "sure why not!" it made him pretty happy. but if you're concerned about it, your invitation style should give the hint. and honestly OP, I dont think you're going to care that day about what anyone is wearing personally, im just going to care about what my man is wearing and how fast i can take it off later! WOOOOOO!!!!!
Re: How can you explain in a nice way?
personally, im just going to care about what my man is wearing and how fast i can take it off later! WOOOOOO!!!!!
As an adult I am perfectly capable of figuring out how to dress appropriately for different events.
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3 Inject IUIs = 2 m/c's and 1 BFN
IVF #1= BFP. m/c at 7w6d. Needed 2 D&C's and scar tissue removal. Mild OHSS
IVF #2 = BFP. Severe OHSS. 4 Drainings. TWINS!