FFF

crash2729

NFT...yet. 

juliebug1997

LOL.  If you guys go to another game, I hope you bring them better luck than when we went in April.  Otherwise, I think we should ban the Knottie GTG to Rangers games.

crash2729

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[QUOTE]LOL.  If you guys go to another game, <strong>I hope you bring them better luck than when we went in April.  </strong>Otherwise, I think we should ban the Knottie GTG to Rangers games.
Posted by juliebug1997[/QUOTE]

<div>And better weather. That's for sure. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" /></div>

bsn1752

I flame drama starters.  Just in general.  There's no reason for it, and you end up just alientating yourself when everyone comes together and realized who the culprit really is.

On a related note - I am glad that I am able to speak so openly with some of you and get to the root of issues. 

kristan1022

I flame myself for forgetting that I worked 8-noon today instead of my usual 10-2 and staying up much later than usual because I thought I could sleep in... whoops.

laurencste

I flame myself for forgetting to take the chicken out of the freezer to defrost.  NOW what are we gonna have for dinner!

aeliza06

I flame people who hold onto things WAY longer than they should. Let. it. go. 
(among others, my family is SO guilty of this.)

on a positive note, it's Friday and a three day weekend! yay!

bigbabyface

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_fff-73?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:4aa34bde-0ead-4514-b02b-2f59abd306edPost:5c3a5f9d-1e22-4d97-b939-f8810488fac6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]I flame myself for forgetting to take the chicken out of the freezer to defrost.  NOW what are we gonna have for dinner!
Posted by laurencste[/QUOTE]

do you have a microwave with a defrost button? I NEVER remember to take the chicken out. i always defrost it in the microwave. :)

my flame would be to the women at davids bridal trying on dresses while i walk to the back to alterations. Yes, I am 21...yes i realize that is young. and YES i am getting married. dont judge me....and also dont judge the fact that i'm a tad bit more fit then you are....i'm proud of the way i look. and if you dont like that...well then F yourself.

btweety04

Ditto Brianna. We have this occuring at work and people are just so terrible. You would think they were still all in high school.

My other flame is people rsvping for several people not on the invite. The worst part is it is mostly children that have been added.

15 days though

aeliza06

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : do you have a microwave with a defrost button? I NEVER remember to take the chicken out. i always defrost it in the microwave. :) my flame would be to the women at davids bridal trying on dresses while i walk to the back to alterations. <strong>Yes, I am 21...yes i realize that is young. and YES i am getting married. dont judge me....and also dont judge the fact that i'm a tad bit more fit then you are....i'm proud of the way i look. and if you dont like that...well then F yourself.</strong>
Posted by bigbabyface[/QUOTE]

<div>lol, love it! At my work (...I am the youngest person there), people always give me heck for getting married, and I am about to be 24. For some people (especially divorcees), there is never a "right time" in their minds. Just be glad you are happy and in love :)</div>

bigbabyface

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : lol, love it! At my work (...I am the youngest person there), people always give me heck for getting married, and I am about to be 24. For some people (especially divorcees), there is never a "right time" in their minds. Just be glad you are happy and in love :)
Posted by aeliza06[/QUOTE]

i'm the youngest in my firm, have been my entire time working here. Honestly, i was expecting people to talk about me being pregnant or something when we first got engaged...but ya know what, its 10 months later...and no baby. i'm just sick of people telling me that its stupid. if i wanted their opinion, i'd ask...you dont hear me shoving in their face the fact that their marrying someone they've known less time then our engagement.......

Jen6862

For defrosting quickly I put the package in a pan of lukewarm to cold water (not Hot water). I read this somewhere and it really works! Just give it at least 30 minutes. But, you can do your other prep work while you wait.

bsn1752

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[QUOTE]I flame people who hold onto things WAY longer than they should. Let. it. go.  (among others, my family is SO guilty of this.) on a positive note, it's Friday :) and a three day weekend! yay!
Posted by aeliza06[/QUOTE]

Well, sometimes, when things keep going and going... it's impossible to let it go.  At least, for my situation it is.  It just keep drumming back up somehow!

laurencste

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[QUOTE]For defrosting quickly I put the package in a pan of lukewarm to cold water (not Hot water). I read this somewhere and it really works! Just give it at least 30 minutes. But, you can do your other prep work while you wait.
Posted by Jen6862[/QUOTE]

Ooo this is a great idea!  I have a defrost button on the microwave but it always ends up cooking the outer edges while the inside is still frozen.  Of course FI also had a great point when he told me he was going to the store today anyway and chicken legs are about $3, so he'll pick up some non frozen ones.  Win!

I HATE people who RSVP with kids when they weren't invited.  These people told us we were rude for not inviting their kids and they were bringing them (they also declined any offers of babysitting during the reception).  My favorite part was when we asked them not to bring their 2 year old to the ceremony, the mom told me to find childcare for him at the church (though he was not invited), and then said "I know you have lots to do, but oh well, this way my husband can watch the ceremony with our 4 year old" (who we were never given the option to say no to).

aeliza06

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Well, sometimes, when things keep going and going... it's impossible to let it go.  At least, for my situation it is.  It just keep drumming back up somehow!
Posted by bsn1752[/QUOTE]

<div>so frustrating I am sure :( Sometimes you just have to realize what is more important in the big picture- and drama certainly isn't it!</div>

bigbabyface

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_fff-73?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:4aa34bde-0ead-4514-b02b-2f59abd306edPost:36d17d56-6f41-4df3-a768-eab096d409c6">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Ooo this is a great idea!  I have a defrost button on the microwave but it always ends up cooking the outer edges while the inside is still frozen.  Of course FI also had a great point when he told me he was going to the store today anyway and chicken legs are about $3, so he'll pick up some non frozen ones.  Win! I HATE people who RSVP with kids when they weren't invited.  These people told us we were rude for not inviting their kids and they were bringing them (they also declined any offers of babysitting during the reception).  My favorite part was when we asked them not to bring their 2 year old to the ceremony, the mom told me to find childcare for him at the church (though he was not invited), and then said "I know you have lots to do, but oh well, this way my husband can watch the ceremony with our 4 year old" (who we were never given the option to say no to).
Posted by laurencste[/QUOTE]

yeah i have to put my microwave on a lower "power" to keep it from cooking the outer edges. also, that's what happens if you stick it in "hot" water. it will cook the edges. so i agree, with the luke warm water :)

I KNOW! I just had this happen yesterday. i asked my aunt and uncle, "do you and keith plan on making it to the wedding"....her reply was "yes, but the invite said just us, we assumed the kids were under a different head count....they're coming too so put us down for 4"

.......seriously? <a href="mailto:!#@&%^#^%">!#@&%^#^%</a> you're retarded.

aeliza06

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Ooo this is a great idea!  I have a defrost button on the microwave but it always ends up cooking the outer edges while the inside is still frozen.  Of course FI also had a great point when he told me he was going to the store today anyway and chicken legs are about $3, so he'll pick up some non frozen ones.  Win! I HATE people who RSVP with kids when they weren't invited.  These people told us we were rude for not inviting their kids and they were bringing them (they also declined any offers of babysitting during the reception).  My favorite part<strong> was when we asked them not to bring their 2 year old to the ceremony, the mom told me to find childcare for him at the church (though he was not invited), and then said "I know you have lots to do, but oh well, this way my husband can watch the ceremony with our 4 year old"</strong> (who we were never given the option to say no to).
Posted by laurencste[/QUOTE]
oh. my. goodness. I just seriously cringed!!!! I say at some point you have to put your foot down. The child isn't going to remember your wedding and by no means should you have to accommodate!! I cannot believe that they are going against you- it is <em>your</em> wedding! not theirs! 

aeliza06

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : i'm the youngest in my firm, have been my entire time working here. Honestly, i was expecting people to talk about me being pregnant or something when we first got engaged...but ya know what, its 10 months later...and no baby<strong>. i'm just sick of people telling me that its stupid. if i wanted their opinion, i'd ask...you dont hear me shoving in their face the fact that their marrying someone they've known less time then our engagement</strong>.......
Posted by bigbabyface[/QUOTE]
right. because even though you have proved yourself time and time again in the corporate world, there is no way that you could be capable of making your own personal decisions (sarcasm). 

bigbabyface

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_fff-73?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:4aa34bde-0ead-4514-b02b-2f59abd306edPost:c927e38e-312c-45f7-ab63-fe49d6bf4665">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : right. because even though you have proved yourself time and time again in the corporate world, there is no way that you could be capable of making your own personal decisions (sarcasm). 
Posted by aeliza06[/QUOTE]

i think them poking at my younger aged wedding is their way at getting back at me for having to constantly point out their mistakes...HELLO! that's my JOB....i'm here to tell you what you F-d up. its not my fault that your boss wants a law firm here to fix what you screw up! if you're annoyed that i tell you the same thing everyday....then FIX it! sheesh

laurencste

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : oh. my. goodness. I just seriously cringed!!!! I say at some point you have to put your foot down. The child isn't going to remember your wedding and by no means should you have to accommodate!! I cannot believe that they are going against you- it is your  wedding! not theirs! 
Posted by aeliza06[/QUOTE]

Haha, we tried this already.  We fought a battle royale just to get them to not bring the kids to the reception.  Putting your foot down doesn't work when the other person just says "too bad."  This person is my FSIL and is a bridesmaid, and has never once said "it's your wedding."  Also has never come to a shower, party, or anything, and hasn't spoken to us really since we sent out the invitations without her kids on them, after numerous conversations about how we didn't want them there.  We offered to find childcare from our church for both ceremony and reception, but they declined.  Also, besides that one email she has never spoken to me about it (although my parents issued the invitation).  Honestly, people are so crazy about their children.  She told me her four year old would "enjoy each and every moment of the ceremony."  Sure.

First world pains!  In the grand scheme of things, a kid or two doesn't mean much, but the attitude is what's the most hurtful and long lasting.

aeliza06

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Haha, we tried this already.  We fought a battle royale just to get them to not bring the kids to the reception.  Putting your foot down doesn't work when the other person just says "too bad."  This person is my FSIL and is a bridesmaid, and has never once said "it's your wedding."  Also has never come to a shower, party, or anything, and hasn't spoken to us really since we sent out the invitations without her kids on them, after numerous conversations about how we didn't want them there.  We offered to find childcare from our church for both ceremony and reception, but they declined.  Also, besides that one email she has never spoken to me about it (although my parents issued the invitation).  Honestly, people are so crazy about their children.  She told me her four year old would "enjoy each and every moment of the ceremony."<strong>  Sure. First world pains!  In the grand scheme of things, a kid or two doesn't mean much, but the attitude is what's the most hurtful and long lasting.</strong>
Posted by laurencste[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Esp. since it is your FSIL. my heart goes out to you :( (sending good vibes!)

</div>

bigbabyface

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_fff-73?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:4aa34bde-0ead-4514-b02b-2f59abd306edPost:ac7913b3-615b-4e1a-8199-95902858dc31">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Haha, we tried this already.  We fought a battle royale just to get them to not bring the kids to the reception.  Putting your foot down doesn't work when the other person just says "too bad."  This person is my FSIL and is a bridesmaid, and has never once said "it's your wedding."  Also has never come to a shower, party, or anything, and hasn't spoken to us really since we sent out the invitations without her kids on them, after numerous conversations about how we didn't want them there.  We offered to find childcare from our church for both ceremony and reception, but they declined.  Also, besides that one email she has never spoken to me about it (although my parents issued the invitation).  Honestly, people are so crazy about their children.  She told me her four year old would "enjoy each and every moment of the ceremony."  <strong>Sure. First world pains!  In the grand scheme of things, a kid or two doesn't mean much, but the attitude is what's the most hurtful and long lasting.
</strong>Posted by laurencste[/QUOTE]

a kid or two doesnt mean much....no....but when you times that by the 80 people who invite their kids then it adds up!

bsn1752

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : so frustrating I am sure :( Sometimes you just have to realize what is more important in the big picture- and drama certainly isn't it!
Posted by aeliza06[/QUOTE]

Right... making the board a positive place is, and that's exactly what I'm doing.  Sometimes "just letting it go" causes bigger issues in the end because all you did was ignore the elephant in the room.

Something to consider...

aeliza06

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Right... making the board a positive place is, and that's exactly what I'm doing.
Posted by bsn1752[/QUOTE]

<div>And you do a <em>great </em>job- even when some attitudes get in the way ;-) </div>

bsn1752

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : And you do a great job- even when some attitudes get in the way ;-) 
Posted by aeliza06[/QUOTE]

Thank you - I really do appreciate that!

kristan1022

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_fff-73?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:102Discussion:4aa34bde-0ead-4514-b02b-2f59abd306edPost:e2cc82b5-d887-42fd-8a77-42cf37d7f193">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : And you do a great job- even when some attitudes get in the way ;-) 
Posted by aeliza06[/QUOTE]

<div>Very well said, both Brianna and Amanda.</div><div>
</div><div>I flame my work computer for being SO SLOW that it freezes when I am on the phone with customers. YES I know how to help you, NO I can't right now because my computer is a dinosaur :(</div>

crash2729

I flame people who call for prices and don't know their company name. It drives me up the wall. How do you not know who you work for?

MarieSD

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Yes, I am 21...yes i realize that is young. and YES i am getting married. dont judge me....
Posted by bigbabyface[/QUOTE]

I'm in my upper twenties, but I look so young that I also felt judged that way quite often. (I'm always carded / asked where I go to school -- I don't know if they mean HS or college, but either way I graduated a long time ago).

I also got a lot of negativity about marriage in general. I understand and feel badly for the people that had a bad marriage / been divorced, but that doesn't mean the institution is doomed and, in particular, that my marriage is. It'd be one thing if they were giving me concrete advice -- but just telling me "don't do it! It's awful!" was pretty depressing.

I almost never talk about my engagement/marriage, as a result of these two things (mostly the last one). Which is why I come here. :)

aeliza06

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm in my upper twenties, but I look so young that I also felt judged that way quite often. (I'm always carded / asked where I go to school -- I don't know if they mean HS or college, but either way I graduated a long time ago). I also got a lot of negativity about marriage in general. I understand and feel badly for the people that had a bad marriage / been divorced, but that doesn't mean the institution is doomed and, in particular, that my marriage is. It'd be one thing if they were giving me concrete advice --<strong> but just telling me "don't do it! It's awful!" was pretty depressing. I almost never talk about my engagement/marriage, as a result of these two things (mostly the last one). Which is why I come here. :)
Posted by MarieSD[/QUOTE]</strong>
Ditto!!!!

bigbabyface

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_texas-dallas-ft-worth_fff-73?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:102Discussion:4aa34bde-0ead-4514-b02b-2f59abd306edPost:23ee6678-4d1c-40c9-92ea-9c7a2de850be">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : I'm in my upper twenties, but I look so young that I also felt judged that way quite often. (I'm always carded / asked where I go to school -- I don't know if they mean HS or college, but either way I graduated a long time ago). I also got a lot of negativity about marriage in general. I understand and feel badly for the people that had a bad marriage / been divorced, but that doesn't mean the institution is doomed and, in particular, that my marriage is. It'd be one thing if they were giving me concrete advice -- but just telling me "don't do it! It's awful!" was pretty depressing. I almost never talk about my engagement/marriage, as a result of these two things (mostly the last one). Which is why I come here. :)
Posted by MarieSD[/QUOTE]

i walked into a highschool the other day to pick up my sister's friend (who's a senior and was sick).....the "guard" in the hallway said he was taking me to the principals office for skipping class...BAHAHAHA! i looked at him like he was crazy.

as for the dooming of marriage....FI's parents weren't very supportive at first. Main point being they got divorced like 3 or 4 years ago and it was ugly....his mom has been married like 3 times and his father couldnt stop asking what being married was going to change. if we want to look at it that way....then why does ANYONE get married. sheesh. people these days anger me.

plus, time dating and ages dictates almost nothing at least to me. my brother who is three years older than me was going to get married to his GF of 9 years....they split halfway through the engagement. a friend of mine and FSIL married their loves of 10+ years. they each lasted a year and a half. my mother and father got married after dating 6 months at the age of 16 & 17....and are still together 25 years later.

So now...when people start to lecture me about that crap, i say "i'm sorry someone ruined it for you, how bout you stop trying to ruin it for others"

shayNnik

My flame today is FI's family. They are all making a big deal about him not inviting his aunt(who he isn't close to).  I'm sorry but "that's my daughter/sister" doesn't mean anything to us. That's who they are to YOU, not him.

If all the people who have a problem with it really boycott the wedding like they say they are, then we'll just have more room for the friends we are close to but aren't able to invite.