I've been engaged almost a year now and I've had my wedding date set for next summer. I've been taking my time with all of the planning and am about three fourths of the way through. I've been going at my own pace and enjoying it. But recently my MOH (who has been pushing her bf to get engaged for over a year now) finally got engaged. To be honest, she is a wonderful person but she is very dominerring and opinionated. My MOH is now getting married one month before me. She is pushing to finish all of her planning done asap and has only been engaged for less than two months. She even has small details like cake cutting music picked already. I feel very frustrated because everytime we speak she tells me how she already has another thing taken care of. I feel like I am in a rat race now and its totally ruined my whole experience. From what it seems, its like she had to be the one to do it first. I've tried to be nice and graceful about it. I've never let on how I feel because I don't want to look like a witch. I really just want to scream because now I know that this is not only going to be hard for our friends who will be in attendance but also each other. I am normally not one to have the attention on me. But for this one day I felt like it should be about my husband and I! Am I crazy? Please be honest!