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JHS16

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_not-pairing-spouses-wedding-party-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:51113e32-cd57-44bb-9e89-24c7ad433463Post:548a2ce3-3eaa-4739-8f39-dcc0b322ef45">Re: NOT pairing SPOUSES in WEDDING PARTY!!! DRAMA!!</a>:
[QUOTE]Wow.  I'm really not sure how it's disrespecting a couple to have the wife escorted by someone else.  At a formal wedding, the ushers will often escort the woman by the arm while her date (often her husband or fiance) walks behind.  If this is so insulting, why would it be standard etiquette?  The same applies to the processional and recessional. I think you need some distance from the situation before you can really assess it rationally.  Pour yourself a good stiff drink, put on a movie, play a violent video game if you're into that sort of thing.  (I recommend God of War.  Nothing like climbing on a Cyclops' back and ripping out his eye to work out some rage.)  Once you've calmed down a bit, you'll hopefully realize that it's not remotely a big deal, and you'll let it go.
Posted by aerinpegadrak[/QUOTE]

<div>I love that game.</div>

bablingbrooke

I didn't call you nuts!  I said you were coming across that way by being so upset.  Difference!

zitiqueen

I think mommy's DH is going to start humping his bridesmaid halfway down the aisle.

lyndausvi

I'm another married woman and I think you are overreacting..  They are asking your to walk down an aisle, not have sex with the guy. 

mommy2KittyKate

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_not-pairing-spouses-wedding-party-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:51113e32-cd57-44bb-9e89-24c7ad433463Post:da2ff4ad-1717-4371-9f15-d6f55d8e566c">Re: NOT pairing SPOUSES in WEDDING PARTY!!! DRAMA!!</a>:
[QUOTE]I think mommy's DH is going to start humping his bridesmaid halfway down the aisle.
Posted by zitiqueen[/QUOTE]

<font color="#800080">I sure hope so, I've always wanted to have a threesome!</font>

banana468

No one attacked you but you seemed fired up and ready to attack others.

You're right that you don't have to take the advice here - but please listen to it.  NO ONE thinks that making a stink is smart.   That means a lot.

sarabear23

[QUOTE] I sure hope so, I've always wanted to have a threesome!
Posted by mommy2KittyKate[/QUOTE]

TMI

zitiqueen

Taking a 20-second walk with a stranger is disrespectful of her marriage but engaging in a threesome isn't. That's some interesting logic.

aerinpegadrak

JHS, I'm really bummed that GoW III is coming out before the wedding, and I'll have to wait to play it because I have too much to do.  FI has no such reservations; he already finished Dante's Inferno, the bastard.

mommy2KittyKate

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_not-pairing-spouses-wedding-party-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:51113e32-cd57-44bb-9e89-24c7ad433463Post:a54633aa-240b-4ec1-98c6-ddab4f7507b0">Re: NOT pairing SPOUSES in WEDDING PARTY!!! DRAMA!!</a>:
[QUOTE]Taking a 20-second walk with a stranger is disrespectful of her marriage but engaging in a threesome isn't. That's some interesting logic.
Posted by zitiqueen[/QUOT

I was being sarcastic, obviously. I didn't think your comment about humping was very amusing.

michaela48

Sorry if someone already said this but I couldn't read this entire ridiculous thread.

OP- You keep saying you wouldn't care if you weren't in the wedding party. I have a feeling if you weren't in the wedding party you would be on this board going "wahhwahh I wasn't asked to be in my BIL's wedding party and my H was. They are completely DISRESPECTING OUR MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how DARE THEY!!!!!!!!!"

Your being ridiculous, you do sound like a nut and you are acting like a immature teenager, GROW UP

mommy2KittyKate

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_not-pairing-spouses-wedding-party-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:51113e32-cd57-44bb-9e89-24c7ad433463Post:f47593dc-a152-47e2-aa6e-5f0edaa4f1dc">Re: NOT pairing SPOUSES in WEDDING PARTY!!! DRAMA!!</a>:
[QUOTE]Sorry if someone already said this but I couldn't read this entire ridiculous thread. OP- You keep saying you wouldn't care if you weren't in the wedding party. I have a feeling if you weren't in the wedding party you would be on this board going "wahhwahh I wasn't asked to be in my BIL's wedding party and my H was. They are completely DISRESPECTING OUR MARRIAGE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! how DARE THEY!!!!!!!!!" Your being ridiculous, you do sound like a nut and you are acting like a immature teenager, GROW UP
Posted by michaela48[/QUOTE]

hey mic, you're a day late and a dollar short. shut your pie hole.

bablingbrooke

Okay OP I'm really curious now, how old are you?

SarahPLiz

If you are grown and mature, then you should know to pick your battles. this is a petty argument and who you walk with doesn't matter.

FWIW, in my mom's wedding, I walked with our neighbor and his wife walked with my step brother. No one cared. The only reason it looked funny was because I'm 5'3" and he is 6'4".

This is not something to get exasperated about. It is not a public insult to your marriage. I promise.

michaela48

I agree with Babling, seriously OP how old are you?

All you dumb catch phrases really make you sound like you are 15..."shut your pie hole"  I mean come on!

And now you deleted your original post = LAME

mommy2KittyKate

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_not-pairing-spouses-wedding-party-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:51113e32-cd57-44bb-9e89-24c7ad433463Post:7e1ba400-9450-4fc3-ae2d-57e6760060d8">Re: _</a>:
[QUOTE]Okay OP I'm really curious now, how old are you?
Posted by bablingbrooke[/QUOTE]

Why are you curious how old I am now? Because I told the peanut gallery to shut her pie hole? I'm 26. Does it really matter? I'm laughing about this now. I guess you guys were somewhat right. So now that I'm "getting over it" you ladies can stop with the nasty comments.

bablingbrooke

And you're...not being nasty?  

I asked because I find it really hard to believe we're the same age.  You're acting much younger.

mommy2KittyKate

Hey people shouldn't dish it out if they can't take it. There's another DUMB catch phrase for ya, mic. haha!

aerinpegadrak

You've been nastier than anyone else in the thread, by far.  And people have been wondering how old you are because, honestly, you're acting like a 12 year old.  This isn't the sort of thing that a rational adult has any concern over, and the fact that you're reacting so violently to the slightest criticism says that there's probably some bigger issues at work here.

SarahPLiz

I was being nice before, but OP, seriously. You blew this issue and the other posters comments into something way bigger than they were.

I'm going to go take my mood stabilizer and go to bed. I suggest you do the same.

JHS16

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_not-pairing-spouses-wedding-party-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:51113e32-cd57-44bb-9e89-24c7ad433463Post:3ca53af0-4442-4602-966d-51b4f459be72">Re: NOT pairing SPOUSES in WEDDING PARTY!!! DRAMA!!</a>:
[QUOTE]JHS, I'm really bummed that GoW III is coming out before the wedding, and I'll have to wait to play it because I have too much to do.  FI has no such reservations; he already finished Dante's Inferno, the bastard.
Posted by aerinpegadrak[/QUOTE]

<div>Heh, typical.  Thanks for the heads up on the new release, I forgot it was coming out soon!</div>

aerinpegadrak

I mentioned it to him, and he confessed that he's been hiding his excitement, and then totally nerded out on me.  He's planning on preordering the ultimate edition from GameStop, because they have the best pre-order goodies.  I'll just have to make sure that he only plays when I'm not around, I don't want it spoiled for me.

Have you played Chains of Olympus or Betrayal?  I'm wondering if they're necessary to the story or otherwise worth buying.

mags0607

This thread was fun....lol.

I totally thnk this is a troll or MUD. There is no way an actual 26 year old would be that ridiculous. I am very sad to have missed it.

swim1011

Unfortunately, I know 26 year olds that are this ridiculous.  However, I'm not convinced it wasn't a troll, either.  If it was real, well.. I'm glad I'm not related to the OP.  That's all I have to say.

emilyinchile

When I first saw a deleted OP and 3 pages of responses, I was sad to have missed the drama.

After having read all of this ridiculousness, I think I'm glad...I would probably have given myself a concussion from all the headdesk-ing.

SarahPLiz

Yep, This is the only thread she's ever posted, or commented on, and her post count is now 16. riled up much?

suz62984

I'm just surprised that you are so insecure in your marriage that you MUST have your husband walk down the isle with you instead of a complete stranger. Calm down...it will be fine. This is just the way the B&G want it. You got to do it your way at your own wedding. Your day is over now and unless you have another wedding you want get that day back so just go with the flow. This is just the way that they prefer.

trix1223

I just wanted to add that I could maybe, kinda, sorta, understand your outrage (although I'd still think you were over-reacting)  if you were a BM and he was a GM.  But he's the Best Man.  And that's what makes the difference for me. 

He has a different "position" in the WP than you do.  That's it for me.

banana468

That's what does it for me too Trix.

In the same wedding where DH and I were not walking together, any couples who were of the same 'rank' did walk together.

DH also read this and thought, "Why is it that big a deal?  We were in the EXACT same position under six months ago and never felt any insult our marriage at all."

But we also have a phenominal relationship with BIL and SIL.  They're not just family but great friends.  I know they wouldn't do anything to outright insult us.

Soon2BJeter

Wow, now this thread was quality entertainment ladies!! 

What a whack job....!