So here is the deal, my fiancee and I are having a bit of a disagreement on alcohol at the reception. His family is a HUGE group of drinkers that can start fights when they have drank too much (himself included) but I do not want to scratch the idea of being able to have alcohol at all at the reception because I would like some champagne and such for toasts and I know a few of my family members would like to indulge in a couple beers over the 4 hour reception. Is it possible to have an open bar but with a limit? For example, one or 2 drinks per person per hour? Has anybody else had this experience?