FI and I completed the FOCCUS questionnaire at our EE weekend at the beginning of this month. We've got a meeting with our priest next week, to review it.
We're both a little nervous about this....those of you who have done this already, what can we expect? How is this meeting likely to go?
Re: Foccus review?
The idea is to make sure there aren't any surprises that should be discussed prior to getting married. And if there is anything surprising, that they get discussed *now* rather than at the divorce table in 2 years.
Don't worry about it too much, the priest or deacon will still marry you, it is just one of those pre-wedding assessments that they are required to do. Dont worry about it, everything will be just fine.
As long as you both answer all the questions as honestly as possible, you should be fine, because I know some people who "cheated" just so they didn't have to talk about as many uncomfortable things. Definitely don't worry, because your priest won't think anything less of you and your fiance for being honest. None of us are perfect and will all have challenges in our relationships
Not caring about missing RSVPs because there aren't any rocks!
(eh...did that make any sense at all?)
Love 06/2005 | Marriage 05/28/2011 | Baby! Peanut born on his due date, 9/30/12