Alright Sorry

lillianchameleon

I'm sorry about the DD.  I just read the comments and was like "Son of a biiitch"... because it was really frustrating because everything seems to be sucking right now.I'm not going to post anymore about him and I.  For now on I'm going to post about strictly wedding related stuff, which wont be for awhile since we're not going to look at venues or whatever again till January.

MeaghanandMichael

ah yes, the repost always makes everything better. always.

salt78

You are a hot mess.

scoetto

Pumpkin Cheesecake anyone?

jessjo04

I think you need to hold off on the wedding posts too. At least until you get a FI who doesnt ignore you for a week at a time.

[Deleted User]

So, you are definitely getting married after all of the shiit that he put you through?

crfische

Seriously, dood. Just stay away. You shouldn't be planning a wedding.

FutureMrsDudley55

Pumpkin Cheesecake anyone?Ohh yes please!

nda_roxybabe

I would really, seriously, consider calling of the engagement. Go back to just dating if nothing else.

bbyckes

I don't know whether you're real or not or if you've got MUD or not.  I just hope things work out the way they're supposed to for you.

lillianchameleon

Salt-  Indeed... right now that is true.

Sunkissed_Bride

Hot mess -- I use that phrase daily. LOL!Pumpkin cheesecake -- YES please!

crfische

That's the smartest thing you've said tonight, Moonface.

mwhitson14

At least until you get a FI who doesnt ignore you for a week at a time. And a FI who doesn't hold grudges for years then uses it as ammo to break up with you.

FutureMrsDudley55

Don't you realize that if he did this once than there's a VERY good chance that he'll do it again?

crfische

And also. PSA: It's ALL RIGHT. See that space there? Two words.

shellydiane820

back away from the computer, your crazy is showing.

Brie2010

In the words of Dan Savage...DTMFA.

tmm140

I agree with others. Stop planning, leave him for good, and go find someone worth the talk. You're only 20...be 20..

scoetto

Duds & Sunkissed, your cheesecake is coming right up :)Did I forget to mention it's a slice from Cheesecake Factory? We picked up a box full at Costco. There's plenty to go around.

betrothed123

Don't you realize that if he did this once than there's a VERY good chance that he'll do it again?This exactly.

tmm140

Cheesecake factory--i'm in too!!!

fangsiting

Wait, what?  You are still planning a wedding?  Seriously, if you must be in this unhealthy relationship, please just keep him as your boyfriend. 

Sunkissed_Bride

Sco -- I have much love for you right now!

janedoe1113a

Sco -- I'd like some please!I think you need to put off the wedding for at least a couple years.

nda_roxybabe

Sco- in that case I'll take a slice tooImyotdsotm (holy sh!teven that is super long)- Have you talked about calling off the engagement?

polichik

So, here's the thing... I'm trying not to get all Freudian on you (cause that's just gross), but I find it interesting that you're searching for validation on an internet message board if you truly feel that you're doing the right thing. We've been very clear about our feelings about the issue, so I'm surprised that you keep coming back for more unless a part of you knows that what you're doing isn't good for you.PLEASE don't marry this guy, at least not now. I suspect that you have some self-esteem issues given your willingness to take him back, so please get into and continue with some individual therapy for at least a year before even considering marrying him.Otherwise, we'll see you back in 1-3 years. Mark my words.

sarabellam

I'll split a piece with someone. Got to get back on the scale at the dr's office in the morning, so don't need a full piece.

smokeybailey

I wasn't around today and now I see there was a post.  Why on earth are still with this man?  At 20?  My god.  I have no words.Well, I have one.  Lame.

FutureMrsDudley55

Sco - I'll just send my address over FB to send the cheesecake, kthxbai

lyndausvi

You are a classic reason why there are different levels before getting married.First you date, then you get engaged and finally if everything works out your get married.Your engagement should not be this hard.  Get out now while you can.  You are still young and have your whole life in front of you.