Serial Killers Unite - FLAMING UP IN HERE!!!

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Serial Killers Unite - FLAMING UP IN HERE!!! : You mean teenage girls, right? Like, all of them? Oh God, you're going to hate me now, aren't you?
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

Haha!  Nope, no hate here.  That's how I feel sometimes ;)

LDY, that was Erin.  I think she conveniently missed my flame of that.

ski2play

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[QUOTE]Yeah, you kinda are. And nothing is wrong with it individually. But no one has any balls anymroe. The regs don't want to speak their mind like they used to because people like you would try to crucify them.
Posted by louisvillebride21[/QUOTE]

LVB, I thought today was a good step forward towards people showing their balls today.  Oh what fun TK must have been "back in the day when the regs spoke open, honestly, and freely".  I tend to be pretty happy go lucky, type personality too.  I feel I am a product of my enviroment and the cards life has dealt me.  I have seen way too much in this game of life to let the little things stop me from singing in the rain. 

J&K10910

Wow, tardy to the party.  (me)

Bec would have a princess tea party.  SHE WOULD.

ErinG93

Not conveniently J&K, I posted about my meeting I was going to. and by the time I got home from work the thread was dead.

Not a great comment, but I thought it was dumb that Santana was getting shiit for making dress me threads. Then she turned into a turd.

ETA: A really big turd.

LDYGTR13

I think I'm annoyed today by "I'm supposed to say this bc I'm on E" stuff; party lines, "captain save a newb", even boardwar. I'm grouchy today.

J&K10910

LVB, I get what you're saying too about people not having any balls.

I mean, I think I'm considerably toned down from how I used to be here (I read a super super old FFF the other day,a nd I was cringing at some of my posts), and I STILL say some things and then read the rest of the thread and I'm like "Welp, guess I'm the bitch in the thread.  Neat."  When not so long ago, what I said would have been the tame thing in the thread.

LDYGTR13

So Nikki is gone?

specialk84

I said it before, but I think it got lost. I think some regs are too quick to call MUD and troll. Some people really are that stupid.

I think back to the thread on CC where someone posted a question like, "What happens at weddings" and people jumped all over her, immediately calling troll. She was real. She had a question she could have answered via Google, but sometimes I think people are bitchy just for the sake of being bitchy.

I fully support being bitchy when it's called for (and it's called for fairly often, IMO).

louisvillebride21

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Serial Killers Unite - FLAMING UP IN HERE!!! : LVB, I thought today was a good step forward towards people showing their balls today.  Oh what fun TK must have been "back in the day when the regs spoke open, honestly, and freely".  I tend to be pretty happy go lucky, type personality too.  I feel I am a product of my enviroment and the cards life has dealt me.  I have seen way too much in this game of life to let the little things stop me from singing in the rain. 
Posted by ski2play[/QUOTE]
Not gonna lie, you're weird sometimes. You just word things so....awkwardly.

mica178

I miss my pre-mod days. 

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]Not conveniently J&K, I posted about my meeting I was going to. and by the time I got home from work the thread was dead. <strong>Not a great comment, but I thought it was dumb that Santana was getting shiit for making dress me threads</strong>. Then she turned into a turd. ETA: A really big turd.
Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]

But that's ok!  It's ok to think it's lame and say something about it.  It was the follow up comment that was stupid.

I mean-- have a feeling, say it, and own it.  following it up like that looks weak and a little petulant, honestly.  If you had left well enough alone, I wouldnt' have batted an eye at it.  But that one sentence took it from a comment in her defense to you being lame.  KWIM?

ErinG93

I'll own my comment, it was annoying and I knew it when I typed it. I still don't think Santana deserved as much flack before she was acting like a little shiit. But, I'm pretty damn soft.

Birdie1483

The thing is, people used to get shiit for no reason at all. And no one called it lame. It's just how it was*.


*From what I hear. And from what I vaguely remember from when I first started posting before things went soft.

ErinG93

And you're right J&K. I just don't have much confidence, and I really envy people who can put it all out there. I can't or won't.

LDYGTR13

Special...yup! I Said that earlier, silly!

Birdie1483

SAY IT MICA

ahhhitsshannyn

Eh, I don't care. Maybe I am just a biitch but people IRL who are happy go lucky all the time annoy me. So its double annoying on the boards. I came to this place for the drama and the honesty, and now we have to walk around on egg shells or talk about princesses or pets for hours and hours. Its just boring here.

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]I'll own my comment, it was annoying and I knew it when I typed it. I still don't think Santana deserved as much flack before she was acting like a little shiit. But, I'm pretty damn soft.
Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]

But you DIDN'T own your comment.  Instead you weakened it by proactively flaming yourself, essentially. 

If you're not going to own it, then don't say it.  No one is going to hate you for sticking up for someone once in a whacked out thread.  And if they are, then they're even more dumb, and good riddance.

There's nothing wrong with being "soft."  But if you're soft, then don't try to be hard. 

Birdie1483

I know when I say dumb stuff. Africa anyone?

LDYGTR13

I feel you, Erin. I was/am like that sometimes.

specialk84

I am not a naturally happy-go-lucky person. Usually, people like Midge and Ski kind of irritate me.

HOWEVER, these two do not. I love them big time. I think it's because they're genuinely happy. They aren't telling me to smile, and they aren't obnoxious about it.

WildRumpus

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[QUOTE]The thing is, people used to get shiit for no reason at all. And no one called it lame. It's just how it was*. *From what I hear. And from what I vaguely remember from when I first started posting before things went soft.
Posted by Birdie1483[/QUOTE]

Pretty much. People were biitches just because they felt like it.

ErinG93

I didn't mean I owned it then (obviously not), I am trying to own up to the stupidity now. I'm not trying to be "hard" either, just honest.

mica178

Oh, I don't have any new flames.  I'm just thinking about how I often have to restrain myself from typing what I think.  There are a bunch of threads (by specific posters) I just don't bother checking out because I know that I have nothing constructive to say. 

I was just thinking today how glad I am that one crazy bride who married last summer 2011 no longer posts her generic advice on E.  I just couldn't stand to even see her sig after all those FFFs.

Megbo2012

Just popping in quick to tell J&K, I just found my good inhaler! The one that does a decent puff!! Good thing since I have a race tomorrow.

J&K10910

But Special, just be happy!!!!  Why aren't you happy, Special?  The world is made of love, and rainbows, and sugar and spice and everything nice!

FUCKING SMILE GODDAMN IT OR I'LL BRING OUT THE PUPPIES.

Like that?

Birdie1483

But Mica i liked those It made things interesting

::so says the mod on her way out muahahah::

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]Just popping in quick to tell J&K, I just found my good inhaler! The one that does a decent puff!! Good thing since I have a race tomorrow.
Posted by Megbo2012[/QUOTE]

That is most excellent!

J&K10910

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[QUOTE]I didn't mean I owned it then (obviously not), I am trying to own up to the stupidity now. I'm not trying to be "hard" either, just honest.
Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]

Got it.

Honest is good.  And you don't have to be bitchy to be honest.  Just don't preemptively flame yourself when you're doing it. 

specialk84

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[QUOTE]But Special, just be happy!!!!  Why aren't you happy, Special?  The world is made of love, and rainbows, and sugar and spice and everything nice! FUCKING SMILE GODDAMN IT OR I'LL BRING OUT THE PUPPIES. Like that?
Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

<div>Yeah, J. Like that. I know plenty of people like that, and it makes me feel stabby. </div><div>
</div><div>MIDGE AND SKI: Please do not ever talk to me like that. You haven't done it, so please keep doing what you're doing. I like your attitudes ON YOU, not on the random dude at the post office.</div>