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  • Not rude.  If you have a lot of out out of town people, I wouldn't expect them to make the trip twice in that many weekends, but they always have the option to decline the invitation if they can't make it.
  • Both of our Bach parties were the weekend before the wedding - the showers were earlier.  We picked dates that worked for us and our dear friends we wanted at the gatherings.

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  • It's not rude to have the parties the week before, but I think it is a little rude to "expect" people to make it both weeks.  For some people it's not going to be feasible to do so.

    One of my bridesmaids is from out of state, so I'm pretty sure she won't be able to make it to the shower or bachelorette party.  While I'd love for her to make it to everything, I know that it's not really economically feasible for her to do so.

    I'd just talk to your Mom and MOH and see if they'd be ok with travelling both weekends.  If they aren't, you really only have two choices. 

    1.  Choose a different time when they can be there.
    2.  Go ahead with the plans without them.
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