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    mica178mica178 member
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    I have way too much lingerie.  I have a whole drawer of bras, one of underwear (mostly thongs -- think about how little space they take) and one of cute flirty nighties.  I will never run out of clean underwear.

    I confess that I don't wash my bras often.  But boobs don't sweat, so I'm not sure why I'd need to wash them more than I do. 
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    J was all respectful about mentioning sacred underwear and I talk about it like a 12 year old. cool. 
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    ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Shameful Confessions : I definitely don't mean this be disrespectful, so I'm sorry if it comes off that way, but what exactly is Mormon "sacred" underwear?  And what makes it sacred? 
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>No disrespect J&K! Haven't you seen the Mormon South Park? ;) They believe their underwear is sacred and could possibly protect you in a fire. It also helps with modesty because you aren't supposed to show your underoos to anyone except your spouse. You're not even allowed to throw them away, there must be proper disposal. (Burning? I'm not really sure.)</div><div><a href="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/8/4/485b78dd-2c76-4d3b-b48e-a345021b34cb.large.jpg" title="Click to view a larger photo" class="PhotoLink"> <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/images/store/8/4/485b78dd-2c76-4d3b-b48e-a345021b34cb.medium.jpg" alt="" /></a>

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    I wish I more into lingerie.  Like, real lingerie, not just underwear.  I own...one thing?  And I've worn it once?  I always feel super awkward in lingerie.

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    raes19raes19 member
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    Mica - I hate washing my bras because I feel like they are never shaped the right way again.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_shameful-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3cc647e8-d58c-4ba4-a202-07b7d4c847dfPost:b957fc10-b84e-4b7d-80e6-450b853757f0">Re: Shameful Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]I have way too much lingerie.  I have a whole drawer of bras, one of underwear (mostly thongs -- think about how little space they take) and one of cute flirty nighties.  I will never run out of clean underwear. I confess that I don't wash my bras often.  But boobs don't sweat, so I'm not sure why I'd need to wash them more than I do. 
    Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

    <div>According to the woman at the lingerie store it's actually better you don't wash them after each use.</div>
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    ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    I rarely wash my bras, Mica. I have a really specific way I like to air dry them to keep the cups all properly shaped. No shame in that.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_shameful-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3cc647e8-d58c-4ba4-a202-07b7d4c847dfPost:2c4e29eb-cb5c-4a03-9863-325a86b0d778">Re: Shameful Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Shameful Confessions : No disrespect J&K! Haven't you seen the Mormon South Park? ;) They believe their underwear is sacred and could possibly protect you in a fire. It also helps with modesty because you aren't supposed to show your underoos to anyone except your spouse. You're not even allowed to throw them away, there must be proper disposal. (Burning? I'm not really sure.)
    Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]

    Wait, they're supposed to protect you in a fire, but you dispose of them by burning them?  I'm sorry, but I just don't understand.  I feel like an ass.  I can see why you'd enjoy wearing non-sacred underwear.

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    I have two shameful confessions. Since I've put on so much weight, I've pretty much given up on looking nice. I didn't wear makeup, shave my legs, or put much effort into wearing anything other than jeans and a hoodie. It was hard to realize just how far I'd let myself go.

    The other day, I sort of had my come-to-Jesus moment. I realized that I can either look like a fat slob, or I can look like a fat, well-dressed woman. For the past four days, I've been wearing much nicer clothes, I've done my hair each day, and I'm wearing makeup. My legs are shaved. People are being nicer to me.

    For the second one, I completely forgot about my take-home midterm from last week. I was so caught up in the stuff with my mom. Not only did I not go to the class to turn it in, but I didn't even do it. The highest grade I can get now is a C.
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    In high school we used to have leopard print underwear Fridays. We were cool.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Shameful Confessions : No disrespect J&K! Haven't you seen the Mormon South Park? ;) They believe their underwear is sacred and could possibly protect you in a fire. It also helps with modesty because you aren't supposed to show your underoos to anyone except your spouse. You're not even allowed to throw them away, there must be proper disposal. (Burning? I'm not really sure.)
    Posted by ErinG93[/QUOTE]
    This is fascinating.  So dumb question, but do you wear underwear under this too?  If not, it doesn't seem like it would be all that supportive.  And wow I can only imagine how hot this would get.  Eek!
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    FI loves lingerie and he's always bugging me to buy some, but I see it as such a waste of money. You wear it for like 5 minutes and then it's on the floor... I'd rather save my money.
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    ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_shameful-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3cc647e8-d58c-4ba4-a202-07b7d4c847dfPost:601a940a-64b1-4872-a3db-c6d57294083b">Re: Shameful Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Shameful Confessions : Wait, they're supposed to protect you in a fire, but you dispose of them by burning them?  I'm sorry, but I just don't understand.  I feel like an ass.  I can see why you'd enjoy wearing non-sacred underwear.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I don't actually know if you burn them, I just know you have to properly dispose of them. You buy them from some special place too. </div><div>
    </div><div>I'm so glad I don't wear long underwear like that, even if they make them in all kinds of cool fabric.

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    ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_shameful-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3cc647e8-d58c-4ba4-a202-07b7d4c847dfPost:02d96679-b0db-4ce0-ace8-9868563e54a8">Re: Shameful Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Shameful Confessions : This is fascinating.  So dumb question, but do you wear underwear under this too?  If not, it doesn't seem like it would be all that supportive.  And wow I can only imagine how hot this would get.  Eek!
    Posted by LaBellaVita23[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>No underwear underneath, but my mom wears a bra over the top. So um, I'm sure she would be SO THRILLED that I'm telling The Internet about how she wears her bra. </div><div>
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    </div><div>As a kid, I wondered why she didn't wear a bra underneath the magic underwear. She never could really explain, and I still wonder.

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_shameful-confessions?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:3cc647e8-d58c-4ba4-a202-07b7d4c847dfPost:ac90292f-b17c-4427-8a80-f8d67378a7bc">Re: Shameful Confessions</a>:
    [QUOTE]I wish I more into lingerie.  Like, real lingerie, not just underwear.  I own...one thing?  And I've worn it once?  I always feel super awkward in lingerie.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    <div>Me too.  And of course my BMs gave me tons of lingerie as a surprise before the wedding.  I've worn 2 things one time each, and the rest just sits in a drawer. .</div>
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    [QUOTE]I wish I more into lingerie.  Like, real lingerie, not just underwear.  I own...one thing?  And I've worn it once?  I always feel super awkward in lingerie.
    Posted by J&K10910[/QUOTE]

    This is me. I also have to buy VS thongs when they are 7 for 25. I have to much underwear but if there is a sale I always feel like I could use a few more.

    I wear thongs for everything. My friends think it is weird to wear them when you workout, but I only wear full-butted (my weird terminology) underwear to bed.
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    [QUOTE]I have way too much lingerie.  I have a whole drawer of bras, one of underwear (mostly thongs -- think about how little space they take) and one of cute flirty nighties.  I will never run out of clean underwear. I confess that I don't wash my bras often.  But boobs don't sweat, so I'm not sure why I'd need to wash them more than I do. 
    Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

    <div>I don't wash my bras very often either.  And I definitely need more of them anyway :)</div>
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    chrmunchrmun member
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    So, the magic undrpants are actually called "temple garments" or just "garments".  They are a physical representation of a Mormon's covenant with god.  They are sort of a shield, if you will, between the body and the filthy world.  They have symbols on them that are meant to remind the wearer of their relationship with God.
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    Oh, and since I've been this heavy, I've been buying Hanes underpants--the kind that come in an eight-pack. Last time, I bought the wrong size, which I didn't realize until I'd already washed them. 

    Part of me wants to keep them, since I have been losing some weight. The other part of me says, "Dude. They're like $5. Get rid of them."
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    ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    Oh Sparent, I can't sleep in underwear. Too restricting. I cannot even imagine sleeping in butted underwear, ugh.
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    mica178mica178 member
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    I heard a crazy story about a guy converting to Mormonism this weekend.  He tried being honest when he met with the elders, and they TOLD HIM TO LIE (about drinking, premarital sex and any questions or doubts he had about the Book of Mormon) so that they could accept him into the church.  Um, what?  So now he's a wine drinking Mormon whose in laws are happy on paper.
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    ErinG93ErinG93 member
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    [QUOTE]So, the magic undrpants are actually called "temple garments" or just "garments".  They are a physical representation of a Mormon's covenant with god.  They are sort of a shield, if you will, between the body and the filthy world.  They have symbols on them that are meant to remind the wearer of their relationship with God.
    Posted by chrmun[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Yep. There are x marks sewn in certain places.

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    [QUOTE]FI loves lingerie and he's always bugging me to buy some, but I see it as such a waste of money. <strong>You wear it for like 5 minutes and then it's on the floor</strong>... I'd rather save my money.
    Posted by angelstar975[/QUOTE]

    <div>Depending on what you get it doesn't HAVE to come off. </div>
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    I can't sleep in underwear either.
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    my confession:

    I kind of miss doing stuff for my wedding, so I have been randomly designing stuff for knotties weddings when I am bored.
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    [QUOTE]So, the magic undrpants are actually called "temple garments" or just "garments".  They are a physical representation of a Mormon's covenant with god.  They are sort of a shield, if you will, between the body and the filthy world.  They have symbols on them that are meant to remind the wearer of their relationship with God.
    Posted by chrmun[/QUOTE]
    This is absolutely fascinating.
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    mica178mica178 member
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    That's part of why I buy most of my lingerie at Ross.  It's $10, so I don't care how long I wear it. 
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    raes19raes19 member
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    I can't sleep with clothes on. If I sleep somewhere that I have to have something on, I wake up all night long because I feel like I'm all tied up or something.
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    special, I totally feel you there. My first assignment of this semester that I just finished (that is a horrible sentence) was due at 8 am Monday morning. All my other assignments were due at midnight, so I thought that was too. I logged on after school to complete it and saw 3 zeroes :( I actually ended up with a B, but I wanted an A to keep up my GPA.

    My shameful confession is that I know my dad didn't know better/think much of it, but I'm really ill he gave my cell phone number to a parent of one of my student's (students?). 
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    Now I just can't stop picturing Mitt in the dude Mormon underwear. 
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