I'm curious because we definitely talk to them less since we moved (we used to live 30 minutes away from them), and I think they're a bit... Displeased. I'm curious if we're in the norm or not.
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Re: How often do you talk to your (F)ILs?
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I talk with one of my sisters every couple of weeks, and the others range from once a month or so to never. Same with H and his family.
We both come from really big families, and we're both well into middle age, so I think both of those things make a difference.
MIL usually calls H's phone everyday, and then when he doesn't answer because he gets annoyed, she calls my phone. Now that H is gone she has called me a few times, but she constantly posts on my FB. She drives me nuts. The other day she called me while I was working and left a voicemail about how she wants to mail me my Christmas gift so I don't have to fly with it. Then she sent me the same message on FB. Then text me to see if I got the messages, because she wanted to know if it was okay. Seriously, you needed to know that minute if it was okay to mail me my Christmas gift over a month from now?
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[QUOTE] MIL sends me a lot of CALLL MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE messages to me on Facebook - usually at least once a week. I make Mr. Arb call her when that happens, because the woman is socially awkward and will never let me off the phone. I probably talk to her/see her once a month, sometimes less often. I'd say with his dad and stepmom, it's once every 2-3 months
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Haha that sounds like my MIL. She is also notorious though for posting TMI on FB. H doesn't have a FB account, so I'll always say "oh, your mom's status says..."
He just rolls his eyes. His mom is harmless, but socially awkward as well. She literally called both of our phones twice in a 20 minute period (we were at the dog park and left them home) to tell us that she wrapped some Christmas presents and they looked really funny.
I just feel bad, because even though I make an effort to call them, DH just isn't really a phone person and never thinks of it.
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We see them pretty often though, too. At least once a month, but we only live 2 hours away.
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H actually sees my parents more than I do at this point! He volunteers with my dad at a food pantry once a week. I talk on the phone with the 'rents maybe every 10 days or so.
He sees my parents more often because I'm really close to them, and they're only about 10 miles away.
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DH is really variable in how often he talks to them -- anywhere from a few times in a week to going several weeks without talking to them.
I, on the other hand, talk with my parents several times a week, sometimes every day when things are going on.
Talk to them a few times a month on the phone but H talks to them more like a few times a week.
I talk to my mom daily and see her 3-4 times per week.
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[QUOTE]Funny how keeping up with family is often seen as the wife's deal, not the husband's no matter which side of the family is involved. My MIL wouldn't be all that shocked if I called her up to say hi or make holiday plans, but my mother would keel over with shock if my H called her up for a little chat.
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This. I'm trying to encourage DH to call them more, since I don't want us to fall into that dynamic. I would never expect him to call my parents, but I know he'll happily say hi when I call them. H likes his parents just fine, but they've never really been close or chatty with each other.
I talk to my mom just about every day, my dad twice a week or so, and my little brother about every other week. I've always been close to them, so it just seems normal like that.
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I talk to his mom about once a month. Usually via email or if I happen to be with him when he calls them.
H has been talking to them a lot more the past couple weeks though since we found out his mom has breast cancer.
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