Confessions

FutureMrsTR

Have we done this recently?

You people who failed your driving tests are making me nervous.

My really embarassing confession?  I liked the musical episode of Grey's Anatomy (except for the happy song where all the couples danced).  I cried through almost the whole thing.  Especially the last song.

baystateapple

In my (rather weak) defense, I think I would have passed it the second time if I hadn't gotten the same crotchety old tester who failed me the first time.  He scared me so badly that I made a big error right in the last ten seconds, and that's how I failed.

I confess that even though H told the Vicious Trollop to stop sending him skanky texts, I'm pissed that she put an picture of him and her as her FB profile picture.  I REALIZE that I am splitting hairs about this, and probably making it a bigger deal than it should be, but it still irritates me.

ggirl2001

She put a picture of him and her as her FB picture. See that would piss me off.

sarah0725

I fnally thought of one that is about something other than procrastinating!

I have a crush on Ralph Macchio, and I have since I was a teenager and read "The Outisders" and fell in love with Johnny Cade, and then he played Johnny in the movie and... yeah. I've always been kind of ashamed of that, but there it is. And now I keep voting for him every week on DWTS because it's nice to see him, even if he isn't all that great at Latin dances.

FutureMrsTR

She needs to be defriended and blocked.  WTF is her problem?

adamar15

I don't have a confession just yet, but Bay that is really weird.  She's becoming stalker-y in my mind.

LDYGTR13

I passed the DRIVING part just fine, thank you. It was the part about blind people walking across the street (alone?!?!?) that threw me for a loop, lady.

Ciaram22

I've been beating myself up since our meeting with Children's hospital. I know I have no right to be because I am learning and so is he. It's just the way that the feeding specialist addresed his feeding it made me feel like a failure.

I finally broke through to post on the couple cleft lip and palate forums. In the 12 hours since I posted I have gotten so much support from people that understand what we are going through that I don't know why I hesitated posting there in the first place.

LDYGTR13

I enjoy watching educational programming...the ones aimed at preschoolers. I watch Nick Jr. all day when I'm sick.

LDYGTR13

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[QUOTE]I've been beating myself up since our meeting with Children's hospital. I know I have no right to be because I am learning and so is he. It's just the way that the feeding specialist addresed his feeding it made me feel like a failure. I finally broke through to post on the couple cleft lip and palate forums. In the 12 hours since I posted I have gotten so much support from people that understand what we are going through that I don't know why I hesitated posting there in the first place.
Posted by Ciaram22[/QUOTE]

I'm so glad Ciara! I would have no idea how to deal with any of that, so I'm glad you're able to talk to people who've "been there". I guess it's sorta like this place with weddings - but way way way more serious. That makes me happy for you. I hope they help you a lot! Happy Ciaras are important.

Arayx2

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[QUOTE]I enjoy watching educational programming...the ones aimed at preschoolers. <strong>I watch Nick Jr.</strong> all day when I'm sick.
Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]

I apologize for intruding but I laughed when I read this. My confession - I took my 2 year old to Yo Gabba Gabba live and;

1.) could sing ALL the songs
2.) Had more fun than him

georgia_bride09

I would have issues with someone besides myself putting MY husband in HER profile picture. And I'd have a Come to Jesus with my husband, and he would defriend her. And I'm not the jealous type, but Trollop has gone too far.

baystateapple

Oh.  I also confess that I have been seriously gung ho about wanting to start TTC ASAP.  H wanted to wait until the end of the year/beginning of 2012.  And what convinced me wasn't the financial argument or him saying he'll feel more "ready" then.  It was booking a vacation and not wanting to be hugely pregnant while on the cruise.

And now I seriously wonder, if I was so willing to put TTC on hold until January just for a vacation, how ready am I to be a parent?  I feel like that makes me a bad person.

DodgersBride

I confess that I don't drive. I have taken the written test and passed but I just let my permit expire.

FI and I went to a wedding orientation last night at the cathedral and I am excited and nervous to start actually planning. We've been engaged almost 2 years and this is the first WR thing we have done.

FutureMrsTR

Ditto Georgia.  And I'd be locking down that profile to make sure she could see (and download) any of his pictures.  And then hire a bodyguard because biitch is gonna lose her mind.

cpfwvu

I went to an NSync concert in college... and liked it. We could see really well because everyone else was a tiny little preteen.

mkrupar

What Georgia said. Bay, that ish needs to stop. She sounds like she's just asking for trouble. And by trouble I mean my fist meeting her face.

Rosie109

Uhhh my failing of the learners permit test was purly pen and paper issues. Once I got on the road I was good



Ok I know this is crazy, I called the cake place about ordering FI's grooms cake. He wanted a black lab. The lady said that if we wanted a 3d version it was going to be hefty, over $500. At first I was all "oh thats fine" but then when she told me how much it would cost to get a sheet cake with a black lab design ($65) I said no way. I feel terrible I didn't get him his 3d cake though. Like I am seriously debating calling her back and changing my order.

LDYGTR13

For some reason I posted this first in the wrong thread. Ignore me.

When I was a kid, my parents were looking at houses and I went along. Well. I had to potty and we were in a model house, so I figured if there's a toilet, it'll flush, right? Yeah, guess not.

I whispered to my dad that I had gone potty in a potty that didn't flush and told him it wasnt just pee. He got the realtor to show us another house immediately b/c the one we were in just didn't "feel" right.

He never fessed up.

Birdie1483

I finally picked up my wedding band, which had been sitting at the jewelry shop for over a week after being resized, and now I'm obsessed with it. I can't stop bringing it out and trying it on to see what it will look like.

ggirl2001

Ok, serious confession here. I'm scared for when FI comes home because we have been LDR for 2 years, have never lived together and I know its going to be a serious change. I'm excited/scared at the same time.

mica178

Yay, Ciara!

I confess that I checked out an ex's FB page yesterday and tried to figure out who is his girlfriend.  I would never in a million years date that guy again, I have no idea what came over me and led me to snoop.

FutureMrsTR

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[QUOTE]And now I seriously wonder, if I was so willing to put TTC on hold until January just for a vacation, how ready am I to be a parent?  I feel like that makes me a bad person.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

Well this is just silly.  Wanting to be comfortable and really enjoy one last vacation with your H before it's not just the two of you ever again is not anything that makes you a bad person or not ready to be a parent.

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Dude, bay, I would be pissed. Unless it's his mom, sister, or close cousin, no woman needs to be putting a picture of my H and her in her profile pic. I think I would be asking H to tell her she needs to remove it. Did she put it up after he told her to back off? If so, it's probably out of spite.

LDY--I watch Disney all the time. I'm a child at heart. The shows are always so bright and colorful and happy. And I love their new movie, Lemonade Mouth. Now I want to read the book.

cengle

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[QUOTE]I would have issues with someone besides myself putting MY husband in HER profile picture. And I'd have a Come to Jesus with my husband, and he would defriend her. And I'm not the jealous type, but Trollop has gone too far.
Posted by georgia_bride09[/QUOTE]

Uh yeah. This. Bitch needs to step off.

I don't think I have any confessions that have not already been confessed.

hlq2011

I'm irrationally worried about my FI's bachelor party.  They're in New Orleans as we speak, and one of his GM's spent an evening talking about how NO can be dangerous if you don't stick to the right areas.  They've been there before and survived (bach party for FI's BM a year and a half ago - though the groom nearly choked on a piece of ice at one point), but I'm really nervous something will happen.

baystateapple

Birdie -- I did the same thing!

GG -- *HUGS*  I would be apprehensive too.  H and I had an LDR for the first year we were dating, and when he moved down to CT I was scared to death.  Excited, but terrified.  But (obvs.) it worked out.

FutureMrsTR

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[QUOTE]Ok, serious confession here. I'm scared for when FI comes home because we have been LDR for 2 years, have never lived together and I know its going to be a serious change. I'm excited/scared at the same time.
Posted by ggirl2001[/QUOTE]

I think it shows maturity that you recognize that it will likely have some challenges.  Just go with the flow and have a lot of communication and you'll be golden :)

Beachy730

Totally agree with Georgia.  Bay you're not at all being ridiculous, and need to make your H see the light on this and put a stop to it.  I probably would have lost it on that girl by now, and H for letting it happen.  

annakb8

Bay, that girl sounds completely delusional.

And don't feel bad for not wanting to be KU before you go on vacation. I doubt anyone ever feels really ready to have kids and you'll be a great parent regardless of whether you get pregnant today or in 5 years.

sarah0725

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[QUOTE]Oh.  I also confess that I have been seriously gung ho about wanting to start TTC ASAP.  H wanted to wait until the end of the year/beginning of 2012.  And what convinced me wasn't the financial argument or him saying he'll feel more "ready" then.  It was booking a vacation and not wanting to be hugely pregnant while on the cruise. And now I seriously wonder, if I was so willing to put TTC on hold until January just for a vacation, how ready am I to be a parent?  I feel like that makes me a bad person.
Posted by baystateapple[/QUOTE]

I don't think this makes you a bad person, and I don't think it's "just" a vacation. Making sure you're in the right place mentally, financially, and emotionally to bring a baby into the world makes you a very good person, and that includes doing things that you've always wanted to do that might be more difficult once there are little ones in the equation. Charlie and I are definitely planning on enjoying some time to ourselves (and traveling) before we start a family.