Sexy time Poll

adamar15

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sexy time Poll : Hey, the danger of getting caught is half the fun.  We occassionally just go driving around looking for ideas of public/semi public places to have sex.  It's more about the thrill than the actual act though, because let's face it, sex in the front seat of Honda Civic can only be so good in the best of circumstances, am I right?
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

That's why I like my SUV.  The back seats fold down and then it's as big as a bed!

MyUserName1

Yeah, the public sex has never been particularly good sex in and of itself, it's the potentially getting caught that makes it fun.  Also, pick a department store where the staff pretty much ignores the dressing rooms.

willywally5

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[QUOTE]Go for it, Wally! You have lost time to make up for, anyway (not sure how long ago the injury was but hey! Its a good excuse!). J is gone until Sunday for a fishing trip. :( Not a good time to have a sex thread, hah.
Posted by musicalsunlight[/QUOTE]

<div>It was 3.5 years ago. Lost time to make up for indeed!</div><div>
</div><div>BUT, DD is over at the church (across the street with the wedding crashing bus!) discussing wedding stuff so can't call her at the moment. </div>

aragx6

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sexy time Poll : Hey, the danger of getting caught is half the fun.  We occassionally just go driving around looking for ideas of public/semi public places to have sex.  It's more about the thrill than the actual act though, because let's face it, sex in the front seat of Honda Civic can only be so good in the best of circumstances, am I right?
Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

Yeah that's what people say -- I'm just a scaredy cat!

Lizzieyounce

Regarding the bathroom thing, we don't venture in when the other is using the toilet, but I love watching FI shower and he will sometimes keep me company when I'm in the tub.  Sometimes it leads to sexy time.

Here's another question:  Would you, or do you, let your guy shave your legs for you?

An ex used to love doing that for me, but FI is scared that he will butcher me.

He will wash my hair for me, though...I love the way he washes my hair. Scalp massage...bliss.

adamar15

H has no interest in shaving my legs.  I guess I'd let him if he wanted to, but I'd find it a little weird.  I shave his neck when I cut his hair, but that's not really the same thing.

aragx6

Oh yeah and we pretty much always shower together. It's partly an environment thing, but mostly I just like it.

FI has never shown any interest in shaving my legs, but I suppose if he wanted to I'd let him. I mean, he shaves his balls, which requires some skill, so I'm sure he'd do fine.

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sexy time Poll : If you say this was at school, I'm going to die.
Posted by Beaniebeach[/QUOTE]

<div>...well, i'd hate to kill you, so I won't say.</div>

willywally5

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[QUOTE]Regarding the bathroom thing, we don't venture in when the other is using the toilet, but I love watching FI shower and he will sometimes keep me company when I'm in the tub.  Sometimes it leads to sexy time. Here's another question:  Would you, or do you, let your guy shave your legs for you? An ex used to love doing that for me, but FI is scared that he will butcher me. <strong>He will wash my hair for me, though...I love the way he washes my hair. Scalp massage...bliss.</strong>
Posted by Lizzieyounce[/QUOTE]

<div>In my version of heaven, there is some incredibly hot, shirtless guy whose sole purpose is washing my hair and massaging my scalp. For as long as I want. Oh, and he's mute. So I don't have to listen to him during said blissful massage. Ahhhhhhhh.</div>

dumdumfroggie

I told FI he could shave them once, when he was complaining about them being prickly.  He didn't want to do it, so I said I didn't want to either and so he could stop his complaining.

We do shower together a lot, however; mostly on the weekends.  Well, to be honest, I only really shower (as in wash my hair) twice a week, so "a lot" is relative.

musicalsunlight

J has never shaven any part of me. I would find that very strange, TBH. I don't even like him in the shower if I have to shave.

I do shave his head for him though, during his semi-monthly haircuts.

Lizzieyounce

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sexy time Poll : In my version of heaven, there is some incredibly hot, shirtless guy whose sole purpose is washing my hair and massaging my scalp. For as long as I want. Oh, and he's mute. So I don't have to listen to him during said blissful massage. Ahhhhhhhh.
Posted by willywally5[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Yes to all of this...</div>

MyUserName1

Well, at the time, it was a sofa.  But I can promise you that if something in that building has a cushion SOMEONE has at least had oral sex on it. 

ErinG93

I would definitely not let H shave my anything. I prefer to shower alone, too. I don't mind if H showers with me, but I prefer my getting ready time to be silent and all mine. 

midgetthemighty

Yeah, I still manage to cut myself shaving (damn knees) and he still manages to cut his face shaving so no cross-shaving for us just yet. I don't think he'd be interested either.

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sexy time Poll : True that. The stories that building could tell, all those practice rooms. Not 1 piano untouched. 
Posted by Beaniebeach[/QUOTE]

<div>Except maybe the "haunted" one.</div>

specialk84

If my goal is to actually get clean and get out the door, I want the shower all to myself. If we're just goofing around and need to jump in there, I don't mind.  

I would probably be more open to the idea of showering together if we had a larger shower and two shower heads. Hell, I'd just settle for a larger shower. Right now, we can't switch places to get to the shower head without nearly taking the other person down. 

specialk84

Oh, and there's no way he'll ever shave any part of me. No. No.

I shaved his face once, and both of us were terrified the whole time.

musicalsunlight

We shower together only when it is a time that isn't "getting ready" for work. Usually it will be in our guest bathroom too because the master bath only has a regular shower not a bathtub. The bathtub combo makes it much more spacious.

willywally5

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sexy time Poll : <strong>Except maybe the "haunted" one.</strong>
Posted by MyUserName1[/QUOTE]

<div>I'll bite. What's the haunted piano story? I love that sort of thing!</div><div>
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specialk84

MuSu, that made me laugh. In our house, one bathtub + two fat people trying to get to the shower head = potential ER visit.

adamar15

We used to shower together every morning, but either he started going to work earlier or I started sleeping later.  I'm not sure which one it is.

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sexy time Poll : I'll bite. What's the haunted piano story? I love that sort of thing!
Posted by willywally5[/QUOTE]

<div>People claim to have heard someone playing the piano in the middle of the night in one of the practice rooms, so they went to find out who was playing, and all of the rooms are empty.</div>

musicalsunlight

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[QUOTE]MuSu, that made me laugh. In our house, one bathtub + two fat people trying to get to the shower head = potential ER visit.
Posted by specialk84[/QUOTE]

Lol I shouldn't laugh but I did. To be fair though, there are times when I've had near death shower experiences all on my own.

willywally5

Ooohoo. Cool Muni. In a spooky way. 

We built our new house to accomodate H's needs if he ever has to be back in a wheelchair. So, our shower is GINORMOUS and we also have a giant therapy tub. Too bad it wasn't all done and ready to go until summertime when we CONSTANTLY have children in the house. Gah. 

specialk84

In HS, I went to the Shakespeare Festival in Ontario with my theatre group. At the hotel, I fell in the shower, bruising two ribs and my tailbone. I still had a 14 hour bus trip to look forward to, and it was agony.

brittneyh4

Weirdest place I've had sex wasn't with H, but it was in high school on my principal's desk, during school hours.

With H, a tent trailer with all our friends right around. Kinda awkward.

I wouldn't imagine ever thinking of letting H shave my legs. I can only imagine the nicks and cuts.

No pooping in front of each other either. He farts like crazy but I've only done it one time in front of him. He told me he wouldn't marry me unless I farted, so I did and called his bluff.

ETA: and I see I'm way late. Stupid work.

letsdothisagain

1. A dry spell would be about a month.

2. My longest dry spell (during marriage) was 1 year.

3. This happened because my H was in a car accident, spent 2 months in a coma, was pretty badly brain damaged and spent months in therapy. After he came home, things just weren't the same, and we divorced. We've since remarried.

willywally5

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[QUOTE]1. A dry spell would be about a month. 2. My longest dry spell (during marriage) was 1 year. 3. This happened because my H was in a car accident, spent 2 months in a coma, was pretty badly brain damaged and spent months in therapy. After he came home, things just weren't the same, and we divorced. We've since remarried.
Posted by letsdothisagain[/QUOTE]

<div>Horrible. Been there except for the divorce part. It's super tough, though. Glad you are back together. It's not easy to adjust to the 'new normal.'</div><div>
</div><div>I'm outta here. Bye!</div>

heb557

How long would you have to go without sex to consider yourself in a dry spell? A week

What's the longest dry spell you've had (not while you were single, when you were married/had a SO)? before marriage-a month and a half? after marriage(since April)- a week
What was the reason? Deployment, pg/postpartum, something else?H lived out of state for awhile, we only saw each other every two weeks + , things just didn't fall right
Who initiates?It used to be him, but since marriage it's 50/50.
I'm totally late to this game because I felt 100% uncomfortable posting from my work computer earlier. LOL