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Re: FFF?

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : And see, that was MY original point in this thread.  It seems that people are more than happy to bring SB drama over here, but E drama is specifically requested to not be posted there. I don't care where you post.  I don't care why you post there.  No one does.  But you can't honestly think that you can tell people not to post whatever they want on that board.  Or this board.  Or any board.
    Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]


    We certainly can ask that they not post about a certain topic, just like people all over E request on kids threads that people not post another thread about that subject.  It's the same thing.
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    [QUOTE]I would like to point out that I find it slightly humorous that there are two distinct conversations going on here... English as it pertains to the US and immigrants and the Snary Brides Board. THAT deserves a slight head tilt.
    Posted by mag920[/QUOTE]

    there's a lot of people here, thus varied conversations. I don't get the head tilt, but ok.
  • I have a feeling that in a few months, there's going to be an SB group that bitches about E/the E group, an E group that bitches about SB/the SB group, and a bunch of floaters who go between the boards.  I think we're starting to see it happening already.  That kind of bums me out.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : How do you not find it hypocritical that the people who voiced the "leave the drama on E" sentiments are now contributing to FFF?  I'm sorry but that's just ridiculous.  <strong>And Beatles, I'm terribly sorry that you're sick of people talking about your not-at-all-secret offboard. </strong>
    Posted by Kati0105[/QUOTE]

    Katie, I said nothing about offboards. Don't drag me into your argument.



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  • I had to read this page again to see if there was any mention of an off-board, and didn't see one.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : We certainly can ask that they not post about a certain topic, just like people all over E request on kids threads that people not post another thread about that subject.  It's the same thing.
    Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]


    Really?  We ask people not to post on certain topics?  I know we sometimes point people to Dani's "Please read first" thread quite often, or suggest that they read further down the page to a similar question to get answers, but that isn't the same as "don't bring your drama to our board," now is it?

    Also, I think it's funny that the people who are pointing out that this happens on E are also the ones who want topics to go away - like the bbycakes discussion on E.  But here you can't say that we're bringing the drama to this board since it's where it happened, right?

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
  • So what IS the point? That SB is way lamer than it was when it was AFSB? No doubt it isn't as exciting anymore, but it would be a hell of a lot worse if no one with a head on their shoulders went over there to post.

    Or is that SB is trying to be cliquish and exclusive? And that the E regs who post there have left? Because I haven't encountered that at all. And basically every E reg who posts on SB has commented in FFF today. So I fail to see the mass migration.
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    [QUOTE]Mag, I don't care if people post on every board.  I'm just sad to see some of them leave E, and I have a suspicion that's where this is headed.  It is what it is, and clearly I can't change that, but I can at least offer up my opinion on it. Andplusalso, what Dani said.  Some people really did say that they wanted to be away from the drama here.  I don't remember who, though.  It's cool though.  I'm going to be gone for a couple weeks, then moving, then starting a new job, so my knotting is going to be all sorts of disrupted for most of May and June, potentially. 
    Posted by squirrly[/QUOTE]

    Squirrly, I don't own the SB board or anything, but you are more than welcome to post over there (as is anyone else). Maybe after your wedding/moving craziness? :)



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    Taco cat: Always a palindrome. ALWAYS, okay J&K?

    "cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
  • Also, I'm really sad that posters I quite like have become completely new people who I don't like.

    Betrothed, Beatles and J&K fall on that list.

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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    [QUOTE]Celles & Beatles: yes.   It's fucking obnoxious to spend your time bitching about how lame the boards you left are because fabulous you isn't around anymore.   And that you were driven out by all the lameness.  Newsflash:  bragging about how much better you were is more pathetic than anything you see on the late, lamented board you fled.  Even worse is to actually drop in and say: hey, guess what?  You suck because you're not us.  We rule!  That is just sad. 
    Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]
    see, this makes absolutely no sense. can anyone else decipher this noise?
  • FFF is giving me a sad today.  I usually like it.  I think I got too much love yesterday and it made me soft.
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  • edited April 2010
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    [QUOTE]Also, I'm really sad that posters I quite like have become completely new people who I don't like. Betrothed, Beatles and J&K fall on that list.
    Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

    Well, it's a shame it has to come to that.

    Edit: I really mean that. I'm not being facetious.



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    "cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
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    [QUOTE]On the E/SB conversation that I'm not participating in.... this is why I like LFT better. I don't know what's going on, and I like everybody who is yelling at each other, and it all makes me want to simultaneously rock in the corner and hug everyone.
    Posted by sarah0725[/QUOTE]

    I don't know what we're yelling about!


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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : I recall several recent occasions where you come into threads and say something along the lines of "everyone wants to be first to congratulate each other on being snarky/telling off newbs," etc. Or you make statements that indicate you know how someone will respond because this board is SO predictable. <strong>I remember a few months ago, after the format change, someone said that you'd been doing an awful lot of sitting on your porch and whistling Dixie, lamenting about the old days</strong>. I guess that image has just stuck with me. I usually don't have anything against you personally, but it just got overwhelming in this thread.
    Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

    I must have missed this.  I remember being called out for being not funny anymore and I said those people were right.  I actually PM'd a few of them to thank them for their comments.

    Honest to god, in ONE thread I post about the old days and it's ALL I EVER DO?

    Give me a motherfucking break.  I have been around and I have been contributing to a lot of threads.  If you haven't been and haven't seen that, then that isn't my fault or my problem.  I guess you've been too busy setting the SB board straight?

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : I don't know what we're yelling about!
    Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

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  • suffice it to say the drama dry spell is over
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    [QUOTE]FFF is giving me a sad today.  I usually like it.  I think I got too much love yesterday and it made me soft.
    Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]
    Me too man. This whole thread is kind of depressing to me.
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    [QUOTE]So what IS the point? That SB is way lamer than it was when it was AFSB? No doubt it isn't as exciting anymore, but it would be a hell of a lot worse if no one with a head on their shoulders went over there to post. Or is that SB is trying to be cliquish and exclusive? And that the E regs who post there have left? Because I haven't encountered that at all. And basically every E reg who posts on SB has commented in FFF today . So I fail to see the mass migration.
    Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]


    It depends on who's talking.  The problem is that if you say something against SB, you're grouped in to a whole lot of other people saying different things about SB and suddenly you're defending something you didn't say or do or paying the price because someone else thought the same thing you did and you had the gall to post what you thought.

    It's ridiculous and childish.

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : see, this makes absolutely no sense. can anyone else decipher this noise?
    Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
    I think she's talking about a few old AFSB regs who popped into SB the other day and said the board was lame without them.
    even though it's true.
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    edited April 2010
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : Me too man. This whole thread is kind of depressing to me.
    Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

    OH LC - Glad you're here.  I had my first "knottie dream" last night and you and Fish were in it.  You were trying to get me to hook up with one of the captains on Deadliest Catch - and when I wouldn't give in to his passes he started yelling at me and sent me an email - which Mr Stack found.  I woke up to my alarm just as I was trying to explain to Mr Stack I did nothing wrong. 
  • nda_roxybabenda_roxybabe member
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    edited April 2010

    FFF is making me horribly stabby today.

    For people worried about E reg's permanently moving to SB you're just making it worse by complaining about them. I still post primarily on E but I do go to SB a lot, so what?! Call me part of clique if you wish the whole thing is refuckingdiculous

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : I must have missed this.  I remember being called out for being not funny anymore and I said those people were right.  I actually PM'd a few of them to thank them for their comments. Honest to god, <strong>in ONE thread I post about the old days and it's ALL I EVER DO?</strong> Give me a motherfucking break.  I have been around and I have been contributing to a lot of threads.  If you haven't been and haven't seen that, then that isn't my fault or my problem.  I guess you've been too busy setting the SB board straight?
    Posted by wadingmoose[/QUOTE]

    I never said this. I just said you do it often enough for me to have noticed, which is why I said something in this FFF. I don't see it as being any different than anyone else having an overall perception of a poster and how they respond to things. Isn't that what we do all the time with each other? And people get called out for it all the time too in FFF. Like, "so and so is always on her high horse." I'm sorry if you feel attacked. This has escalated into something ridiculous.

    Why would I be setting the SB board straight? I'm just another poster over there. I have never dictated how it should be over there.



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    "cool......insult my size 2 body or my natural brown hair...or the fact that my parents own a country club, I have no budget for a wedding, and I have horses. I really dont care. Its better then having roots." ~ futurepivko
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : OH LC - Glad you're here.  I had my first "knottie dream" last night and you and Fish were in it.  You were trying to get me to hook up with one of the captains on Deadliest Catch - and when I wouldn't give in to his passes he started yelling at me and sent me an email - which Mr Stack found.  I woke up to my alarm just as I was trying to explain to Mr Stack I did nothing wrong. 
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

    ....WTF did you eat last night girl?
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : Well, it's a shame it has to come to that. Edit: I really mean that. I'm not being facetious.
    Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]
    meh, you've been a wanker for some time now.


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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : I think she's talking about a few old AFSB regs who popped into SB the other day and said the board was lame without them. even though it's true.
    Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]
    aha. missed that. welp there's one piece felled into place.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : OH LC - Glad you're here.  I had my first "knottie dream" last night and you and Fish were in it.  You were trying to get me to hook up with one of the captains on Deadliest Catch - and when I wouldn't give in to his passes he started yelling at me and sent me an email - which Mr Stack found.  I woke up to my alarm just as I was trying to explain to Mr Stack I did nothing wrong. 
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]
    Oh good lord! I'll coerce you into doing some perfectly irrational things, like multiple tequila shots, but I swear I'd never try to convince you to cheat on Mr. Stack with a boat captain. Scout's honor :)
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  • [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : OH LC - Glad you're here.  I had my first "knottie dream" last night and you and Fish were in it.  You were trying to get me to hook up with one of the captains on Deadliest Catch - and when I wouldn't give in to his passes he started yelling at me and sent me an email - which Mr Stack found.  I woke up to my alarm just as I was trying to explain to Mr Stack I did nothing wrong. 
    Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

    Having seen all the DC captains... ew. And random.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : ....WTF did you eat last night girl?
    Posted by NuggetBrain[/QUOTE]

    Apparently seafood!  LOL. 
  • I like when Dani posted on SB. I like almost everyone here for varied reasons and my understanding was that she felt that way, too, and wanted to know why people aren't posting in E. Yes, there was talk about offboards/cliques/annoying repeated posts about invites, but what good is it to leave, then? Whynot post over here and make it better, instead of leaving and saying "Gah, we don't want drama, E was getting repetitive."
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : Oh good lord! I'll coerce you into doing some perfectly irrational things, like multiple tequila shots, but I swear I'd never try to convince you to cheat on Mr. Stack with a boat captain. Scout's honor :)
    Posted by laurenclaire1386[/QUOTE]

    I know right?  Tequila - HELL YES.  But the Deadliest Catch captains mostly all creep me out anyhow.  And he was chain smoking in the dream just like they do on the show.  Mr Stack always makes fun of me for watching the show, so I think I'm going to never watch it again! 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF? : I never said this. I just said you do it often enough for me to have noticed, which is why I said something in this FFF. I don't see it as being any different than anyone else having an overall perception of a poster and how they respond to things. Isn't that what we do all the time with each other? And people get called out for it all the time too in FFF. Like, "so and so is always on her high horse." I'm sorry if you feel attacked. This has escalated into something ridiculous. Why would I be setting the SB board straight? I'm just another poster over there. I have never dictated how it should be over there.
    Posted by beatlesgirl25[/QUOTE]

    Here's the problem Beatles, today is really the first time I've made a comment about the posters there.

    You really do have me confused with someone else.  General impression or not, it's just not true.

    "You can take your etiquette and shove it!" ~misscarolb
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