Bachelorette Party Guest List?

lalaweddingdiva

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bachelorette-party-guest-list-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:87d919e1-6ec4-4fed-a7df-f4d28a173d58Post:b2ce7c96-c545-49bd-9b0a-3ecbadbe6fd7">Re: Bachelorette Party Guest List?</a>:
[QUOTE]Weddingdiva stop being so fucking stupid all the time.  OP invite people who are invited to the wedding.
Posted by sparent2010[/QUOTE]



You have an advanced vocab congrats! Do u have a special program that allows u to write this language on tk?

calixtine

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bachelorette-party-guest-list-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:87d919e1-6ec4-4fed-a7df-f4d28a173d58Post:4fa32197-7299-41f1-ac5d-853fa280dcca">Re: Bachelorette Party Guest List?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bachelorette Party Guest List? : Personally I would have a fun get together at some point regardless of the wedding bc that's just how I am. It is her bachelorette and I agree she should invite whoever she wants. I think she posted on here bc she wanted to get feedback/see if it's appropriate. The "rule" says no, but I think in light of her circumstances living far away and friends expressed interest in wanting to come out, I think nobody will be upset by the fact they are not on guest list. Kudos to you for doing what u want and not letting party poopers rain on the parade.
Posted by lalaweddingdiva[/QUOTE]

What would Queen Victoria have done in this situation?

lalaweddingdiva

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_bachelorette-party-guest-list-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:87d919e1-6ec4-4fed-a7df-f4d28a173d58Post:4ca3ef73-1219-4604-95b7-c07baeeb25fe">Re: Bachelorette Party Guest List?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Bachelorette Party Guest List? : What would Queen Victoria have done in this situation?
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]



She would have foregone manifest destiny and let Texas be a part of Mexico! Of course!

kimiandgary

Holy heck. First, I'm not a penis-themed party kind of girl and thank heavens my MOH knows that. Second, my goal is to not hurt feelings and what I originally had in mind was going to be more of a girl's night out than a b-party, but MOH and BMs took the idea and are running.

I wish this could have just stuck to the point instead of weird, unintelligle insults thrown at one another. While it would have been less entertaining, it would have been a shorter read.

Thanks for the advice ladies!!

MJandDL

OP - If you really want to invite these girls, you could talk to your MOH and BMs and ask them to take it back to the original plan of a girls night out (and explain why). Maybe save their bachelorette party ideas for an after party with the bridesmaids at the hotel. 
If you'd prefer to do a bachelorette party, you could have a high school friends reunion lunch instead so you can catch up with the girls.

lalaweddingdiva

Ban me? for what? because I don't agree with everyone? and all these girls are rude nasty bullies and i actually stick up for myself?