FFF

MyUserName1

Oh, snap, Special! 

The something's wrong with you if you don't have many friends stung me too.  I have very few friends as well.

Megbo2012

I get that special. I admitted that I didn't really word it correctly.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : That's awfully selfish of her, considering she has kids.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]


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MyUserName1

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-98?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:8ff88aa3-daf6-472e-9417-158a1803f6e5Post:db7bc78a-02ce-460e-8ec5-667023f3fb30">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Meh, I really could care less. I have had some ...instances in the not so distant past of ManBoy rubbing his bare feet all over the coffee table and remote and pillows on the couch.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

That makes me want to vomit. 

adamar15

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Meh, I really could care less. I have had some ...instances in the not so distant past of ManBoy rubbing his bare feet all over the coffee table and remote and pillows on the couch.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

The remote?!  Ew. 

midgetthemighty

There's a picture of the wedding party and us when we first got to the reception. One of my BMs is taking off her shoes under the table. I didn't even notice until I got the pictures back but I also wound up taking my shoes off. My feet starting sweating and my mom left my flip-flops at the church. Barefoot it was!

I don't get the big deal, but I also don't have a hang up about feet. I can understand noticing or being bothered by others being barefoot but I agree that saying it's cheap/common is taking it too far.

MyUserName1

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[QUOTE]IAmMomma is just...I dunno.  Snobby (?, not the word I want) about parenting and very judgemental about how people choose to parent. 
Posted by crfb87[/QUOTE]

She'd fit in better on TB.

calixtine

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : EXACTLY. There are people in this world who think "OH these heels are so cute! I can't walk, dance, or even stand in them, so once everyone sees how cute I look they are coming off!" Those people are idiots. And I practically live in flip flops, so I don't care WHAT shoes you wear, just wear some shoes. (unless there are extremely extenuating circumstances)
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

I think I may suck at buying shoes.  They always SEEM comfortable when I try them on; I never intentionally buy shoes that hurt.  But then I wear them for a few hours and they hurt.  I've tried inserts in the past and at best they buy me another hour, maybe two in the shoes.  I knew when I bought my shoes that I wouldn't make the whole night in them because the heel was very high but i thought they would last at least a few hours.  They ended up barely lasting through the pictures.  Luckily I brought flip flops and so I just wore those through the reception. 

specialk84

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Meh, I really could care less. I have had some ...instances in the not so distant past of ManBoy rubbing his bare feet all over the coffee table and remote and pillows on the couch.
Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

<div>EW.</div><div>
</div><div>Considering I have made my feelings about feet well known, I think you can all guess where I stand on shoes in the house.</div>

Anysunrise

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF And keep them on in my house! Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

Hah, I've noticed everyone down here keeps theirs on. I'm so used to having 8 months of winter where you HAVE to take your boots off that it's the first thing I do. Does this mean I can't visit? :P

KellyBrian2013

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]Cowboy boots are way more uncomfortable IMO. H seems to think the same as well. Posted by JessAndTrav[/QUOTE]

But for many people, they're not. I'll take my broken in pair of cowboy boots over a pair of heels any day, and in fact, that's what I plan to change into under my dress for our reception. And I gladly ditched my heels for a cute pair of boots at my friend's wedding 2 weeks ago [and got lots of compliments on how cute they were with my BM dress]... it's all a matter of personal preference. And that's my point; what does MY shoe choice have to do with anyone else?

Girlie1030

I wonder if Momma is actually my boss's wife or something.  He's all about "When you have kids you'll understand"...  Haven't even discussed with him if kids are in my plans or not, he just assumes.  Pretty sure J would have ripped his head off by now. 

[Deleted User]

I can never hang out with many of y'all. Half the time I don't even know where my shoes are. I wear them in public, but if I'm at a table or chair, they are coming off. At home, they are never on.

I can't remember the last time I wore heels. But I can guarantee I more than likely tripped.

Anysunrise

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]Any you and your bare feet are always welcome in our house! Posted by rachers1017[/QUOTE]

I promise not to rub them all over you. Well, while you're awake anyway. creeper grin

JessAndTrav

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[QUOTE]  I am very impressionable and always cave to peer pressure.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

<a href="http://inspirationalladdu.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/peer-pressure.gif" rel="nofollow"><img style="margin-left:7px;margin-right:7px;" class="size-medium wp-image-491 alignleft" src="http://inspirationalladdu.files.wordpress.com/2010/06/peer-pressure.gif?w=270&h=247" alt="" title="peer-pressure" width="270" height="247" /></a>

Anysunrise

Do my asterisks and stuff show up on the full site? God I hate mobile TK

calixtine

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[QUOTE]I can never hang out with many of y'all. Half the time I don't even know where my shoes are. I wear them in public, but if I'm at a table or chair, they are coming off. At home, they are never on. I can't remember the last time I wore heels. But I can guarantee I more than likely tripped.
Posted by Seshat411[/QUOTE]

You are welcome at my house, we never wear shoes inside the house.  In fact, I'm usually tripping over H's shoes when I walk in the house because the first thing he does is take off his shoes, right in the doorway.

KellyBrian2013

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]Do my asterisks and stuff show up on the full site? God I hate mobile TK Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]

Mobile TK sucks. I flame mobile TK.

JessAndTrav

Someone I know

A. Dresses like crap, (sweats or the equivalent) no matter the occassion for the most part.
B. Kicks off her shoes the minute she's sitting whether she's in public or not
C. Sits criss-cross-apple-sauce no matter where she is...nice restaurant, church, etc.
D. Has scary-long toenails.

I judge her for it a little.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : You are welcome at my house, we never wear shoes inside the house.  In fact, I'm usually tripping over H's shoes when I walk in the house because the first thing he does is take off his shoes, right in the doorway.
Posted by calixtine[/QUOTE]

Yes, H leaves his boots right by the door. So annoying. Meanwhile, I have no clue where mine got kicked off.

H always lectures me about going barefoot outside. Hey, dude, just because you have soft girl feet doesn't mean I do. I grew up running around the woods barefoot. I can deal. (I say that even knowing all the things I've stepped on in the past that hurt like a biiitch, but whatever, I hate shoes)

GloriosusEtLiber

P&R but I sit criss cross all the time. I don't even realize it half the time but yes, I've been known to do so in restaurants and church as well. Judge away. It's super comfy to me. 

JessAndTrav

I don't mind people taking off their shoes at my house, because I want them to be comfortable.

But don't like, pick up the remote with your toes or rub your feet all over the throw pillows, since people use that as an actual pillow.

I was always the girl at church camp that would ask people not to put their feet on my bed because your feet at camp are always gross and I didn't want someones toejam on my pillow.

GROSS.

musicalsunlight

Like Chrissy said, it might not be an awesome reason for something to be legal but who cares? It's certainly not a stupid thing to say if it's the truth and it is most definitely not to the level of the idiocy that trolls around here on a daily basis. Plus, there are a ton of specialty rifles that people collect and probably dont use but just display or keep for a hobby. They are not killers and it is not a stupid reason to have them.

JessAndTrav

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[QUOTE]P&R but I sit criss cross all the time. I don't even realize it half the time but yes, I've been known to do so in restaurants and church as well. Judge away. It's super comfy to me. 
Posted by GloriosusEtLiber[/QUOTE]

I think it's the combination of the behaviors that make me judgey, not just one.

I just want to tell her, "Dude, you're not at home. Please take note."

I feel ike she moments away from like, clipping her toenails or something.

KellyBrian2013

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]Pamp;R but I sit criss cross all the time. I don't even realize it half the time but yes, I've been known to do so in restaurants and church as well. Judge away. It's super comfy to me.nbsp; Posted by GloriosusEtLiber[/QUOTE]

Me too, especially at restaurants. But mostly because I'm short and it's about the only way I can put myself at a comfortable height to eat converse... judge away. Haha

Anysunrise

In Response to Re:FFF:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:FFF:While I hate to backtrack now that we're in a thrilling discussion about feet, I'm on arag's side of the gun thing. No, Chrissy's comment was not the stupidest thing I've ever seen here, but it was pretty stupid. I'm all for handguns and hunting rifles and the like, but the only purpose an assault rifle has is to kill people, quickly. "It's fun" is not a good enough reason for those to be available to the general public. That's my uo? opinion. And ditto on Iamthemomma. Gag.Posted by AnysunriseI think Special? said it perfectly.nbsp; There should be an explanation as to why something is illegal not an explanation of why something is legal.I said this in the UO thread, if a company is going to make something, they are going to try to sell it to make money.nbsp; There are gun makers who make rifles, they are going to try to sell it to people so that they can make a profit.nbsp; As long as someone buying it doesn't go out and do something illegal with it which I will tell you there arenbsp;a lot of people who own assault rifles, and most do not do illegal things with them then I feel that it isn't up to them to justify why they bought it. Posted by crfb87[/QUOTE]

I'd say a psycho being able to walk into a movie theater and rapidly kill or injure 72 people is a pretty good reason for them to be illegal. Guarantee the body count would've been much lower with a handgun or even a shotgun, since they're so much less effective at a range. Definitely in comparison anyway.

Like I said, that's just how I feel about it. I'm sure he probably would've built a bomb or something if he hadn't had it anyway, so whatever.

specialk84

I wear orthopedic shoes and have inside-only orthopedic sandals. They do not leave my house.

midgetthemighty

We never wear shoes in our house either.

I sit criss cross applesauce almost everywhere too (minus church or restaurants). It's just more comfortable.

Long scary toenails gross me out, I will admit. H struggles with this from time to time. It makes me shudder.

Megbo2012

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[QUOTE]I wear my slippers in the house.  Shoes all get taken off at the front door.  I don't care if people wear shoes in the house but if you touch the bottoms of put them on furniture, I will say something.  Keep those dirty bottoms off places where people sit/sleep.  OH GOD, shoes on beds freak me the EFF out.
Posted by crfb87[/QUOTE]



Or pillows. A friend put his nasties in my pillow and I almost barfed right then and there.

Special, Idk if you saw my post in the morning thread but ygpm in a minute.

specialk84

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[QUOTE]I wear my slippers in the house.  Shoes all get taken off at the front door. <strong> I don't care if people wear shoes in the house but if you touch the bottoms of put them on furniture, I will say something.  Keep those dirty bottoms off places where people sit/sleep.  OH GOD, shoes on beds freak me the EFF out.</strong>
Posted by crfb87[/QUOTE]

<div>Agreed.</div><div>
</div><div>Jess, the whole visual of that girl made me shudder, and that was before you mentioned the possibility of toenails being clipped.</div>