I judge

kikibaby

I'm bored, let's be judgemental.

I judge my photographer for sending me pictures of people yawning, with their eyes closed, etc.  Seriously?  What am I going to do with these?

I judge my trashy-ass neighbors for fighting in the alley at night.  Not to mention that they are teenagers who have a kid and live with one of their moms.  STFU.

pumpkinpumpkin

I judge one of our friends who purposely went off birth control about 4 months before their wedding because she thought it would take that long for it to get out of her system. She wound up pregnant about a week later, and was 4 months pregnant at the wedding...and she does nothing but complain how they didn't get to be newlyweds because they jumped right in to having kids.

What did you think having unprotected sex would result in?

akhensley81

I judge my FMIL for sending me a biitchy email yesterday about how I didn't include one of her cousins in the wedding invites, when it was her responsibility to get me those names/addresses because I don't know those people from Adam.

Yes, I'm still fuming about that.

angel2210

I judge my friend's 27 year old brother for going to Ohio to meet and stay in a hotel with a 17 year old girl that he met on the internet. Yeah, that's not at all skeevy.

Stackeye210

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[QUOTE]I judge my friend's 27 year old brother for going to Ohio to meet and stay in a hotel with a 17 year old girl that he met on the internet. Yeah, that's not at all skeevy.
Posted by angel2210[/QUOTE]

Did you report that?  That's like 8 levels of illegal!

danieliza1127

I judge my friend for her spending habits as a SAHM married to a guy making less than $30k a year in a profession where he racked up over $100k in student loans.  It drives me insane.

Brie2010

I judge the people in my office that cook salmon filets in our toaster oven for 20 minutes.  And tuna noodle casserole in the microwave.  Leave the fish at home, people.

I judge the shiit out of the girl on my FB news feed who bought a crappy bulldog puppy from a backyard breeder and is now freaking out that he's sick two days later.  WTF did you think would happen, especially with a breed so prone to health problems?  Idiot.

Bubbalub

I judge the company I just interviewed with for waiting until 10 days before their proposed start date (the 21st) to even schedule an interview and then not getting back to me yet. If they want me to start on Monday they better let me know today so I'm not COMPLETELY screwing over my current employer with such short notice. Sheesh.

angel2210

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Did you report that?  That's like 8 levels of illegal!
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

Somebody did, that's how I found out.

kikibaby

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[QUOTE]I judge my friend for her spending habits as a SAHM married to a guy making less than $30k a year in a profession where he racked up over $100k in student loans.  It drives me insane.
Posted by danieliza1127[/QUOTE]

What profession is that?  Reminder to self not to get into said profession.

ohwhynot

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : Did you report that?  That's like 8 levels of illegal!
Posted by Stackeye210[/QUOTE]

According to the google, the age of consent in Ohio is 16.  It is skeevy, though, and he'd better be damn sure she's really 17. 

arbolita

I judge SIL for complaining about being a SAHM, even though she lives two doors away from MIL and MIL cooks dinner for them every night, takes her kids to the bus stop in the morning, does all their laundry and basically has them at her house every single day.

danieliza1127

Kiki, he's a pilot.  It's not as lucrative as the general public thinks.

Calypso1977

i judge people that live in crappy apartments/trailers/cramped quarters of any kind, but have an expensive harley, boat and/or super nice car(s) in the driveway.  i also judge people that live in mcmansions and drive cars held together with duct tape. 

shellydiane820

I judge Lindsay Lohan.

arbolita

I also judge the two people who live in my apartment complex for taking up spots with their cars that have no tags, and have been there for months.  If they aren't gone in the next week, I'm calling and having them towed. 

NuggetBrain

I judge the HR lady I interviewed with two Fridays ago for not bothering to call me back with a notice one way or the other about a job, as she repeatedly told me she would do.  I also judge her for giving me her card and telling me to feel free to call her if I didn't hear from her by Weds, and then when I did she never bothered to call me back.

I also judge psichick for being so goddamn negative and bitchy about everything all the time. GTFO.

I judge my tummy for demanding McDonald's for lunch, and I judge my brain for giving in.

Celles

I judge my half-sister's half-sisters' half-sister for bragging that she made over $6,000 in her dollar dance.  First of all, I don't believe it.  Second of all -- if it's true, then why didn't she put a deposit on an apartment instead of continuing to live in mama's single-wide with her step-dad, two sisters, husband and baby? 

I judge my foster brother's biological father for getting high and pulling out his teeth with a pair of pliers.  I double-judge him for telling my foster brother about it.

I judge my foster brother's sister for guilting him into missing his own finals to attend her college graduation and then not even getting him tickets to the event. 

I judge my birth mom's youngest sister, who recently found God and thinks her faith excuses her for YEARS of giving marijuana (and worse) to her teenage nieces and nephews.

... all of this makes me incredibly glad I was adopted.  Remind me to call my (adopted) mom tonight and tell her I love her.

Stackeye210

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I judge : According to the google, the age of consent in Ohio is 16.  It is skeevy, though, and he'd better be damn sure she's really 17. 
Posted by ohwhynot[/QUOTE]

True, but I think the way Ohio reads the law is 16 is the legal age to consent to sex with another teen under 18.  But as an 18 y/o you better only be porking someone 18 or older.  There was a case her a few years back where a couple had been together all of high school and were sexually active, the boyfriend turned 18 and the gf was still 17 - her parents reported it and he was charged with rape on a minor. 

NuggetBrain

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[QUOTE]I judge Lindsay Lohan.
Posted by shellydiane820[/QUOTE]

I judge everybody in that whole family, except for the sister.

ohwhynot

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[QUOTE]i judge people that live in crappy apartments/trailers/cramped quarters of any kind, but have an expensive harley, boat and/or super nice car(s) in the driveway.  i also judge people that live in mcmansions and drive cars held together with duct tape. 
Posted by Calypso1977[/QUOTE]

Really?  Why?  They get to choose how to prioritize their spending, so why does it bug you if their harley or whatever is more important to them than where they live?  Or vice versa, in your 2d example? 

I judge this judgment, lol. 

damaless

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[QUOTE]I judge my foster brother's biological father for getting high and pulling out his teeth with a pair of pliers.
Posted by Celles[/QUOTE]

<div>WHAT? My mouth is hurting just thinking about that.</div>

Stackeye210

I judge my foster brother's biological father for getting high and pulling out his teeth with a pair of plier

Ummmm, WTF?  seriously? 

pumpkinpumpkin

I'm with you OWN. I totally side-eyed that judgement.

angel2210

I judge my mom for getting mad that FMIL is throwing me a shower after no one else ever mentioned anything about it. I explained to my mom that it's not her place to throw my shower, etiquette-wise, and she asked if she could help. I said fine and gave her my FMIL's phone number. She never bothered to call her. So when I told my mom yesterday what the official plan was she got mad because the shower is going to be 2 hours from her town. I had to explain to her that the only person that won't be traveling for this is FI's grandma and that's because it's in her town, and that 2 hours was actually the shortest distance anyone would be traveling.

I love my mom but she's driving me nuts. She gets so butt-hurt when FMIL does anything for me but she never offers to do anything. I don't expect her to do things for me, she doesn't have to, but she has no right to get mad at other people that do.

NuggetBrain

Damn Celles, you got some dramaz.

polichik

I judge the person who's hired me on as a research assistant for not responding to e-mails for over two weeks. I need to know how and when I'll be paid, and then I'll start doing work for you.

Moneypenny424

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[QUOTE]I'm with you OWN. I totally side-eyed that judgement.
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

I side-eyed the second part.  Good for them for investing in a home rather than a car.

mandysmear

I judge so many people and so many things, but when these come around I can't think of anything. 

DAMMIT.

Moneypenny424

I judge Kim Kardashian for hanging out with Justin Bieber and trying to make his fans jealous.  You're almost 30 years old, back off the baby!

kikibaby

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[QUOTE]I also judge the two people who live in my apartment complex for taking up spots with their cars that have no tags, and have been there for months.  If they aren't gone in the next week, I'm calling and having them towed. 
Posted by arbolita[/QUOTE]

You're far more patient than I am!  We had a car parked in front of our house for 2 weeks and I reported it to city zoning.  (They got a big neon orange sticker on their car to move it or it would be towed.)  Of course, I'm a jerk and report stuff to zoning all the time.