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Love and Light too ALL!

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Re: Love and Light too ALL!

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    OP -- you are full of inane ideas, aren't you?  


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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:ba8f3d6a-3001-4dfd-a3fe-04ef2d53784b">Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np?</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Cake shoving - Yes or Np? : You can say NO to little girls. They need to learn the meaning of that world or else they'll grow up into entitled little brats who want to shove cake in their FI's faces even when he says his family isn't cool with it. Mambo No.5 is just.....ugh....why does your FI think this is a good idea? It's actually a lame idea, and I would google that bride who sang her down the aisle and witness all the uncomfortable looks on everyone's faces. Those will be the same looks your guests have when he walks in to this song. So if your friends all got pregnant at 16 you would have done it too? Because, you know, it's what's hip in your community. I've seen young brides and then I've seen YOUNG brides. You are one of the latter. Thanks for the light, love, and happiness, but we don't do puppies and rainbows over here. This is just weird now.
    Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]

    IT being lame is your opinion it s our wedding and its one of the only things he cares about so he can do it to that song if he wants to I did a dance to it when I was in the 5th Gd for a talent show beacuse I liked the song the meaning behind it didn't matter nor does it in this situation if people even pay close enough attention to the words to get offended that is there probelm this is what he wants and I support him in it.
    That was my wake up call in all this.
    Support him.
    Its what my mom has been trying to tell me for a while.
    I've been slowly getting it.
    But now I really get it!

    I support him as my BF my FI or my H. I love him unconditonally and I support him to not shove cake all over his face.
    I suport him to choose a fun song that he likes and play it up how he wants.
    I supported him in getting a less flashy dress and I support him in anything else that comes up in our relationship.


    it is our day.
    thank you everyone for your opinions- be it that I liked them or not.

    And for all of you who said especailly rude things- and keep sayig rude things- more light and love to you!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:600cec68-ef0f-444e-817e-6155448a7441">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : a couple people have said overly rude things- and I just wont stand for it. I'm 21 years old and thats how mature I am! I don't have that maturity of a 30 year old woman. Nore do I come from a place where everyone is up tight about everything. <strong>I am from a small town where when you fall in love you get married and you work through at the hard times and stick together. I come from a place where you wear cowboy boots and convers to prom. Where you ask someone on a date by covering there car completly in sticky notes or other creative ideas.  All of this stuff is normal for me!</strong> I have taken some peoples advice how hard is it to say "Sweetie I think you need to concider how he feels about how his family feels and then respect that." Instead of" Wow your crazy blah marriage is never going to work blah blah blah!/" Get where I am coming from?
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]

    Yes sweetie it sounds all very nice and Mayberryish, but this isn't the prom or a first date - this is your wedding!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:b8199b87-4761-4837-a57f-365752131c50">Re:Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]A it's to. Not too. B I don't think food in one's face in ANY amount is something to be compromised on. We smashed cake, not gonna lie, but we BOTH had fun with it. When one person is into it and the other obviously isn't the one who does it really just comes off as an asshole.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    yup your right! need to have more respect for him and his wishes!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:99c87093-d041-469e-8737-4fd94d34ab5f">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]"Yes I did invite 400 people on facebook between my Fi and I but half of those people live so far away I know that they won't make it the invite was more a STD and a welcome" Wait... what?
    Posted by Simply Fated[/QUOTE]

    It was more like letting them know the wedding was happening then anything. If they can and want to show up I am more then happy to have Everyone come celebrate with us!
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:8fc6bb42-39d6-4d2b-b765-2cc0657d558a">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]OP -- you are full of inane ideas, aren't you?  
    Posted by mica178[/QUOTE]

    yup sure am! keeps life interesting!
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    For those of you who need more things to bash on - WE are doing a foot washing ceremony like out of the bible to show that we will take care of eachother
    I am having coloring pages for little kids to draw.
    If it works nice in our venue - oh and thats an old church gymnasum just in case you want to bash how tacky that is too- we are going to do a fog machine and leave a light fog on the floor.
    I am going to do a trash the dress shoot after the wedding  at a holi festivale of colors.
    I am having a flash mob come and we are going to sing him a specail song for his suprise.
    I am making a shadow video to the song Cindrella and playing it for my dad.
    I am making all my bridesmaids boquets out of paper roses perals and feathers- now isn't that just over the top!

    I am actually asking family to bring a side of food for the lunch.

    I am not having a DJ I am just having a friend be in charge of a plugged in ipod.

    I am giving our GM Video Games for the groomsmen gift
    and I am doing doughnuts for the groomsmen cake.

    our last dance is going to be dirty dishes

    and we are leaving to lead me by chirs tamlin

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:4a896da1-0c9e-44f9-8f36-826cb810b4dd">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : Yes sweetie it sounds all very nice and Mayberryish, but this isn't the prom or a first date - this is your wedding!
    Posted by Marrin713[/QUOTE]

    The world needs more MAyberry and LESS Jersy Shore!
    It being my wedding means it gets to be even more wonderful then any of the three stupid proms I went too! It means I get to pick the music- kiss on my date with out getting in trouble and I can do what ever the hell I want- isn't that fantastic!
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    Internet bullying was not around when I was in High School. Ye Olde Asssss Kicking and public mockery was. And I'm not 30 yet. As a person who was a victim of bullying in school AND in the work place, EFF you OP. You were never bullied on this forum.
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    It is rude to expect people to bring food to YOUR wedding.

    If all these people show up, will there be enough food for all of them?  If you don't have invitations/rsvps for these people, how will you know how much food to have?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:b535ba33-91b8-46eb-88d5-5fe597496ba1">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : <strong>The world needs more MAyberry and LESS Jersy Shore!</strong> It being my wedding means it gets to be even more wonderful then any of the three stupid proms I went too! It means I get to pick the music- kiss on my date with out getting in trouble and I can do what ever the hell I want- isn't that fantastic!
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]

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    </div><div>I'd like to know what planet you're on that Mambo No. 5 is more Mayberry and less Jersey Shore! I'm pretty sure Aunt Bea would not have cared for that song.</div>
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:b535ba33-91b8-46eb-88d5-5fe597496ba1">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : The world needs more MAyberry and LESS Jersy Shore! It being my wedding means it gets to be even more wonderful then any of the three stupid proms I went too! It means I get to pick the music- kiss on my date with out getting in trouble and I can do what ever the hell I want- <strong>isn't that fantastic</strong>!
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]

    Very much so <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-undecided.gif" border="0" alt="Undecided" title="Undecided" />
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:dcd3b352-19a8-4390-b718-c4b0a36fa352">Re:Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Internet bullying was not around when I was in High School. Ye Olde Asssss Kicking and public mockery was. And I'm not 30 yet. As a person who was a victim of bullying in school AND in the work place, EFF you OP. You were never bullied on this forum.
    Posted by Nickivegan[/QUOTE

    Well I'm sorry that you got bullied - one of my best friends committed sucide due to bullying- and most people didn't think he was being bullied but it was just enough for him. I thiasingand for it too anyoned  I saw another bride being bullide on a post and I stood up her bride being bullide on a post and I stood up fer bride being bullide on a post and I stood up for her... its what we should do.

    We don't even stand for teasing in our house beacuse you never know just how gentle someones feelings are.

    and for me as a bride who had people follow my posts and repiditvly bash on them it felt like bullying!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : I'd like to know what planet you're on that Mambo No. 5 is more Mayberry and less Jersey Shore! I'm pretty sure Aunt Bea would not have cared for that song.
    Posted by coopsbaby[/QUOTE]

    Barney would have liked it tho :)
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:7fb7255c-deb8-40da-be75-ba0963064cc3">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]It is rude to expect people to bring food to YOUR wedding. If all these people show up, will there be enough food for all of them?  If you don't have invitations/rsvps for these people, how will you know how much food to have?
    Posted by HockeyFan4[/QUOTE]

    I am not expecting them to I am asking them if they could/would. in our familys its not rude at all its what we do for all our events and get together family always brings some time of food- be it b-day - camp out- wedding - or just a normal get together- everyone always brings a small side and the host provides the main dish drinks and desert- it just is how it is... on both our sides of the family!

    They will have RSVP and real invites.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : Barney would have liked it tho :)
    Posted by Marrin713[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Yeah, he was a fiesty one that Barney!

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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : Yeah, he was a fiesty one that Barney!
    Posted by coopsbaby[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, I bet when Thelma Lou wasn't putting out, he was all over Juanita at the diner!

    Well, I've been Mambo No5'ed and cake smooshed to death here and H is home.  Have a nice evening ladies!
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    Now I'm sad because all this Mayberry talk reminded me that Andy Griffith died.  Thanks a lot thread...
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    So you invited facebook but not TK. How rude?
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_cake-shoving-yes-or-np?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:a6cb2e82-f9dc-4367-a2ca-e08cfb26f790Post:600cec68-ef0f-444e-817e-6155448a7441">Re: Love and Light too ALL!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : a couple people have said overly rude things- and I just wont stand for it. I'm 21 years old and thats how mature I am! I don't have that maturity of a 30 year old woman. Nore do I come from a place where everyone is up tight about everything. I am from a small town where when you fall in love you get married and you work through at the hard times and stick together. I come from a place where you wear cowboy boots and convers to prom. Where you ask someone on a date by covering there car completly in sticky notes or other creative ideas.  All of this stuff is normal for me! I have taken some peoples advice how hard is it to say "Sweetie I think you need to concider how he feels about how his family feels and then respect that." Instead of" Wow your crazy blah marriage is never going to work blah blah blah!/" Get where I am coming from?
    Posted by alishaloo[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>I am from a small town too. I don't think anyone was bashing or bullying you. We're just trying to get you to understand that doing something that is explicitly against what your FI wants or will cause embarassment to him is not the way to go about this. It doesn't make me uptight.

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    In Response to Re:Love and Light too ALL!:[QUOTE]So you invited facebook but not TK. How rude? Posted by HandBanana[/QUOTE]
    Right?
    I want to see this Mambo no. 5 entrance.
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    we are going to do a fog machine and leave a light fog on the floor.

    Please make sure you talk to your venue about the fog machine.  The fog can set off smoke detectors and it's not as easy to control as you seem to think it is.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Love and Light too ALL! : Yes sweetie it sounds all very nice and Mayberryish, but this isn't the prom or a first date - this is your wedding!
    Posted by Marrin713[/QUOTE]

    Mayberry is offended by your comparison and we don't do things like this girl. I guarantee this. I live there.
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    This is probably not on the table, but how would you and your FI feel about an instrumental version of Mambo #5? (Like the first minute and a half of this remix: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=55m7OKsfRu4 --there probably are better ones that are totally wordless but there's only so many times my FI will let me play Mambo #5 tonight.) That would probably do a bit to prevent your guests from contemplating your FI's sexual past when they should be thinking of him building a life with you....
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    In Response to Re:Love and Light too ALL!:[QUOTE]In Response to Re:Love and Light too ALL!:So you invited facebook but not TK. How rude? Posted by HandBanana
    Right?
    I want to see this Mambo no. 5 entrance. Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE] I want to see all of it.
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