Ok so ive never posted on here before but im a month out from my wedding and i am so stressed out. my parents are paying for some parts of the wedding like the alcohol and my dress, flowers, the limo etc. well my fiance told me from the getgo i could do the wedding however i wanted. he started changing his mind half way thru planning and wanted stuff i did not like. He really likes batman so he wanted a batman cake topped but i told him no because its stupid and tacky. sorry to sound like a bitchy bride but it is! so he got kind of upset about that. then he had ideas on some of the centerpieces but I didnt like them AT ALL. He didnt really like what I picked either but we're going with my idea anyways. we are partners but I am the bride and I know what will look best. So anyway I could tell he was kind of upset i was being so controlling and i feel bad because i dont want him to resent me. So he really loves jack daniels & coke and wanted that at the wedding. I figured I better give him at least one thing he likes. But I can not afford to host that for everybody!! Especially because his GM and friends would run through it like water. My parents are paying the bar but they will only host beer & wine. I decided to get jack just for my fiance & the groomsmen and just try to keep it on the hush hush. (Oh and my dad too since hes a fan of the jack). So now my mom has caught wind of the jack idea and is upset saying we do not appreciate the offer they gave us and told me she is going to pull back her promise of paying for the bar because im being a spoiled brat!!! everyone is mad at me and im just trying to compromise. I feel like everyone is just thinking of themselves and nobody is thinking of ME when i am the bride. I just don't know what to do....