Opinions on this ladies?
We are still currently searching for an officiant. I found one that comes highly recommended and I've really enjoyed our communications so far, and he has been wonderful about following up with me when I don't respond within a day or two. FI & I would like to meet him in person before deciding, though.
However, I'm in school FT (9-2 twice per week, plus 2+ hours for a commute round trip), working on clinical experience (12 hrs. per week), and working PT (3-4 nights per week, 20-30 hrs. total). FI works FT. We're lucky if we get to spend 3 nights together a week, and I'm generally exhausted.
This officiant wants to meet... but he wants us to meet near where he is based. It is only 20ish miles, but given traffic in the area, it will likely take us over an hour each way to travel to see him.
As a potential client, shouldn't he be interested in meeting us at least part-way? Or do I just need to suck it up, figure out when it will work with our schedules, and drive down there?