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An apology

I am a regular here.  I did something that made some people upset, and I just felt the need to post an apology as an AE.  

I'm sorry to those of you that I upset.  I didn't mean to, truly.  What I did was without thinking and stupid.

Since I barely ever see my family or friends, I have become addicted to the knot.  Sometimes, I feel I know more than I actually do.

I love being on this board, and consider alot of you to be beautiful, exciting "friends".  You are all so funny, but so perfect as well.  For many years, I have struggled with the ability to find a group of friends, and understand that just may not ever be a realization for me.  



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Re: An apology

  • ...I'm gonna be that girl and say "Really? You can't APOLOGIZE as yourself?"

    But I dont even know what you're talking about - so there's that.
  • Stackeye210Stackeye210 member
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    edited January 2012
    An apology means nothing when it comes from a faceless, nameless post, just sayin.  
  • ....what is the point of apologizing when no one has a clue who you are or what you are sorry for? 
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  • Just based on the timing I'm going to assume this is Pink.  If so, this was definitely not AE-worthy, and an AE apology is kind of pointless.
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    [QUOTE]<strong>Just based on the timing I'm going to assume this is Pink.</strong>  If so, this was definitely not AE-worthy, and an AE apology is kind of pointless.
    Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
    My thoughts after reading the Fezz thread. <div>
    </div><div>Most people had forgotten about that, btw. Except psycho Rosie who's got a memory like an elephant. No worries.</div>
  • WTF? If someone is upset by something you said or did this weird generic apology probably won't set things right.
  • LDY.  Where have you been?  I haven't seen you around much lately. 
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  • I seriously do have a memory like an elephant.
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    [QUOTE]I seriously do have a memory like an elephant.
    Posted by Rosie109[/QUOTE]

    And prettier than "that girl" in the Water for Elephants movie.  TRUE FACT!
  • Wow. An apology from no one regarding the incident that no one knows. Great!
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    [QUOTE]Wow. An apology from no one regarding the incident that no one knows. Great!
    Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]
    This is really hilarious to me :P
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  • Maybe we need to work on our definition of "regular"
    dammn it lady post again so we know what the fvck you are talking about.
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  • Ok, an AE apology is super weird.  BUT.  If this is PinkAcct, I'll say what I said in the Fezz thread:

    I really don't think what Pink did was all that horrible IF Manda had posted the time on the board previously.  I can't remember if she had or not, but how else would Pink have known when it was?  If you put something out here and someone remembers it, what does it matter if they're BFFs with the poster or not?  It's not like she hacked into someone's FB account and posted private info.
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    [QUOTE]LDY.  Where have you been?  I haven't seen you around much lately. 
    Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]
    BUSY!!! This one time, I thought I should actually work for my paycheck. I'm sure I'll be back around more often soon. I'VE MISSED YOU. 
  • But I've seen you pop in now and then, Eagles!  LDY hasn't even been popping!  

    Please do not cut me off from birthday serenades.  I will cry.
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  • So... why not apologize to the person you upset? Under your real name. 
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  • chelseamb11chelseamb11 member
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    edited January 2012
    If you are too much of a wimp to truly apologize under your own account, I highly doubt anyone's going to take it seriously.  However, I am almost wondering if this is Amethyst coming back...

    ETA If you truly are sorry for what you did, then own up to it. 
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: An apology : psycho Rosie who's got a memory like an elephant
    Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]
    snort
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    [QUOTE]If you are too much of a wimp to truly apologize under your own account, I highly doubt anyone's going to take it seriously.  <strong>However, I am almost wondering if this is Amethyst coming back...</strong>
    Posted by chelseamb11[/QUOTE]
    *snort* Lord help us if it is. 
  • This is weird. Who accepts an apology when no actual act has been confessed to? If it bothers you that much, just say it under your real name. It can't be that big a deal (I'm assuming, since I haven't seen a reg piss everyone off lately).
  • HI DAFF!!! 

    I thought of you this morning, randomly. I sent "happy day" vibes to you. That's weird, I know, but I do that sometimes - b/c I'm weird. I hope they're working Smile
  • I'm so confused. I even read the thread, I have no idea what's going on.

    Maybe the apology is to me. In that case, I forgive you.
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    [QUOTE]Ok, Adamar.  I will continue to sing for you.  Because I love your face.  <strong>Hey LDY!  Nice sig!</strong>
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]
    THANK YOU! I saw that the other day while I was on my phone and laughed so hard. I knew it had to be my next sig quote. <div>
    </div><div>However, next time someone comments my rack, it might have to go bye bye. That's how I roll.</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: An apology : SERIOUSLY.  Guys, don't even Beetlejuice her.  DJ, I don't know how you put up with her as long as you did.
    Posted by EaglesBride2012[/QUOTE]

    I recognize the name, but can't for the life of me remember why....

    Also, OP... weird.
  • Did Amethyst actually GBCK?  Or has she just kind of faded away?
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  • I don't think even Amethyst is crazy enough to think that this one tiny post would be anywhere near the kind of apology she would need to pull out of her ass.
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    [QUOTE]HI DAFF!!!  I thought of you this morning, randomly. I sent "happy day" vibes to you. That's weird, I know, but I do that sometimes - b/c I'm weird. I hope they're working 
    Posted by LDYGTR13[/QUOTE]
    Thanks! That's...really insightful actually. I saw your update this morning about the mile. While I'm super happy for you, it kind of made me (selfishly) sad, since I'm contending with an injury at the moment. I don't know if it's gonna right itself soon or be a long-term issue. But in the meantime I'm hugely frustrated by staying off it for a couple of weeks (the lack of exercise is making me want to jump out of my skin), and scared that it'll end my fledgling running career. So I had a brief pang of jealousy when I saw that.

    Anyway, what I'm getting at is - thanks for the vibes! Don't know how you knew I needed them, but I do. That's so sweet. :)

    /sorry for the threadjack
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