An apology

chelseamb11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_apology-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e048a24d-c665-4d04-8136-e07e8947cddePost:a5e68bbf-e230-4468-ace0-419e740f71e9">Re: An apology</a>:
[QUOTE]Did Amethyst actually GBCK?  Or has she just kind of faded away?
Posted by adamar15[/QUOTE]

I think she just faded away.  I had blamed it on the holidays for awhile, but I think she's gone now. She hasn't posted since Dec 20th.
I'm really sad tht ended the way it did.  I really liked her originally.  I never thought she'd turn out like this.

raypoppins

Is Amythest not posting on PS anymore? If not, I think she just faded. I dont remember seeing a GBCK

raypoppins

Daff, random, but I think you and I would get along well IRL. I think we have stuff in common. I hope your day gets better with LDYS vibes!

raypoppins

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_apology-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:e048a24d-c665-4d04-8136-e07e8947cddePost:4ca5bf27-e57c-418a-a579-4b2500e5b445">Re: An apology</a>:
[QUOTE]I was never a fan of Amethyst, but she didn't seem the type to just fade away without a fight. But she hasn't posted for weeks. Maybe she will come back with a new name and start over.
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

and be insanely popular.

specialk84

If this is Pink, I remember reading that morning about the impending TB arrival BEFORE she (Pink) posted her random thread. I think it was in the GM thread or something. 

I remember there being talk about it, then Pink's thread, then Mandy or someone else came in and told us he arrived. I'm going to side with TR and say it isn't that big of a deal. Weird, yes, but not a big deal.

When I first read the apology, I thought someone accidentally spilled personal information, like a full name.

raypoppins

I like Kapli too but I don't like that she doesn't like LDY, so I'm torn.

midgetthemighty

I am so confused. Going to read the rest of the thread in question.

[Deleted User]

Thanks ray! And I agree.

SunriseAmber

This is lame. If you can't apologize as yourself then what is the point? Then no one even knows what you are talking about so you aren't really even apologizing.

sparent2010

My brain is hurting plus I feel like I got punched in the babymaker so I am not having a good day to begin with

specialk84

I think Kalpi vanished. She unfriended me.

eorea

I actually thought of Kalpi when I read this but I figured it wasn't her because the post wasn't long enough. I miss her.

ErinG93

I like Kalpi. I like LDY. I can like both of them even if Kalpi doesn't like LDY, which I don't think is true.

eorea

Well, I miss her a little less now that she is unfriending people. Way to overreact. 

raypoppins

Well now I'm pissed.

I had chatted on FB with Kalpi a few times, so I went to the message and clicked her name. Her page shows up like were not friends but there's no option to add her, so I think she blocked me.

Thats fuucking lame, and now I'm not torn anymore.

And cfas, no I don't think we did figure it out.

ErinG93

Well now I'm confused and sad. 

raypoppins

I dont think I have any good KPS confessions though Rach.

LP11509

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[QUOTE]I like Kapli too but I don't like that she doesn't like LDY, so I'm torn.
Posted by raypoppins[/QUOTE]

<div>I don't get this.  If I have a friend (A), who has another friend (B), and I don't like B, that wouldn't stop be from being friends with A.  That's ridiculous. </div>

ErinG93

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[QUOTE]Man, I am so out of the loop. Kalpi left because she doesn't 'get' LDY? And unfriended people?
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>Some stuff went down in an evening thread a while back, I believe. Kalpi thought LDY had said something about her being too long winded and went off. It looked like a huge misunderstanding. 

</div>

raypoppins

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[QUOTE]Man, I am so out of the loop. Kalpi left because she doesn't 'get' LDY? And unfriended people?
Posted by cfaszews25[/QUOTE]

Pretty much. LDY wrote a long post and joked that she "pulled a kalpi" and kalpi got really mad.
If there was more I didnt see it.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]I like Kapli too but I don't like that she doesn't like LDY, so I'm torn.
Posted by raypoppins[/QUOTE]

Torn about what? Just because two people don't like or "get" each other doesn't mean you can't like them both.

I hope kalpi didn't gbck. Or unfriend me. Kalpi come back!

eorea

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[QUOTE]Well now I'm pissed. I had chatted on FB with Kalpi a few times, so I went to the message and clicked her name. Her page shows up like were not friends but there's no option to add her, so I think she blocked me. Thats fuucking lame, and now I'm not torn anymore. And cfas, no I don't think we did figure it out.
Posted by raypoppins[/QUOTE]

<div>That is really shitty. It makes me sad. </div>

raypoppins

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: An apology : I don't get this.  If I have a friend (A), who has another friend (B), and I don't like B, that wouldn't stop be from being friends with A.  That's ridiculous. 
Posted by LP11509[/QUOTE]

I wasnt seriously saying I didn't like Kalpi bc she didnt like LDY. Kalpi flew off the handle, which I did not like.

midgetthemighty

I can't remember if I was friends with Kalpi on FB or not. I can't remember her real name to save my life right now. As far as blocking, I'm pretty sure that if you block someone/someone has blocked you, they don't exist to you on FB. So I don't think she's blocked you. This is my completely unprofessional opinion.

eorea

I actually don't think she flew off the handle until now. Unfriending everyone is a little over the top. 

I still want her to come back though. 

raypoppins

Maybe she just made her page private to me then Midge? I dont know a lot about this.

Or if you unfriend someone, would you have the option for them to friend you again?

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: An apology : That is really shitty. It makes me sad. 
Posted by eorea[/QUOTE]
Me too. I'm disappointed.

raypoppins

I thought she flew off the handle in that thread and was mean to LDY. Or maybe I've completely exaggerated the whole thing in my head.

emilyinchile

Guys, as a rule of thumb, it's probably not a good idea to talk about who from TK has unfriended you on FB or what your FB relationship is unless you know they're onboard with you saying that stuff. There was drama a while back that more or less was because if Ray says Kalpi unfriended her, then she's sharing something about Kalpi that Kalpi herself hasn't shared on the board, which some people can take an an invasion of privacy.

I don't care either way, honestly, and I'm not trying to be the TK or FB police, just sharing an opinion that went around a while ago.

Birdie1483

I think it's a little lame to think someone unfriending you is a little lame. Yeah, we're friends here. But lets not forget that we don't really KNOW each other. I reserve my right to unfriend anyone that I want on FB for no reason other than the fact that I wanted to. I don't think anything needs to be read into it more than that.