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jessjo04

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-40?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ef2b606f-cd70-46ff-b7bf-33616432238ePost:63d3e1f2-5b30-4b56-8bb4-a79a4d65a3af">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Most people wait until the end of the first trimester. This isn't all about you. I have a friend from high school who announced her pregnancy on FB at three weeks and I judged that. (I don't even know how one knows they are pregnant at 3 weeks.) And don't go around pretending to be a victim and crying that we're wishing a miscarriage on you. That's so far from what anyone said that it's actually crazy.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

Message board =/= facebook. I didnt post it on facebook. IRL I've told close family and friends because they knew we were trying.

pumpkinpumpkin

JessJo - just wondering how you talk about a pregnancy before you're pregnant?

jessjo04

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-40?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:ef2b606f-cd70-46ff-b7bf-33616432238ePost:676418a5-4928-4fc8-a168-c86035b88bdc">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]JessJo - just wondering how you talk about a pregnancy before you're pregnant?
Posted by pumpkinpumpkin[/QUOTE]

I called miss cleo and she told me that I'm having triplets.

Actually, what I mean is talking about ttc and planning for a pregnancy.

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_fff-40?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:ef2b606f-cd70-46ff-b7bf-33616432238ePost:b32c4099-bced-41c7-9e0e-55abadb1cc2a">Re: FFF</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: FFF : Message board =/= facebook. I didnt post it on facebook. IRL I've told close family and friends because they knew we were trying.
Posted by jessjo04[/QUOTE]

I didn't say you did. I said I spread my judgement around equally.

Might I tell my mom when I got a PPT? Probably. Anyone on the internet? Probably not. This is one of those things where I would make a different decision and am stating my opinion. Whatever you want to do is fine.

ricksang

Congrats Jess!

jessjo04

Thanks for the congrats and well wishes.

And to the rest of the haters, just keep hatin'!



JK, I dont want drama. Makes the little poppy seed nervous

I understand what people are saying about keeping it a secret for awhile, and I have thought about that. For me, I'd rather talk about it, but I know this choice could hurt me later if something happened. Its a chance I've decided to take.

amysmomma

I did tell some people before I was 3 months, mostly very close friends and family.  My reasoning was that if I did have a m/c, I wanted to be able to confide in someone and have their support.

Congrats on your pregnancy JessJo.  I don't know you at all, but from one mother to another (to-be) - motherhood is awesome and it keeps getting better.  For me it does anyways.

zippityb

I always seem to get poppyseeds stuck in my teeth.

(Congrats JessJo!)