Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist?

akhensley81

OMG I ruled red rover back in the day.

Snippylynn

Aww! Red rover!!

mkrupar

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : if she'd been the one to ask the other girls to be in the wedding, then maybe. but sounds like she only wants her daughter in it, which I understand. that's what I'd want too. plus, I mean, she's handled this relatively well.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

My response was like the third one before she explained to everyone that it wasn't her that asked these other girls. If she had explained that in the OP then I probably wouldn't have called her bratty. I'll go back and edit it if it's that important.

laladypoet

I wish the OP would come back and answer our questions, though. I want to know if the other three girls have already been told they're going to be in the wedding. if not, it's not too late to change the plan.
and sorry, but even if they HAVE been told, they still don't have to be in it. if they're 2, how the hell would they even care?!

kikibaby

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : where am I? what is this about? LINK?
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

She was talking about the people who have children-only WP's. 

Beachy730

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : where am I? what is this about? LINK?
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

Haha, sorry it wasn't that fun.  It was about the post of Marcia Cross and several Princesses having child attendants only at their wedding.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : My response was like the third one before she explained to everyone that it wasn't her that asked these other girls. If she had explained that in the OP then I probably wouldn't have called her bratty. I'll go back and edit it if it's that important.
Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]
uh, no thanks. I don't care that much about what you have to say. sorry to disagree with your ridiculous statement. I didn't realize you were so fragile.
(who are you, anyway?)

mkrupar

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : uh, no thanks. I don't care that much about what you have to say. sorry to disagree with your ridiculous statement. I didn't realize you were so fragile. (who are you, anyway?)
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

I'm not fragile. I've been posting for a little while now. It doesn't matter who I am I can post my opinions just like everyone else.

ETA: And the part about me editing my original response was sarcastic. I wouldn't really do it even if you said I should.

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : I'm not fragile. I've been posting for a little while now. It doesn't matter who I am <strong>I can post my opinions just like everyone else.</strong>
Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]
heh, that's funny coming from someone who just got her panties in a bunch because I disagreed with her. please continue.

Beachy730

Seriously everytime I see this thread title I cringe.  I think elitist is my new most hated word.

skippylouwho

maybe she can be the flower girl and the other 3 can be junior flowergirls.....    Maybe this thread should be on Snarky?

andy71781

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[QUOTE]Seriously everytime I see this thread title I cringe.  I think elitist is my new most hated word.
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

everytime I hear/see elitist I think "you are just jealous of all my lucky charms biitch."

mkrupar

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : heh, that's funny coming from someone who just got her panties in a bunch because I disagreed with her. please continue.
Posted by laladypoet[/QUOTE]

Whatever. No panty twisting here. I simply clarified why I called her bratty and explained that she didn't give us the qualifying information that she wasn't the one who asked the other girls.

Beachy730

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : everytime I hear/see elitist I think "you are just jealous of all my lucky charms biitch."
Posted by andy71781[/QUOTE]

Haha what is that from?

laladypoet

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : Whatever. No panty twisting here. I simply clarified why I called her bratty and explained that she didn't give us the qualifying information that she wasn't the one who asked the other girls.
Posted by mkrupar[/QUOTE]
the part where you (sarcastically) offered to change your response if it "bothered me so much" sounded like you have your panties waaaay up your butt. you should find a way to relax, dear. you're taking it all too seriously.
and next time, raise your hand when the grownups are talking.

georgia_bride09

kiki, where have you been all day? My PI lost you around 10am.

andy71781

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Multiple little girls in wedding - am I being elitist? : Haha what is that from?
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

my crazy mind.  When I'd get upset about my sister/dad/cousin's weddings stealing my spotlight my H would say that I was being like the leprechan on the lucky charm's commerical.  He'd remind me that they were NOT trying to steal my lucky charms.

andy71781

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[QUOTE]Hahaha thats pretty funny.  Aww, Andy, you had a little zilla side to you?
Posted by dnbeach12[/QUOTE]

a latent, easily controllable zilla side.  but I knew where it came from you know?  And I had you ladies and my H (and therapist)  :)

hypothesis125

Sorry I didn't respond sooner - I am at work.  The girls have already been told - however, as someone else said, they are 2 years old and don't comprehend that sort of thing.  It's the mothers that I would be worried about - I don't want to go into this wedding making enemies with my future sister-in-laws, even if my fiance agreed we could leave their daughters out of the WP (he won't - they're very close).  I am very close to my MOH/best friend's daughter and would love to give her a different role in the wedding.  Is there ANY role that 2 two year olds and a mature 4 year old could have in the WP that isn't a flowergirl?  I'm 99% sure that it's too far into the planning process (my wedding is in 3.5 months) to cut any of them out. 

Beachy730

Then I wouldn't cut them out.

Who is walking you down the aisle?  What if the 3 other girls walked first, altogether, then your daughter walked next.  Or with you?

Bubbalub

OWN, you took the words right outta my mouth. This is absolutely ridiculous. I retract my earlier statements and say that the two of you need to have a sit-down with MOH and the sisters (separately, of course) and tell them that your wedding is about YOU, not their daughters and that there is NO role for a freaking toddler in a wedding. They can barely walk and talk, what do you expect them to be able to do? Jeebus.

DramaGeek

I can't wait until all 4 of those girls are rolling on the floor lifting their dresses over their heads during the ceremony.

filaw

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[QUOTE]I can't wait until all 4 of those girls are rolling on the floor lifting their dresses over their heads during the ceremony.
Posted by DramaGeek[/QUOTE]

<div>It's stuff like that, that makes for the best lifetime stories.  "Remember that time you flashed as all at your aunt's wedding?....."</div>

heathernclint

It's not overkill...your daugther SHOULD stand out!