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save the date question

so my fi and i are inviting a couple we know from college. the couple does not live together, so do we send each of them a save the date or only send one? we are closer to the guy, and i fear that is pointless to just send one to him (guys just doesn't seem to care about these things). so any opinions/advise is welcome. thanks!
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Re: save the date question

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    edited December 2011
    I just sent one to whoever we were friends with first or are closer friends with. They can decide who gets to have the STD. Most likely, neither one will care about it.
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    edited December 2011
    We had the same situation and we sent one to the guy and one to the girl. Probably way over thought this but I didn't want one to feel like we liked one better than the other. And I didn't want it to be a subliminal indicator of who's side/team we would be on in the event of a fight or breakup.
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