our wedding is may 29, 2010 in st pete beach, fl. it is a destination wedding for 97% of our guests who are OOT, so my fiance and i were going over how soon we'd like to send out invites. we already did save the dates staggered about 6-9 months ahead of time, so people are aware--and it's not like they're going to wait until 2 months beforehand to buy a plane ticket and reserve a hotel so we don't feel like sending out invites 2 months prior is logical. i am thinking sending out invites 4 months ahead of time with an rsvp due about 45 days after that. is this too early? like i said, it's not like an invite is going to be a surprise for our guests, and i would hope that they'd be able to decide on a major trip to florida earlier than 2 months ahead! also, i just want to get the darn things over with!